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Good Morning..........Happy rest day to those who will spend the day indoors lazing around.
To those who still have to work or go to their shops and where they earn their daily bread,I say this now...May your hustle pay!
Things are really happening and i cant shake it off that the Lawyer who chopped of her man's blokos and placed it on his right hand is a Blog visitor who gave out stuff to people on the December Santa post....OMG!
You read of people's story and lots of stuff on this Blog and you learn nothing?You take a knife and cut off someone's privates?..I am still in shock,What a wicked act!!!
If you suspect in anyway that you might be a risk to lives around you,please surrender yourself for help.....Killing someone else is not the solution.
And please to men..If your spouse appears aggressive and has repeatedly threatened your life with knives or weapons ,please leave the house for her for a while
Let us see how this will play out...After a short detention,the lady in Abuja who killed her hubby with a knife was granted bail to return home...Let us see how this one will play out and if she will also be granted bail.
I used to argue that women can only be the victims in Domestic Violence but it seems I am wrong.....
Have a nice day......if there is no one to take you out...take yourself out!
If there is no one to love you,love yourself!
To those who have turned begging into a day job on this Blog,please oh,carry your hustle somewhere else...OK?...
What else?.....
So, I went to the pharmacy of a hospital to get drugs and this happened...
ReplyDeletePharm: where is this patient?
Me: in the hospital
Pharm: I mean, admitted it out patient
Me: Admission
Pharm: which ward
Me: VIP ward
..... this is your bill.
So, I went and bought the drug only to find out that same drug cost far less for others in general ward or out patient.
Now my question is, is this supposed to be "Buisness" or extortion?
I mean, Im already upset my sister is ill.
I'm upset that she has to be admitted.
Upset we have to pay this much for health care in Nigeria
We have many tests and scan to carry out which isnt cheap.
We are already disappointed we have to pay this much just for comfort in the name of VIP ward.
And now, I'm buying the same drug in the same hospital for more than 20% more than others.
Pls, what should i call This? Buisness or Extortion? Cos I don't understand...
You should have gone outside to get the drugs. No rule states that the drugs must be gotten from their pharmacy.
DeleteI don't know the essence of those questions he asked. I would have declined to answer.
P.S.... ain't buying no drug from here anymore except it's an emergency. Hello H-Medix!!!!
DeleteCurious Cat, I thought it was their protocol. You know, everything is computerised so I thought it was for documentation purpose.
The most important is that God has healed your sister .Amen
DeleteI’m sure it’s Garki Hospital right?
DeleteGood morning...
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone... ❤❤❤❤
ReplyDeleteI'm missing someone ππππ
#Kisses #Assurance #Angelhandsome
#Saturday
Hian.....madam PA. I dey hail o
Delete#InoTalkaAnythingO
Lol Curious cat
DeleteGood morning bvs
DeleteGood morning bvs, what age would you claim you are,if you had no idea how old you were?
ReplyDeleteAs for me I'd claim to be 19 lolπ€
25. I just like the sound of it π
DeleteLol
DeleteHappy weekend people..
ReplyDeleteGood morning house.
DeleteBankers in the house please I need help.
I lost my dad since 2001, was 13yrs. I stumbled upon a document that had my name and account number with one of the old generation bank and that of my younger sister. After his burial I couldn't find the document anymore. I try to forget about it but the thought keep popping up once in a while.
So....how do I go about this?
If you know the bank, go there and complain to don't have your account number anymore and give your full name. They can get you the acc details and since you're an adult now you get to become the signatory
DeleteGood morning beevees.
ReplyDeleteI’m in dire need of advice. Pls help a sister.I want to run π♀️ out of this country. Can I travel to the US with my kids and settle there while my papers are still being processed? My dad filed for me 2years ago, they only acknowledged it. I’ve not heard anything from them since then. I’ve 2years valid visa. I’m thinking of getting visa for my kids and travel with them in sept to settle there while hubby stays here till my green card is ready then I can file for him. My fears are, can my kids start school there without issue? Can they go to hospital if the needs arise? Can I work while waiting for my papers? Will my stay there affect my processing papers? I’m so confused but desperately want to leave this 9ja. Can anybody who is well informed advice me please. ππ½
ReplyDeleteMadam, na WA for u o. How many times dem go answer this your question?
DeleteYou don write this same thing for like 3 other posts. Them never answer you? Oya send am to Stella to help you post for IHN make we hear word. Madam runaway
DeletePEOPLE WITH INFORMATION SHOULD ANSWER THIS WOMAN NOW,ABEG.THREE DAYS BACK TO BACK
DeleteMadam, from this your third time, I now believe you don't come back after some hours to read replies. Go back to your previous comments on that ihn and SP, they later replied you on both posts.
DeleteOk, lemme me try and explain as best as I can.
DeleteFirst and foremost, which of the categories did your dad file for you under, Unmarried (F1) or Married (F3) child of a US citizen?
The reason I ask is cos the 2 categories have different wait times. The F1 has a wait time of about 7 years or more while F3 is usually between 10-12years. Seeing as your petition is just 2 years old, you have a lot of wait time on your hands
You mentioned filing for your husband when your paper comes through, so I'd assume you were filed for under the F1 (unmarried). If this is the case, I hope you know that while you have a shorter wait time, you MUST REMAIN/MAINTAIN your single status UNTIL your admittance into the US, after which you can proceed to marry. What this means is that you'd have to "stick to the lie" concerning your status and be ready to obtain a false marriage certificate (showing that the marriage held after your admittance into the US as a green card holder) and any other necessary document that will validate your marriage when the time comes to file for your husband. This is so because F1 is strictly for unmarried children of the US citizen, and peradventure you marry before your petition pans out, you should ideally, update your records and be moved to the F3 category which has a longer wait period. Anything short of this, will be regarded as MISREPRESENTATION OF MATERIAL EVIDENCE, thus could lead to a revoke of your green card and permanent ban, ie, if you're found out.
However, if you're able to cover your tracks well, you could pull if off and still be good, only that your marriage records in US will be altered forever. In all of this, your children are beneficiaries and even if you claim unmarried while married, it doesn't affect them, so far as they are listed as your dependents in your petition.
Moving on, it's possible to relocate as you plan but be sure to have a good lawyer to pursue your case when the time comes, as you'd need to file for waivers and adjustment of status. For the records though, this was much easier during the OBAMA regime, as Trump isn't lenient on immigration issues, so you'd need to weigh your options carefully, before taking this leap. Cheers!
Oops, forgot to touch the schooling ish and the rest. Ok, your kids can start school. Not so sure about hospitals, but think that's doable too. As per working, it's a no no, except you're to use some one else's legal papers to do that. You also can't school as you don't have a student visa for that.
DeleteAs earlier said, overtaking on a visiting visa attracts a ban of some years depending on the duration of overstay. Moreso, filing of waivers for the overlay offence and adjustment of status as the case may require is a 50 50 thing. I hope this helps.
Many thanks Peachy dear. I fully understood all put up there ππ½. It’s actually F3 category which takes longer time. God bless you ma/Sirππ½
DeleteHappy Saturday all. Blog visitor kwa? Upon all we've been taught here,its just so sad. Most Women are most aggressive when it comes to d issue of DV. Marriages nowadays is something else abi na feminism dey cause am??????
ReplyDeleteTruth be told, if you follow the advice of BVs here you might just end up like her.
DeleteThe advice most women drop here is nothing to write home about. Any small thing them go say take a walk. Zero tolerance is what is being preached mostly on this blog.
If na so e easy to take a walk, wetin most of them still dey do for their husband house? Abi their own husband no dey cheat?
Please ALWAYS filter the kind of advice you get here.
PS: 'you' in this response does not refer to you mami. I just dey borrow space.
Una good morning
@Curious cat, maybe if she had taken a walk she won't kill nobody.
DeleteGod bless u jare CAT (lol).. After taking a thousand walks she became too tired to walk anymore and had to settle for the worst and became a killer eventually. Filter the advices they won't hear.. Imagine someone without husband teaching you how to deal with your own husband.. If it is that easy why is the person not married?? Don't get me wrong ooo sometimes a once upon a time rich person gives the best financial advice oo cuz he must have realized the financial mistakes he made that led to his down fall.But here, people who can't successfully manage a relationship gives marriage advices.Stella is happily married, let her tell us if there were no times she felt lost and even feel like giving up,but she is a wise woman that Won't discuss that with you but will be happy to share when things are going well with her family..summarily,sometimes the answer to martial problems is to take a walk and sometimes the solution is to sit down and think and not keep jumping from fry pan to fire having multi-million bodycounts and becoming nothing more than an object to be passed around cuz there is no relationship or marriage without problems. Most times, You will end up with number 50 wishing you were a little patient with number 2.. And please stop spreading the virus and pretending it's the best way to live...ejoor..know when to work on yourself or work on your submissiveness to your spouse than jumping from one relationship to another and brainwashing others to join u in your miserable adventure.some celebrities are still able to keep their homes and keep hubby and children happy let the dogs and disrespectful ones who can't keep a marriage not make us believe that is a good way to live or pretend anyone who join them will be happy when they grow old..
DeleteGood morning lovelies and happy weekend
ReplyDeleteSo that woman is a bv, devil is really roaming around to devour homes. May we never be a victim in Jesus name
To that woman on ihn news yesterday,i mean the narrator you need help please, you write so well, what has happened has happened but you need to get out of that situation and heal before you hurt him or your self
Infact eh, that story somehow made me feel very uncomfortable. I stopped reading when she typed her husband broke her head and she still opened legs and still got pregnant. Hian? Ontop the beatings? Things dey happen o.
DeleteThat lady's story is so so disturbing. For so one that writes so well shows she is quite intelligent but just took a wrong path at such an early age.
DeleteI hope she is able to leave the father of her children.
I wonder how those children will turn out growing up in such a violent home.
The Husband is very wicked. If the woman now kills d man,nobody wld have known d agony she had passed through
DeleteI wept while reading her stories. The suffering is too much. I think she was a naive teenage girl with no mum or elder sister to guide her that is why she kept getting pregnant for the man and receiving beatings. I wish I can unread the story, the scene of blood gushing out of her face keeps playing in my mind.
DeleteWhy is it that as I read this woman is a bv.... That woman that her husband and friend played came to mind... Madam I hope it's not u...
DeleteMay you find a way to walk...
Morning lovelies,issa beautiful day,happy to be alive and healthy, malaria wan finish me but God pass everything, happy to hear good news about my health all-round, God is a miracle worker,do ve a blessed weekend
ReplyDeleteBabe am happy u re fine pls wat did u use for malaria i use fansidar on wedsday but yesterday i was so down with malaria infact i dont no wat to do again.looking forward to hear good news abt my baby.it will end in praise
DeleteSorry bout ur malaria. I thought u don born. Safe delivery is all i pray 4u
DeleteMadam preggy go and see your doctor, you can't be doing self medication especially when you are pregnant. Don't risk the health of your baby.
DeleteWelcome back and thank God for your health
DeleteThanks to u all,God bless u,i don reply before but airtel be doing strong thing,@Ajetomobi,i was admitted and given a drip, didn't know d mixture though,@OYO,amen to ur prayer,na small remain by His grace,thanks a bunch @yoo Hwa
DeleteThanks to u all,God bless u,i don reply before but airtel be doing strong thing,@Ajetomobi,i was admitted and given a drip, didn't know d mixture though,@OYO,amen to ur prayer,na small remain by His grace,thanks a bunch @yoo Hwa
DeleteStella good morning! OMG! OMG! OMG! A blog vistor killed her husband and cut off his privates! Am in shock right now! Violence is never the answer to marital ISH if your spouse is violent and evil always threatening to kill or main you. PLEASE walk away choose to live above any marriage!
ReplyDeleteThat chronicles where that woman husband n friend were using her to play game can result to this oooo
DeleteStop planning revenge for people who hurts you, it takes you many steps backwards.
ReplyDeleteMorning people
Thursday and Friday was a roller coaster
ReplyDelete2 years granted. Thank you Lord
Missed you bvs
Off to the salon
You don get visa? Congrats oooo.
DeleteAbeg I just say make I ask.....na you and your babe dey go? Abi she go remain here? πππ
Lolo abeg help me too, I need to get visa too.
DeleteCuriosity kills the cat
DeleteCongrats nwanne m nwanyi. I dont know how geniue that Australia working visa guy on IHN is. Pls who is in ogun state to verify. Stella is there anyhow u can verify for those interested. I dont want stories.
DeleteGood morning everyone. Have a nice day y'all... Seriously craving banga soup..
ReplyDeleteGood morning.
ReplyDeleteDomestic violence goes both ways, you'd be shocked what goes on behind closed doors, the men would protect their ego & bury it all under the rug, while it goes on & on. Imagine a man voicing out "My wife is maltreating me oh or my wife hits me at the sligtest provocation" his friends will laugh over a drink, i know i will sha, there goes his balls n scrotum!
ReplyDeleteI stay around positive people. I don't like drama.. Favour of God locate me today Amen.
ReplyDeleteMartins I can't access my Gmail anymore. It keeps showing Sync off trying on it but no way. I can only see the icon for composing mail. I can't see my inbox, draft or sent mails. I have lost two account like this before and can afford to lose this. If I launch the gmail it will be displaying receiving mail and for more than thirty minutes it will still be booting. What will I do?
ReplyDeleteWow!!!! Who say Google don't have an answer to all problems? Just got this fixed following the step by step guidelines. Sometimes I am tempted to believe Google is God Himself. No solution it can't handle, the men behind it must be mysterious set of people.
DeleteYou compare Google to God? You sound stupid just like sexy daddy. Are you his friend or brother? cos I remember XP saying she decoded that both of you are in the same location in Porthacourt. He may be using you to continue his 419 business here
DeleteYou should be educated enough to see I use the word "tempted" to believe, indicating uncertainty. Sometimes expressing ones stupidity out of frustration and bitterness is the worse thing that can happen to anyone. I pray you find peace and happiness in life.
DeleteHas anyone heard about pinky kelz since she got married? Abi she don hibernate?
ReplyDeleteChai aproko 100!. Send her a dm if u want to know. Leave my friend alone
DeleteIs it the one on IG? What about her? I like her.
DeleteLife of an event planner......after finishing the traditional wedding decoration rain came and scattered everything. Now in my car chilling to start again...and I didn't snap it. Thank God it's it's simple decor I can do back in 20 minutes.
ReplyDeleteIt is well dear
DeleteWas she a blog visitor? OMG OMG. The annon on IHN yesterday, you allow this horse of yours abuse you bc you like the feeling he gave you during his plead for forgiveness. Who does that ? You went ahead to have 4 kids. The man dick game should be on another level. For you to open leg after experiencing that kind of abuse is beyond me
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not a do or die affair. We have seen many dead due to abuse. Run earlier bc it becomes more difficult when you have children all over with an abusive partner. I was a victim of abuse n i ran. I know how the partner can swt tongue you aftr an abuse. Pls don't fall for it. Don't be afraid n feel you won't find a good man after you run. My husband is so calm n swt. He can't even slap me talk less of beating me. Owa bu pawpaw
They weren't even married properly.
DeleteShe just dey born upon all the violence. Don't see why any sane person should stay that long which such a beast. Maybe it was the s*x.
She better leave now that she is still alive.
He had a psychological hold on her from such a young impressionable age. Parental guidance is vital in life as most people that get it wrong so young find it difficult to find their way back to happy
DeleteThe lawyer is a BV? A staunch regular one? No surprises there then.No surprises. Who knows exactly the distance to the edge of the cliff we are all standing on and if all it would take to push any of us over the edge is just one action,one bitter hateful comment,one phone call,one hidden receipt?
ReplyDeleteI think if you believe you have made a strong point for or against an idea, then move on.Over-flogging an issue is irritating.Except like some people love hearing their own voice,you love seeing your comments littered everywhere.
That 'sic' anon in BEP is sooo annoying.
Funny kind of annoying but then that was exactly what I thought of Lady Bug at first.
Have an awesome day,People.
Daily, a Muslim keeps trying to be Christlike, emulate him and learn from his sweet life lessons...
ReplyDeleteI am a Muslim and I believe in Jesus (May peace be upon him) and love him dearly. And l keep striving to be like Jesus, one of the best of MAN to ever liveth.
It is mandatory for me to believe in Jesus, love him and try to emulate him. It's also mandatory for me to believe in the original manuscript of the Bible cause it Is Holy. It's part of my faith.
I'm outtie
Hmmmmmm, a blog visitor, #thefear ofGodisthebeginningofwisdom# people don't fear God again what kind of anger is that? #hekilledwiththeswordshalldiebythesword# am scared now,
ReplyDeleteGood morning bvs happy weekend to everyone, Dada toyosi thank God for your health.
It's Saturday again. Good morning everyone wish you a great day
ReplyDeleteStella come and tell us who the Bv is that chopped off the blokos and killed him o. We like amebo here.
ReplyDeleteHave blessed day y'all.
Morning peeps,hmmm some people get mind sharing, slicing someone blokos Haba that's too much na,weekend things, house chores and food on my mind.have a beautiful weekend y'all.
ReplyDeleteMe that will soon kill my own husband. He infected me me and my 12 year old sister with hiv. I found out she was raped after a neighbor told me that she hears screams from my house whenever I’m not home. She had knife marks all over her thighs. I will cut evil preek and feed it to him raw. Then kill him and throw his body away. It won’t cost me more than 70k and my gold set. I’ve planned the fake robbery that will help me kidnap him. Show me shege I don’t care but mess with my family and you will die.
ReplyDeleteJesus...
DeleteI feel for you madam but please, that is not the solution to this issue even though he deserves more than that.
DeletePlease and please don't take the law into your hands
Choi!!!
DeleteI hate to say this... but the idiot deserves to die!!!
DeleteBet you were one of those women who always shout all men cheat, me I won’t leave my husband because of he’s cheating”. Oyanu e don set, he has infected you with hiv.
DeleteThis blog oooo
DeleteTank you @10:22
DeletePeople like steffysofinesofly and some other bvs will say all men cheat, don't leave your marriage for a side chick to take over your home. You see one of the end results of a cheating husband?
He will give you Hiv/Aids. Give it to your sister and daughter too.
HIV that you will take drugs everyday for the rest of your life. That little girl's life has been changed forever as she will be restricted from some good jobs where they do tests, all good jobs, they do medical tests. She will take the grace of God to see a husband that will marry her with her status and so on.
Don't kill him o. Cos you saw when he was cheating, may be it was even before marriage that he was a cheat but you decided to remain and die there as cheating is "Normal" in men. Continue taking your drugs, if death comes, die. Marriage is for better for worse. Something must kill a man.
This one pass me
DeleteMe that will soon kill my own husband. He infected me me and my 12 year old sister with hiv. I found out she was raped after a neighbor told me that she hears screams from my house whenever I’m not home. She had knife marks all over her thighs. I will cut evil preek and feed it to him raw. Then kill him and throw his body away. It won’t cost me more than 70k and my gold set. I’ve planned the fake robbery that will help me kidnap him. Show me shege I don’t care but mess with my family and you will die.
ReplyDeletePlease do not carry out your plan. Do not kill him. You should have reported him to your family. At least your twelve year old Sister can narrate the sequence of events and describe his genitalia so she will be believed. Don’t kill him oo!! HIV isn’t a death sentence.
DeleteOh well.....in this case he deserves it cos he killed u first. How about you infect all his brothers instead of killing him? π
DeleteAbeg na joke I dey o. No be me advise you o
DeleteSome men are possessed..and the situation is messed up...but will you be fine later, I mean your conscience. Is his death the only way? How about leaving revenge to God. HIV can be managed with routine drugs. HIV can be healed by the Most high.
DeleteThink about it.
Hmmm...Anon, take am sofri sofri ooo. Is this kind of ish that makes one go mad, what insolence? What kind of dog is that? You will be surprised he knows his status and still intentionally went ahead to infect you. Chai, one man is a cheat, an abuser and a pedophile all wrapped into one? Devil is really dining on our heads. I pray God gives you the wisdom to do the right thing but I will advice if your parents are still alive, do get them involved. For you to have a 12 year old sister means u are still quite young yourself. This really the height of wickedness, not only did he infect you but a little girl's life has also been ruined in the process. #iheanaanutanadi#
DeleteOn another note, who watched Chimamanda's talk on the Igbo conference held in London? Her speech was titled ' Igbo by Igbo'. That woman is really a genius. She is so intelligent and eloquent, we can't deny that. Pls, if u are Igbo go to YouTube and watch that talk, if u are not, u will still pick a thing or two.
Translation to English in order of appearance; #Saturday #Sleep #Hashtagingermantoday #Mykidsarecool #Theweatherchangeseveryday #Lonelydance #Godalways (not too sure) #Godismyall
ReplyDeleteStella wan turn person to mumu today like say person no sabi read English again.
DeleteHow do I apply for American Visa? Someone give me guidelines, please detailed guidelines. I want to go have my baby there...what is the average cost of birthing in the US? Thanks.
ReplyDeleteHow do I apply for American Visa? Someone give me guidelines, please detailed guidelines. I want to go have my baby there...what is the average cost of birthing in the US? Thanks.
ReplyDeleteAsk Lolo up there. She just got hers π
DeleteGood morning Stella and lovely BVs.
ReplyDeleteIt's raining heavily here but it won't stop our cow head pomo deliveries in Abuja. Do call us.
Have a nice day y'all.
if you're sick and tired of living with your spouse just park your things and leave.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not by force!!!
Go to their website. Google it!!
ReplyDeleteBirthing rates depends on the Hospitals and states they are in.
Last night I was so bored and decided to read the scary posts again.I saw other past interesting posts done in this blog and decided to read the the HIV/AIDS stories done on Friday Aug 12 2016:Stella,that post is one of the most educative posts I have seen in my short stay for this dormot.Stella,heaven will bless you,all men will bless,you think you are just blogging but heaven knows that you are saving lives.Please everyone,go out there and tell people about SDK because this woman is performing mighty miracles,If you are yet to read that post,please do and be informed.
ReplyDeleteI am still new here and I don't have a blog id and I don't even know how to get one+please I need someone who has being here to tell me other past interesting posts I can use to relax at night.
I love you sweet Stella,your bvs are the real MVPs,keep up the good work,your blog now is my home base,na here we die#spreadsmat#
Read the miss kay domestic violence story..Quite insightful that was what drew me to the blog..And since 2013 till today,no day passes by without me reading the blog even though i hardly comment
DeleteHappy saturday everyone.i saw the pix of d man that was gruesomely murdered on other news site,couldnt watch it. It so pathetic that my fellow woman has d mind to do such. What happens to love na. May his soul RIP.
ReplyDeleteNow here's a quick one... On Sunday 29/04/2018, I woke up to the usual smiling sun,but I wasn't smiling π. How could I smile when my clothe was missing. I could remember vividly to have worn it for the last time on the first day of the year. How it went missing was what I didn't understand so I was really upset. Consequently,I went to church angry. During the celebration of holy mass, I was lost in thought. Oh I loved that dress and it was pretty expensive ,judging from my financial status, oh yes it was!!π .
ReplyDeleteSnapping out of my subconsciousness, I noticed this good looking boy who sat close to me. He's about 13years old. Oh! he's all shades gorgeousness but then he looked ill (or so I thought). He was in company of his dad,who intermittently checked on him. At first I felt a little bit inconvenienced coupled with the spiteful feeling I was having about whoever took my dress,so I didn't have any compassion to spare.
Now it was time for reception of holy communion. The father left for the alter and just when I gained little concentration, gbaaaaaa!!!!!! .That was the son falling face down π’,hitting his forehead on the chair before us . For the first five seconds I was in a state of dilemma. I held him in a bid to raise him up but he was stiff. OMG! I got scared. I ran towards the alter to call the dad but stopped when I realised he was almost at the point of reception (I couldn't have disrupted that. I just couldn't ). I temple-ran back to the chair but he wasn't there anymore, neither was my bag. He was rushed out already and my bag was held by a sister. I ran out to know what's going on, that was when I realised what the problem was. He just had a fit, he's epilepticπ. It broke me,yes it did,mercilessly.We did all sorts of things to revive him, oh I was even shouting "don't let him clench his teeth",maybe I was thinking it's same situation with convulsion.
Finally, the dad got wind of the news and helplessly walked towards us. I saw the pain in his smile, what else could he do but smile. He has gotten used to his son's helpless illness, wasn't that his cross to bear anyway? After a while,the son regained consciousness (that was after dismissal anyway),and they went to the priest for prayers.
Ten minutes after mass,everyone was gone but I was still standing, staring at nothing, looking helplessly like someone in a trance. I was bitter about my stolen dress,a dress that could fade away, one that would definitely wear off. I was so bitter about material things that I forgot to thank God for life. I'm sure if it takes selling all his clothes to make him sound,his parents wont hesitate to do so. But life isn't always fair, so in everything, let us be thankful for what matters. Life isn't always fair yet life itself is priceless. BE THANKFUL!
#goodmorning π
God bless you
DeleteToo sad, I’m sure she just tipped over the edge. Couldn’t have been in her right state of mind . If she just wanted him dead for Ppty like they suggested she would have staged it in a better way that won’t have had incriminated . But that murder was an overkill , emotional coming from a dark place .
ReplyDeleteWe should always know when to seek for help
beautiful morning all
ReplyDeleteAs a woman how do you have a heart to kill anything talkless of a human being
ReplyDeleteI can't kill ordinary rat and cockroaches I just scare them away .
Who raised all these kinda woman that are killing their husband? Na wa o
That is why I keep saying that no one should curixify Kingcceecc. Good morning everyone.
ReplyDeleteI restrain from making such hurried comment about a case of murder especially when Nigerian police is involved because if you have ever had any dealing with Nigerian police, you will understand how they can twist fact of the case , that's why I insist on capacity building for Police officers.
ReplyDeleteNo one has the right to kill another, we are not animals. That's the reason we have to do better. Also women, be careful what you read. Sometimes bad news can get to us especially if you an empath and you may transfer such aggression to another.
What caused her to commit such crime? I have found out that most second wives can never take the shit that the first wife took and swallowed with a drink. Dear second wives, I know you think you won a gold lottery when he left the first to marry you but understand that if the root of the problem is not addressed, it will reoccur until his 5th wife. If he has a wandering eye, it will not stop with the 3rd wife , it will only stop when he is sick and old .
Killing him will not solve anything. His ghost will still have a wandering eye. Salivating over other female ghost.
When you see a man with his first wife, you don't know what the woman is managing, pray for them in peace. She could be managing HIV, STDs and a lot. Some of you ladies have gotten HIV by snatching one rich man with HIV and numerous baggages.
Also Nigerian ladies, it is not bad to see a therapist. The country is filled with angry people because nothing seems to be working. See a therapist. Where are all the people that studied psychology? What are you doing with your degrees? Start opening clinics.
Also Ladies, children or no children will not console you in a marriage. First there was a couple, then children. If you have anger issues stemming from resentment, see a therapist, a confidential one. Although most clinics in Nigeria breaches the confidentiality of their patients which is a whole other topic.
Dear men , see a therapist to cure the root of your gross infidelity. Don't think you are just a great husband because your African mother over pampered you and never saw reasonreason to chastise you only to leave your poor upbringing for your wife to suffer and smile.
That's my take
RIP young man
As for the woman, may justice prevail.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Good morning lovelies.
ReplyDeleteIt's a learning day,2 teachers and an instructor are here as early as 7:30am. I'm going around,supervising and getting to watch film with one eye. We need to get many things right especially in crafts not paying expensive fees and not grasping everything in school. No na.
The Twinnies are busy making noise. Their own is to scatter coloring and writing tools. Oriegwu!
Stella Kork...me didn't read your hashtag o. German language is my nightmare right from the hills of Plateau. So e go be later, let our bvs read.
If you really love your married bvs do posts that will bring them out of their difficult and miserable states because many are trapped. I commented that the ratio of domestic violence cases as reported by Lagos Govt is real some thought it was a joke. Dem dey beat and fight their husbands o. From their comments you shall know them.
Goodnight Mr Otike Odibi.
The only thing I have to say is "do not keep your family away from your marriage, you will suffer".
Happy Weekend mama Stella and my fellow bvs, May God keep us safe from troubles with temptation coz the kind of stories i hear these days sends chills down my spine abeg
ReplyDeleteWeekend is here,tank God a enough rest today
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