STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SHOCKINGLY STINGY MOTHER
Hello Stella and BVs,
This might be long,please read and share your opinions. I'm writing concerning my brothers wife.We are five in number (cousins)and my mum trained all of us together as one because I was an only child.We are very close and it's only by surname you know we aren't siblings.
*WOW are you kidding me?can someone be this stingy to their kids?I dont think its right to take her kids away from her,I dont think its right at alll..
Hello Stella and BVs,
This might be long,please read and share your opinions. I'm writing concerning my brothers wife.We are five in number (cousins)and my mum trained all of us together as one because I was an only child.We are very close and it's only by surname you know we aren't siblings.
My brother who is the first got married about 10 years ago(intro and bride price same day) cos she was pregnant.The mothers were the major sponsor of the wedding because his job wasn't paying much then.They are blessed with two boys now(9 & 6 years old).
My brother opened a business for her(she sells polos and jerseys in the market)Three years ago,my brother called us that his wife was sick and the last girl went to stay with the children while he does hospital runs,her mum came too and she was transferred to another state.We all contributed almost 500k for hospital bills.I visited her in the hospital and they still needed money (my brother said he had exhausted all he had and even sold some of his work equipment)we all rallied round to raise money for the operation she needed (she had obstruction and her tummy was swollen).
It was after she was discharged and they took her to Abuja (kids were already there)that her mum said my brother should come and do white wedding or else she will go back with her daughter and my brother was so angry and asked the inlaw if this was the right time to discuss such after all he has spent on bills and drugs.
My brother now asked his wife if he had ever collected from her business money even while she was sick.She replied that her business money is for business and that's why she didn't offer to give him to pay hospital bills.
My brother traveled out last year to seek greener pastures,second born stays in the same state with them and he visits them and gives her money to buy food stuff ,he noticed she prefers buying a plate of rice instead of buying the half bag she was given money for,she buys half bottle of Vegetable oil and give them omo to bath with it ,and he stopped giving her money,he buys the food stuff and gives her.Her cousin lives with her and she stopped paying her fees since my brother left so the second started paying the fees.
My aunt(her MIL) visited them recently and noticed she's maltreating my nephews.She doesn't give them lunch when they are going to school (she gives them 20n)and they drink garri when they are back.The children complained to their grandmother.
My aunt said she called her to buy a carton of biscuit and all the necessary things children take to school and she replied that her own mother didn't train her with such that it teaches kids to steal.My aunt said she tried her best but the small boy looks malnourished because of everyday garri And she's always saying no good parent ask their children if they are filled up after eating,you are only asked if you have eaten.
The third born sends her 15k every month for upkeep so she is not lacking because her husband sends money too.
While my aunt was there,her husband sent clothes for his kids and the third born children,she took them to the market to sell.It was when my brother called to ask if the clothes fit that we asked her and she said she has sold the clothes.
My aim of writing is our mothers said they want to take the children this third term holiday and enroll them in a school in Abuja since she won't take care of them.Their socks are torn and she won't do what she's supposed to do.All she's after is saving and hiding money.She is adding weight and her kids look malnourished.They are coming for holiday at mine next month and that's when my mothers are planning to relocate them to Abuja(we haven't told any of my brothers).please is this the right thing to do? I'm worried for those children looking like almajiri while their father is alive. I'm sorry for the long epistle,I just wanted to explain well.
*WOW are you kidding me?can someone be this stingy to their kids?I dont think its right to take her kids away from her,I dont think its right at alll..
Has this move been discussed with your Brother?
Na wa o
ReplyDeleteStella, it's the best move.
DeletePoster, your mothers are doing the right thing. Some mothers are so stingy to their children.
God forbid! My kids would rather look posh while i manage my old clothes biko. What nonsense!
Giving them Garri to drink?
Pls poster that's very thoughtful of your mothers. They should take them away while she visits them if she wishes.
Tell your bros and back it up with the kids' pictures.
DeleteSome wives are not it let me tell you the truth SDK
DeleteAbeg, lets be realistic. You cannot kidnap someone’s children under any guise. IT IS A CRIME! In law or not, you cannot just run away with someone’s children. Kidnsppers get burnt alive in Nigeria in case you don’t know. Even the father of the kids isn’t aware of your plans. First off, I think she and her mother offended you people by asking for white wedding and probably some other things too she’s done and you want to wield your power as in laws. You better not commit crime under he-said, she-said. Because all she’ll have to do is cry out and post your entire family’s pics online and you’ll all be known as evil kidnapper. Tuface and other celebrities would also accompany the law enforcement when they come to rescue the kids for you and escort you to jail. I know they are some incapable mothers out there but your story just doesn’t come off as genuine to me. Are you able to send the pics of the kids and their mother to Stella for verification of their malnutrition at least?
DeleteIf their mother is really like this, talk to your brother/cousin, talk to her mother etc first. Talk to your sis law, since it seems she doesn’t want to spend on the kids, tell her you want to help, offer to help her watch them so she can have some space to deal with things instead of straight-up kidnapping them. If nothing changes, then report to the right authorities for child welfare with proof. Don’t go and commit crime o! All this in law this inlaw that don’t work in this day and age anymore o. You cannot just steal children that you didn’t carry for 9months without either parents’ knowledge just because you’re the aunty or grandmother. Follow the right and legal procedures.
Also, it seems like your brother might be somewhat incapable of even marrying talkless of having a family. Why did he marry when he couldn’t afford it? That seems to be the genesis of this whole thing. Your mothers paid for his wedding, you all paid for his wife’s health, someone pays for the rent and the list goes on. You people are too involved in what is supposed to be his private business. It looks to me that as a result of all these, you all feel you own his wife. She probably got tired and started responding back with attitude and no you’re finding faults. I also don’t believe the story of how she had money from her business but stingily kept it while she almost died of illness. Also, your brother had enough money to open business for her but not enough money to pay rent and the other things you claim the rest of your family does for his wife? No offense o but you story isn’t gelling. Just seems you’re trying to paint a picture of how much you’ve helped her and how bad of a mother she is. Did she just become a bad mother after your brother travelled or has she always been even while they lived together? As I said earlier, send pics of the well-nourished mother and mail-nourished kids to Stella so she can verify your story. Also ask the mothers if you can watch the kids for a while or report to the adequate authorities and let them place the kids in your care instead of kidnapping..... Just Saying
DeleteWithout their mother's permission how can your mothers just take them? Unless you tell your brother to tell his wife he wants his kids to stay with your mothers and school in Abuja, and she obediently agrees. Biko don't kidnap someone's children before it becomes a police case.
DeleteThis is a perfect description of my cousin. D only difference is that she's also stingy to her own self. Gosh! My mum had 2 slap her hard one day n brot her baby home from d market out of anger. She refused giving her d child until d husband came to d house. My mum told him why she's with d child d man was bitter. Asked d wife what she does with 70k monthly allowance she was just blinking.
DeletePoster u cant kidnap that child cos its illegal but pls report her to ur brother. Wonder y he's not even aware of the condition of his children. Let him give u guys d permission to take d kids.
Poster, are you an illiterate? If you think she is not doing enough, get the social services or welfare involved that it is if it is effective in Nigeria. Have you heard of due process? How can you take her kids from her ?? The person who will try that shit with me will get burnt seriously!!
DeleteYou can take other people's children fromher but not hers!! Stop the bulshit please.
It's the best move please, let the kids be taken from her. Those lovely kids deserve a better life for peace sake. That she didn't get a good life doesn't mean they should suffer.
ReplyDeleteJust let you brother know about it first.
Discuss with your bros and try send him pictures of the kids to back it up.
DeleteSome ladies don't know what they have.
You people should have known she’s wicked from the time she let her hubby borrow money for her own health, than touch her business money. Is it not someone that is alive that will do business. How can a mother be this callous? Please take the kids from her since she’s not really to show them love, what can 20naira still buy? She sold her children’s cloth, when I always look for anyone coming back to help me buy clothes ... she’s mad finish
DeleteDiscuss d plight of the kids with your brother....
ReplyDeleteIf my brother kids are not well taken care of by their mom, I would declare her unfit o...i would inform him n take d kids away until she proves she is mentally fit to care for kids, no time for sentiments...
Yeye woman.
As queen of the jungle, you will just walk into her house and COLLECT the children, abi?
DeletePlease let's speak realistically sometimes.
Chronicler, please report to your brother. You and your mum do not have the right to execute what you are planning. At all.
Are you people mad On This blog? So if my brother is abroad and his wife is not taken care of their kids,I will just walk to the house and take the kids.As who please? Mstchew!!
DeleteThe children should be taken from her before they die of hunger. Imagine, see children that many are dying to have. She is just mean and wicked! This is sad
ReplyDeleteShe is selfish and heartless.
DeleteStarving your own kids,God forbid bad thing..
This story reminds me of a family friend, her money is just for her self, she has been married for over 10 yrs no child and she isn't working all she does is party owanbe,every week she buys two cloths for parties, she went for one on Friday Saturday and today , with new gele,cloths,shoes and you know what she doesn't give her aged mum money, even if her mama is sick.
ReplyDeletePlease tell me i read this chronicle in my dream. Me dat my baby is just 3m+ i buy anything 'buyable' sotey my hubby say i go still buy rubbish one day.
ReplyDeleteNo be small buy anything buy able my sister, a friend once asked me that why is it that when it comes to my kids to matter the amoun, I will pay but when it's mine I will complain it's expensive , I just smiled.
DeletePls take the kids from her before she sells them as polo.
The children should be taken from her before they fall sick and die of malnourishment. What rubbish .
ReplyDeleteAs a mother how can you comfortably eat knowing your kids didn't feed well .. God forbid ! Where the food wan pass go for your mouth .. Na wa o!!! Some people Dont deserve children I swear .. Na your pikin u dey carry play kite like this ?
That’s what happens when u marry from a terrible background. Obviously she is affected by her up bringing. Sorry enh
ReplyDeleteI beg to disagree. Sometimes background has nothing to do with it but the individual. I grew up to meet my parents giving us everything we needed. My eldest sister got married before I was born. She has children older than me. My sister was stingy to a fault. She was stingy to her children so you can imagine unfortunate children that stayed with her. She was making money on her own but my sister cannot buy a thin of milk with her money. Her husband was an Angel. He supplies everything and God help them when he travels. If he does not send food from where ever he was posted to, children will fend for themselves. When we go to visit we go with enough money to feed ourselves if her husband is away. There was nothing like looking after her parents but thank God my parents had the best from the rest of us.
DeleteWhen she died, I forced myself to feel it but it was difficult for me.
Taking the kids away is another problem on its own. It is very sensitive, you don’t use force when it comes to this kind of thing. The children may even grow up to turn against all of you. Wisdom is paramount.
ReplyDeleteThat being said, think stinginess is a mental illness. She has experienced so much lack on her life that she believes that’s the way life should be. This is just like hoarding, hoarding money. It’s a really serious mental illness.
She’s an unfit mother so they should be taken from her
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:16, but not via kidnapping. This thing will blow up on the poster and her family’s face. With the backlash, all of your encouraging her will now start saying why didn’t you do this and that first?
DeleteYour story is abit disjointed. Was she like this when he was around? Your brother should come and carry his kids, not you guys, do well to let him know their nutritional state, snap them and send pics to him, exaggerate if you need to. They are better off with him that their wicked mom.
ReplyDeleteThank you. How can you just take the kids? Your brother is in a better position to take the kids albeit legally.
DeletePlease take those children from her, let her go and save her money and flex her life. Her kids are not important to her, just negodu what I just read, how can a sane mother be this stingy to her kids?
ReplyDeleteI pray your in-laws rubbish your name and take away your kids from you
DeleteSee advise, mstchew!!
DeleteAnon 18:02 Bia, you think say na play we come play for this post? Will you disappear from here. Just Negodu. This umuaka! Pls. wait for saturday breakfast post. It is not compulsory you post a comment here. Rubbish and nonsense
DeleteNa wa. the kids should be taken away PERIOD
ReplyDeleteDiscuss this with your brother and I think it will be good if you're people can have custody of the kids.
ReplyDeleteI have seen something similar to this and it's a weird seeing a woman mistreating her kids and using them as a bait to obtain their father.
The worst person to mingle with is someone with poverty mentality, every little thing is always special to them even to the detriment of their loved ones. I just pity those kids because that woman will never change, let them stay with her till they become of age to make decisions for themselves.
ReplyDelete"age to make decisions"...at the rate they are going do you think they will be alive till then Ma?
DeleteE sweet to blow grammar but let's be realistic.
A child goes to school with 20 naira in his pocket to buy what exactly?
Pure water and 10 naira biscuit?
Ok.
And then he gets home and is fed Garri.
And not even the clean,crispy garri, but most likely the one that is filled with sand, gravel, dust, koko and dirt.
Somebody who cannot bring money for HER OWN health bills, do you think she cares what goes in some one else's stomach???
Poster,stage an intervention IMMEDIATELY!
Take those children away before they die from ulcer, kwashiokor or some other illness.
Take them away before they start stealing, join a children's cult, or engage in one vice or the other and end up in a remand home.
If someone takes advantage of their hungry state and starts fondling them after giving them 100 naira for food or forces them to give him a blow job...what will you say?
Why do you want to wait to react when you can ACT now?
Do you know what HUNGER can lead even grown adults to do?
Please do not let this vampire of a woman destroy their childhood.
A dysfunctional child will STRUGGLE with his adulthood throughout his life. I agree that some are able to surmount past childhood experiences, MANY don't.
Take those children away, let them experience decent clothing,food and love.
It's the LEAST that a child deserves.
If the woman can prove that she can take care of these children accordingly, she can have them back.
Many of you are unaware that there are existing laws about this. If it's proven that the parents are UNFIT caregivers, they automatically become the wards of the state. The reason why laws are generally not enforced here is -yes you got it right-, IGNORANCE. 'Who education epp' has led people to live and die in abject ignorance.
I know these type of women though.
She will fight you.
And the ONLY reason she will fight to make sure these children are not taken away, is because they are an alternative source of income from the father.
Not every woman or man can be a daddy or mummy.
It's not a decorative title,
I said it yesterday.
Unfortunately, some men and women can only provide sperm and egg. NOTHING more. They have no nurturing emotion to give. Ever.
Very apt
DeleteIs like she has some kinda psyco
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThese kids should be taken from her, you can involve the social welfare of the state you are residing. Let them get involve. This is an abuse on the kids.
ReplyDeleteThank you!!! Exactly what I’ve been saying. Get the right authorities involved. Don’t kidnap.
DeleteIt’s a type of mental illness... some people are so stingy ehn!
ReplyDeleteA mother would do this? Please are you guys sure she doesn't need medical evaluation? Prolonged stay in the hospital probably did something to her Maybe she's depressed and taking it out on the kids. Your brother left to seek greener pastures and she's all alone. Loneliness can be frustrating. Please discuss with your brother before taking the kids.
ReplyDeleteIf all you have said here is true, get your brother in the know nof all this. Then work with the Social Welfare Unit of the Ministry of Youth/Women Affairs or whatever Ministry it is in the children's current residence. The government is the proper agency to take the children away from her and give them to your family for their good. If you try to do it without government/court order, it will be abduction and you can go to jail for it.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!!
DeleteOne sane comment finally, God bless your widdom.
DeleteTake the kids from her by all means necessary. She may even be happy they are gone. Utter nonsense. Report her to agencies for maltreatment when they come on holiday. Get your brother involved. If there’s a legal process please do it. Imagine the nonsense ... she’s sick and hiding her money instead of paying for her healthcare. Remove the kids. Something important is missing in her brain.
ReplyDeleteNa wah oo, can believe what I just read. Pls the children should be taken away from her, how can a mother treat her own kid this way.
ReplyDeleteShe's not qualified to be a mother so the kids should be taken away from her. So stingy even to your children. Shame
ReplyDeleteYou need to inform your brother first with evidence like pictures let your brother decide
ReplyDeleteMost times when we dont like a sister-in-law. We tend to level unprintable allegations against them. Selling her children cloth. Giving them omo to bath? Its well. My dear, if you love your brothers children and you have the means, get a shop around her location. Pay the shop person to supply daily children needs like drinks, biscuits etc. They should visit the shop and take everything they need for school each time. At the end of the month, you will pay the bill.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why some of you cannot utilise your common sense when commenting.
DeleteMaybe because it does not exist in the first place.
First and foremost, do you live perchance under their bed? Where des "level unprintable allegations against them" come from. Do you know what 'unprintable' means at all??? Did she say the woman rapes the children or forces them to eat her faeces or drink her urine? What is 'unprintable' about anything the poster wrote? Or is it that the word looks long and fine in your eye and you decided to practice it today.
What does 'liking' or not 'liking the sister in law' have to do with the children being malnourished and deprived???
Your last sentence is just the height of stupidity aptly reflected.
If one can't be a parent, then why bring children into the world?
'Supply daily children's needs and pick up the bills' indeed. What is the purpose of the parent?? To just fuck and born? Will the neighbourhood shop also supply love, care and attention in tins and packets too?
Stupidity at its peak and that this came from a human adult and female is disgusting.
My thoughts exactly! She must have offended her in laws one way or the other and this is the repercussion - different accusations leveled against her. If the poster is sure all these things are happening, let her and her mothers do things to help instead of kidnapping. Or let them get the right authorities involved but with proof. I still don’t believe the story tho; she only feeds them garri but then you also mentioned that she only buys plate of rice. So when your second brother visited, did she buy the plate of rice for herself and served the children garri or what? Some in laws sha. Well, here’s another suggestion from Zaram, an excellent one by the way. It completely takes care of the issue of malnutrition at least. Since, you really want to help and take over, can’t you do this or it’s the kidnapping you’re still interested in?
DeleteAnon 13:57 aka poster, we’ve heard you. If kidnapping is what you and your family want, go ahead and then favs the consequences! Somebody is giving you a good option, you’re insulting and nitpicking about the term “unprintable”. Really? You cannot supply daily needs and pay later, you cannot inform the Children’s father but you can kidnap, ba? The fact that you didn’t even inform the father shows that 1, you people don’t regard or respect him and 2, he probably already knows that you’re doing this because you just dislike his wife and wouldn’t agree to it. You just want to flex your meddling-inlaw muscles on the girl. If not, there are so many other ways to help the kids legally instead of kidnapping them.
DeleteIf my sister in law dares try this with me, I will beat the devil out of her.Let the marriage end but I swear on my life, I will beat you and you won't forget me in a hurry.
DeleteAre they your children? You are their aunt and your mom is their grandmother. So what gives you the impetus to think it is ok to take another person's kids? Is that the only solution? Collect my kids when I am alive? Hmm.
That thought alone shows the kind of family yours is.you people think you can do and undo. Person wey marry una no fit happy or get peace.
She is lucky she is not based abroad. Social services will have taken those kids from her by now. Normally I would not condone taking children away from their mother. However in this case, there seems to be evidence of malnourishment and ill treatment. Take the kids BUT take before and after photos of them and their weight. If possible take them to a paediatrician for before and after blood tests etc so you have proof. Or else she can accuse you of kidnap legally.
ReplyDeleteThe story no let me read abeggi
ReplyDeleteWait.... you mean in this day and age when people are particular about children eating right to get all necesary nutrients, a BIOLOGICAL mother has malnourished children?? Heheheh. I dont care much and about the fact that she may not be fancy, but FOOD??? Mbanu!! Even a mad woman feeds her children well. If they were my sibligs kids i would rescue them and ask my sibling to be sending money to me. Let her live by herself, since her mother didnt do 'this or that'. Its when a child develops kwashiokor that she will be termed a good mother abi? That type of woman will even give them agbo to drink instead of taking them to hospital. Tufia!
ReplyDeleteI believe the poster, some mothers treat their kids horribly! My neighbour's wife is like this, u see her shining while her kids look unkempt. I think she has a grouse with your brother n is taking it out on the kids, let ur bro be in the know bfr you relocate the kids pls
ReplyDeleteThere are two sides to a story o. Dear poster, why don't you tell us the roles your family plays in your brother's marital affairs. From the way you wrote your chronicle; it seems your family is richer and very manipulating. I know why I said so. Your family maybe intimidating and oppressing her cos of the differences in class status.you people probably always insult/abuse her for any assistance you render to her. And selling the things gotten from you people is a way of saying 'abeg leave me alone'. Marriage does not favor everybody you know.
ReplyDeleteLet's assume this is true, let's assume you are right that the family is 'intimidating and insults her' etc. So in that dank vacuum you call a brain, it is now okay to STARVE a child in retaliation?
DeleteIt's now ok to DEPRIVE them of good clothes. It's okay to sell the clothes that were sent to them and pocket the money?
Let's not even talk about storybooks,toys,outings and treats.
That one will just be like magic in the kids eyes.
So this is the best thing for a supposed 'mother' to do to handle the supposed 'intimidation'?
Punish her children???
I see.
You're an animal. Beast. GTFOH.
Lunatics like you will boil your children in hot palm oil to get back at your husbands and inlaws and send them the parts with onion rings.
Scum!
Poster take those children to safety.
Your head dey there!
DeleteI was referring to anon 17:23 by the way by saying your head dey there. Not the empty barrel aka anon 18:09. So you can’t comment without insults, right? And how are you sure all the things you listed up there against the wife are true? If a family is already intimidating, can’t they lie to add heat? Please get lost abeg!!
DeleteThis one is a mother from the pit of hell. My children are my 1st priority in this life. Even if i have to go naked for them thats fine. At my 1st born's age, if he refuses to eat, i automatically loose appetite, how much more starving my kids and not taking care of them. God forbid!! Poster pls encourage your mothers to whisk those kids away from her asap. She'll even be happy cos it seems like they're a burden to her. Some women are just full of shit!
ReplyDelete'm telling you @nina chocomile
DeleteCan't remember when I bought clothes last for myself. My children's needs are tops.
How on earth do you as a mother ensure that your children are hungry and tattered and you are ok with it? How do you withhold money, food and clothing etc from your own child? And one slimy wall gecko up there is saying the husband's family must be 'intimidating' her so that's why she's acting this way. Really? Another one says they should pay a shop to supply groceries to the kids????
Some of you women here ehn, you are mentally unstable and I'm dead serious.
The way you comment, it's either you had terrible, traumatic childhoods, fell on your head numerous times or generally have deep spiritual problems. But all in all you are sick.
Mentally sick.
And I'm terified by the fact that you may have procreated or still have plans to procreate.
See how you pain this woman bad, this is as a result of hate from in-laws, ladies if your in-laws don't like you this is how they will paint your stories to the whole world, your family are wicked and don't like her yes, from what you narrated you people don't like her and want to get her out of the way, how can she be so sick and no money to pay bills and she will Gide her own money when her life is in danger? No woman will allow her children bath with omo instead they will use cheap soap like canoe soap, you people have involve yourself so much in that marriage that it to crash,that woman is broke and if you care alotvabout these children let someone above 15yrs old stay with them so as to cook for he kids. You want to kidnap the children because na una born them.
ReplyDeleteHow many of you blog visitors will allow your in-laws caret your children away from you, that woman is broke but no you picked in-laws decide to look for petty things and trashy things to say about her, later you wicked people will say that she is prostituting about.
ReplyDeleteDid your brother or his wife complain? Be mindful of what you intervene in, why not call a family meeting if this bothers you much and explain to her that things are not done in a stingy manner in your family - A lesson to all, know whom gettimg married to,
ReplyDeleteSound more like a waster of a wife - Giving her money but nothing to show for it. AJENIRUN IYAWO
This reminds me of my neighbour back then, he was so stingy to himself and his family. His wife left because she couldn't tolerate it anymore, unfortunately he died and the daughter couldn't believe how many millions was in his account because of the way he cries about having nothing.
ReplyDeleteLucky babe the daughter is mehn! ✌✌ She will forget his stingy days. The way my parents like good thing, I'm not even looking forward to seeing N1 in their account. They may have purcahsed new cars to drive in heaven, with whatever is left 🤣🤣
DeleteAlso my sister in law is like this, she works in a multinational company yet can't eat good food or buy good cloths. She's always complaining of hunger ( Agege bread is her only food). I haven't seen that level of stingyness . She finally got married but it didn't last, heard she locks food the husband buys, one time she hid fried chicken in the room. Marriage packed up in less than 6 months.
ReplyDeleteI'm telling you, this thing is a SICKNESS from the pit of HELL. It's IMPOSSIBLE for any one afflicted to change. As in some people are so stingy they won't even feed themselves when there is money. Forget about even giving other people, that one is impossible sef. They hoard and hoard and hoard and only dispose if the thing is completely useless or has started breeding maggots or worms. They prefer to throw away than give anybody or will give out complete rubbish and be expecting thanks. They will keep millions in their account but lai lia to drop money for good clothes or food for themselves? Impossicant. But they don't mind collecting from everywhere, even greedily taking from people who barely have enough. This thing ehn is a BIG SICKNESS!
DeleteI swear, when I see such people I run like the wind.
Waaawu! Your gist pot heavy today oh. Abeg offload more.
DeleteHide chicken? Heheheh. Oh mbom!🙆♀️
I'm so pained because of those children, people like this can never change. Please take those kids from her ASAP.
ReplyDeletePeople like this exist..... They look good while their children look wretched...
ReplyDeleteIf she is ready to listen talk to her like a sister,if she still insist she is on the right path then take the children.
This was my mother when I was growing up. The clothes my father will buy for us from overseas, she will hide and all of us will be wearing rags. Nutrition was so bad that we all had sores all over many times. It’s by God’s grace we are ok now. Some parents are not it at all. God knows my children are enjoying what I lacked as a child.
ReplyDeleteThere is a story I saw on IG now where a woman poured kerosene on her son and burnt him because he stole from their neighbor,I guess her in laws don't like her and are intimidating her too.A woman is abusing her kids in the name of training and you are making excuses for her.Women sell their wrappers to feed their kids.May my brothers not marry a bad woman from a dysfunctional home.
ReplyDeleteThis is my brothers wife behavior, she cook without salt if she forget to collect money from my bros, very stupid & foolish woman, her house is always dirty that her son got a toilet infection from a flat ooo they share with nobody, guess what we totally ignore her & her kids if she want let her kill them na she sabi, though we invite nephews and niece for weekend or holiday from time to time but I rather sleep in a hotel or church than spending night in their house before infection atagbuom?
ReplyDeleteThose whose comments are against the writer of this chronicle am so sure they fall into the category of the woman who cannot take proper care of her kids. That is why they are all so pained... May God have mercy ....
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