Some Mothers in law will be come prayer warriors for but are actually the ones behind your ordeal..
Some will be your friend over the phone but once they are in your house,everything goes wrong...
Mother in laws come with different dramas oh,some are harmless but........
Do you have wicked Mother in law tales?
You can also talk about the Mother in law that was good if she wasnt evil to you.
I had the best mother in law...OMG...we also had ups and downs but that woman would use her drop of blood to pray for you and wish you well...She would spend nights awake if anything is wrong and would give everything/anything she had to make you feel good.
*Please contact me inbox if this was your suggestion for in house gist...if you post it here, automatic disqualification.
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ReplyDeleteOver to those with mother in law brouhaha. Stella what about a situation two or three persons came up with the same topic? Who then become the selected one?
DeleteI think it would be the first person to mention the topic. The time of comment will tell who mentioned it first
DeleteErm, Teejay did you use one of your ids to mention the same topic with someone else?
DeleteWell, I didn’t meet my mother in law but I heard she was very good, both from her children and outsiders too. Sometimes I just wish I met her alive if not for anything else, but to thank her for the special gift of her son. For giving birth to a wonderful man.
DeleteMy hubby said something. He said this thing called mil is a circle and it will get to every girl child. My mother in law was a good woman may her soul rest in peace. She has her wahala sha but i over came them. Could remember when she said she dose not eat over night food or food kept in fridge that her spirit dose not accept it. Okay now,me i called hubby said i can't be cooking different meals daily oh. That we will try an experiment,if nothing happens to mama then it would continue. What i did was to make various soups plain without meat or fish and put in d freezer. When it's time 4 mama to eat i bring out any one of my choice and add any protein of choice and veggies and serve. Nothing happened to mama, she did not fall sick neither did she no. So that was how i overcame her excesses
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ReplyDeleteMy mother inlaw was the best in the whole wide world, I cried when she died enh, I was literarily wailing ... Stella let’s talk about winchy winchy house girls please
DeleteMy mother-in-law is an elegant yellow paw-paw, caring, doting and over generous.
DeleteGave me an expensive gold jewelry worth 370k and 200k cheque when I had my 1st child.
Bought me a customized pendant and my birth month stone'a huge blue sapphire' ring. I was overwhelmed!
She dots on my children.
Though I noticed that each time I complained to her about my husband, she tends to support him, in a subtle way shaa, so me I just borrow brain and stopped tell her any issue between us.
I in turn respects and tell her like my mom.
She's a good woman and I am blessed that she is my mother in love.
They all support their sons lol
DeleteMy mother in law is good, though she has her flaws (who doesn't?). I love her and she loves me too
ReplyDeleteChai. This is gonna be interesting.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon bvs.
ReplyDeleteMy mil is not wicked o, shez been good to me, accepted me but she is been staying with me since April last year, I have no qualms with this, she can stay as long as she wants, but over familiarity is setting in, she can complain about every damn thing, if I cook complain, if I refuse to take her advice she start squeezing her face, everything her son does is good! She wants to know everything, a lot of things, I try to ignore her but it's pissing me the hell off. Rant over
ReplyDeleteJust bear with her...see her as your mother
DeleteSend her to her husband's house ASAP. Every married woman should remain in their husband's house. 😁😁😁😁. Don't take my advice o, I dont know anything about marriage or mother in laws o.
DeleteLet me not talk before una go ask me questions
ReplyDeleteMine is an angel in human form. Gentle as a dove. Generous as they come. Introvert to the core. Pray God continues to keep her for us all.
ReplyDeleteComing back to read comments.
Mine wants to chook nose in everything we are doing. My husband and I will be talking she will just put mouth. We are watching movies the likes of Power, Ragna, Empire very late in the evening just to bond but she will not stay with baby and run to come and sit down with us.
DeleteYou have a guest,my mother in law will never give you guys privacy.She will stay there and listen to your conversation.
You want to travel or spend money on something and she will start dictating to you how to spend your own money.
She is a handful, always complaining , very unhelpful, always gossiping and trying to eavesdrop.
The height of it was when she wanted to force me to give my son formula from day 1 telling me she gave her children formula from the day she birthed all of them.
She refused to respect my decision to breastfeed exclusively until I politely told her off then she backed off.
I don't even know if she is a good person.I started looking at her with side eyes when she said she wanted to give a pastor or prophet money to scatter her other son's relationship with the gf, I just said hmm and started praying she leaves my house.
Exactly the same with mine o. Wanted to force formula on my child too saying she did the same with her kids. I even vexed and said not only 6 months oh I will do 1 year.
DeleteThen there's no privacy with her wants to put mouth in everything and so unhelpful too. Stayed with us for 6 months she didnt cook, wont carry her plates all sorts. I was doing house girl me that just gave birth.
Then she will be forming deeper life christain up n down but cant show me love. Gossiping about me thinking I dont hear yoruba. In that 6 months I have seen her true colours
Mine was mother general but as 042 babe I made her humble, she come dey talk "iyawo thank God say na you my son marry" rolling my sexy eyes 😊😁😃💄😝
ReplyDeleteSorry I left this out, my mum in law is generousssssss 😘 plus very hard working .
DeleteHaaaa my mother inlaw evil talk plenty o a woman dat likes amebo like anyother tin wants to knw how much her son makes at work chooses between who to like amongs our kids very angry nd envious whn hubby buys new tins for me wants to knw who I relate nd talk to very wicked ugly black woman so diabolical dat am always scared to leave my kids wit her sef I got tired of her drama one day I fought her jess I av been too tolerate wit her always insulting my family anytime she's angry so many times dat I jst want to run away frm her nd yes she lives wit me can complain ehn nd me am d quiet type nd jst not to get her angry I always say yes to everything she says
DeleteMother inlaws if u r reading dis it dsnt take anything to love ur daughter inlaw it dsnt its when u love her dat she does d extra ordinary for you trust me
Wicked mother in law!
DeleteI have the best mother in law in the world. If she hears am ill like this she can't sleep. Despite the fact that she lives in UK she will get someone to come and stay with me. If i am pregnant she will get me the best hands to take care of me till I deliver and my kids are like 3 months. Cloths nko for the kids and myself. She can shop for the world in the most expensive stores. She will still send me money especially on the kids birthday. People of God I have a great job and a business. My husband works in one of the best IT firms still this woman believes we are poor. She must not hear that you are broke oh. It's alert next. Even my mother sef can't do something's she does. The first time i went to UK was courtsy of this woman. I landed with less than 200 pounds next day she woke me up with 1000 pounds to buy whatever i wanted. This summer shes on my neck to bring her grand children for holiday on her bill imagine. Now is so bad that when i have issues with my husband my parents believe I am the one at fault cause of this woman's goodness. Imagine. I pray God continues to keep her alive so she will enjoy the fruit of her Labour. To the glory of God I am blessed.
ReplyDeleteÀMÈÑ 💖 💜 💛 💖 💜 💛 💖 💜 💛
DeleteThis your gist sweet oh....you are blessed indeed.
DeleteAwwwh, God bless her. If you like be dying, my mil will go and sleep.
DeleteChia u lucky o me dat my husband sends me abroad sef my mother inlaw will been so angry dat in her mind he e like make she beat d hell out of me
DeleteI pray God should bless me with a good mother in-law like yours.
DeleteMay God bless her!
DeleteHmmm, and really there isn't any need to stop her from thinking you are poor
Deleteas in beloved you just got. it. the gist sweet taya. i just dey jealous.
Deletelol me i never got to meet my mother in law. but i heard she was ghood. i dont doubt it for 1 second because her 4 children are soi calm and gentle. my husband is even the worst. so humble and caring i just pray evryday that naija people dont take him for granted.
And thanks to everyone that suggested one or more in-house gist topics.
ReplyDeleteShout out to all Sdk Blog visitors you are All a darling. Chop kisses mwah muah 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
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My mother in law is okay, I guess she's slightly intimidated by me because I can hold my own and my side of the family seems more successful and interesting. She tries to be at her best when in my house and I respect myself in her house as well, last last, everybody respects each other.
ReplyDeleteI try to pretend I don't notice the subtle competition, she noticed I only wear Ankara as native and hardly use headtie and she has followed suit, many other small small things. I refuse to complain as "imitation is the best form of flattery" plus she's genuine, sincere and not diabolic (na dat one dey tire me) so we are good.
Hahahaha....imitation is the best form of flattery. Leave her jare. 😍😍😍
DeleteGuess she admires you.
DeleteI have the best mother in law. God blessed me with her maka Chi! I prayed for one that will love me and God answered my prayers.
ReplyDeleteShe's sweet, generous and even though she can be stubborn I'm smart enough to manoeuvre. I pray for her daily cos she has made my marriage less stressful.
I know of girls who pray that they marry guys whose mother is dead and I'm like what?! Na so another silly girl will pray for your untimely death.
As for my father in law, Stella biko do a post on them. If I knew they can be a thorn I for add am to my prayer point before I got married 😀 but God is taking control of whatever that concerns the two of us.
Okay thanks for reminding me oh. I pray for a good and loving MIL and FIL.
DeleteMy mother in law is very nice to me.
ReplyDeletemy mother is s not nice, when I newly got married but she has changed now, and I got married to an only child, our marriage is more than 6 months and have not gotten pregnant, am fed up I swear to, although have treated yeast infection in the past.
ReplyDeleteAwwww may God bless your womb with children. Mama just needs grandkids.
DeleteTell her not to disturb u biko, if pregnancy was easy why didn't she have more than one child? 6 months is too early to start giving yourself HBP
DeleteMy Mother in law is bae!
ReplyDeleteChai! She is one of the greatest gift God gave me.
My MIL is not wicked but she have some attitude that I don't like. Before coming to my house for omugwo she sound and looks like Angel on the phone. But when she came to stay with me for 2 months I saw a different side of her I never expected. I cook 3times a day, heat bathing water for her sweep and arrange her bed make her hair and sometimes do her laundry.
ReplyDeleteDespite all, she still didn't see the good in me. She gossip about me to her son and Tell him who visit and how much they gave me. She always what to dictate the menu and get angry if I cook something else. I was just to happy to see her leave.
I saw hell when my ex mother inlaw came to do omugwo for me. My ex is an abuser who beats me up at will. I was happy his mother was coming to talk sense into her son. Hmmm. When i witnessed her in action, i just knew her son learned from her. I got beaten up in her presence when my baby was just days old. She said i deserved it. Last last, i left the marriage o. Now, i am being begged by her to forgive and forget and take him back. I jump am pass o..
ReplyDeleteLet her marry if he needs to be married, but keep walking sister and don't look back.
DeleteDon't go back! She knows her son has a problem.
DeleteI jst broke up wit my fiance today becos of his mum.he's d senior son nd d only child in Nigeria so d family agreed dat both d mum nd my fiance should stay together so as to keep an eye on d mum.initially this woman was sweet whenever I visit them until the day I spent d night in their house,woke up late nd had to rush to work without sweeping.this woman took it south and was telling me that she dint like d fact that I left in d morning without sweeping.I dint know that this was d start of my ordeals.so I apologised to her,bought her things to make up only for her to tell me that I should come and mop the full house on Saturday.it was like a shock to me because in my house,we don't treat our brothers gfs like slave.I mopped the house just to avoid trouble(She mops every week)which is tiring to me because I have to be at work even on Sundays,how she expects me to be doing all these combined with work,I don't know.
ReplyDeleteI spent the night in their house yesterday,woke up,swept and fetched water inside d house(d tank outside is not yet connected to d main house). I took my bath and was about to leave for work only for her to call me nd started blasting me that I dont have strength to work.she blabbed of how other people normally come to d house,clean the house,orishirishi. I got infuriated but had to hold my tongue. I got to work and sent the recorded conversation to her son.let her go marry her son,me I'm tired.he's been calling but Im fed up with him and his mum already.she monitors everything I do whenever I'm around,she even banned me frm bringing food frm my house to their place.
Or was it the day I prepared egusi soup?she was screaming that I was going to finish her son's money with my big man cooking,because the soup was so thick and nice, instead of her to compliment the food,she started complaining..biko I can't kee myself.
Eya
DeletePele. Just in case you guys reconcile, NEVER sleep in their house again until marriage. Na so see finish dey take start
DeleteIf you must accept the guy back, it should be on a condition: you won't stay in the same house with the mother.
DeleteSo she expects you to be a maid because you slept there. At least you now know what you will have to deal with if you got married. Bizarre woman with no upbringing.
DeleteBut why you dey go their house sleep over, them don pay bride price?
DeleteYou sold yourself too cheap!
Am sure she stays awake, hearing u moan and shout from excessive fucking. So she wan gii u work. You are so cheap to be fucking in her house without marriage.
DeleteSparkle, did she mention anything about s#x in her write up, infact I had to go read again because I thought I missed it. Na wa for you people and conclusion. She even said she recorded her conversation with her mother in law to be and sent to her fiancé, which can also mean that the guy didn’t stay in the house with her.
DeleteSparkle please check the new address of your brain it's no longer in your head. Shey u can now see y u could never score above 15% in English language.
DeleteMy mother inlaw is a great woman. Not a wahala somebody. Loves me like I am her daughter. Trust me you won't understand till you meet her in person.
ReplyDeleteShe loves me, I loveeeeeeeee my Delta mum.
My MIL has been with me for almost 7years.She is a green snake under the green grass. She prays aloud once her son is around but sleeps off and snores if he isn't. In fact, she can form prayer all night for days. When I'm at home she pretends all is fine but once I step out,she makes funny comments in her sons hearing. This woman will tell you she doesn't take milk and then tell her son she doesn't know where you kept it. She will tell you she is fasting and then make comments around her son that makes it seem as if she is being starved. She eats up to 4/5 times daily but if hubby decides to work from the house, she will be forming fasting. At the end of the month, he won't believe I stocked the house with food because he will never check. I recently made her a new dress, expensive Ankara for church. She wears it to bed and then wears her very old clothes to church. If she dresses well to church and you tell her we will be visiting someone after church, she will go and change into something else. I just ignore her. Apart from good morning, and this is your food, we don't talk at all for peace to reign. She doesn't help with anything. Might not even step out of her room till evening if hubby isn't around but if he is, as early as 7am,she will be cleaning the windows and mosquito net of the whole house. Or decide to sweep the compound, whereas, her room is dirty. Anything to look relevant. When it comes to food nko? Eating fried fish after 5pm makes her cough. Only fresh fish. Kpomo doesn't digest if eaten at night. If you don't give her at all, she will be giving you attitude. Abeg. I just do my best n leave her.
ReplyDeleteWow. I'd like to have your kind of patience and perseverance when I grow up.
DeleteLmao. Sorry I had to laugh. I can imagine your frustration. Just do your best and ignore her theatrics. Believe me her son knows exactly what she's doing. One day one day,she will open her yansh by herself
DeleteWhy has she been in your home so long? Have you ever lived freely as husband and wife without her presence?
DeleteI started wondering at all the above comments with the best mother in laws. Mine is like yours but ten times more manipulative. God will embarrass and disgrace them for us. One thing I know now is if you have peace, you give out peace. If you have hate, that is what you give out. Mine is equivalent to satan. I can't type, story long.
Deleteall the time wicked MIL, what about wicked DIL ndi ogbu NNE di?
ReplyDeleteThey are far and few. Wicked mother on law plenty as it's easy for them to pretend to their sons
DeleteHmmmmm, my mother in law, is that one that will pray for u, help u and be nice to u. But t your back she will rubbish u.
ReplyDeleteFunny enough, my hubby has always told me to be careful with her. Infact 5years ago, my hubby told me not to allow her come to allow her into our house if she ever came. Few month later, she came with her load. I called my hubby on the phone. He said I shld give her transport to go back. I told him me I can't tell her o. Before I knew it my hubby is back from work and ask her to leave our house. This woman burst into tears. I pleaded with my hubby to allow her stay. And he accepted after much plea.
Few months after, my hubby lost his job. My business started going down. And this woman would always be praying. But my hubby was not convinced. I would always beg on her behalf. But the thing this woman does is that she would always gossip us to people in the street.
One day she had a heated argument with my hubby. After my hubby left, she started crying. I was begging. All of a sudden, she started saying that the place "they" put my hubby he refuse to stay. That statement just spooked me. I asked her what does she mean by that? She didn't say anything. Infact so many stories that I don't have strength to type.
After almost 2years with us, she left and things have never remain the same financially with us. And prophecy keeps coming that she has something she has to confess.
I still call her and also pick her calls. But my hubby doesn't.
If your hubby is refusing his own mother there must be a reason why. As women sometimes we believe that we should be the peacemakers, but you have to remember there are things in your husband's history that he has never told you about. So when a spouse feels a way about someone you have to trust them.
DeleteDo a deep cleaning and cleansing of your home and surrounding. Cut lots of limes and wash down the place with it, break coconuts all around the yard, and in the house to break the bondages, do not drink the water. Say the 23rd psalms as you are cleaning the house with the lime water. Get into every nook and cranny of your house. Also you and your husband should bathe yourselves in the bathtub in the lime water and say your psalms. The room that she stayed in should be washed the deepest and wear long gloves, also places where she used to love to sit. Search all around the house to see if she has left any charms or buried anything and take it back to her place and leave it there, if you wanna brave it, otherwise pray over it and toss it into the ocean. Lastly, if you are able to sell some of the furniture to get the energy out of the place do so, if getting rid of the furniture is not practical then deep clean them too. If she has left anything behind, clothes, shoes, any gift like a statue or anything other type of gifts for anyone in the house toss them away in the garbage, do not keep anything of her's in your home, completely rid the place of her energy.
Anon 17:37, after she left we saw some strange things in the room she stayed. We have cleaned the room. But she left some of her clothings and shoes. I will tell my hubby to try and get rid of them. Will do as u said concerning the lime cleaning. Thanks.
DeleteAnon 17:37, abeg which kin native Doctor advice be this? Im confused. Are you not more fetish than the mil so? Na wa!
Delete@anon 19:24,don't attack me because I am giving advice to help a BV. What is fetish about limes, coconuts, and the 23rd psalms? Should she sit and watch her home destroyed and poverty settle into their bones or do what she can to remedy it. Until you are crossing through such do not criticize anything, many of you do not know what you will do until sufferation and pain visits your doorsteps. Thank God many of us will not pass through such. The place needs to be fully cleansed of the Mil energy!
Delete@op,I forgot to also mention, when you have completed the cleansing sprinkle Salt in all corners of your house.
Anon thank you, me go do so sef to remove her negative and demonic spirit
DeleteYou can never be nicer than ur husband to his mother.
DeleteBefore going on and on about how evil and vile your mother-in-law is,have you taken time to ask yourself through some introspection what sort of daughter-in-law you are?
ReplyDeleteEveryone is always the Angeles in this scenario.
So much for the danger of a single story.
So much for the danger of a single story...I remember that speech by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie.
Delete@Proudly anonymous
Delete"Angeles?"
Is it Los Angeles or Las Vegas?
As a DIL I was very welcoming till I discovered she hated me so much as in her opinion I was not civilized enough for her son. And that she wanted the marriage to end. I could not remain loving
DeleteMy MIL doesn't have any problem at all, hasn't even talked back or raised her voice at me. Anytime we talk, she must beg we stay well. She is quite a good woman, doesn't disturb me at all. Even when we stay the weekend in their place, I can sleep till 10am and she doesn't bother me. Though I try not take her for granted but at the same time, I'm not the type to make friends easily. We talk and exchange pleasantries, but I can keep to myself for hours without talking. I know she will like us to be real close and talk and laugh, but me, I'm bidding my time. I'm naturally not too good with chatting so I try to stay on my lane.
ReplyDeleteBut she is a very good woman who prays for us all the time. I really play God blesses us well so we can provide her with all she needs.
I have the best mother in law, who even went as far as washing my undies, cook and does other house chores for me.
ReplyDeleteThese are just few of the wonderful things my mother in law used to do for me, until the veil was lifted.
DeleteI had been married for five years with no job and children, then I got very tired of my situation. Meanwhile I have four different degrees in International finance, including one from the states and I married as a virgin at 31years.
I received some prayer points and started praying and then everything started coming out. Unbelievable things.
My dear don’t trust anyone at all. The devil was nice, that was why it could deceive Eve.
My mil is bad, pretend to be a pastor's wife and yet she put fire in my marriage. today we are no more Am sure she is happy now that her step son's marriage is , Someday some one will treat her daughter just the way her son treated me.
ReplyDeleteMine is nice.her only problem is that she expects me to call her on daily basis,and I am really bad in keeping touch.
ReplyDeleteI have a couple of brothers(unmarried) and I already envy their future wives when it comes to this MIL issue. My mother is the kindest, gentlest, sweetest, purest and the most genuinely good person I’ve ever come across in my entire life. I’m not saying this because she’s my mom and I’d never admit this to her(so someone’s head would not swell lol) but she’s a rare and beautiful soul. No atom of wahala, drama, stress or wickedness in her. Her future daughters-in-law would really enjoy her. Anytime her brother has issues with his wife and they call her to intervene, she always takes the side of the wife irrespective of who is wrong or right. She’s the type that’ll just mind her business and not interfere in her children’s marriage unless her opinion is asked for. i can already foresee her being on the side of her future DILs all the time lol. This is a woman whom other young girls/women have always walked up to to tell her that they want to be like her when they grow up. I just hope that my future MIL would be at least half as good as my mom is😥
ReplyDeleteMy mil made me sleep on the hotel room floor on my wedding night.She, her daughter in law and grand daughter slept on the bed. This is a
ReplyDeletewoman who begged me to marry her son.
So the bed cannot contain the 4 of u? She made u sleep on the floor or u opted to be the scape goat? What if u developed pneumonia on the day of your wedding as a result of sleeping on the floor. Couldn't your hubby or even u pay for another room even if it was cheapest of all their rooms? U keep selling yourselves for kobo kobo after u will say u are being disrespected when u started the bullshit by yourselves.
DeleteAnon 18:49, where was your husband?
DeleteNa wa o.and the hotel had just one room?
DeleteThis beats all! I have never heard of a husband and wife that were not able to sleep in their own bed on their wedding night. Anytime a woman is begging for you to marry their son there is usually a deeper reason that merely just wanting him to be happy. You sure he does not have a criminal history, sexual deviancy or bizarre illness hiding? Were you in some remote village that you could not stay at a hotel?
DeleteMhiz A don’t mind her. She went to do eye service. I wonder why she is now complaining.
Deletey MIL is the stingiest woman I know..Anytime I pay her a visit, I buy her stuff or give her money. She has money but will never even as much as offer her grand children biscuit when we visit her not to talk of food .Her stinginess is amazing. She won't bring out a dime even if someone is dying..such a shame. When she visits I spoil her with food and attention. I like the fact that she cannot just stroll into my home. I must add that she can pray but has a bad mouth.
ReplyDeleteMy ex mil is a bitter scorned divorcee. Hence never wanted mine to work out. Her son beat me and took my money despite helping him stand in business. I ve left him,now alone with my daughter experiencing peace unlimited. Na only congii dey worry me.
ReplyDeleteNow I understand why you wrote what you wrote up there 👆. Conji no let you see road so you think everybody is thinking about that.
DeleteMy MIL is such a nice woman, I am very free with her, but my Mum...no way. My mum is full of drama and hard to please...she cams for omugwo and frustrated me. You give her breakfast by 7am, it’s too early, you give her by 10am...you are starving her. Sigh! You ask to take her out, she won’t agree, you go out and stay too long she threatens to leave. Sigh. I was so happy the day she left. She’s such a difficult Mum but I love her dearly but can’t live with her. She blackmails me with her suffering for me and says I am her worst child...I avoid my mum and it’s saddening.
ReplyDeleteMy mum in law was a very very good woman,caring,very generous and hard working, showered me with love even though am an Igbo married to her son a Yoruba,took care of me when l gave birth to my kids.so many good things to say about her, sadly,fibroid took her away from us in 2012.mummy continue to rest in peace
DeleteMy mother in law is a very bad good woman. Will tell my story later biko. Night don come
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