Any engagements?Any disappointments?Do some of you know what you keep doing wrong that keeps bringing you back to square one love wise?..
Are you serial?why?
Did you both meet and take it further or did it end before the meeting?
Una gbensh?
If you are brokeass and not ready to settle,why are you looking for love?Leading someone on ain't right!
Any advice?How can we make this work next time?
Please do not mention peoples names here...dont waste time making comments that will not be enabled....You can tell us your story without mentioning names...
Did the very first and second one and it wasn't fruitful. It's all good. I
ReplyDeleteLemme go and get my zobo. One of friend will tell her story, under anonymous of course. The man boy will know it's for him.
ReplyDeleteStellz I raise yansh for some of your male blog visitors.
I'm here to read comments...
ReplyDeleteIs it just me?
ReplyDeletewhy cant i just find a decent guy to date? and im not even being too picky, ive really lowered my standards but still yet, na wa o
Me too ooh, I ve lowered my standard too but they end up thinking am that low and worse. We met, talked and kinda liked each other. Then I spent a night wit him, the guy gbenshed me tire,only to tell me that I once told him I preferred a man from my tribe. Na so the guy back off. But we chat one a while. I try to act that I did want a man from my tribe. But nigger Mons and me sef
DeleteKeep lowering your standard ok, until you hit ground zero! Sleeping and having sex with someone you just met? Why won’t he leave you? Ashawo kobo kobo
DeleteHaha anonymous 14:20 you harsh oooo
DeleteWhy do you women 'lower your standards?'
DeleteBecause you have zero self esteem and are DESPERATE. Have you ever heard a man say he lowers 'his standards?' Have you???
Even a male imbecile with shedding crocodile skin who smells like a decayed goat will still boldly demand for and select a QUEEN. But you,with your 'standards' that you have lowered to match the height of under your bathroom slippers, will accept anything that crawls your way because you want to knack ring and wear asoebi and do pepper dem gang. Before your guests have shit the wedding Jollof rice and meat finish, you are already complaining ' ehn his penis is like Ribena straw, he smells, he chews like a goat, his family, his nose, his job, his necktie, writing chronicles uptop of revelations. When the heat is too much you will buy new knife and end your story with your own hand. 1 down, millions to go. Mtsheeeeew.
#desperatebrainlessnigerianwomen
Ppl like anon 14:20 are males who have never touched a woman. He is so used to rejection dat he hates the fact that other guys get cheaply wat he dies to get.
DeleteI have also lowered my standard. But no show,so now whenever I want to gbensh, I just hook up wit any guy and go my way. The guy picks the hotel,food,drinks and tb bills.I can't kill myself.
DeleteLadies stop being too desperate.....when it’s your time the right man will come....stop sleeping with a guy too early or lowering your standards whatever that shit means....marry from your class and educational class I.e if you are a graduate don’t marry a school cert holder cos you think he is nice...you guys won’t think on the same level....if you are from a rich home don’t marry a guy from a poor home till you are sure he won’t change when money comes...yes you might think you can cope but what happens when issues begin to arise like low self esteem from him or his family? Cos whatever you do will be interpreted as feeling big cos your family is rich....marriage is more than chemistry or love....if you are from a rich home and the guy is a hardworking graduate then you can gamble and say yes he will make it later, but my point really is marry people who have same values and see life the way you do....I married in my 30s and we are 14 years into the marriage now....even marriages you love each other Wella have problems not to talk of those with coma cos you are desperate.....women stop giving men money and doing everything before you marry cos you will continue financing the marriage after....I was not the type to go bf house and do wifey duties but he still married me...stop being desperate girls....once some of you hear marriage you start allowing the guy take advantage of you....when a man love you he will chase after you and be the one to set the pace for the relationship and push for the wedding...not the one you will be asking every time where is this relationship heading too....trust me enjoy your singlehood cos you won’t ever have that freedom again....no man will make you truly happy, only God can fill that void.....sorry for the epistle, am not perfect or claim to have got it all but my simple message is ladies don’t be desperate, when it’s your time the right man will come and you won’t have to sweat it...
DeleteI have participated in almost all the single and mingle from January 2015, but let me talk on single and mingle for October or September 2017. A couple of ppl added me probably bcos I said I was depressed. I would say 50 percent of men dat added me were awesome compared to other years, but 80 percent were married men which made me very worried. The tried to talk me out of depression as much as d cld and I say thank you. Now one dr from imo staying in ph, hmm uncle 35 years old dr, took his pen and paper and wrote a couple of numbers and started doing trial by error. When the corper from Imo failed u, u started trying me. Uncle 35 yrs old dr may confusion, greed and stinginess depart from ur soul. And please those men dat start calling 6 months after a single mingle post, what exactly is your problem? Married men dat call and ask for frnds with benefit, may ur wife cheat on you and give u children that are not yours. Then uncles in Istanbul and Lagos asking for bra size, hips and bumbum size, hmmm may extra large size bumbum, yansh and hips not lead you to an early grave. Finally if ur not ready to give love or friendship a chance dnt add up numbers and start being a second jesus. Have a wonderful Sunday and a prosperous week, filled with love, good health and abundant happiness. And today I decided to shy out from being anonymous.
ReplyDeleteAwwww happy tutu, you are hilarious!!!
DeleteLove will find you ok?
Don't ever lower your standards. #hugs
Lol@uncle 35yrs old dr.
DeleteI think I know that uncle o.
Anonymous 14:46 thanks love. Love will find me Amen.
DeleteAnonymous 15:05 after typing it, I started laffing at d title. If d uncle ur thinking about is very slim and not happy about being very slim den his d one.
DeleteI am here to mark registered and read comments..
ReplyDeleteToothache wants to finish me since Friday..
Sorry.Stop eating meat.
DeleteStella married men come on this single and mingle just to deceive single girls. It is so baddddd.
ReplyDeleteI met one like that. Thank God i am good at snooping. Because he gave me his 2nd name. I didn't find anything. On using his company name I found a pic of him in a conference wearing a wedding ring. Dug further and found a Facebook page with his actual name. He was married with 2kids. Meanwhile I had asked him about his marital status. Someone I have never met that was trying to deceive me by talking of marriage.
I just deleted him jare. We are not kuku based in same city.
am here to read comments
ReplyDeleteOsheyyyyyyyy readers association lets gather
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I met a younger guy I liked,we spoke and video called a lot. I became into him so much and likewise. One day he said he won't have much to do wit me as per age matter which I didn't care abt in the first place. I cut off immediately. Despite being 5km away,we didn't get to meet each other. Another younger guy came along,we met but he was too small and I also cut off. Stella I'll suggest having SM for ppl above 40, widowed, single or divorced.
ReplyDeleteYes seconded , a single and mingle for 40s and above.
DeletePlease me three four and five. All thes small boys that breastmilk has not dried from their mouth are so doggone irritating. Once they hear 'Amelika', hmmmm they start behaving like lapdogs. My worry is that the only mature person I have met so far is EPA. So I don't think mature men actually visit there mainly early 19-30. So you might want to try the foreign sites for mature singles. Will try one and see how it goes.
DeleteYes, thirdended. For single parents too.
DeleteFourthended!
DeleteAnd for young widowed single mothers too
DeleteStella influential people visit your blog, I met an ambassador's son + doing really well for himself in the snm before the last. He is everything I ever wanted in a guy and more. His smartness is on another level (prolly the reason we clicked)... I am from a very humble background but he didn't mind. Let's just see how it goes.
ReplyDeleteSorry babe for bringing our story here if you get to read this.
If his first name starts with D and surname B, please just run now before it is too late. He is a full time love con master.
DeleteHope it's not Ubanagum
DeleteMajority of the SM guys are married! That's how one added me up, after chatting for a while told me he was coming to my state that we'll go for lunch. Only for him to change story that I should come and spend weekend in his hotel! He had never met me o, only social media chats. I refused, insisted on meeting in the open, that's that's how he got angry and ignored me till date. I discovered he was married with kids when I snooped his social media handles. Why toy with people's emotions? To think that I thought he was reasonable
ReplyDeleteDon’t mind the stupid idiotic men....all you married he goats who come to look for women here thunder fire una blokos......pigs, low self esteem dogs....stay with your wives and stop littering this blog with your smelly selfs....and please my sisters let’s respect ourselves, stop giving sex too early. Develop friendship first and time will weed out their true intentions.....
DeleteI met an awesome guy here..very loving and caring..he spoils me silly and shower me with lots of cash but unfortunately i can't marry hi, its against my faith. I can't tell him though, money can't stop now.. Thanks so much Stella for this platform
ReplyDeleteSo you are enjoying the cash abi....
DeleteI met one girl here the last time..omobolanle from unilorin, a very small pompous girl like that. To chat and receive call is her problem. She is acting her AGR though what do I expect from a 20yrs old girl
ReplyDeleteWhat were you looking for in the body of a 20 year old? We're you expecting he to have the sense of a 40 year old?? Abeg allow her face her studies, she's obviously not in to you. Do you need a signor before you gerrit??
DeleteLmao I know ur type u dey find virgin abi
DeleteOK.... Am new here
ReplyDeleteThis will be an interesting post today. Bia chibuzor ga gwa mama ngozi ya nnye gi manya a' na kpo o'npa abuo, ye'na anu eyereye lol.
ReplyDeleteFire!!!! I say fireeeee!!!
DeleteGive it to them hot hot. No retreat, no surrender!!! Fire!!! Attack! Attack!! Atttaccccck!!!
Hey anony please leave cowhead SS Tj alone oo. Shuo allow him focus on his game. Hohohohoho.
DeleteOsheeeyyyy Sexy dada! Removing d mask one post at a time. U don go back to speaking ur konk Igbo like Chike. Small time, u go tell us how Doctor take recommend Oha soup for ur health! Chai! I dey gbadun ds ur new format. Keep sending d gbagaunized writeups too. Stella must do d needful laslas. Ikwakwakwakwakwaaaa
DeleteStella please can we have another snm,i just relocated and i need friends around here,it's so boring and i'm so lonely,i spend all my time online when i'm not working,no physical friends or family,cobweb's growing in all the essential places
ReplyDeleteWhere are you?
DeleteThere is the girl I heard lives on this forum that scams men. I was told this story in London. I think here name is Zainab. She pretends to be a good girl, will claim to be unlucky with men bla bla.
ReplyDeleteShe is only here to scam. A big time prostitute in Togo or Cameroun, can't recollect. I learnt she has been married 4 times before being finally divorced. Has three children with 3 men
I think her surname is Momah, not sure though.
Yeah zainab is fucking famous
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DeleteEhen before I forget what I want to write. Let me do roll call of those SnM serial prowlers so that you can shine ya eye next. I won't put name oh just code.
ReplyDeleteEpa
Ife Abj Lawyer
Fat London man who looks like a hamster, initials are on his bbm( na married man o)
Epa
ThatQatardude
Epa
Name similar to kidnapper on trial.
Add your own names to the list!!! Be your sisters keeper.
AN UNKU FROM INSTABUL CONTACTED ME, BUT SINCE I HAVE READ A COUPLE OF STORIES ABOUT HIM HERE, I JUST LOCK UP.
ReplyDeleteI HAVEN'T FORGOTTEN MY EXPERIENCE WITH EDO GRAND PA, HE SEEMS TO HAVE RETIRED THO'
MARRIED MEN ABOUND HERE STELLA
We nor b deaf.
DeleteIs it only women that are meeting men? So the men on here can't write their ordeal abi love story?
ReplyDeleteStella your S/M idea is fantastic, but many of the people participating are horrible, Childish, stupid men that think every girl on a dating site is dumb and desperate. Abeg I can't even narrate story, I just know I was done with SDK boys to men since 2015.
P.S married men adding single girls, exactly what is your point? It's not like you have money to spend oo. You won't take your little bank account and concentrate on your poor wife and kids. Stupidity dey worry una.
Ok baby oku, have this: met this wonderful lady lives around ipaja nice lady and we'll educated.. I like her and she does gbadun me too.. but unfortunately she's a lil to old for me *sadface* then another one,bukola(unilorin) I hav to include her name,that one na 419... no vision,just to collect ur transport fare
DeleteOooo well, sorry. I guess all the right people on sdk have been taken.
DeleteTo think I reside around ipaja, I fr attend Una wedding if toh say Una click.
DeleteThe post short oh!
ReplyDeleteI met a guy that wanted to sleep with me the first day.. He was so desperate that he offered me money,still i didnt yield... Though we kissed and do some smooching because i was a little bit drunk... He was generous but i can't just do it being the first time meeting him...Clean guy, just the way i like it... 💏💏💏
ReplyDeleteYou can kiss and smooch on the first date and you think sex is a big deal. Yimu. What's the difference. In your sense You think you acted right abi?
DeleteNa your God save you.dey for don carry your womb put am inside nylon bag. You met a guy, first day you're already kissing,both of you are pigs.
DeleteMy friend got engaged last month to a guy she met on sNm. He came from the UK to propose. I think they met in one of the 2015 or 2016 edition.
ReplyDeleteShe's going to visit him soon.
Stella,full story with details will be sent to you later.
Hmmmmmmm...so i have finally passed this stage in life???? God is good.
ReplyDeleteHorny women here too lol , all salivating to read about gbenshing lol
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, the last time you posted an update . I wrote that I met someone really special..... But no,issues started when I refused him sex... He would rant and rant that I don't trust him enough to give him my body
ReplyDeletePlease what does trust have to do with sex and vice-versa?? And then he starts talking about the fact that he's been serious with me and turning down other girls.... IMO, love is a choice.
He would also insist that whenever we want to chat.. I have to be completely online to give prompt response
I'm done with snm though
Dear guys..not every girl on snm is crazy about marriage, yes, we want to get married but it's not do or die... We got other things to do while we wait... Plus everything shouldn't be about SEX....
Den break my guy heart for here. The girls he met said he is too homely.
ReplyDeleteWhy are shameless married men coming on S&M to mess up this lovely platform set up by Stella. If they still want to remain on the prowl why didn't they remain single and have their fill of girls instead of living double lives.
ReplyDeleteBecause we want a piece of the action too. One may be lucky to find people who want gbenshing to calm body or just for adventure the way some married women do. Not everyone is marriage crazy.
DeleteThe few I have met here are broke gals. I thought gals have moved away from recharge card requests. Yes the Zainab is a scam ooo
ReplyDeleteI think I have heard of her on this forum too, Zainab something, can't remember if it is Momoh. She is a big time scammer. Also learnt she is a big call girl in Ghana or so
DeleteThis una updates tho....so funny. MayB I will pick 2 or 3 numbers next
ReplyDeleteTime just to laugh and have fun
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂... Good for all of you
ReplyDeleteDear Stella, I haven't found Love as it were yet on SnM and i am not giving up yet though but I'd really appreciate you for that Platform. I met a very wonderful, delectable, amiable personality via SnM. Friendship with her has been amazing!!!!! Tee!...I probably have not said this enough but i need you to know i appreciate you and i am glad being Friends with you. Thank You Stella!
ReplyDeleteThis your Tee. Na babe abi? Schooled in keffi, stays in Jos. Has a sister A... I just de look you. Better come and pay homage o
Deletena wah
ReplyDeleteDearest Stella, Single and Mingle is a fantastic idea. Please can you do for matured people say above 40. Some people prefer older partners. Thank you.
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