What do you think about a very young husband and an older wife?
Would you give your blessings to your younger Male sibling marrying an older woman?This is a big problem in Nigeria but not so in other places around the World.
Are you an older woman with a young hubby?Was there any resistance before you got his family's blessing?Or did the age difference break you both up?
Why do you think age is a such a big deal in Nigeria?
Stella make I ask o
ReplyDeleteMeagan old pass Harry?
This one wey you dey nak this question for royal wedding?
Yes. She's 36 while the guy is 33 years.
DeleteNo big deal about that for me. Age really don't really count but the understanding and love therein. I will prefer an older woman who is mature in reasoning and can hold a family very well than a slay Queen who will end up misbehaving.
DeleteSome days ago, a guy slid into my DM on Instagram. We got flowing till he asked me my age. I said 36. His response: "And I was already liking you ".
DeleteThat statement broke me. I know my man will find me someday, older or younger.
Amen dear. If u can't wait ,do have a child .but with Faith all things r possible
DeleteI am not a party to that. I just don't flow with it. I know guys that married older women and are living happily but I just can't.
ReplyDeletePlease someone help. I had a fight with my childhood friend last night. She had called me by 1am, after the call I'd blocked her on whatsapp. Shortly after, I dreamt I was in the city centre with some people who pointed out that my back was heavily covered in menstrual blood. I started running home but people were seeing the stain and talking. I looked up dream interpretations and I didn't like what I read. Please advice and also pray for me. Part of my issue with her is she got married to a Pastor that is being mentored by Tb Joshua so the man displays some weird powers at times. Her husband is pressuring her to ask me for a favour which I can't afford to do now in all sincerity. Now the strange hour call and strange dream. Please you people should pray for me🙏
DeleteLeave my tb Joshua out of this biko. For the rest, why block her bc you can't afford to help her. What happened to telling her the truth.
DeleteSame here. I just kent!!! Will definitely feel somehow..
DeleteNNE soak urself with psalm 91... Wake up and mid 9t start with praise and worship.... Read psalm 91 over and over and over again. All their hypnosis can't touch u!!!!!! It CANT wake up and call on d Almighty GOD.
DeleteThose girls wey no go allow them brother marry "older woman", all of them get aristos wey old pass their great grand dad o.
ReplyDeleteAnd na them go dey quote "age is nothing but a number".
Greedy women!
We don't have respect that's why. So if you are male get you a younger woman, if you are female, get you a much older man. To avoid stories!
ReplyDeleteSpeak for yourself mbok if you don't have respect say so. Don't rope us all into your "respectless life"🙄
DeleteLoooool @we dont have respect..
DeleteYou have no home training that is why YOU have no respect. Speak for yourself please.
DeleteDo you know how many Nigerian men are married to older women, Donald Duke and Dare Art Alade inclusive?
Are they not doing well?
If you were not trained well, don't assume everyone else has the same misfortune.
Sherikoko😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Abi ooo
DeleteHahaha I think assumption is a cankerworm that has eaten into the consciousness of so many persons.
Delete'You Dont have respect'. Dont rope anyone into your mannerless.
DeleteI know a work mate who’s wife is older than with 6 years and they’ve been married for 16 years
DeleteDullapo!
DeleteWe Nigerians take age too seriously and miss out on much as a result
DeleteAm here to read comments
ReplyDeleteNna men it's all abt maturity! Some r in for 20s and 30s but far wiser than some in dir 60s and 70s. Another one is Pride and Ego. If all this r curtailed, there is really nothing wrong in it
ReplyDeleteGbam it's about maturity , my bf from secondary sch in 07 is Same age but he's very very mature it amuses me. Dude grew up really fast that was what caught my fancy and that's what's keeping us.he has older ladies chiking him and they probably don't even know he's younger cos of the way he carried himself. I can't even bring myself to disrespect him.
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ReplyDeleteSincerely it's not insecurity, but I can't date or marry a lady older than me.
ReplyDeleteIf you have never been in it you won't understand it. I once dated a guy I was older than with months mhen it was terrible. He wanted to own me. I was to report every of my activity. I tried my best to make it work but alas I discovered I just couldn't keep so I took a bow. Guy is still hurt even after 4 years. It's possible but you have to allow the other person be him or her.
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't handle it because of the mind set of you being older than him. He was just being himself, it hard nothing to with the age difference. He would still treat a much younger lady same way. So hey! It was your ego plus his possessive nature that impeded that affair
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DeleteSorry you don't know me so why conclude it's ego. I shouldn't even respond.
DeleteAdele love which is one is older than him with months?if you guys were born same year una be age mates abi when filling a form do you put older with months😂
DeleteIt worked for Governor Akeredolu and his wife
ReplyDeleteWhat works for A might not work for B
It's a mutual understanding
It's because of our African mentality but personally I can't date a man younger than me. I have rejected dates cos they are younger than me even though I had a big crush on them.
ReplyDeleteWhy crush on them in the first place.🙅🙅
DeleteIts all about maturity, but I won't be caught marrying a younger man...if my nro sees an older woman willing to marry him, I will give my blessing, anything she see, make she accept...
ReplyDeletenone of my children will marry my age mate or someone older than them!...
ReplyDeleteThis is naija not abroad!...
I must scatter it mbok!..
Lawd lmao
DeleteThen they will cover it with lies.
DeleteHahahhahahahaha....queen why na
DeleteJust dance,I’m not a mugu ohh!..
DeleteBefore any of my children brings in a wife,I must investigate the person spiritually and physically!...
They won't even let you know about it
DeleteLol.You will find out the age spiritually. OK na carry go.
DeleteHahahahaha! Iji okwu biko.
DeleteBut your daughters will marry small boys and get sugar ones by the side?
DeleteIf the age difference is not more than 3yrs anything above that I no dey... Reason being that ladies tends to look older than their male counterpart with the same age ,then imagine being ten or eight yrs older than your hobby.. That one na suicide mission bcos you will always look like his aunty or momma beside him anytime you guys are going out. And before you know it the guy might even lose interest in the relationship and start looking for younger ponyo to service.
ReplyDeleteAs far as African is concern age matters a lot.
You talk lime a moron sometimes.
DeleteLadies look older my foot.
It's only fat ladies that look older than their male age mates.
I'm 35, mum and wife but slim and with a young face. If I walk on the road with my younger brother, people who don't know think we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
Most ladies look younger than a man of same age. Is Megan Markle not older than prince Harry? Does she not look younger than him?
My friend go and read your book Jare. Olodo
The fact that you look older than your male agemates does not mean we all are.
DeleteMegan is older than Harry with 3 good years, does she look it?
18:02 na real olodo. And unfortunately everytime she drops a comment, she proudly confirms it.
DeleteI will support my brother if that is what he wants. But I'm not such a party to older lady,younger guy.
ReplyDeleteIv never even dated my age mate before. Even while in university my bf was 5yrs older than me. Don't know how I will give respect to a man I am older than.
It hardly works in this country. See the bashing lola okoye receives.it takes a strong woman bcos even if the couple is okay with it. Family will always say smthn. They will say the lady is controlling him,especially if she is richer than him.
Not to talk of the fact women age faster than men through to child birth etc. So even if you are age mates,sometimes you tend to start to look older.
Make i grab coke and popcorn cum read comments
ReplyDeleteYou too lik "cum" and other departments
Delete"Cum" read ke..
DeleteI am few months older than hubby and it never gets to my head,we have our ups and downs but he's more matured and loves me silly.
ReplyDeleteEvery mallam to him kettle
#mummyisaac
My wife is 3yrs and 2months older than me. We love and respect ourselves plus we have 2kids now. Age is just a number. I have never really like girls my age nor date them.
DeleteAnonymous are you my husband? Ookkkaayyyy, so you visit and comment on SDK. I don catch you today. Plitenda
DeleteI don't see age as a barrier, I can marry a younger person if we understand one another.
ReplyDeletemy man must be older than me. My hubby is 10 years older and he is 38
ReplyDeleteEarly marriage noted!🙌
DeleteThe man that has ever loved is a year and some months younger than me. I am happy with him, I respect him and he does too. We don't have the intention of letting our friends or family members know of the age difference. You can't even know cos u look so much younger than my age.
ReplyDeleteI'm 24yrs and a month older than my boyfriend. The guys loves me to bits. He even wants us to get married this year, but me I'm marrying when I'm 28. he is so mature and doing really well for himself. Sometimes I forget he is just 24yrs.
ReplyDeleteIt is a very good thing that you mentioned both your ages at the end. Very good. Don't worry I have edited your first sentence in my mind.
DeleteYou guys are age mates. 24/24 nothing more nothing less. If you both fill a form won't it be 24/24 abi will you write a month older
DeleteOlder than the guy get level. 1-5 years is fine.
ReplyDeleteI can marry a younger guy.
Don't bring your mother's age home in the name of love.
Me I cannot for the love of God even date a guy younger than me not to talk of marry for what na. I love my men older and more matured to handle my excesses. I love to have a man I can respect and honour not someone I will unconsciously disrespect bcoz I know at the back of my mind I am older than him. See ehn somethings just get as e ebi.
ReplyDeleteI'm more concerned with the intelligence and maturity of the individual. We have all seen on this blog, people in their 30s and 40s behaving like spoilt kids.
ReplyDeleteWe have also seen young kids like M.A offering wisdom of his elders.
So yeah for me, I'd look at what you are offering upstairs, I'm not marrying your age. Society doesn't pay my bills so it can go fuck itself for all I care.
Really liked a particular guy but he was 7 years younger. Didn't work out cos I couldn't get the age difference thing out of my head.
ReplyDeleteI don’t have a problem with age! In fact I’m a sucker for younger guys. I might end up being a sugar mama when I’m married.
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DeleteWhat's the point of marrying someone older, that has the IQ of a moron and whenever he acts all you see is a twelve year old struggling with teenage hormones!
ReplyDeleteI think maturity is what we should be looking out for, which by the way does not come with age
Not me!!!
ReplyDeleteI never wanted a guy older Dan me with less dan 4 years,if not i'll turn him to my boy,naaaah never like dat,i love my men matured joor.
I am female 58 years old presently dating a 42 year old man, we are already planning marriage. But he is afraid I may not be submissive cos of age difference. He really loves me, buhe he is so possessive, and authoritative.
ReplyDeleteAge is just a number but be careful of golddiggers ma... 💏😍💏
DeleteThis is a 16 year difference.
DeleteIs he a Nigerian?
Are you rich?
Is it possible to pause a bit? Or are you in a rush?
I don't know why, but there's something not quite right here and it's not the age difference.
There's something in your last 3 words that's off in a situation like this.
Please be very very very careful.
I have been married for 13yrs now and I am older than my hubby with 1yr and 14days and seriously we have never for once brought about the age issue order than when the relationship started and we have our ups and down but with God all things are possible
ReplyDeleteYou forgot to add the hours and minutes sef.
DeleteI have being with my hubby for 17 years I am 3 years older than him.i never thought I would date a younger guy but he lied to me about his age until after our third baby and then we were traditionally married .I thank God he lied though cos he is very matured and responsible and doted so much on me and his kids.we have four children now and he does everything for them and even support me financially and in everything .he loves me so much and for 17 years I have never had to suspect him of infidelity .he is the best thing that happens to me...he was far better than all the older guys I have dated...his sister hates me and our relationship and made my life a living hell cos of dis .she even told the whole world that I used JuJu to marry her brother but my husband always fight for me .and today the sister still hate me and doesn't talk to her brother telling him that it's a taboo to marry a woman that is older than him...despite the fact that I didn't know cos he hid his true age to me I respect him a lot ,and treat him like he is my father Cos he deserves it...he makes the decision and he is a real man and a responsible one at that..no regret....everyday he tells me how much beautiful I am and how lucky he is to have me....no regrets ...
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwwww....May God bless and keep him for you. We thank God for good men.
DeleteAwwwww! I love love!
DeleteMay God continue to bless your family,Amen.
He is liar!!!!! I hate when people lie about things like their ages to their spouses. Its absolute rubbish. You better ask him what else he is lying about. You don't want to find out after he is dead. Only 3 years gap so why did he lie!! You can't give birth to him, you can even raise him if you were siblings so again why the lie.
DeleteI am older than my husband with about a month. We are very happily married.
ReplyDeleteMy wife is older by 3years and we have 5kids together !!! I tell you we have our ups and downs but all in all we are a team....
ReplyDeleteI know for a fact it cannot happen if I was in naija cos the wahala from people go too much