Chiamaka came online few days ago to reveal that she has dumped her husband of 10 weeks for making her fall to depression all through their union.
In one of her Instagram posts, which was deleted hours after it was published, Chiamaka alleged that her husband was cheating on her with other ladies. She particularly pointed out that her husband seemed obsessed with ladies slimmer than her and after much pressure from him to lose weight, she has had enough and is willing to move on.
Chiamaka wedded her business partner, Aniefiok Ntia in January 2018.
Madam move on , abeg it's becoming childish biko
ReplyDeleteStella she got the RING OOOOOOOOOO. THE RING. THE RING. RING RING.she still said 4k society! Hahhahaaa wen women understand that there HAPPINESS IS PARAMOUNT b4 anything else in life, na then depression, sad bitter society will stop evolving. Stella she MARRYYYYYYY WITH RINGGGGGG OOOOOOOO RINGGGGGGGGGGG
DeleteAnon 15:06 Sorry oh. You Don get the RING??
DeleteNigerian women are waking up mehn!! No more allowing people to enslave them with “culture” and “tradition”. As someone said couple of days ago, marriage is not an ultimate achievement, neither are STDs. My people are starting to realize...... hmmm
DeleteBeloved for where? After almost losing my life from depression ? Untop ring???? I chose wisely, got a baby out3months old and am living happily. Ring is not for everyone, if u have d ring but dying in silence, nwanne is not worth it. The Ring The Ring all I want is d Ring. Hahhahahahha, some women b dying until ring.
DeleteLol anon
DeleteThe lady is obviously going through First Class depression if there's anything like that. She needs to be monitored and counselled.
DeleteNa wah oooo, with all she's written she's definitely unstable and loosing it. She must have been through a lot and needs people around her
Anony 20:35...You are so right. Chiamaka is obviously depressed. This is beyond fatness and lack of love or whatever. It is deeper than we know. This vent is from a place of fear,anger and shame. She's battling the 13 Demonic Strongholds. Her family better swing into action.
DeleteDated for 5 years,got married and it crashes after 10weeks? Mbanu. The foundation is faulty or principalities and power is in place.
Oh. I feel like crying. Aniefok why?
See the reason some prayer points are necessary before and after marriage:
..Every strongman in my father's Stronghold, holding onto my destiny, what are you waiting for? D..
Total mental break
DeleteNo common sense, What gives her the gurantee that the next man will be faithful...
ReplyDeleteFUCK YOU
DeleteDid she talk about the next man?
DeleteDem go dey alright
ReplyDeleteWhat's all this ?? So uncouth for a lady to just be posting things like this please lady calm down....
ReplyDeletepeople need diaries because guess what social media doesn't care!!!!!
Tanzanite its called depression! She is letting it all out.
DeleteMy dear shes venting out. Will it be better if she commits suicide and same ppl will say RIP.
DeleteThis is her own way of dealing with the pain.
Some men can drive a woman mad.
I know one woman while growing up in my area. Her husband left her,till she died that woman wasn't normal.
She moved back in with her mother while the hubby took the kids and re-married.
She wasn't normal till her death. If it was now she would have been atleast been diagnosed and treated for mental disorder.
All the kids in the area use to avoid her.
It is well
So someone can't vent in peace again??
Delete1 follow her and it's really sad that things have come to this. Used to be of the opionion that they were great together. She even celebrated his birthday just some days ago. Marriage is so messed up these days. For her to have come undone this way, he must have done really done her in. Na wah o. Why marry someone entirely different if you are attracted to slim girls? Kilo n shele gangan?
ReplyDeletePlease it's not marriage it's the people
DeleteI can imagine scared of eating in front of d guy,
DeleteYou want a slim babe why didn't u go for them
Marriage now is a joke they dated for 5years,and it took her 10wks after marriage to rant like this. Or she thought after marriage it will be better ? My marriage will be fruitful, peaceful n graceful devil the day I'm finally married you won't destroy it oh that why I'm taking my time
ReplyDelete@14;47 u follow dey shout ring for Chioma and David post. Pls GTFO
DeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteAmen to your prayer.
DeleteTomorrow she'll say love conquers all and then forgive him... we know them by their rant..
ReplyDeleteAre you a progress...she has posted #lovewins. It is well with marriages
Delete10 weeks, you dump him and still ranting, posting and deleting? Yet someone bought a Porsche for her gal after 5years of standing by after 2babymamas, different strokes for different folks, Madam tourist, stay humble, sit down make we hear word
ReplyDeleteLol...porche no De die...that igbo girl will cut those babymamas..annie second
DeleteSo to you, Porsche is an ultimate achievement. What happened to happiness, peace of mind and sound mental health? When she can buy herself the Porsche anyways. It’s not your fault, I blame the Nigerian government that has turned an average Nigerian’s outlook on things to mush. Once they see it hear money, they can’t see past that. May God help our country
DeleteIt's a pity. This is another case of the "mental enslavement" prevalent in today's society, perpetrated by the media.
ReplyDeleteThe man was never the problem in her supposed marriage, though now crashed, but her. She was evidently misguided and is now reaping the fruit of her misguidance.
People are always looking for whom to blame when they find that they're having some bad experiences, that's why they never learn. One learns by first recognizing, then admitting that whatever experiences they are having is the fault of none other but theirs.
#Love#Peace
Truth.
DeleteSo the man cheating is not the problem?
DeleteYes marriage is not by force... and you did well for taking the bold atep but it's obvious you need help.
ReplyDeleteShe is hurting badly , it’s not about being childish. In this social media age , when you are angry, ecstatic, any extreme emotion just stay off social media .
ReplyDeleteDated 5 years and broke up after 10 weeks of marriage? wow.
ReplyDeleteme that met my dear husband after we had fixed the date for our traditional wedding. Proposed to me 5 days after we met online. 6 years later, we are still so in love and he cherishes me as if there is no tomorrow. This is to tell you it's not how long but how well.
Not in all cases. Please
DeleteI understand. Funny thing is, this kind of marriage can be so sweet eh. It'll be like you guys are just getting to know each other everyday. Everything will seem new day by day.
DeleteHonestly, no manual for a perfect marriage exist. It's not by long dating or courting period. Just pray to find the ONE.
Same with me, met and married within 4 months, 4 years and 2 kids , we are still so in love, I hope and pray things don't change.
DeleteMy Uncle and wife. He proposed over the phone (US things). Set eyes on each other only 4 days before trad. After he had sent money for wedding preps etc. 17 years now.... two kids later.... they're like Bonnie & Clyde.
DeleteThis is madness oh
ReplyDeleteDating and marriage are two different things, One can be a saint during courtship and after marriage - all hell will be let loose - God save the matrimony institution.
ReplyDeleteOne can be, you never ever know. She was pushed
DeleteMtcheew
ReplyDeleteStop ranting n move to Uzbekistan...I no see d fat self...
ReplyDeleteSome men like broom stick, boy figure hmmmm
DeleteSee the boy she married sef.
DeleteMaybe he is looking for lepa that will be wearing crop top and hot pant.
He's not a man abeg
This is wher khloe and anto wins
DeleteLike why marry someone when she's the opposite of what you want,was he blind when he was marrying her. Don't understand some men
Delete@deenity GTFOH🤣
Delete@chikito aye aye ma
DeleteChiamaka, you are not a child! 25 is not too young for marriage. Nfia or whatever his name is only pushed for marriage because you are hard working. You saw his type but you carried on. Men please keep to your type and leave these poor girls alone. Stop cursing on your page baby girl, you are supposed to be a brand.
ReplyDeleteTrue that
Deletethat her brand is my own problem. She should get her shit together for the sake of her brand. Cry if you want to, scream sef but do not bring it to social media, especially someone with her status cuz honestly nobody gives a fuck, we are all just curious!
DeleteCussing*
ReplyDeleteWhat's all these?? Chiamka should grow up and stop behaving like a kid. No one care if she wants to marry a Muslim at 38.
ReplyDeleteIt's not her fault. Let her vent. They will be all alright
DeleteNa waa oo
ReplyDeleteNice one Stella
ReplyDeleteNa for dis calaba dog
ReplyDeleteNa waa oo
ReplyDeleteWhat women go through! I am about to take an exit too. My parents and siblings are in support. I dated him for 12years, I thought he was truly born again. He doesn't womanise neither does he drink nor smoke. He is gentle. Married for 7years now. 2 months after our wedding he stopped taking care of me, eventhough I was pregnant. He stopped buying foodstuff, paying bills and rent. We were sent out of our home because of unpaid rent. I was still pregnant then with our first child. I had to get a job with little salary that could not sustain us. The baby was due, but he did not pay our hospital bill. Even when the kids are down if I do not have money to take them to the hospital then he will go buy over the counter drugs for them. Now this man works and earns good salary. We have 2 kids and I struggle to pay all bills. I feed, cloth and pay mortgage and all other dues. Life here in Europe is basically hard but I got 2 jobs in other to pay our bills. I reported to his family but they seem in support of him. So 7 years now I took an exit yesterday. I got a small apartment for me and my kids, and now I breathe a new air. I am happy now
ReplyDeleteThank God on your behalf. At least for the fresh air
DeleteCongratulations you deserve happiness. What I have found out is that majority of the time, the man's family will always support him. Glad you are in Europe, hold your children right o and don't, I repeat Don't go back to him. He will spoil your name but ignore and stand in your peace. Don't let him get hold of the kids and please do not bad mouth him in front of them, ever. If you are doing so, stop. If not, kudos to you. Happy for you
DeleteNawaaaaaaa!!!
DeleteMadam it is well. Just b strong for your kids OK.
DeleteGood for you. Women stop giving birth when your husbands don't want to cater for children
DeleteI knw some men cn be heartless sha! But what could make a saint of 12yrs becomes a demon over night? I'm not in support of him but nwanem biko check well.#gooluck
DeleteGood for you, I only wish you left after 2 months. Women stop waiting and hoping for change, when someone shows you their true colour, please run. I left my first hubby after a year and our first child,I was only 25, 4 years later I married a great guy at 29 and started afresh, I do not regret my actions at all. Life is too short for nonsense
DeleteHappy for u
DeleteWho do her like this?
ReplyDeleteNo one do her anything. It is built up emotions and she has slight autism. No filters.
DeleteMove on please. Too much rant
ReplyDeleteI feel terribly bad for her. I pray she comes out strong. Rumour has it the guy was into men that its not all those she is talking about and ranting on instagram. Mehn this marriage thing is not easy. May God help her. The guy sef is too young
ReplyDeleteI believe you
DeleteHe looks it. Because this girl isn't fat na.
DeleteHahahaha abioooo. It's her emotions that is posting. Let her keep entertaining us, after all na who carry ant infested woods enter house?
ReplyDeleteExactly my thot cos she will get to regret all this out of anger/depression misyarnings tomorrow. To think I saw they dated for long sef b4 d 10wks marriage.😞😳
ReplyDeleteNo need, if her type no do am. We no go believe if na chronicles
ReplyDeleteTruth is,he must have been cheating on her before they got married,then she erroneously thought he will change after marriage i.e respect the marriage/institution.but truth is a lot of men are dogs. I know a lot of married men that cheated very early in their marriage,I mean within the 1st year. Even mine,I caught him professing love to one girl on WhatsApp, another married man always disturbing me day n night, begging to take me n my kids to any country of my choice for holidays, telling me he just wants to cuddle.Chai!Naija men,na curse Dem curse una?😋
ReplyDeleteIn answer to your last questions, yes.
DeleteMy former hair dresser told me of a wedding she went for where her hubby was the groom's best man. They had all known each other for years. After the wedding, in between seeing people off and going to the hotel, groom had disappeared for a brief bit to go give some lashings. This wasn't rumour as the new husband didn't code it.
I'm really hoping I don't marry a Nigerian man as I'm so unimpressed by them.
I understand clearly where she's coming from.Marraige is not a do or die affair.
ReplyDeleteTheir excessive Instagram PDA was a major redflag. Let her find a professional shrink to speak to. The way she's going at it, we will soon hear "I was hacked". I am not sure if it can work. She seems to be a bit insecure and with a strong personality. I cringed at the part she talked about sending him out of her house. Even if people try to settle them, e go be like Tbillz and Tiwa. Again, physical compatibility is something many people avoid discussing. Once you see that all your man's exes are light skin and skinny but you're thick and chocolate, you should calm down. Society will pressure men to settle for a more homely looking woman because she seems like "wife material". Meanwhile that is not what he likes. Also, know your spouse through all their seasons. The kind of attention he was getting pre social prefect tours is different from what he's getting now. Some men are only as faithful as their options. If they're going to separate let them do it now that they don't have children yet.
ReplyDeleteOh Lord! This babe sounds depressed. She could be heading for suicide any moment from now. I pray someone comes to her rescue before it gets late.
ReplyDeleteNasoo e dey startoo my people!
Happy for you girl; I always feel sorry for girls who marry closet homosexuals. Test for HIV and move on.
ReplyDeleteChiamaka calm down. We r all behind u but u r beginning to sound deranged!! For real!!!
ReplyDeleteSo scary,baring all on SM this way,I hope shes alright!!
ReplyDeleteI once went with them on a tour somewhere outside Nigeria in February. I noticed that for a newly wedded couple, there was a lukewarmness they had to each other, and this was a few weeks after their wedding. I remember her saying she still had on the acrylic nails she fixed for her wedding. She is also the bossy type (alpha female), she clearly wears the pants in the relationship while Ntia is a reserved , introverted person. I am surprised she is claiming he is some Don Juan, he clearly didnt exhibit those traits at all. Some people are claiming he is a closet homosexual which has led to their breakdown, this is possible because to me he shows no signs of being a ladies man.
ReplyDeleteI wish them well but this public ranting isnt necessary, I hope she doesnt destroy her brand because of a private issue which should have remained "private"
Chiamaka is my good fiend, infact we have known since childhood and believe me, she is a VERY lovable person. Very tolerant. Honestly, she can be bullied very easily, she hates stress and she does like wahala. I am 90% sure that she's telling the truth. For her to react this way, the guy must have really gone overboard. I am sure of it. I personally had a problem with her displaying love too much upandan social media. I pray God heals her and restores her full time. Her rants are not childish rants, this is what the diary of a 'mad black woman' is like (if youve watched that movie). Chiamaka, hold on, do not do anything crazy. The world and outsiders will judge you, heck they will. The coming months or even years wont be easy emotionally, but pls be strong. I personally love you and wish you well. You are very beautiful and God will restore back to you in better and bigger folds, what youve lost. If you've been through serious depression, believe me, you won't judge her.
ReplyDeletei agree with your hypothesis. this can only explain the rage
ReplyDeleteAnd to think I was about to lead some foreigners who want to visit Naija to this girl. No way! She needs to post this on her personal page and not her brand’s page. She’s really hurting right now. I pray that she gets over this soon.
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