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ILASHE COVERS IN HOUSE NEWS

Hello Stella. Great work you're doing. I've been a BV since the 'jalabia saga' I don't have a blog ID. I hope my face qualifies for FOIHN. Kizzez. 


*You remnd me of someone with this your chubby cheeks..lol




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GIST


This actually happened sometime last month in a church in Lagos somewhere around Ejigbo.i sent you a story sometime last year though not with my email about a pastor that flogged his choristers who didn't attend choir rehearsals on the stipulated rehearsal day during Sunday church service.

The pastor who's name begins with O which when being interpreted in the eastern tongue is synonymous with Rat and ends with O which is a name given to children born on a certain market day.

The main gist be say during their last mothering Sunday the women played a game of how well do you know your husband(The game entails the man penning down answers to questions asked in a sheet given to him whilst the woman answers the questions with the microphone when asked by the moderator)....


Moderator: Eheen...Ma what's your husband's hobby?

Woman:#Rollseyes#... Smiles...

You mean my husbands hobby!Well...Pauses...he likes to suck breast.

Husband hurriedly tries to hide in shame but hits his head on the pew In front of him whilst church burst out in laughter and pastor clutching his Bible to his chest...needless to say quiz ended right there and then oh.

Me as a guest that I is picked up my Bible,dusted my Nyash and strolled out of church.
Church is located in a street in the insides of a busstop on the ejigbo road which when translated in the Yaraba language means House of oil or fuel.



Most men have this as their hobby and its no big deal,what is the man hiding his head for? 




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ATTENTION TO ALL BLOG VISITORS

Hello Stella,

  my love to all Beevees.

 I want to encourage and also warn people who are suicidal to please stop blackmailing people or threatening them with suicidal. Life generally is not fair and it is all about hope, courage and will to succeed. I'll tell a little of my story and I believe mine is not even the worst because it is evident in most chronicles we read on Stella's blog.

I was a very vibrant and intelligent little girl but shy and everyone loved me and thing went well for me until I clock 13 and boom things took a bad turn. I was raped at 13, it was a shameful thing and so was kept a secret but it affected me emotionally and mentally. I couldn't concentrate on anything, I remember I cried for more than 3 months and as a result failed woefully in school. That was just the beginning, u think it affected me spiritually too because things started going bad for me, people started disliking for no reason, when someone promise to help it won't work out as the person will stop picking my calls, family detested me too and never helped. I almost dropped out of school in my final year due to money.

I suffered depression,rejection and hatred yet I kept hope alive. I started struggling from age 16 all by myself with little or no help. I know people ask you guys don't you have family members? But I was once in your shoes and even if you have more than 5 generations alive,if help won't locate you there is nothing you can do at that moment.

I was ejected from more than 4 houses with people I lived with,i did menial jobs for salary of 8k after my service year. In my closet I'll cry to God to please take my life because to me it was better than living in this useless and unproductive world of mine but I guess God must have been laughing at me cos I was blind to see what He has in stock for me

2 years back, I picked myself up from self pity and sorrow, started praying and being positive at every thing I do. I did more of worship and Thanksgiving than asking, started giving alms from the little I had and stopped being lazy. I would do a job of 10k, at least better than sitting down at home feeling lazy and sorry for myself. I stopped asking people for money or material things and started giving instead cos I promised I want to be a giver and not a beggar. Guess what? It worked and still working, by God's grace, I am not where I'm going yet but things have tremendously changed for good for me. When I couldn't get a job, I enrolled in a baking school and paid for the fee thrice, had to beg my boss and she agreed. There is dignity in labour please.

I beg in heaven's name, stop the self pity and entitlement behavior and please stop threatening people with suicide. You are made for greatness and if you believe it will come to pass. That being said, if you need help, ask but stop feeling entitled to people's money and lastly, you shall not die but live to testify to God's goodness.

God bless you all and bless you Stella.






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MRS DEE'S CORNER
FAMILY VERSUS CAREER



While I was courting my hubby, we discussed all the issues we knew if not tackled would result in disaster in marriage. 


From the number of children,to how they would be spaced,the kind of house we would live in, (I don't want my neighbours to keep a roster of the food we cook,when and with what?) I asked about his opinion on in-laws and how to treat them but the one that was top on the list of my questions was his view about wives who were career driven. I didn't want a situation where I would get married to him and he would mandate me to be a house wife. 


I wanted to have a family and at the same time carve a niche for myself in the career world. I soon realised that nothing is as it seems.  When the babies came,after omugwo was over, I was all alone. I had already made up my mind that I would never have any house girl,not after reading the stories of those who were battling to overcome lesbianism as a result of the maids their parents employed,witchcraft initiations and husband snatching. 


I told myself I really valued my peace of mind and sanity.  That was when I realised my priorities had changed.  As much as I wanted to be a career woman, I didn't want it at the expense of my children being psychologically traumatised for life or for a major part of their lives. I didn't want to be hated or to be seen as a mother who was never there because she was so busy building her career.


 I was also filled with the dread of giving my all to raise up godly children and when they are all grown,it would be too late to pursue my dreams and even if it's not late I would think of all the times I had lost and what I could have achieved. I began to ask myself certain questions;the successful women I see,do they have regrets as regards their family?  Did they make sacrifices first before they went for their dreams or they just took the plunge and other things fell in place?I asked myself again is anything guaranteed? I may do all I can and what will be,will still be ( not that anyone prays for evil). 


Outwardly, everything may seem perfect and glamorous for these women but on closer inspection,it's possible that they may have pains and regrets which fame and money can't take away and they'ld always wish they could turn back the hands of the clock. I remember a woman I admire so much for her kindness and hard work.  She retired as a director from civil service. While as a young mother and wife, she had so many people living with her and she was training them but at the same time she was hardly home as she always came back late. The care of her children were left in the hands of those staying with her and rumour had it that those young ladies introduced her son to the world of sex at an early age. Today,he's in his early forties and every attempt to get him to study failed. Even when he was sent abroad, he committed an offence and was deported. He has two children out of wedlock and yet to settle down. 

 As for me,once my babies are weaned,I'll go look for a small job that'll give me time for my family at least for the mean time till they are in their mid teens hopefully.





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URGENT VACANCY

There's a job opening for someone who studied Political Science ( education).
Job description; teaching
Location; Ugbowo, Benin city
Salary; 32,000
Interested persons should call this number: 09092672360



32k for teaching job?wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow..Its too small please!!!



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ARE YOU WIFE MATERIAL?

My name is tom, am 33 years old, I currently live and work in lagos. 
Genotype: AA.

    I'm not a money bag, but I've laid the right foundations for myself. 
   I wish to meet a pretty, and intelligent lady(not a slay queen) between 24 and 26, who's also searching, working, and looking to get married within a year. We can grow and build something wonderful together.
   Send me an email telling me a little about yourself. Let's take it from there. 
   My email: tomeze934@yahoo.com




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URGENT ACCOMMODATION NEEDED IN ABUJA

I am a Single mother of one and Urgently in need of an Accommodation Right now In any location close to town, or if there's any body willing to share a Flat. 
I am on a low budget so please I would like to be contacted directly by the House owner. Thanks.
ehib2103@gmail.com




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TTEJAY'S CORNER
EQUITY AND CLEAN HANDS


He who comes into equity must come with clean hands." ---Maxims of equity.

We often desire and pray for a peaceful life devoid of problems and frustrations. But in actual fact, we are not at peace with ourselves neither are we living with others peacefully.

The bible stated in the book of Galatians 6:7 "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. Whatever a man sows, he will reap." 
This is a clear indication of the law of repercussion and also in support of my first quote above. 
In other words, there are consequences and reward for every action of man.

How do you treat others? Do you oppress and hurt others simply because they have no defence? Do you delight in inflicting pains on others whilst you watch them cry for help? Why do you have so much hatred and bitterness towards others? Of what benefit is it to betray the trust that people have in you?

Today, homes are broken because of infidelity and adultery. For example a young lady will shamefully choose  to go after married men, and at the same time praying and believing God for a good home and family. How ridiculous!!!!!!!!!

Same goes for men too, you choose to be idle and go after married women for financial gains and expect other men won't chase after their wives too. Are you kidding me!!!!!!!!

It is very foolish to think you can get away with evil. No matter how long it takes, there is definitely a day of reckoning. A day to be served with the same measure (most times more than) you gave to others.

You can never escape justice on earth and in the life after. A good number of people are already paying for their actions. Life has a way of paying people back in their own coins. You may call it karma or nemesis but I call it JUSTICE.

Finally, make no mistake of thinking that repentance takes away justice. There is a difference between mercy and justice. Whilst mercy forgives and redeems, you will still have to pay for your past evil deeds as atonement in one way or another. This is called Justice.

Paul in the bible is a good example. He was a persecutor and killer of Christians. Even after renouncing his sins and following Jesus Christ and becoming an apostle for Jesus, he was executed just like he executed Christians.

Did his repentance stop his execution? No. 
Jesus Christ said to Peter "he who lives by the sword, dies by the sword". The only difference with Paul is that his death was in Christ.

BV TEEJAY.






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Cynhams Cakes Unusual Giveaway. 

I will love to do a giveaway but no cakes this time around. I am not a professional bread baker but i know winners will enjoy these mini loaves. 


I want to give 5 trays of 30 mini loaves of bread to 5 blog visitors EACH (families). If you are single but have people to share with,  no problem. 

Each blog visitor will get a tray just like in the picture, a packet of lipton, 20 satchets of 3 crowns milk and sugar 😁. 

If you stay within Mararaba /Nyanyan /Karu axis, you will pick up from my shop in karu while those staying in town will meet me up at Area 11 junction  just beside KFC.

Bread and beverages will be ready for pick up this week Friday afternoon. 

If you are interested, send a text message to this number 08097829359. 
First 5 persons to send a text will be picked. Please no calls. Text only. No calls!!! 

Even though i have nothing, let me still share from the little God sends my way. 
May God bless and prosper us all, amen. 

Thank you Stella. 

Kai I just imagined this hot bread with some salty butter now and chicken fillets....kaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.




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