Wow!!!!
You are doing a good job. Let me not waste time. I ought to have sent this in on the 31st of May, as I planned, but a lot of things kept me busy.
Just before I discovered I was pregnant, I had a dream where my pastor was telling to me to right my ways cos I will die soon. I woke up and rejected it. Then I discovered I was pregnant. I was ecstatic. Family members and friends began to have similar dreams to mine. But hubby and I stood in faith and rejected death.
My first 3 months were something else. I couldn't keep any food down, I lived on boiled eggs, ugwu and crayfish with sweet potatoes.
By the second trimester, I began to bloat up if I ate one strand of vegetable. I couldn't eat fruits too, it just made me sick as a result, my blood level was constantly low and I was prone to dizziness. Doctors did all they could to increase my blood level and towards d end of my pregnancy, pcv rose from 28% to 31%. Pregnancy wasn't very smooth, but I know some people who had it worse.
I was with my family when I went into labor at 38 weeks. Before that day, I just began to display extraordinary strength and tolerance for my condition. Labor started at 12am on the 31st. Armed with my knowledge gotten from previous LRDs, I decided to rest because I knew it was just the beginning. So I slept till 2am and I couldn't sleep again. I began to walk all over the sitting room, declaring God's promises. By 5am, my family woke up, everyone was surprised that I didn't wake them up.
Got to hospital and was checked around 7am, 3-4cm. Doctor, being a family friend, said I could go and come back or wait around I chose to go back home and return. He said to return around 11am. I'm someone that used to have really painful periods that required being admitted and put on drips. So I was expecting debilitating pain, something more painful than my periods, but it never got to that. It was painful, don't get me wrong, but my mind was expecting greater pain than I felt.
When we returned to hospital and I was checked around 1pm, I was at 6/7cm. Hubby came around that time and to slap the guy was 'hungrying' me, maybe cos of all the stories of slaps during labor that i had heard.
I was told to remain in hospital now. I was offered a room. I just kept on managing my pain and waiting till 3pm when the doctor said he would check me again. By the time it was 3pm, I could barely hold myself from pushing, I told the nurse that I wanted to poo, she immediately took me to the labor room and other nurses were waiting there. I was asked to lay down and immediately I laid on the bed, the urge to push left, one of the nurses checked me again and said I was at 8cm and I shouldn't push. I told them to let me move around and they agreed. Immediately I stood up, I felt like throwing up, I threw up and they said that its a sign that the time was near, a young doctor came in checked me and said I was fully dilated. Then I was asked to lie down. The doctor burst my water and the matron told me how to push.
Hubby was waiting outside because they didn't let him in, the MD, who is a family friend made him promise not to disturb, and then he let him in.
I began to push around 3pm all my pushing didn't seem to be making any impact. The young doctor was massaging my perineum with olive oil, still nothing. MD came in and told them to give me a cut. The doctor was hesitant, he nipped me a bit,next thing MD collected scissors and gave me serious cut, chai!
Baby's head came out with the next push. But her shoulders were stuck, then the MD told the young doctor to take baby out by the shoulder, but he kept on holding her head with unsteady hands, the MD pushed him away and brought out my baby. She was taken to the next room to be cleaned up, while I birthed the placenta. I was stitched after the placenta and congratulated. My hubby brought the baby to me while I was being stitched.
Now, that should have been the end of my story, but na here story begin. I was left on the bed to rest, when I began to feel really really cold. I felt something warm on my shoulders, I looked and it was blood, I was lying in a pool of blood.
A nurse came in to check on me at that moment and she saw it. She went to get the matron, matron came and told them to clean me up and then she inserted her hand in my newly stitched ponyor and began to pack out blood.
Brethren, this pain was terrible, but I held myself. She cleaned and cleaned and got tired. She sent for the doctor. Md came instead and said they should give me oxytocin. The dose was increased up to three time, and the bleeding didn't stop. He asked for the placenta, to see if it was complete, and it was.
He then asked for evacuation kit. This was where I began to fear. He conducted D and C on me while I screamed down the hospital. He finished that and stitched me back up again without anaesthtics. I was too weak to scream at this point. I just bore the pain until their voices began to seem very far away. I heard doctor asking them to get blood.
I was later taken to a recovery room and I received the blood. Miraculously, I recovered so fast I was discharged the next morning.
Sorry for the boring read, i'm not a good story teller.
My baby clocked a year on the 31st of May. I have attached her picture for your eyes only.
*Congratulations to you and happy belated birthday to your baby.
God bless and continually kept the baby and a belated birthday to her
ReplyDeleteJeez. You could have died. Have goose pimples. How can someone use scissors on me?
DeleteIt was God with you all the way. I and your baby are birthday mate.
DeleteWhy do a D&C when the baby was already out of you,Nigerian Hospitals only God can help people there.
ReplyDeleteNot just that, the young doctor was right by not cutting her open. Most doctors abroad will not cut you open. They stopped this practice decades ago. tearing naturally is preferable. The only doctor around my area that still uses scissors is Nigerian so go figure... sorry young doctor, even the way the older MD pushed him out of the way... smh
DeleteCongratulations poster! May God bless you and your baby
Are u ok at all? Sewing a torn cloth and one you cut with a scissors which looks neater and better?.
DeleteD and c was done for the remnants of placenta. It was making you bleed. It's no longer d and c. It's mva , which is easier, and much safer.
Anonymous 13:43, stop talking like you know what you're saying.
DeleteAnonymous 18:23 God bless you ojare
Congrats n thankGod for u.
ReplyDeleteLucky u are not a member of Jehovah *sneezes*
Hahaha
DeleteJehovah witness you mean
Because of the blood
😂😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
DeleteWow! Congratulations
ReplyDeleteCongrats my sister. ..just like my story but I ended up in theatre room after normal delivery blc doctors couldn't control d bleeding any longer. ...my dear it was God....and thank God for the professionalism of d doctors dat handle my case....
ReplyDeleteI congratulate u Madam. That's an experience doctor. My baby's head was stuck for long n by the time I finally pushed him out, he was so weak n that was how I lost him
ReplyDeleteHaaaa
ReplyDeleteThank God for turning everything around for good o
D&C after that fresh tear
God is good
Who said doctors abroad don't cut? My dear they do cos my doctor had to cut me for my baby to come out.
ReplyDeleteCongrats
ReplyDeleteI can imagine the pain, congratulations dear.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations dear
ReplyDeleteBlood of Jesus. Please abeg cesarean section all the way abeg. This too much.
ReplyDeleteMy baby comes in about 15 weeks and this just scared the absolute crap out of me! Haaa!!!
ReplyDeleteDont be. Every case is different. My pregnancy,labour and recovery were so smooth that i was able to come back to nigeria 10days after delivery to attend my dads funeral. Just keep using the book supernatural childbirth to pray and God will surprise you.
DeleteI think as a single lady, I really have to stop reading this labour room drama segment...OMH I couldnt sit still
ReplyDeleteBig congrats mama. God really delivered you from death o. Hmm. The older doctor did some things right and acted quickly but he was quite barbaric. I can't believe that even local anaesthesia was not applied when you were being cut and stitched. Plus the moment you went into shock as a result of blood loss, if you were being correctly monitored, your vitals would have indicated that something was seriously wrong and you should have been wheeled into the theatre. Anyway what do I know? I am thankful I practice medicine elsewhere.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations dear
ReplyDeleteWow,thank God!!!
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life and the life of your baby.
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