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Sunday, May 06, 2018

Ladies,Your Boyfriends House Is NOT Your House!

Please read this if you are dating and chasing people away from his house because you were given the tag of ''Iya nle''











79 comments:

  1. I find this narration very funny. Na the work weh dem deh do. No vex neighbour 😂😂😂

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    1. Really?
      This poster is not serious.
      If she were in the girl's shoes, she will do
      worse. Most women will behave like that girl.

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    2. Hope this poster 👆 is not our very own BV Whatever? 🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶 🚶




      *Larry was here*

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    3. Flamboyant BV6 May 2018 at 14:29

      Anonymous speak for yourself, i would have let her in cos i understand her excitement to watch the grand finale of the show, besides i would have let her in offered her something to drink self and had a good argument/ laughter with her only if she is dressed badly. The poster sounded really polite and i know she knew she was his girlfriend. The ladies attitude was an act of insecurity and immaturity.

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    4. He may have gisted his gf that the neighbor likes him. Naija guys talk too much and it’s mostly lies or nonsense.

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    5. Nna mhen go buy I pass ur neighbor , husband scarce yo o

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    6. Most ladies are not like that at all. What are you protecting? That's called low self-esteem. She aren't even his wife yet

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    7. Whaaaaaaat? I'm shocked at most of the comments here, if this is how majority of naija chicks reason, then we have a lot of work to do. Driving that neighbor away is the height of insecurity, and to keep a man is not by power, such things disgust men, they are not your kids, how long would the show even last, if they had anything, that attitude would even make them closer... what a shame!

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  2. I kno it’s kinda bad, but to be very honest i’d do thesame. Not a family member, not a bussiness associate, a female neighbor jst coming to watch BBN..... hell no. If i’m not there fine, but if i’m there pls i need some privacy.

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    1. Like really. Just to watch a TV show. Na wa o

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    2. Nice teetee that you were sincere about it. Most Nigerian girls will behave like that girl.

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    3. Teetee privacy in your father's or husbands house? Oshico plc!

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    4. Yes Senorita, i know we are all different, that is me. Besides the GF wasnt rude, d neighbor politely asked if she could come in and watch and d GF also said NO, no insults. Frm there she shud hav respected herslf.

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    5. Teetee that means you indirectly saying you can chase away your bf's female friends. The fact that you are even there when she's dere should be okay for You. what does the girl want to do in those 2hrs that can't be done later,funny enough its still that same big brother they would watch so what she did was just uncalled for

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    6. In a man's house that you are not sure of for the next 6 months? Just to watch BBn? Lmao. This is really funny. I will never do such. Because of a man? Asin a man o? Lmao😋🤣🤣

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    7. You're not even supposed to get the door. A civilised girl shouldn't. It's NOT your house!

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    8. Olayinka u didn’t hav to call me oshisco, drop ur comment and move on pls. I did not insult anybody, neither did i tie anybody. I said to be honest i’d do same. Some wud be cool wt it, some won’t dat is life. We all can’t be wired thesame way. Thanks

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    9. I've been married for 10 yrs and my hubby still has his female friends. I will not because of stupid insecurities cut him off from pple he grew up with. Yes i know there shld be boundaries but not in this case, nobody knows tomorrow, that girl that was sent away from watching ordinary tv can be a boss to that silly girlfriend tomorrow, you just never know. Also it's a huge turn on for guys when their women can display a high level of confidence, when u keep chasing pple away and monitoring your boyfriend, what happens when he decides to marry you. Do you also go around with him 24/7? The things he does not do in your presence do u know he can do behind ur back? Bottom line, be confident, be nice, be hospitable and you have your man eating out of the palm of your hands.

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    10. Madam be careful, Stella Damasus started as Daniel's friend doing business together and are now a couple. Even though I don't support insecurities, but we have to be wise. The girl chasing boyfriend's friends away is just plain stupid! What if he marries that his neighbour and dumps You? Does he chase your neighbours away from You? If a wife does it, I support her 100%, but girlfriend 🙄

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  3. Madam you no get tv 📺 For your house, why disturb her? Apperantly she wanted privacy

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    1. I tire, na so e dey start.

      On a serious note, while I agree her boyfriend house is not hers, if you the neighbour are not friends with the gf, don't you think it is not right and sort of ridiculous.

      I can't imagine going to my neighbour's house to watch bbn when he has a gf and I have no relationship with her. I wonder why you can't watch bbn in your own house!!

      Btw, you don't know the arrangement with some of these relationships, what if she pays the rents or pays some of the bills?

      My cousin was footing 80% of the bills when she was still dating her now hubby. She bought a car and he was driving it.

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    2. Which yeye privacy??if she wanted privacy why didn't she stay in her house,what point is she trying to prove.the bf had agreed so why should she be rude to his guest, If it was a male neighbour she won't have done that rubbish

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    3. Anon 13:36 What is ridiculous there so the girl must be friends with the girl first?If she was friends with the girl she would be going to her house instead and not the guy. Why can't she watch it in her own house,did you for once stop to think that maybe she didn't own a tv or have sub that was why she told the guy. Speaking of your cousin m sure she never told her hubby who and who not to be carrying. A gf should be able not to over do things and choose her fights wisely

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    4. Why must she be the girlfriend friend? If she was cool with her neighbour that's all that matters. What rubbish friend? This is how you people ruin your relationship. What privacy? In another person's house that isn't your husband. Mtchewww. Whay are you trying to protect 🤔? Something that if they want to have a relationship they will do it so fine seeing they are neighbours. He sees you once a week and sees her 7 times a week so what you are protecting?

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    5. Na wa oh. Must she be friends with the gf before she can watch the grand finale? I don't see anything wrong in it. Even when she asked for the guy and was told he was not in the house and asked the lady if she could watch it, she still no gree. People came over to watch in my place and I don't see it as anything oh. Its a one-off show .Who knows if her subscription had expired. Gf wey dem fit troway anytime.

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  4. Some girls are really crazy. They might not even end up together las las.

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  5. No matter how a guy loves a girl there are some behaviors that will pursue him, imagine that me I will jeje open the door for her wetin concern me

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    1. I taya o. See the comments rolling in.

      There's joy in watching the grand finale of a show together.
      Maybe because they are Singles.

      We watched, drank and munched some things with our neighbours. 2 families sef amidst fits of laughter.
      And there was a bet too.

      Wonder what makes some people bitter and empty at the same time? The bobo never marry am, she dey drag door.

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  6. Hahaha
    That's really crazy and demeaning
    for a show that won't take a whole day
    She was trying to mark her territory

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    1. Territory that she might have used her own hands to scatter

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  7. Abeg leave story! You know he has a girlfriend that visits regularly!
    What’s the point going to his house at that time to watch big brother? Do you not have a tv in your house?
    Nonsense!

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    1. she wan go collect prick, we know her type.

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    2. So he shouldn't keep neighbours as friends cos of girlfriend

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    3. If she had one she won't be going to his house in the first and secondly there is nothing wrong with that. So maybe he has a gf he shouldn't allow anyone to his house,did the girl pay for the house?didn't the guy accept to let her watch the show so what's the gfs problem

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    4. Didn't she already ask him before that day? And she agreed. His house is his house. It's not a the girl house until he marries her. Someone like me would have gone back when he came to beg just to spite her so much

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    5. Anon 13:51 she wants to collect prick in the presence of the gf abi,its like sense is far from you today

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    6. I do watch Tv in my male neighbour's apartment, the gf knows me we dey gist, me i know very well i can not date, cos i hate neighbourhood relaship, sometimes ask me to go clubbing self with the gf, just that i am not s club club person
      She should have watch with the neigbour

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    7. Let’s play a different scenario.
      Girl goes to neigbour’s house to watch BBN. Generator sounds everywhere, and he forces himself on her.
      Next question will be “who sent you message” “can’t you afford your own TV” etc.
      No, she didn’t need to go to a man’s house to watch TV

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  8. And why would you choose to watch Big brother finale in a guy's house. You sef.

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    1. If all her neighbours are male nko? Should she change them to females just fir the BBn show?

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  9. Lol.

    Maybe the man was already giving up cheating vibes hence the reason why madam was on defensive mode.

    I don't know why some women think it's their duty to stop a man from cheating. A goat will be a goat!

    Ladies, choose your battles wisely.

    If the lady above and her boyfriend were actually having a relationship, she just helped them make it stronger.

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    1. If hes given her cheating vibes is he her husband, let her leave the rlationship nau.

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  10. Hmmmmm..it's a bad attitude but seriously,madam u eed stop d act of going to watch bbn in ur neighbors room





    Mc pinky

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  11. The woman who tweeted this was way out of her lane. It's unfortunate that naija legislation is still growing. In some countries, you have civil partnerships, you can file your taxes together and use "ordinary" boyfren gehfren relationship for legal reasons. If you have lived with your partner for a number of years, you can claim ownership of some of your partners assets. Case in point, remember the 75 page agreement document that John Cena made his then girlfriend to sign before moving in with him. That means that "ordinary" girlfriend title can give you significant rights over some of your partner's assets, except you have an agreement that expressly states otherwise. Girlfriend was wrong too. Her body was shacking her too much. She should have allowed her in for that time, then later, have a mature discussion with her boyfriend about it. Because that is her personal space too. She lives there. Live in, unmarried couples are a thing. Mr boyfriend should have to confirm from his lady before he allows his neighbour in. If you want your girlfriend to stay with you and do wifey things for you, you need to be ready to start treating her like a wife.

    @Chimamanda aka "goodwoman", stop chooking eye inside other people's personal space.

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    1. This your rant long no be small

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    2. Madam rest the story again. The girl grind doesn't obviously leave there. Comes to visit. Plus she had already asked the guy a day before the show. All this long rant. Since we are in Nigeria nko? Biko spare us. Civil partnership my ass unto 1hr programme. How is that her space? Let her go to her own house and have space or her fathers house. I'm sure if they girl was a live in lover, she would have asked the girl

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    3. Very Apt! You addressed both parties.

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  12. Some useless girls with entitlement sense.. .... Nonsense and ingredient

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  13. I don't even visit guys...if I visit u, then we must do..cos there is no "just friends" with males in my dictionary.

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    1. Woooozaa!!!!

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    2. Oshey baddest 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

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    3. BlackBerry,,u are the MVp we are talking abt....Omo igboro







      Mc pinky

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    4. As e dey hot....... Very brave and honest comment.
      For the guy to even be questioning his babe openly and then going all out to invite the female neighbor again, I must confess that his ways are not entirely pure!
      Though her mannerisms and approach wasn't the most refined but the neighbor sef no get brain or charisma for bringing the simple matter online to her genuine social media handle - maybe she wan slight the real oshe baddest ogbonge babe.
      Where there's true love, it should be guarded jealously. #gbam

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    5. BlackBerry I want to be like you when I grow. Pls show me the way🙉

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  14. Na from watch watch big brother, big belle dey come o.
    When they begin nak for big brother screen, na for you
    and neighbor to do practical be that o.

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  15. You don't have a TV/probly generator but why go to a single guy's house to watch?I am not justifying the girlfriends behaviour o but hanty is not so cautious too.if it was me,I MAY not be happy about it but I won't turn her back!!!!

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    1. Where should she have gone? A married man's house😂

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    2. So she should have gone to a married man's house? You people don't have sense here at all. Like it would have been right to go to a married man's house. What if all her neighbours are single? She should have organised a wedding for them so she can watch BBn?

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    3. You are the senseless and shameless one my dear. Why must she watch bbn in this particular neighbour's house?? When i was single, I lived alone and had neighbours. We were all cordial , infact one of them was my friend, he had a gf and I never ever entered his apartment.

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    4. As if watching bbn is life and death!!

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  16. Beware of neighbours. I no blame the girl. Me too I'm a neighbour. If you know, you know...

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    1. 🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊 you're a neighbor and a side hen as well??? Yes I know




      *Larry was here*

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  17. I'd been working all week, did my laundry on Saturdays and envisaged Sunday would be all about him and I...popcorn, red wine and Television.

    Big brother be damned!! Girl, be gone!!!!!

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    1. lol, the truth is no girl will like this nonsense though we may handle it differently. Next time madam, respect yourself and watch tv in your house except you have ulterior motive.

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    2. So if she had tv in her house she will leave her comfort zone and go to his own house, repeat after me"Sense I call on you today"

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    3. @sense anon....hahaha! I almost fell off the bed when I read
      "Sense I call on you today"
      Stella your BV's are CRAZY

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  18. I had a fine neighbour living beside me, I cannot imagine ever going to knock on his door to watch TV or do one thing one thing.

    Women , respect yourself.

    I am sure that female neighbour is interested in that neighbour if not, what will even make you to leave your house and go to someone's house. Nigerians have no boundaries. None whatsoever. No self respect. When a woman is obsessed with a man, her senses will fly out of the window.

    If you were living in predominantly white neighborhood, would you try that?

    The girlfriend didn't scream the No as well as I expected. Scream the No and slam the door on her. Learn to be contented.

    Emotional intelligence is everything.

    Please let's not trivalise the importance of girlfriend, even if its just for a month or two month, respect them. Whether they will make it to become wives or not, it is none of your business. If you face your business squarely , maybe you will have a happy relationship.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. Xoxo, you will not die young. See stupid talk that she is just a gf. Won't she be a gf before she becomes wife? Very soon she
      will go there and iron, use
      washing machine and start cooking, shameless neighbour.I wonder why you can't watch bbn in your own house or go to your boyfriend's house,mstchew.

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    2. The Grand Finale comes with lots of exciting vibes. Some leave their home and go to viewing centres to watch.

      Maybe the girl suspected some earlier moves by the neighbour, reason she had to block her from coming into the boyfriend's apartment.

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    3. King Xoxo, don't I just love you?

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  19. Nawa for bv oh I will open the door for her, make sure she knows how close me and my guy is whether na to act I will. Then when she leaves I will have a heart to heart talk with my bf, bcoz pursuing her will even drive my bf to her maybe in the course of begging.
    If that guy wants to sleep or date that lady and she is also ready to date him believe me there nothing she will do and they will do it right under her nose. I'm not saying I will be happy hell no but my bf is the only one that will put a stop to it.
    While serving I had a good neighbor wow I never knew someone guys can respect themselves like that, we were so close but I never ever step my foot into his house either we talk from the window or outside the house, and his fiancee usually visit only weekend maybe weekly or 2tyms a week. And when she visit the guy will withdraw and me I will call my jisting mouth to order till she goes, even when the guy knew I'm too decent for such but still he had to respect the girl n believe me if I was the type that enters people house n I wanted watching that big brother I will ask the guy and even tell him to please request from the gf for me n get back to me. Pls the gf behavior was bad n uncalled for.

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  20. So funny wonder why I find this tweet so hilarious. Kpele. Next time get a smile wifi and stay online un-interrupted watching the live show without any form of embarrassment. It's well darling no vex for am again you hear?

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  21. MY dear it’s uncalled for. Dated my husband a year and married 16. I have always allowed all visitors in. Male or female. It just might be a colleague and u r making things worse for him. Likewise he has never turned away any guy looking for me. Man Wey wan waka go waka. It’s not by harassing his visitors. Anyway to each his own.

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    1. Nobody is harassing her joo,
      make she rest. The gf isn't comfortable with it so she should respect that.

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  22. LMAO some people on this blog sef, e get as una be. I don't see anything bad in the girl going to watch BBN finale in the guy's house. The gf overreacted. If I were her, the only reason I wouldn't allow her is if she's Lashes FC LOL.. Just kidding ooo

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