Broken engagement is better than broken marriage. Paris 2011 he popped the question, I saw the ring😲 my mums face, my friends and family who flew in cheering for joy. The money that was spent, the effort from family and friends. No one would know the heated argument we had few hours before this pic was taken. Fast forward few months, during the entire preparation for our traditional wedding we weren't speaking, but they will tell you its normal, it happens. Its not true! It takes immense courage to walk away from something you've been building for years. I was young, won't say much. @nickiminajtweets few weeks back hit close to home.
No regrets! No hate, I strongly believe he gave his best, and with that knowledge its up to you to determine whether their best is good enough for you. Gratitude🙏🏽 #throwbackthursday my soul craves for a little bit more from life💛 I gave the ring back, the cars, the house, our investments all! And with my little savings I was hidding in my friends account I moved to Lagos 2012 started from scratch, with no friends or family members I really knew🙏🏽 what a journey!
I still believe in love and best believe I won't be settling for anything less than team work!👊🏽❤ I know my worth😋😜 and yes it may scare some away, but the right man will know how to bring out the best in you not the worst. #TeamLove💕 #postcomingdownsoon looking forward to writing a blog! I have too many life experiences I would like to share without offending thoese close to me, and also hearing and learning from your experiences too. Life is beautiful when we all come together😁🙈 it took a lot out of me sha!!!! But it gave a lot back👊🏽 #love#marriage #engagement #life#knowyourworth #Godiscleansingmysoul#ithinkimready
*Not easy to call off an engagement at all...Glad to know there is no hate or bitterness involved..I have even seeing divorced couples hanging out together with their new spouses....
*Not easy to call off an engagement at all...Glad to know there is no hate or bitterness involved..I have even seeing divorced couples hanging out together with their new spouses....
There is nothing difficult there abeg... I did intro once and it didn't work out,now am glad,if he beat u black and blue, u go find leg run😂
ReplyDeleteWow good for you dear. Wish I had called off my introduction. Married to the most selfish man on earth who doesn't look after his child even though he can afford it. At his age and with the amount of money he has, he has no house. Wants us to live with his parents but I keep saying no.
DeleteHe keeps eyeing my money and when I get paid, he remembers he has needs
Abi my sister. Even with marriage sef. When you see the worse in a marriage you will run abeg. Life is too short not to be happy and be yourself.
DeleteAdanna,he remembers he has needs when you get paid and you attend to those needs,abi? If you know what is good for you,open another account and start saving money,no matter how tempted you are,don't touch the money,you have one child and your hubby is this stingy,what happens when more children comes,be wise.
DeleteAdanna stop wishing, it's not too late to leave, marriage is not a prison. I left my first marriage and I have married a better man who loves and treats me like a queen. Stop living in regret and take charge of your life
DeleteWhat a wise thing to do!
ReplyDeleteYes ooo💯💯
ReplyDeleteBroken engagement is better than broken marriage..
Thank God you made your decision early without grugdes.
Some pple will still cook head because of material things..
It's hard Sha but it will be worth it
ReplyDeleteLol I remember when I told my now husband to back off from going to see my parents. I called the night before the day he travelled to the east, to back off, that I’m no longer interested. My own stubbornness eeeh! The guy insisted and went, lol. On our traditional wedding day, my tailor messed me up. I booked this tailor long time from the UK, and we agreed that when I get back one week before the wedding, she will make the clothes. I paid her heavily for the fast track. Two days before the wedding, called tailor, she said my clothes are done that I should come in the evening to check them out. Evening time, she called to say she wasn’t going to be around. The next day I went, her shop was looking locked. My people as at 2om on my trad day, I was at the tailor’s shop crying and wailing. The lady started making my clothes on the morning of my trad. Smh! I had to call my husband and heaped the whole blame on him. Look at what you’ve done, if not for you, I wouldn’t be going through this street now. You insisted on this marriage and also insisted on traditional marriage even when I wanted to do only the ime ego (bride price payment). The quarrel no be small, lol. We here happily married now.
ReplyDeleteAwww. So sweet. Don't mind those yeye tailors
DeleteThis thing called marriage is not beans and bread...But to me, it's inevitable.
DeleteBut you for manage the guy because of the money involved.
ReplyDeleteHope you are able to do what he has been doing for your family.
Onye aguu
DeleteLols..Igbo girl!
DeleteSeriously?
DeleteYou are so useless, everything has to be about money with you. So she should have stuck with him for the money despite her misgivings.
DeleteManage the guy because of what? No wonder you carry husband for head like firewood. Now I know, your husband came into your family on a rescue mission.
DeleteAre you for real😲😲😲😲😲Na wa ooh!!
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DeleteHahahahahahaahahahaha@no wonder you carry husband for head like firewood.
DeleteLoolz!
DeleteChei @Fan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteIt take's courage to walk away.
ReplyDeleteBroken engagement is truly better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeleteGlad you've moved on girl.
When you see all the wealth he has men to walk away is the last thing to think of.. .but life is more precious anyways. I would rather walk away than to die.
ReplyDeleteMADAM POSTER KUKUMA SAY THAT YOU ARE REGRETTING IT. Why bring it up now?
ReplyDeleteHahahahahhahahahaha
DeleteAnother mumu
DeleteYour head dey there. You are the only one with a reasonable comment.
DeleteThis is how it is supposed to be. Don’t be shamed or bullied into marriage by any one. You should be sought after and if you are not comfortable, better take a long walk.
ReplyDeleteThe lady isn't bitter, she just didn't think he was the right one with all the affluence.
TAKE YOUR TIME!
Best decision ever
ReplyDeleteSimply walk away
I love ur courage girl.some fish brain ladies will go ahead because of money or what people will say.when yawa gas dem go begin send stella chronicle
ReplyDeletePoster you took a brave stepoooo
ReplyDeleteMy last relationship didnt end well cos i had my doubts about this giy (how can someone be sooo perfect and cool, doesnt get angry and claims hes a gentleman), he was planning to propose and planning it alongside with my bestie who knew how i felt about the relationship and she told me about the engagement plans, so i did everything possible to break up with him but to no avail then i met someone else i just wanted to have my ‘last fun as a single lady’ before getting hooked, thats when my guy caught me, how did he find out? This dude cloned my WhatsApp account and was receiving all my messages on his phone i dont knw how the hell he did that, we confronted each other and the beast in him came out, this guy almost choked me to death, gave me the beatings of my life and still got me arrested for destroying his property
ReplyDeleteThat was when it dawned on me why i didnt want to marry him.
I promised not to date again, so then dis guy came along months after and proposed immediately, he met my people and we fixed a date, out of curiosity i wanted to test his ‘power house’ before commiting myslf cos we were not hving sex, only for me to discover hes very very bad in bed and hes very stingyand wicked, this man can spend up to 500k in occasions but can never give you 20k to buy food stuffs to keep in the house, he gave me just 50k to get my trad marriage cloths ready And that 50k was the only money he gave me to plan myslf. Meanwhile his own attire cost like 120k, i called off the trad marriage, 2 mnths later i found out i was pregnant contacted him and he tot we could still go on with the traditional marriag, i refused, having a child for him wont make me settle for less, he agreed to support me financially,
now am 7months pregnant this man has never sent a dime to me he only gave me 20k for antenatal and he stopped taking my calls.
Am going to have my baby boy alone ive alrdy named him Miracle, hes my Miracle.