STAND ALONE NARATIVE
BACKSLIDING TO THE EX
Hello Stella and fellow bvs. Please no one should judge me. Am not perfect. Till you are in someone s shoes before you can understand. I have been married for about 2years now no babies yet.
I didn't date my husband for long before we got married. I love my husband but am more in love with my ex boyfriend. We dated for more than 4years but he travelled out and started sleeping with someone else and things changed so he left.
We were so close. Our bond was so strong. We even made babies together but then we werent ready. We were still in uni then. My husband loves me so much. He s such a nice and sweet person. But something s missing. Am not fulfilled. That closeness isn't there. We don't really discuss stuff. At times I don't even want him to touch me. I can't explain it though. Recently I have been chatting with my ex. He still lives abroad and we talk about stuff freely.
He s single and we are willing to work things out but we have been apart for so long. About 6yrs now. Am scared things have changed. He suggested I should just visit and see if its something we can both cope with. Am confused. What do I do? I deserve to be happy. Am scared at the same time. What if am making a mistake?
It would hurt my husband so much. Can't even bear to tell him. I just need to be happy. ....Thanks y'all
*Hmmmmm!!!!!...You cant bear to tell your husband that you want to leave him and return to your ex?if you know what is good for you SHUT UP!!!
Chai! I pity you in advance. Eni ni ori o ni fila
ReplyDeleteHaaaaaa. Poster in the name of happiness you are being selfish. Anyway you never know what you have got till it's gone. What is in your shokoto you want to find in Sokoto. Is it not longer throat that is worrying you? Learn to be an adult and take responsibility and cultivate a good home woman. The grass often looks greener at the other side. There is a reason it didn't work out with your ex the first time around. Close kor close ni, mtcheew
DeletePoster na WA for you, u get longthroat, u better face ur hubby and forget about your ex.
DeletePeople change my dear, the ex you think you are so sure of would duck the life out you and dump you. Do you think he doesn’t have someone serious in his life. Well it’s good we all learn lessons so go and learn yours
DeleteYou are in love with 2 people. I am in the same situaion. You will never fullyvlove your husband until you retry your ex and realise there is no way. If the ex is willing to have you, then break it off with hubby. What if ex is playing you. It may be loss of hubby and ex. I will say explore ex without hubby knowing. Play your game well, delete messages and call history. In my situation, loving my bf and disliking hubby. Bf makes my heart summersault the way hubby can't. I am thinking of leaving hubby for bf but bf isn't ready cos he's married too and unhappy. He is even ready to break our relationship cos he's a moralist and the situation kills him even though he loves me to bits. When we temporarily break up, my rel with hubby improves but then i keep comparing bf with hubby and miss him soooo much that i ask us to come back. I think in the end i will have to break up with hubby (we have 2 kids) to either be single or be with bf when he's ready. *Sigh* i hope i helped, but i need help myself. Am going anonymous before le hubs reads this. Lol
DeleteLater they come crying 'men are cheats'. See two examples o.
DeleteStay with hubby and enjoy ex. Leaving hubby isn't a wise decision. The sweetness with ex is in the secrecy, once you make it public things will change.
@Anon 16:18 MARK MY COMMENT That man WILL NOT LEAVE his wife for you! oh my God! I can not believe female adults do not know this, like what??!!! That man is in love with the thrill and once in a while feels guilty and wants to end the relationship. He has a wife but can not make her happy and make his marriage work but yet is sleeping with somebody else's wife?? Like what sort of moralist is that? Who does that?? Leave your husband and try being with him like his wife is, try dealing with him. I hope and pray to God that he becomes ready and both of you can leave your partners and then see how long your love and romance would last. Like what is going on, how do you people think? A married woman is sleeping with a married man that has a wife and I am positive the wife is SUFFERING and I am sure they have children but you want him to leave his family and be with you when he is ready? How is that logical? Why did you even marry in the first place if you'd not be committed? Mehn! People are sick!
DeleteWell, only someone who has never been in your situation will throw a stone at you. Some people are lucky to marry who they love and their better halves while others marry who love them or who they like. You know your heart, you know what you shared. Check yourself, what you feel for your Ex can be lust. You may still be in love with your past. You miss that youthful passion. You are changed, so is he. The relationship was sweet blc you never lived together for 6months at a stretch. It might be infatuation, obsession, lust or love. Both of you know. The moment you slept together again, your life will forever change, guilt will envelope you and you will loose your dignity as a married woman. Is there an easy way to try it out? No. But you can visit him without sleeping with him. What will you tell your husband? How can you look him in the eyes and lie to him? If you don't love him enough, free him and walk away. Don't cheat on him, don't betray his love and trust. I am not judging you because love is a MYSTERY. But love should not make one suffer, love should not be hidden. Ask yourself, what do I want? What is missing in my husband? Is it something I can ignite? Am I suffering in this marriage? Why is there no closeness? Why am I not free with my husband? Why did I marry him? What do I want from my Ex? What stands him out? You alone have the answers to these questions. Your Ex might be your soul mate. There is only one soul mate for each one, fortunate are those who married theirs. Respect your husband, follow your heart with your brain intact. If you can find peace in your husband, release him respectfully and with dignity. I might have confused you the more but many a time we love our past that we forget that our past is a point of REFERENCE not RESIDENCE. Believe me things might not be the same. You might still be in love with your past not the present. You will never know until you see your Ex again. Can you keep your legs closed? Well, you are already cheating emotionally.
DeleteIt seems an impression needs to be corrected. "Love" is not and can never be a mystery. Lust may be the mystery but not love. Love is a deliberate and conscious decision to accept a person regardless of their shortcomings whilst embracing their beauties.
Delete“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails”.
Any other definition of love is substandard, I'm sorry. By the way, where do people get a warped concept of love? I guess that will remain largely a mystery.
#Love#Peace
I am the anonymous. Thank you for pointing some things out. Let me explain, sometimes when a marriage encounters some issues, love dies sometimes and instead of trying to reignite the love, we complocate things and fall for another. However, my marriage is over 10 yrs and my husband completes the concept of family with my kids, but there is a missing hole that he doesn't fill and that is my emotional need. I can say hubby is good but he tries to manipulate and control me bcos i married young. So, i became this very emotionally needy person, have no friends and close relationship with family due to excessive control. Subsequently, fastforward to 12 yrs after marriage i became more assertive and independent and needed to enjoy freedom, i tried making female friends but i wasnt getting the satisfaction. Same time i was having struggles with hubby mainly because i was fighting for equality and independence in marriage. Everything scatter, hubby wont bend his rules, likewise i was desperate to be heard. I fell into the hands of this man who was seperated from his wife. Treated me like a queen, he was lonely, i was needy. We clicked, he had to re-unite with wify because she noticed he was distant and started begging. He went back with her cos he had a kid with her and he loved his daughter. Then the love triangle started. We break up and make up hundred times. Now we are just there trying to work eachother's narriage but we both know we are deceiving eachother. The love we share is strong, we think about eachother everytime we are apart. He doesnt tell me bcos he doesnt want to break my marriage cos of him. Its really difficult anyway, i dont wish it on my enemy. If you can avoid the situation, its way better cos its an emotional rollercoaster. You lose weight, lose the will to live sef. It's love and its painful
DeleteAnon16.18 I pity you in advance. Your village people have finally suceeded. You want to break up your family for men that are feeble. Are you thinking straight. There are two kids involved her who deserve the everyday love of both parents under the same roof. You havnt said your hubby abuses you,you havnt said he doesn't provide,you havnt said he sleeps with anything in skirt.
DeleteYet you want to make your kids fatherless for pure lust. Iv seen it play out before. You leave your hubby and that your side boo will begin to have cold feet that he can't leave his family.
Your hubby will find someone someone else and build a happy home and you will be all alone.
Madam stop playing with fire. You are feeling butterflys because you and this man aren't living together he is something exciting than your hubby you see daily.
Why don't you take off work and from kids. Travel somewhere with your hubby and rediscover the love you once shared.
Don't use your hand to scatter your kids life abeg. Such things affect kids and they grow up hating you cos you left their dad for someone else.
Look At this mumu leave your husband oooo and follow ya Ex-boyfriend you hear, some women are just ingrate you have a caring and loving husband and you are thinking of your lost EX...wish you well Nne..
DeleteAshawo olobo fife
ReplyDeleteYou dey mind this useless woman. I want to see you lose out and become miserable in life.
Delete"We even made babies together but then we werent ready"
DeletePoster what DOES that mean?
That she committed abortions in the past with her ex
DeleteKikikikikiki. Poster congrats on happiness. But that SHUT UP in red loud gan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeletePosyet, did you say you even made babies together? As in, yiucagd your ex have kids together?
DeleteOlosho
ReplyDeleteYou want to eat your cake and have it
ReplyDeleteYour village people just located your address. Your ex is your ex. Focus on your new home. What is wrong with you. Oh!! Your village people.
ReplyDeleteGod normally let your ex return to you to test how stupid you can be.
ReplyDeletehe wanna fuck u, a married woman, I wish u go, I wish he hogties you n make ur insides raw. You think he won't cheat on u again? Lol..
Ur mumu is unparallel..right now if ur husband cheats on you, I would spur him on...hehehehehe
I'm not sure she saw the picture of that woman that was circulating recently.
DeleteComplete it like this,
ReplyDelete"we have made babies together . . ."
"We have killed babies together . . ."
What next:
"Repent together of murder . .."
Hmm why are you looking for problem where there is none,your ex will use you and dump you again, by the time you realise it, you end up loosing on both sides. You shouldn't have married your husband in the first place if you feel you aren't close like you want. But you can work it out, your husband is sweet and loving and there is a reason you married him and not your ex, you can bring up discussion, go out more often and take your mind off your ex, who told your ex isn't married or has a fiancee, he will just destroy your life and marriage. If your ex is a good man, he would have advised you to work it out with your husband. Kindly thread carefully ooo before you end up miserable and come and be blaming your village people ooo. My two cents
ReplyDeletewho told you she has no problem? will she be writing this if theres no problem?
DeleteI had this problem some years back, I dated a guy for 5yrs, it was serious and we were in love, then suddenly i felt something in me change, i became more outgoing cus of my job and he started suspecting me and fighting, but i wasnt cheating sha, then i decided to take a break from him, i still loved him sha but not as before... i started getting close to this new guy, he was sweet and spoiling me with gifts, but i knew i couldnt marry him, at a point i started missing my ex so bad, i ran back begging and we made up... so theres a bond we shared that wasnt easily broken, ppl will only try but ur heart will return, dont marry anyone until ure 100percnt sure u wont run back like i did
did you get married? My friend shut up
Delete@anon16:01 she got married and you did not so how can she be going back and forth this marriage of a thing is like a stupid game to some people later someone will be shouting am not married I need a wife I need a husband. shebi una see now she just woke up one day and said I want my ex back. When another woman shows your husband what he's missing you will learn lesson.
DeleteYou have a husband that loves you and you're thinking of Leaving him to rekindle your relationship with your Ex. Madam are you alright at all? What makes you think he won't cheat on you again. I just can't deal
ReplyDeletewont the husband cheat?
Deleteyou people keep seeing marriage as a do or die affair.... shes not happy day in day out.... allow her do her thing jo, happiness is paramount.
Instead of torturing herself n the poor husband, she should leave
Na TELENOVELA dey worry dem.
DeleteI am a woman and I am very disgusted. You are the type of women that give us the great women bad names. Abeg divorce your husband so a better woman can appreciate him
ReplyDeleteAbi o my sister, someone out there is ready to mingle with him.
DeleteMadam no need for chronicles, please follow your heart.Your husband deserves better. And your happiness matters to you.
You don't have sense
ReplyDeleteThat guy is going to sleep with you, dump you and marry another. When it happens, you will realise your husband is the best thing that has happened to you by then a more deserving woman must have married your husband.
If you don't want to be judged then keep your information to yourself. Don't tell us how to react.
Anu mpama
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I'm not judging you if I actually tell you the truth, am I? Unfortunately, the truth is that you're absolutely pathetic without any atom of discipline. I mean; who decides to leave their marriage because they just feel that they're having some issues, of which they've not explored avenues of solving?
ReplyDeleteTo make matters worse, you're running off to someone you know already has a very bad record with self discipline.
The truth is bitter but like many effective oral medications, it is usually what many of us need.
#Love#Peace
Well said...
DeleteThey deserve each other sef.
DeleteAnother good one from you Monsieur. Thanks for this.
DeleteU don't love your husband then why do you marry him.because you want to answer Mrs.i Wonder how do some women marry someone you don't love just to answer mrs. marriage is a lifetime commitment not boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
ReplyDeleteHmm.... The game of love & relationships can be easily so entangled, just like arranging a Rubix cube, but thats intelligence & emotional entanglement is someshit diffrent.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is just a lucky rebound, this is the reason rebound love dont exceed 6months cus youre emotional still invested in your previous long term relationship, no matter how good & loving ur husband is, if he likes he should bring u breakfast in bed daily and open car doors for you, you'd think more about your ex thats bitchy n rude, its our dumb heart at work 247, thats why they say "follow ur heart" but take ur head along with it.... You poster followed ur head and ur heart is abroad, i feel so sorry 4ur husband, i can only imagine him smiling sheepishly on the wedding day that hes found a wife!
This feeling will never go away, you cant pray or start being romantic & it'd bring in sparks & butterflies, No! I cant advice u to exit ur marriage, u took a vow young lady. Lie on the bed you made, the grass is not always greener on the other side.
Lol a total sign of village people drinking kai kai with your brain....i pity u sha
ReplyDeletethem don drink finish keep cup sef
DeleteWe women are specialist in telling incomplete stories and trying to bury conscience
ReplyDeleteSee as she told us that they "made babies together" (number of babies not stated)
But she will not "woman up" to tell us the fate of those babies; the number of murders
they have committed and of course she pulled the trigger!
Now; who is
running around for babies?
Who is complaining of being unhappy?
Whose womb have scattered?
Who wants to abandon her husband?
Who is writing chronicles?
Who is going to receive all the bashing on this post?
You see when we ladies flaut/disobey God's laws by desecrating our
bodies and converting it to slaughter house for babies, we think that
God is the one that suffers? Yes, it pains him in his heart but we bear
the brunt. Look for this God you perhaps abandoned his ways long ago!
Anon 15.22 don’t you think it’s time to cure this your madness?
Delete15.22 couldn't have said it better.
Deleteposter our people said that
ReplyDeleteonwu ga egbu Nwa nkita bia, omechie ya imi ka ohara inu isi nsi.
find some for interpretation if you are not Igbo.
that mumu love wey dey shake you gan, go meet your ex, he will fuck you and show you his true colour and before you will be back to your husband for apology he will be happily married to a good woman, by then that yeye feelings will clear for your eyes .
onuku odeko.
just know that na ife onye nzuzu mere onwe ya ka nke omere mmadu.
efulefu.
Are you minding the fish brain??!
DeleteIf I am your brother, I would have given you a very hot slap for your senses to be back. Did you said you are confused? It is the devil playing a fast one on you. Do you know what your ex is doing over there? How are you sure he will wife you when you leave your husband? I put it to you that maybe the thought of oversea is what is giving you that thought. I hate women who think this way. From your statement there is no record of domestic violence from your husband but rather your greed for materialism and sexual fantasy is about ruining your home. You better run away from the devil now before you lose it all.
ReplyDeleteDid you said?. SiC...kwaaaaaaa I'll stop here and allow sic anon to do his job
DeleteYea, nobody should judge her o
ReplyDeleteMake una gather conduct clapping orchestra for her!
Kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa . .. kwa!
Why una no wan clap for persin wey butcher her babies and
wan dump her husband whom she married with korkoro eyes.
And wan retun to ex wey abandon her to fork other holes?
Clap my piple!
LMAO!! I am so so so so sorry for you!! Gadddammitt!! You are about to fall into a self made hell. Good luck. PLEASE LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND NOW! Leave him now before you both have a child together please I am begging you, divorce him! I am saying this so that he can heal and have the opportunity to start afresh with a different woman, a woman who loves him and wants a family with him. Hopefully he would not change and still be great with her but please leave him and go be with your ex that slept with somebody and rubbished your relationship and stil wants a married woman to visit so he can have sex with her. Please leave your husband biko.
ReplyDeleteMadam, so you are indirectly saying your husband is the reason you can't make a baby yet? What if something is wrong with you due to numerous abortions(I'm sorry if I sound harsh, I don't mean to judge you) because you mentioned babies in your write up.
ReplyDeleteAnyway one thing is certain, your ex won't marry you but you will enjoy the vacay.
where do some men see this kind of woman and marry?
ReplyDeleteAshawo zero kobo
go nau
okwa that guy alaka gi otu as nchu oyi otu oku kezaya that you IS. he will dump your cheap whore ass and go and marry a better lady.
nwanne okwa ocha gi baaa na anya. odi gi ka film maka Chi
onwebeghi ife ifu.
Nwanne nna wayo kwa. iji ki iwe ne ihihe`a.
DeleteMarry a better lady abi the ex will marry a humble girl his village people will send for him. it is the husband that will marry a better woman with brains which will at least appreciate the man's love and care unlike one brain dead woman
DeleteI don’t even know what happend to the first comment I typed.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't date your husband for a long time, You made babies with your Ex. Look at the excuses you are giving.
Your Ex cheated on you, made you get rid of babies and you still see him as a hero.
You spent 4years on a dude that cheated on you, but can’t put in work into your 2years old marriage? Are you insunuating your hubby might have fertility issues? Have you gone for scans and tests?
Keep chatting dirty with that boy. Send nudes if you like, don’t come crying when he decides to blackmail you.
Be wise woman!!
*happened
Delete*insinuating
Don't do it. It won't end well delete all ur ex contacts and focus on your marriage, your unhappy because you keep feeding your fantasies, this ex of yours left for abroad started another relationship, it's not like u guys lost contact and now he wants to put you in the same misery as he is by pulling you away from your loving husband and your falling yakata for it.
ReplyDeleteGbammest
DeleteSome people don't have problem sha
ReplyDeleteSee as your village people turn your head to drum. See, your ex can never trust you. It is a different case if you were divorced before connecting with your ex, it would have been better. Nobody will trust a married woman/man that wants to walk out of their marriage to be with them.
ReplyDeleteAnd the ex didn't make any commitment to you, he will just use you well and dump you. That is went you will know the value of your husband.
I look forward to your next chronicle, where you will willingly judge yourself.
The thing wey prick dey cause ehnnnnn! I bet your ex prick is bigger and better cos I don't know how a woman will go ahead and say yes to a man she claims adores her and won't want him to touch her but wants someone she saw last 6 years ago. Go and see him you hear would love to read your next chronicles on how the grass is not always greener on the other side.
ReplyDeletewho told u bigger prick de sweet every woman? me like average size oh, and penetration dont make me cum, na romance n licking
DeleteHahahahaha.
DeleteWoman you don't know what you have till you lose it. It is a pity you don't value the diamond that you have.
ReplyDeleteMany women are crying to have a good man as husband, you are here taking your husband's love for granted.When you finish playing naijabet with your marriage,your eyes will become open as Eve.
ReplyDeleteSadly, that's the irony of life. The ones who have no husband are praying for a good man, (even when their biological clock don tick pass). Maybe she hasn't met a woman with a Yoruba demon to hear her sad tales. She has a good man and she is playing naijabet with him. God is about to expose her.
Deleteyour husband is even a nice man and you are planing to cheat on him. if it is the other way round you will be cussing him out while writing your chronicle.
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure you belong to the club of "All Men Cheat" and "Men Are Scum"
you see you "hoe" life outside you ungrateful ingrate olosi.
you are telling us not to judge you because wear are not wearing the shoe. which human being in his/her right sense will wear that your sinful shoe?
i will judge you because you are a disgrace to womanhood .
Lol @ Stella's shut up. Go and follow your ex na sebi you want to be happy. Oshisco!
ReplyDeletePoster let me pretend as if I did not read this your chronicle by reserving my comment, because if I write wetin dey my mind now you go get heart attack.
ReplyDeletelet me not comment anything and read other comments.
Hahahaha after you don scatter her finish. Menh it was so disgusting.
DeleteDon’t expect people not to judge you when you bring your issues here ma’am, Especially a really pathetic one like this.
ReplyDeleteI seriously feel bad for your husband. Your ex will give you another X to look for, na there your eyes go neat.
Rushing to get married, now you are crying wolf. Please sit and learn to love your husband and also learn to forget about your ex. If he knows you married and still willing to work things out with you(that’s disgusting by the way) isn’t that enough red flag for you? Common girl.
OMG OMG OMG this chronicle stinks. I started getting irritated from your first line, "don't judge me". Your chronicle just spoilt my day. You want to leave a man that you admit loves you for someone you are not sure of because you think the grass is greener on the other side? I judge you poster, u are a terrible person and you stink!
DeleteMark my words, that ex of yours will gift you an untreatable STI (herpes etc) or even HIV, cos that's what your type of person gets when they don't learn to be content with God's grace and gift. Then you will be the loser on both ends. Someone who left you for 6 whole years and never looked back, then all of a sudden pops up to confuse you. Some women are just so dumb! Gosh!
DeleteSADLY, ALL OUR ADVICE WOULD ALWAYS FALL ON DEAF EARS, COS YOUR MIND IS MADE UP, YOU ARE JUST SCHEMING ON HOW TO LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND ALREADY. CHEERS TO YOUR NEW LIFE GIRL!
This one shouting herpes up and down all the posts. Idiot... I am sure you have herpes. If you get cold sore on your lips, you have herpes. Genital herpes is the same as cold sores on your lips just in a different location. Herpes does not kill you. It’s just an annoyance. I have herpes and it’s not a big deal to me. Just shut the fuck up and stop talking so ignorantly.
DeleteJesus Christ. Are you alright?
ReplyDeleteUseless woman, you're indulging in extra marital affairs but you think you have the right because you want to be happy. I pray you lose on both sides. Greedy long thrust bitch.
ReplyDeleteI have said many times, married women who go on vacation without their spouses do so to hookup with exes and boyfriends.
ReplyDeleteNa your type dey scatter people home.stop making a general statement.
DeleteConfused being
ReplyDeleteDear poster your happiness matters and that of your husband too. My advice to you is follow your heart and happiness. Leave your husband and do what makes you happy. This life is about making our selves happy. And note by leaving your husband this early you are helping him even doe he would be sad for some time he would definitely overcome and hopefully he gets someone who he deserves someone who will be happy with him and someone who will love him equally and endlessly. Poster please do as your heart directs you, you are indeed a good person and not a selfish person. Just set your husband free.
ReplyDeleteSorry bro, I can't help but to comment here. Your advice reeks of selfishness already. What about the happiness of people around you, especially for a married woman? Then why did she take her marital vows? Anyways, it's your opinion and your entitled to it too. But we should be considerate in choosing how happy we wanna be, that way we leave a lasting impression in people's lives too. Let's learn to make life a better place to live for everyone, especially when it comes to relationships.
DeleteNick is right, instead of her to stay n cheat or make life miserable for her husband, let her go n follow her true love, d man wikk be hurt but he will move on. Men abandon their wives with kids everyday not minding who will be hurt, so poster can Go n save her husband d stress. Gbam.
DeleteThanks Nick Diogu. Your response shows maturity and evidently, views of somebody who is educated and exposed. People, going to school alone does not make you educated o. It takes more than a useless certificate. Unfortunately, in Nigeria, marriage is seen as an achievement and to leave a marriage no matter how bad is seen as a failure. This is why people stay and die in bad marriages. If you are unhappy, my take is like yours - leave. Set yourself free and set your partner free to find love too. I don't get why Nigerians feel the need to stay and be unhappy when YOLO? Never mind about those who may cuss you out, they are a product of their environment.
DeleteI think u sent this chronicle knowing very well we will judge u. You are a very bad and selfish woman. How can u want to hurt a man who u claim is good to u? Kai women I fear who no fear una aswear. Don't worry u see that happiness ehn you will get if u go back to ur ex but i assure u it won't last. U will end up losing on both ends. Stupid woman
ReplyDeleteReceive mighty sense @ Poster
ReplyDeleteMay sense fall on you
You can go and check on your ex without breaking up your marriage with your husband,i bet you it won't work for even one month, you will run back to your husband. Try and see, your ex that has moved on for long but just want to prove a point that you cannot do without him and he will so play with your punani.
ReplyDeleteKai, woman you don't have conscience. I pity you for the worst mistake you are about to make.
ReplyDeleteIf you are bent on being with your ex, go and check him out. I bet you will come back appreciating your husband. Go try out and see but don’t leave your husband yet.
ReplyDeleteThink well before you throw away what you had at hand, men are useless, your ex could dope you after you divorce your husband, why didn't he married you, he may constantly remind you of your failed marriage, take off your mind from your ex and concentrate on your marriage
ReplyDeleteTextbook case of 'when wetin you wan chop no go gree you get sense'.
ReplyDelete...������ anywhere demons are gathered , Holy Ghost fire pursue them
Anywhere demons are gathered , Holy Ghost fire pursue them
I say anywhere demons are gathered Holy Ghost fire pursue themmmmmmm��������
I call on you Jehovah Jireh, to drag this woman out from the mouth of the tiger, Amen. Illuminate her brain o! Lord that she may use it like a normal human being. Banish dark thoughts from her mind that will only call forth eternal disgrace, shame and embarrassment.
Amen.
Father that in the end, she will testify of your goodness now and evermore. Amen.
Amen oooooo
DeleteYou women are just something! Always downplaying issues or play the victim. See how you are looking for every excuse and reason where there is none to leave your husband, and be with your ex. Honestly, you don't deserve the blessings you have, neither do you deserve that good husband of yours and I put it to you that karma is about to visit you, the moment you make the wrong mistake. I'm sure you haven't told your husband your past, how you murdered tons of babies with that ex of yours, hence, why you can't conceive and also the stupid feeling you have redeveloped for your ex. Which means you never saw your past as a mistake and an experience to build your future. Have you ever tried having an open heart towards your husband, loving him for who he is and not comparing him with your ex. Work you marriage woman! You just wanna destroy yourself. Kwantinu!
ReplyDeleteGo for the vacation so that your eyes can clear up. Hope you won't feel guilty when the man is doing His 5 minutes thing? Have you asked yourself why the guy is still not married? You think he is still the same person eh,go and try.
ReplyDeleteEven though I'm not married, when my ex came around after so many years apart, nobody adviced me to run 40-40.
This woman, you really do not know men. You made babies, he cheated and thays were your happiness lies. Go ahead sweetheart but do accept what will come after.
ReplyDeleteWhy are u even dignifying this nonsense write up with replies? She said we shouldn't judge her from the get go, left to me alone, nobody should have giving her any reply.
ReplyDeleteIf u are waiting for my comment on your issue, u go wait tire, I don't have time for rascals.
Enter your comment...stay awY from tha ex please,whatever you do
ReplyDeletehahahaha Stella's comment got me laughing. You said we shouldn't judge you? just get ready for all the bashing you will receive here. lol... we all deserve to be happy. but you shouldn't have married your husband if you don't love him enough na. see where it has landed you. sorry ehn... isswell
ReplyDeleteI bet you will pay for the trip and I sort of have an idea how it will go. At first it would be fun normal routine sex and all then towards the end of your vacation, little fights will start then honey boy will tell you to go back to hubby that it won't work. I won't advice you to stay with your husband. Leave him if you are convinced you don't want to be in the marriage but that rendezvous with your ex will be dead on arrival.
ReplyDeleteWomen will never seize to amaze me. Why did you get married to someone you don't love and you don't have feelings for. Why do you want to make the poor guy suffer. If you don't love him again, tell him and move on already. He doses not have to suffer for your insecurity. Go and meet your ex, if you're so comfortable with him.
ReplyDeleteThe FIN members are waiting to advise you appropriately
U people are bothering urself...them no dey advice person wey dey in love
ReplyDeleteA man who will have no qualms sleeping with a married woman will have no qualms sleeping with someone else when you are married to him. What did I just say sef? Didn't you say he slept with someone else and that's why you broke up? The bond you shared then was not string enough to overcome his sleeping with someone else? Now you have someone who loves you you want to go back? I think the ex is who you deserve. Leave your husband. Who knows why you haven't had babies yet is because of the babies you've killed for your ex. That's the person who deserves you. Very selfish self serving woman. Happiness eh? Please go and taste your ex again. And I pray your husband finds out. So that you can release him for a good woman out there who deserves him. Please go and search for your happiness. No one is stopping you. You deserve to find that happiness you are looking for. Long hiss....
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious many of you on this blog do not fear God. Those of you advising her to go and check out the ex and then come back to hubby are out of your senses. Don't listen to that ungodly advice. That is adultery. Poster you better not try that or you won't come back from that trip alive. That's a trap Satan had set for you and is patiently waiting for you to fall into.. . You are very foolish to be honest and you lack self-respect and boundaries imagine chatting endlessly with a foolish ex while you're married, it's obvious you don't understand the sanctity of marriage nor your place in it. A man who cheated on you, dumped you and moved on and is now encouraging you to commit adultery with him, that is the person you're dying for. You're really psychologically bereft. I pity you but I pity your poor husband the most. He made the greatest mistake of his life by marrying you. Why didn't the foolish ex come back to marry you? That fool does not and will never love you nor respect you because you don't even love nor respect yourself. He is an immoral, ungodly man and you are too for desiring him. Continue on this broad path that you're walking on and we'll see how you end up. If you don't know, I know and I can confidently tell you it won't be what you like.
ReplyDeletePoster, have u sincerely gone to God in prayer and asked him to help u see in ur husband all those things turning head in another man? Try it. Keep going at it and leave Him to work in ur life.
ReplyDeleteA man that knows you are married and want to sleep with him will never marry you. How come after such a long time you do not even realise you were his sex buddy.your punani is sweet and thats all that matters to him.theres no happiness anywhere if not he would have wifed you in the first place. Your hubby is your true love that's why he wifed you.don't be decieved twice. Most ex's like to come back cos old wine is always sweeter.if you fall you be the biggest mugu forever don't allow Satan Scatter your happy home darling.most times they might not be happy in thier present relationship and realised you were the best of them all and men don't like to loose anything,they will do anything for thier own happiness. Babes shine your eye and thank me later.
ReplyDeleteI would like to share with you something that I discovered few months ago that saved my life in relation to herpes forever I had (that's right, I no longer have) herpes, and when the wounds arose it was total terror. Believe me, I even suffered from depression.
ReplyDeleteI went to several doctors and specialists to try to solve this terrible disease, but the answers were always the same: IT HAS NO CURE. The best a pomadinha that improves just a little, joking!
I was bothered by the doctors who always responded the same thing and went in search of a solution. I thought to myself: It is not possible that there is no solution in the world for Herpes. It was then that I saw comment on how Dr Ohikhobo was helping people cure the diseases so I decided to give him a try so I email him on drohikhoboherbalcenter@gmail.com I was called by Dr Ohikhobo to confirm if I really wanted the cure few days later the cure was sent to me Dr Ohikhobo directed me on how to take the cure and he asked me to take it for two weeks after which I would go for a test to confirm if I still had herpes or not I was surprised when the same doctor who told me that herpes as no cure confirmed it to me that I was cured from herpes .
That's how I got cured of herpes and I would like to share with you this incredible change in my life. I believe it will help you too.
I do not know if the moderator of the forum accepts Email here, but I will leave below the email and whatsap number of Dr Ohikhobo.
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