Tuesday, June 12, 2018
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That life is not that serious....
ReplyDeleteThat u should obey your instinct
DeleteTrust no one and don't be quick to take decision that will not favour both parties..
DeleteNever trust anyone and do not put all your eggs in one basket
DeleteAll that glitters is not gold. Trust God and allow him order the steps of your life.
DeleteHe used to sleep in church. Can donate his whole salary for church work. Talked a good game. Lived in ikoyi worked in an oil and gas company. Treated me like a queen. Was everything any woman would die for.
But when he proposed and I prayed. God said "NO" "why?" I asked -I mean!😳. But then he said allow me order the steps of your life. I let go and allowed him take control.
Broke off the relationship without any backup. Hubby came into my life 2months later. This time I prayed n got the go ahead. 6months we were married and I couldn't have asked for more. Recently I met one of My friends from those days, was a member of our church too.... she gave me gist how ex was disgraced by pastor as he was discovered to be sleeping with not one but upto 5members...from choristers, to ushers to even new converts. My ears were filled. That's how I would ended up with "awon wondering d**k"
Not to settle for mama's boys oh
DeleteTrust my instinct and don't give a damn on what people
Deletewill say.
don't do it because everyone you know are into it.your own time will come.
And most importantly refuse to be pressured
Never to put trust in anyone
ReplyDeleteTrust no one
ReplyDeleteTrust no one, do not help any man to grow, don't be to quiet and tolerant.
DeleteI'm so in love with someone I met in d previous snm. It's so real and I can't get him off my head. How would I know if he feels same way? we haven't met but he's everything I want in a man. I want to be his only. I'm so in love with him. How do I know if he feels same way? what if he's pretending? house lecture please.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel pls come n carry your sis..ndi uburu as I!
DeleteMeet him first. From his reaction you will know if he loves you or not. But please do not go to his house. Meet him in a public place. I also met someone in this last snm but I don't know if I will date him
DeleteIt taught me to always look before I leap. It also taught me not to love wholeheartedly...Love is 50-50.
ReplyDeleteMine thought me that all men are cheather,all men aŕe liars, all men like big ikebe and big Bobby,men are like babies,men men oh men!!!
ReplyDeleteNaim b say u nor kuku learn anything.
DeleteWhether them be "cheather" sic
Deleteor cheetahs, them rape you,
no be you open tohtoh for them?
You suppose tell us say you learnt not to
dey open tohtoh for men when them never pay
ya bride price.
Sure say you are not the CHEATER?
No b only "cheather" Even lions any tigers😂... choi men have suffered
DeleteIkwakwakwakwawwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa
DeleteOga 'sic' kuku kee mee
Never to make hasty decisions
ReplyDeleteTake every promise with a pinch if salt until its is fulfilled....
ReplyDeleteIf u like sing hosanna from today till tomorrow, until u fulfil ur promise, I will remain in my shell, meanwhile na only me know say I dey shell, but I will give u d impression that I believe...
Yimu
"Its is fulfilled?" sic
DeleteI take this your grammar with a "bag" of salt
Until IT IS clear that you do not like those men to
tell you lies; the things you love to hear, I give up.
Stella can u pls do a post on waist bead, anklet and nose ring cos some people have some bigot opinion about it and dey tend to stereotype u when u are wearing it...Thank you
DeleteAre you for real?
DeleteAre you for real? Did you even read what she wrote that you’re correcting her?
DeleteAnonymous 18:55, I don't like bullies especially ones who feel they know better than those they are trying to bully. I've watched, for weeks now, how you abuse the use of the word sic all in the name of correction. Reading through the comment you're responding to, it is obvious that the error is a typo but you've refused to see that. Below is how to use the word you seem to love so much. I lifter it from the internet but it is apt. Stop being a bully.
Delete"Sic is a Latin term meaning “thus.” It is used to indicate that something incorrectly written is intentionally being left as it was in the original. Sic is usually italicized and always surrounded by brackets to indicate that it was not part of the original. Place [ sic ] right after the error.
Example: She wrote, “They made there [ sic ] beds”."
Thank you broomstick ,the Anon won't talk on this 1 oo....
Delete@broomstick
DeleteThanks for your correction.
Sorry I don't claim I know it all.
We are all learning.
English is not our mother tongue.
We are eliminating boredom here.
Don't get hypertension for nothing.
Please feel free to correct me when I am wrong.
@Broom
DeleteSo for sic sake you come go internet do research eh?
Wao, E no reach like that na.
Wetin the babe write there dey wrong.
Whether na typo or original error E no matta.
Make you chill well well
Actions make the person. Not words.
ReplyDeleteForget what a tree says it is. What does its fruit say?
Conduct your due diligence. You don't know them till you do.
Let go, if they won't respect your boundaries. LET GO FAST!
Do not ignore inconsistencies.
Be more vocal. If you don't speak up for yourself, who will?
If your spirit is restless about them, do not settle for them.
Don't give the devil a handshake, he will try to take all of you.
If being with them means being without God, let them go. LET THEM GO FAST!
...
DEAR GOD,
I thank you for delivering me from that relationship; more so, WITHOUT NOTICE. I would have gone and not returned.
I thought my joy had been lost forever; but no, YOU are my joy. And you exist from everlasting to everlasting; you are here to stay.
Thank you for your mercy. Thank you Lord.
Waoh,thank you Jesus,the ways of God are higher than our thoughts,in the end all things work together for good to them that love God and are called according to His purpose. All we be well sooner or later.
DeleteSo apt
DeleteIt taught me we all have our shortcomings and to learn to give room for human error both in ourselves and other people . It wasn't an unpleasant experience, not every past relationship must leave a sour taste .
DeleteA Girl
know when to leave...
ReplyDeleteStella I didn't learn anything. I'm easily deceived. Uburu azu things
ReplyDeleteThat much is obvious.
Delete😂😂😂😂 Tessbaby
DeleteYou are so blunt
DeleteHanhan not fair
DeleteFan oo😂😂😂... "uburu azu things"
DeleteIt's OK to be yourself.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm....a lot. It taught me how deceitful people could be. It taught me that no matter how good you are as a person, it doesn't stop people from being terrible and it is not your problem. It taught me that I wasn't immune to heartbreak after all lol. I am now sympathetic to people who go through the same. I have always known that I am a strong person but it taught me the degree of the strength I have. I never knew I was that strong. My friend said I could kill lol. It taught me that there is no such thing as being too careful. You have to look out for the slightest red flag. Mehn I learnt a lot.
ReplyDeleteIts only in our difficult situations we can truly know how strong we are, at the end of it all,we look back at it as the good old days.Lol
DeleteTrue.
DeleteNever love too much but just like d person n not too trust too much. lasty no more sex. After everything I did for him but God has fought for me up til date they don't ve issues bcos he was playing me n God .am hapoy God has fought for me.
ReplyDeleteMy dear love never hurts,if someone who claim to love you,hurts you,that ain't. So love as much as you can, that's what makes the world go round. Love is the greatest,always remember that
DeleteFirst lady thanks for dat comment but I don't love but like.
DeleteSo the sex was for him but na you wan bring down building with your moaning and shouting
DeleteThat things can change in a twinkle of an eye..... But there is always a chance for us to find and see the light.
ReplyDeleteYes yes
DeleteThat love doesn't always hold the centre. That there is a thin line between love and hate. I learnt that just this week. My fiancee and I were to get married next month after I got pregnant and our pastor advised us to hurry things up before I start showing. Then, the issue of our genotype came up, we are both AS. Truth is I knew, he didn't know.(I blame myself for that). I already saved up for the medical selection we would need to go after marriage. And because we were just perfect together, I didn't worry. But when I got pregnant suddenly before marriage, all my plans was off. We are not into premarital sex but the night it happened, was the night I got pregnant. We are unhappy initially but when the pastor said he would support us and we'd us after dowry payment, we were happy. Then I told him about the genotype thing. He was worried initially but then we started praying together. And then he decided to tell his parents and that's when the whole trouble started. My mum supported us,she even offered to pay for our test and all, but his did not. They said I need to "flush it out".
DeleteThey said I didn't tell him earlier I was AS, I told him yes, I lied on that part. I take the blame yes. Now, he has said he can't marry me anymore cos I lied to him and not because of the genotype. I've carried my cross and said okay. So my lesson. If there's anytjing at all that you think might not make your relationship work, say it all out in the beginning. If they want to leave you, let them leave, if they would stay, make sure they mean it. And if your made a mistake in your relationship, own up to it. Live... Live... My heart is broken at the moment as I'm also pregnant with a child nobody wants. I know I've learnt my lesson and will heal.
That's what my last relationship taught me. Open up,the person who will stay will stay, don't let fear make you keep some things away.
Oooh dear!!!!
DeleteYou can't force love. Until there is an attraction love can't grow
ReplyDeleteThat's the mistake most people make,forcing themselves on someone who doesn't love them hoping one day they will come around but it never does. Love can't be forced
DeleteNever to make hasty decisions and don't think because you are nice the other party would reciprocate your niceness
ReplyDeleteExpecting the world to treat you nice because you're nice is like telling a child not to play with other children because he might get stained,that's life for you. But you continue to do good and let their conscious judge them
DeleteMore like expecting a lion not to eat you because you wont eat it
DeleteHmmmm.....
ReplyDeleteIt thought me not to rely on any man but God alone. imagine a guy I was dating, we can't go a day without seeing each other he's the kind of guy that opens the door for a lady be it car or at the restaurant very generous and romantic. The moment I had a police case and was locked up for something he knew I was innocent of this guy just went ghost on me even after my release till I had to delete all his contact cos he leaves in an estate that you can't go unannounced. That was how I just surrender my life to God knowing no one else can even love me like he does
ReplyDeleteChai,it is well,indeed no one else can love you like Christ does.All the same be grateful to God that such an incident happened so your eyes could be opened, imagine if your were to such a person, how would your life had been? The things God does for us ehn we never can tell.
DeleteWow!Sorry about that.
DeleteThat sex is on a first date is all shades of wrong.
ReplyDeleteFunkee!
DeleteConfronting a cheating man all the time makes the relationship bitter. Plan carefully. Be smart. If you are not ready to let him go, then there is no need confronting him. He will lie n change tactic.
ReplyDeleteSex can never determine how far or how well a relationship would go.. Fine boy nor mean fine heart..
ReplyDeleteSex ain't love
Deletewell, he left me for a politicians daughter and now their marriage have crash 😁 😁 and I was busy crying when he broke my heart ♥
ReplyDeleteHe told a friend that he has never been happy in the marriage. Chio!
And you happy say them marriage crash?
DeleteWhere you waka go for them, you no go say na.
No, she is not happy their marriage has crashed, she has been vindicated. A lot of times when a man leaves a woman everybody thinks it's something wrong with the woman, so she got the last laugh and is vindicated to all that nothing was ever wrong with her.
DeleteFirst impression well, doesn't always matter in the long run.
ReplyDeleteNever fall with all your heart......
ReplyDeleteBut why you dey fall at all; them put banana peel for ya way?
DeleteWhen you fall, fall with ya feet or nyansh and get up quick.
Ikwakwakwakwawwakwakwakwakwakwa
DeleteTrust God alone, human can fail.
ReplyDeleteTo always trust your very first instinct. if you were not really feeling someone the first time around, it's for a healthy reason.
ReplyDeleteThat being a faithful, God fearing, prayerful wife is not helping anyone.
ReplyDeleteU have to add bed breaking skills to that. But even at tgat a man that would cheat will still cheat.
DeleteNever rely on human beings, only God can not disappoint you
ReplyDeleteNever marry anyone out of pity
Never sponsor anyone's education if you're not there parent, especially at the expense of your own progress
People change once their situation changes
Nobody truly loves you like your mom, some are just situational lovers
People respect the money not the person.
to look beyond the surface. An handsome exterior might be hiding rot inside.
ReplyDeleteHow difficult it is to leave.
ReplyDeleteThe longer the relationship, the harder it seems to be for people to gather up the courage. We start judging ourselves based on the length of the relationship - how much time and effort and love we've put into it. It's so dangerous to start thinking in terms of "but I put x years into this" and so, so difficult to give up that time. For me, the final straw came when I realized that every day I stayed was taking a day off my future.
I learnt that girls wey dey open legs all get guns for them hands.
ReplyDeleteYes, guns and knives. And who them wan kill?
Babies of course; babies?!
When the brat dumps them in the dumpster, them go vent their anger
on top of the babies in their wombs and dump them in dumpsters!
Pheeeeeeeewwwwwwwww!
DeleteSo????? What should we do with your knowledge or are you also holding your own gun and knife because that’s the only way you would know what girls are doing, by participating yourself
DeleteLas Las, we are all humans.
ReplyDelete... That men are never satisfied.
ReplyDeleteIf you like give him monkey style, give him your best, their throat for women outside must draw like fresh ogbono.
Na wa..
Lolzz😢😭😂😄
DeleteBut why you dey give men when never pay ya bride price monkey style, you be monkey?
DeleteThem rape you, no be you open nyansh for your own accord?
Abeg carry nyansh sit down, close tohtoh until them pay ya bride price.
Otherwise, them go chop ya ogbono soup dey clean mouth dey waka steady!
See Mercy, if the only thing you can offer to a man is all those your "monkey style sex",
Deletewhy should the man ever marry you?
Whores are pros in styles. Inugo!
Calm your titties anonymouses . I'm legit married.
DeleteDidn't you see "give him your best" in my post. Na only the monkey style una see. Oshisco.
Never be an option.
ReplyDeleteThat I am the one in charge of my happiness. I decide whatbull shit to take and how much bullshit to give back.
ReplyDelete.....to love with my head and not my heart.
ReplyDeleteThat love isn't blind
ReplyDeleteDon't believe everything. Bigger me
ReplyDeleteNever to marry out of pity o. And always trust your instinct and be firm when saying no to a man. Some are just so stubborn. Love can never be forced so so also never allow anyone make you feel like you are the worst human on earth when you don't love them back. Love is spontaneous, if it isn't there, it isn't there.
ReplyDeleteAlways go for your taste. If there is anything you don't like in your partner's appearance or character which cannot be corrected, leave the relationship. Don't manage.
ReplyDeleteStella na that your short-man devil stingykoko Isoko brother I dey talk about. The one I always talk about. He was my last bus- stop.
The guy was too short for my liking. With my average height, I was taller than him a little and I didn't like that. He come stingy join. Ikwakwakwakwawwakwakwakwakwakwa
As a Calabar woman, we get plenty short people for my family, you know say we Calabar dey 'kuru' well well, my papa sef short well well.
Ikwakwakwakwawwakwakwakwakwakwa
I been want person wey tall pass me so that my pikin no go be like ikerengbe.
Short + short = ikerengbe.
Ikwakwakwakwawwakwakwakwakwakwa
So, I been no too like him height, I just dey manage am make he no be say I no get boyfriend. The day, him just do one small thing, na him I just dump am. Shikena.
He beg me so tey, I no gree. Short-man-devil.
*last ex*
DeleteI forgot to add that he was hot-tempered. I thought I could manage the temper like my mum has been managing but for where? D'Royalty nor like stress abeg. No management in relationship o my people
lmao
Delete🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣abeg no kill me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
DeleteHahahahahaha Royalty this your comment is the funniest I have read on this blog today. Rotf
DeleteYou this babe make you no kill me for my bobo oo, Bwhahahahahhahahaah
DeleteObey/trust your instinct
ReplyDelete#Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom*
ReplyDeleteI learnt that all men are the same on the long run.
ReplyDeleteLol no I don’t think so. Some can be extremely adorable though annoying sometimes which is human maybe while they are waiting to taste the punani that’s when they patiently bn adorable but I doubt 😂😂😭
DeleteThat’s some men are awesome users and should enter Guinness book of record, also not all that glitter is gold....forming they have the world mean while you see that you are the only one spending basically all the time, including bills they should make for both yet they will be using their mouth to tell you how much they leave a lavish life you can’t even see as you are with them, very annoying
Delete*run* fat fingers. Lol
ReplyDeleteTrust
ReplyDeleteMc pinky
Not to ever agree to be with a man not for any other reason other than love. Poverty kills a relationship faster than AIDS, to trust my instincts, marrying a man without the fear of God is the greatest mistake any woman can make, never settle for less, in appearance, in behaviour, if you do not like one who smokes and drinks, makes too much friends or dresses a certain way or men etc do not go for a partner who does. You can never be happy with such a person. If for any reason your heart says No, No it is and it is final.
ReplyDeleteNever be an option
ReplyDeleteNever be in a hurry to make decisions when you're in love. Give yourself time and you'll see clearly the bad signs you missed cos of love.
ReplyDeleteThat not all who speak “in tongues” are truly Christlike, some are “great actors” in disguise, fake and also coded monsters with weird attitude forming “I will always love you forever” Just a little section of the complete package from the lesson lol
ReplyDeleteI learnt that an older man or same age bracket to me, and preferably a white man is what I need!
ReplyDeleteI am no sugar mummy material. As the black or African people see me as an older woman who is very good looking & highly educated & successful, should automatically tolerate & accommodate a man no matter how. Or they see me as a sex object or desperate for man as companion.
I learnt I have no time to be with a broke man, stingy person or a hungry & desperate man.
I learnt I have better things to do with myself & my time & better things to look forward to.
I learnt that my child & grandchild are the only worthy things for my unconditional love, 100% attention and worthy to spend any available free time I have.
I learnt I am more beautiful & balanced & blessed the older I get every day & I should never forget that God has made me unique & very special.
GOD IS IN CONTROL.
Not all that glitters is gold.
ReplyDeleteAlways trust your instinct. Let God lead.
ReplyDeleteInside was a tightly rolled piece of paper.
ReplyDeleteThat devil still dey learn work. Nigerian men??? Smelling stinking cowardly he goats.
ReplyDeleteNever to truly fall in love, never to trust ANYONE,Never to grow with any man, make sacrifices or share dreams. I dated my ex for years, his elder sister bought my engagement ring, his parents gave their blessing physically but his mother will go behind to fight her son and me spiritually, asked for my full names, she wanted to use it for something and that was how nightmare started. If there is a God of the Fatherless that fights for His children, He should enact vengeance on my behalf. My crime was i loved their son, loved the family but after 7 years was told i am not yoruba. Why wait till when i was ready to settle down, why collect my marriage list, why the rubbish iyawo name, why eat my food, collect my gifts, why stand before God and man to say yes i will marry you, why welcome me to your church, see me worship there, allow me into your home, into your kitchen, allow me cook. Come to my house, eat my food, my pepper, salt, maggi.... My happiness is, i still have love to give, i am still the pretty,hardworking, playful, favoured child of God. I might be in the dating market again, i might be mocked for the sacrifices i made for an entire family from grandparents to parents to siblings, i dont REGRET my LABOUR OF LOVE. God created me to be a giver. Its God that is being mocked because i took it to him in prayers and got a confirmation. Someday the stories will be said and i will laugh last.
ReplyDeleteI just love you and your disposition. Don't worry all will end well. God is a God of many chances. You will experience true love again.
DeleteI love your spirit.
DeleteYou’re strong and kind-hearted,God in Heaven will elevate you and you will meet the man you deserve.
I learnt that love is like ponytail.You can't force it!
ReplyDelete