TUESDAY IHN

Hello Tuesday!!!......

Hope everyone is OK?...I saw a very very disturbing Chronicle posted in the comment section and i have taken it off,will post it tomorrow..OMG!!!....Please all others who sent in theirs should be patient,this one is too shocking!....Spoilt my mood.

TTC BABY COVERS IN HOUSE NEWS

Good day Stella. I want you to use my baby picture as the face of ihn, my ttc testimony is either no 62/63 but am the woman that has 14 and 9 year old children respectively and trusting God for the third baby but God answered and gave me this lovely girl. she was one on 16th April. 


This my testimony is over due but na phone wahala make me never give am. My baby came at 7 months and 2 weeks. But faithful God saw us through. For all those trusting God do not lose hope God is still in the business of doing miracles. Though we all see Miracle of bbn, don't worry He will show up. 

Stella God bless you. 


She is sooooooooooooooooo cute...na wah oh,person don old,TTC babies will soon become Blog visitors oh...hahahahhaha

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IT PAYS TO BE HONEST

Stella good morning. Trust you're good.

Just wanted to share something with that has made me believe it pays to be honest really. 

On Saturday, I went out for a wedding. I boarded a tricycle. (Keke) I brought out #500 to give the driver on alighting, he said I should hold on. With the rush and all, the driver gave me #300 thinking I had given him my #500. I was confused myself. 

I took some steps away. I checked my purse, I saw the #500. I quickly went to the driver and told him he gave me change without me giving him his money. He was so thankful and prayed for me sef. Lol.

We had a house guest yesterday and he left this money. Stella, this man gifted me 10k in my Hubby's presence.  Me that was down to nothing as at early this morning. Its just like a dream because this same person has never gifted me money.

I'm just so happy and thankful to God.


LOL:please send my share oooh



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Being An Emphath

So I read the IHG scary comment of a bv who said she was always sad and depressed in the house she lived till she realised she was living near a mental home and quickly moved out. Another bv commented that she was an emphath who absorbed other people's energy.


 I quickly googled it up and I was everything listed there except that I hate animals around me (no apologies). I never knew that was the term that described me completely. I can't stand people suffering, in pain and in great need.I'll give an example, in church when they are praying for women ttc I'll just be crying and begging God to do for them as He did for me. 



I'll even take it far by telling God to take my reproductive parts and give to them if that's what is causing delay,all I ask is that he preserves the ones He has given me. Even when I read chronicles on SDK especially about women in abusive relationships and how they are battered. I get so angry on their behalf and I see myself tranferring the aggression to my husband. I snap at any little offence but I soon realise I'm taking things out of hand so I caution myself. When I listen to some songs I have goose bumps all over my body, sometimes I shed tears while watching emotional movies.


I keep wondering why people intentionally practise evil and wickedness and why can't we all make up our minds to be good so as to make the world a better place.I enjoy solitude a lot and I don't keep friends,even in my neighbourhood the only thing we exchange is greetings,I'm sure most people think I'm anti-social or a proud person. And to think that most times,I'm a good judge of people's character at first encounter. 

I want to know if being a melancholic by temperament can make it worse or each have nothing to do with each other.

twinssquaredjj





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DREAM MEANINGS


I don't usually do this but i feel there's something, a message for me in these two strange dreams i had last night. Kindly keep me anonymous.


In the first dream, three Fulani men brought their cows to my home and the cows were all over the house, i didn't complain, i just patiently allowed them. Meanwhile the men were aggressive and speaking hausa, shouting with daggers and all but i remained calm and was even telling them "Yakuri yakuri" (it means don't be angry in hausa".

Why i was calm, i don't know. They left with their cows without harming me or anyone. I woke up and thanked God it was a dream.

Secondly, after i slept back, i had another funny dream where armed robbers came to our compound. They were very many robbed almost everybody. They came to my flat, and took our stuff including phones. Now after they left, i left the house and was in shock. After walking about, i wanted to return back home but realised i couldn't trace my house again. I walked about for sometime until i realised i was in another street entirely and so i traced my way back home. The strange thing is i saw myself carrying a black bago bag and inside the bag were items that the robbers took from us. My phones were there too. I got back home and that was when i woke up finally.


What messages are in these dreams? Help anyone.


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The wedding gown goes for 30k. Bought new, worn once and already dried cleaned it. The wedding gown is a UK size 10-14, it comes with a veil and basket. 
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Looking for an iphone to buy


I am a regular BV and am looking at buying an iphone. If you have an iphone 6S plus or 7 for sell at a reasonable price, you must have the receipt and it should be in a very good working condition, haven't been worked on before. please contact me on this number 08158772347

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VACANCY

Please kindly help me post this on your blog.

1. Male professional large format operator is urgently needed.

Kindly send your CV to chynny4sure@gmail.com .


Abuja Residents only.

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ROOM FOR LET IN HOUSTON TEXAS

I live in Houston Texas and I have a spare bedroom for expectant mothers coming to deliver in Texas, tourist or any one that needs a place for a short time. I can be reached via email at shortlet@yahoo.com. my apartment is conducive and everything would be included in the bill. You will also have your personal bathroom and toilet

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Nuerodevelopmental disorder tutor.

I'm looking for any clients anywhere in Lagos ( island or mainland). I'm a well certified trained in Neurodevelopmental disorders, Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and Applied Behavioural Analyst (ABA). I'm looking for clients in any school that has an autistic students or children with additional needs. And also, any parents that has an additional need child that I can work with. The service can be in school or home service. I relocated from Abuja so I'm new in this lagos. I can be reached on 07033570123 or through my email ifechi589@gmail.com.

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VACANCY

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1. Marketer

Qualification - Bsc./Diploma in any relevant field

A lady to be precise, must be god looking,fluent in English and smart with a good experience in Real Estate marketing.

Kindly submit your CV via mail to labby4ever@gmail.com




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Mrs Dee's Corner

New Job and Ebola Scare

Fellow bvs please I want to see how well I can be at writing. I need your constructive criticisms and corrections where necessary. Thank you.



Middle of the year in 2014,I had just gotten married when I received a call to come start work for a job I applied when I was still single. It was a multinational organisation but the pay was no where near the reputation of the organisation. It was meagre. I decided to take it for two reasons; first, the salary was higher than what my present job paid and secondly, working there would boost my CV. 


My boss was an expartriate from one of these Asian countries and one of the conditions for employing me was that I would not be pregnant till after two years of working with them. Their reason was the other lady I was to replace was pregnant so they had to let her go despite how efficient she was because they didn't want a heavily pregnant woman manning the reception area. I had just been married for three weeks and was eagerly anticipating the next menstruation. 

I was ready to give my all at my new place of work. The first month passed and there was no sign of my menstrual flow, it had never been late before but I refused to believe I was pregnant. Who wants to be pregnant when my new job would be at stake if it happened? I just believed it was delayed and kept hoping it would finally come. By the middle of the second month, I started spotting slightly and I was joyous. I would see little blood stains on my pants and I'ld heave a sigh of relief. 


So it had finally come but the next day everything would be clear again. By the time I fell sick and was rushed to the hospital, the first thing the doctor did was to carry out a PT test and yes, your thoughts are as good as mine, I was pregnant. I was very angry and I cried uncontrollably. My husband consoled me but I refused to be consoled.

 I started begging God for the pregnancy to abort (foolish me).I didn't want any pregnancy to stand in the way of my new job. My prayers were not answered. I suffered serious morning sickness,I couldn't keep anything down not even water. I made up my mind to hide it as much as possible but morning sickness was out to expose me. My early stage of pregnancy also fell within the Ebola period and everyone was super conscious and careful especially my boss. When my boss noticed I was always vomiting and feeling dizzy as I complained,he did not suspect pregnancy,he was scared for his life as he felt I have been infected with the Ebola virus. 

He asked if I plied the Obalende route and I innocently affirmed. I never knew he asked because he felt I may have been exposed to the virus as the first recorded case happened in a private hospital on that location. He wasted no time to send me home and told me to resume after a week. I was scared for my job but I really needed the break as I never knew pregnancy would take its toll on me this way. After the break, me being infected with Ebola was ruled out but I was still vomiting. 

A senior colleague called me one day,he told me he knew I was pregnant and that I should brace up and tell our boss as it was possible he already knew but was waiting for me to clear. I summoned courage and told him i was pregnant,he was not happy but he did not sack me immediately. When I later went for scan, it showed I was pregnant with twins. By five months,I was looking like a woman who would go into labour anytime soon. 

All the beautiful clothes I bought didn't fit anymore. I started putting on gowns. I was not looking professional anymore, I looked more like a whale and to add to it I was clumsy. By the end of the year,when it was time for Christmas break,I was told not to resume work in the new year. I was deeply hurt,but I took it in stride and looked forward to the birth of my babies.



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ROOM TO RENT NEEDED IN BENIN CITY

I was recently transferred to Benin City, Edo State, I need a room self contain I can rent in Benin city,or if you have a room in your flat that you want to sublet, kindly contact me on this mail stephanieogie2014@gmail.com . It’s very urgent . Thank you

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ACCOMMODATION IN LONDON

I am looking for a 3 week accommodation close to Bow House Business centre, Bow Road, London. At a very affordable rate please. between 1st and 21st of June, 2018. I'm a married female. Kindly help a sister. Thank you. my email: smile4babygale@gmail.com

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VACANCY

Hello Stella,


My name is Chika, my company is hiring and I want you to please post on your blog so that BV’s who need the job can have an opportunity.


PATRICIA.COM.NG is currently hiring and seeks to fill the positions below with suitable and qualified persons.

JOB TITLE: ONLINE SALES REPRESENTATIVE, DIGITAL MARKETER, GRAPHICS DESIGNER AND ACCOUNTANT

LOCATION: LEKKI, LAGOS

KEY REQUIREMENTS
· Applicants MUST be resident within the Lekki/Ajah axis.
· Must be Tech Savvy
· Must possess good idea of customer service

· Must be a good team player and quite analytical in reasoning.
· Must be a HND or B.Sc. holder (not more than 28 years)

Think you can fit in? Send CV to chika@patricia.com.ng .

INTERVIEW WILL HOLD ON THE 4TH MAY 2018 BY 10am

PS: I got my first interview on this blog two years ago and will love to provide the same opportunity for someone else.

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MAN ENDS LIFE OF PREGGY WIFE:


Happy new month Mrs Stella, 

Yesterday evening a family member went to see a friend, on her way coming she met a man who told her of another man who beat up his pregnant wife to death. So my sister met another woman who in turn told her that she knows the said man. She said few years back, the man was still married to his first wife and they had three children together but the man always beat up the woman. 

This thing continued to a point the woman couldn't bear and she packed her things and left the house, leaving behind the children.

 When the man came back and find out the woman had left, he called and pleaded with her to return but she planned with her family members who asked the man to come over, they sent him a particular address and planned with tHugs to beat up him up, which they did. 

 He barely escaped and went back. After a while he met the deceased, they said he doesn't even know her family. She gave birth to her first child for him and waited for about four years before conceiving for second pregnancy. 

I learnt he is a drunkard and always beat her up until she met her untimely death yesterday. I heard they are both from Akwa Ibom State and they live in the Ajegunle area of Lagos. 

I also heard police have been informed and they stormed that vicinity yesterday, I believe they must have arrested him by now. I don't know why a man would allow the devil use him to that extreme.

 Please ladies if you are going through an abusive relationship I think the best option to do is to quit. If your Christian faith don't permit you to marry, then don't. You can quit the marriage and stay in your closet praying to God to change your husband and restore your home back. 

Remember only the living has opportunities, once you are dead, you are dead and the man in question will definitely marry another woman. Please women don't let your lives be at the mercy of one man. See, only the living can marry and once you are gone, another person will take over your home and might even maltreatment your children, please you have to be alive for your children and your family.

 It hurts me so much that the lady might have even had an opportunity to run away but decided to stay because she wants to remain married. Throughout the night I was even wondering which type of a man beat up a pregnant woman? Please mothers in the house, I encourage you to teach your sons to be responsible men in the future not just your daughters alone. I pray God gives wisdom.

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RESPONSE TO QUESTION ASKED BY SDK IN MONDAY IHN


Hello amazing Stella. How are you? This is in response to the question you asked on yesterday's IHN concerning masturbation. I won't mind if you post this so other BV can read.

We all know what masturbation is. Another name for it is 'solo s§x'.

Literally we don't find the word 'masturbation' spelt out in the Bible just like you won't find the words necrophilia, pedophilia, pornography etc in the Bible. But even without seeing these words spelt out boldly on the pages of the Scripture we know they are sinful.

This is because the Bible has a general word for them: S§XUAL IMMORALITY . 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins s§xually sins against his own body.”

1 Cor 6:9 also says, "Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the s§xually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have s§x with men." Also see Eph 5:3.

There are a whole lot of Bible passages that address s§xual immorality. You can Google it.

S§xual immorality is the “selling off” of sexual purity and involves any type of s§xual expression outside the boundaries of a biblically defined marriage relationship. Or simply put sexual immorality is when s§x is used in a way God never intended it. God created s§x for the married man and his wife. Anything outside this is sexual immorality.


Fornication, adultery, pornography, masturbation, homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, necrophilia or any form of s§xual perversion are all categorized as sexual immorality.

So it is wrong to think that 'masturbation has no biblical insight of being a sin, but the thought that precede it is usually the sin aspect of it' like someone commented yesterday. Masturbation is very well there in the Bible.

For those who say times have changed, please don't make light the Word of God. One thing that can NEVER change is God's Word. His Word is the same yesterday, today and forever. God created sex and He knows how best it should be used to yield the best results for you. When He says "Don't do this", He is merely protecting you because He loves you. But often we say, "No. It's my life, " and we end up with so much hurt and heartbreak because we refuse to live by His Word.


BV Pure Inspirations

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