Friday IHN

Thank God it is Friday...............

Tomorrow is the D-day and honestly i cant wait for the Royal wedding.....
I am gonna be having a mini party whilst the wedding is on....Yes!
it is that bad!!!....

BV Same girl;I saw the photos you took with Chikito yesterday....Anyday you run your mouth here,I will post it as face of in house news...hehehehehehheheheheheheheheh #joke #sdkbeauties
#cookiesandcreamimissyou

TWINNY PRISCA COVERS IHN

Hi Stella,

So i opened in- house news yesterday and the first person i saw was my twin 

(prisca).
I am Franca by the way. My sister just wants to show off her hair. Well i am not going to allow her shine alone ahahahahah.

Attached is my pics to also show you i have lovely hair.
Have a blessed day
Much love for you stells.

*WOW,both of you are so cute but Unidentical

Do twins ever get jealous of each other?
Please i need answers



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THURSDAY CHRONICLE UPDATE


Hope my mail meet you well Stella,

thanks to you all my family for your words.

Would love to give response to some bevees who are angry about me telling my guy to have s#x with the lady.

Well,I purposely told him to make sure he has some thing in common(s#x) with the lady because the lady keeps using his head,telling him she is a virgin where as,she is giving it out to people out there. This is not assumption but from a very reliable source.

Now to the update.

I got home yesterday on Thursday evening to see him and tell him about the issue and based on all have read in here,after much talk and exhale, then the ugly face met my eyes.How?

He told me,he had parted ways with the lady on Thursday morning because he can't bear the risk and responsibility of another man but he accepted her back around 4pm on Thursday because a pastor called both of them and told him,if he continues having s#x with her the baby will look like him that he shouldn't because of that let her go(hmm..ori iya mi o ni he). 

 Then I asked him if he has even sought for the advice of the elders,then he replied and said,the lady took her to one other pastor at Ijesha and the man said he shouldn't deny the lady because of what happened else,he will regret his action though he is not responsible for the pregnant but that's his cross which God has ordained for him(immediately my heart rushed down to my throat)

I tried convincing him but since my guy has been brainwashed and to crown it all,he has paid for all necessary items for the baby in advance this morning and also told me he is planning an introduction instead of wedding and I told him categorically that I won't attend and the lady in question has began to hate me which I am sure if she has any means,she will poison me.

What do I do,should I make it known to his dad or his younger sister or I keep mute?

So sad now,because I never expected such thing to happen to this guy on question. He is a very good friend,we have been together for over 25years without any disagreement except when I think he is not doing the right thing.



A concerned friend is confused.
Honestly?At this point i Will advice you to step out of this friendship cos its no longer in your hands and no longer your business.....time to step back..Otherwise you might end up getting hurt...Yes,our friend might connive with this lady to deal with you if you let out the secret...
25years friendship?Well try to make new friends.
I am not saying dont be friends anymore but fae your front!!!!



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POSSESSED OR NOT?

Stella abeg post here or on IHN or as a stand alone chronicle.

Anyhoo my problem be say, growing up, mumsy used to believe I am possessed with familiar spirit and she surrounded herself with prayer peeps that reinforced that belief. Till date I don’t know what xter’s I displayed that made her reach that conclusions.

I had a regular upbringing and was a proper daddy’s girl to the core. Only thing I know is I can stare at people without backing down and I have big bright eyes that can either scare or enchant you.


Moving on, as a teen, I used to dream a lot of playing by the river, sometimes swimming (till date I cannot swim to save myself) and occasionally dream of shagging in the dream. The main one is I dream of snakes, small and huge pythons and they move about without harming me instead na me go de run from them sef. Meanwhile in real life, I de fear cockroach talk more of snake. 


I cant even bare to see a picture of a snake because my fear fear no get grading sef so the sight of snakes huge and small crawling around me without attacking me in the dream is the one thing that makes me slightly uneasy i have to confess.


Lastly, anyone I am angry with, bad things happen to them, might not be immediate but within few months really huge, disappointing bad things happen to them. I am married with kids and my hubby is no exception. A few times he has stepped out of line and major bad things happened to him cos I was very aggrieved with him in my spirit...quickly i go sharply tell am to apologise to me and then things will resolve themselve.



There are other instances where family members, friends and associates that have hurt me and even without having a word exchange (so that people no go say I curse them mbanu), they just start experiencing bad downturns in their life. Now this has happened several times over several years with people from all walks of life...even my bosses at work are not exempt.



 You can imagine boss who is well decorated and been a manager for several years, well loved and decides to pick on me for reasons that she will usually overlook with someone else - i continued ignoring her antics till one day i went home and broke down and cried...Hubby consoled me and said shes just an employee like i am so i should ignore her. I did but within 6 months of that incident, there was organisation restructure and she lost her post, was downgraded and transferred to a lesser post/office.


I confided in someone who said the usual spirit husband ish and that my spirit husband is the one that goes after people who have offended me blablabla . Now I don’t believe in that ish because I don’t see myself in any meeting with people, no be say I yellow laidat, like I said I am married and I have done MFM deliverance before so no be say anything. 


Abeg anyone that can shed some light on this will be helpful because if I have all this “power” , I will like to put good use to it like develop myself forward, secure myself financially and my family so that all this day to day sufferhead go stop. What is the use of power that one haff and you can only use it to punish another person? Meanwhile you go still de suffer de go for your own end? Power that one cannor use to win lottery is that one power? 

Hmmm if what you posted up there is true,you need to repent and go for deliverance oh...who does that?its like you are possessed by the spirit of serpent abi snake sef...


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HELP NEEDED

I'm loosing it already. I can't just help it.

Somebody please tutor me on how to control my anger and be patient.

I hope I won't end up being in the news for murdering my child/children someday.

I flare up at the slightest thing. I beat like there's no tomorrow and sometimes stone them with anything I'm holding at the moment.

To think my first daughter's wrist still hurts her for the one I did her somewhere around late last year.

Worst thing, I dreamt of beating all of them cos they were annoying me to the extent I stabbed my first daughter with a scissors last night.


Please, how do I be a loving, caring mother to these kids?

They deserve way better than this and I wish to treat them very well but I can't just help it.

I'm loosing it!I sincerely need advice. Oh my God!



OMG OMG OMG OMG....You need help fast!!!!...WHAT!!!




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GIST

Something happened in my area in Abuja, Curse to be precise.

 A woman I know very well ( she owns a provision store near my house) displayed a very macabre drama about three days ago. I was coming back from town when I saw people gathered at the front of her house where she lives with her husband and her daughter and I stopped to see what was happening. 


I saw the woman lying down in her own filth, she had urinated and pooed on her self and she was shouting that people should help her that people should help her, that her husband is abusing their daughter (a girl of about 13 years). 


She was shouting continuously and soiling herself. She made mention of the owner of the house opposite theirs that died under suspicious circumstances some weeks back (the woman was found dead, sitting on her toilet, with her tongue hanging out and red marks around her throughout, when she was found rigour mortis had set in, so she was frozen in that position), she said the woman was killed by "spiritual arm robbers" . 


She called her husband a spiritual thief, that the husband has nearly finished her "spirit" and now he has turned to their daughter. The husband in question kept saying that she was insane and as i am typing this, he has taken her to the psychiatric hospital. 

As per usual everybody dispersed to their various houses after the whole thing. But I saw the daughter yesterday and it came to my mind that she is left alone in the house with her dad and I can't help but think " what if the woman is right and those were not just the rants of a mad woman", " what does she mean by that her husband is a "spiritual thief" and that the dead woman was killed by a "spiritual armed robber". I can't help but think that I should do something. Should I tip off a relevant authority especially about the little girl?


Na wah!!!..it is possible the woman is ill....I dont know but whatever you do,do it as anon please or just mind your business...




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MORNING ANGER

The pain I feel for being followed this morning all the way from my bustop down to my house just to be  'toasted' is beyond measure. I mean, it's irrational for a man to follow a lady up to her house just to say 'you are beautiful, never seen this face in this environment before' and to thereafter ask for my contact in the morning like there's no job doing.

I just finished my LLB programme and the hustle to get an internship before Law School has been very difficult. I sent several applications to different firms but didn't get. I even tried to get a job pending the time I resume Law school, but all my efforts didn't yield a positive result.

The reality of job scarcity in the country dawned on me and so I thought, "why don't you learn a Skill?" And so I went in to learn Fashion Design only to discover that my intending Boss has little time for me. In disappointment, I walked home and then this man followed me all the way to my house.

I couldn't be rude so as not to bring problems to myself but the anger was apparent. I had to listen and shove him off politely.

Men should stop this habit. It's really annoying. All I wish for is to get a law firm where I can learn the practical aspect of law or a place to learn Fashion Design at a small price within the Igando area of Lagos State. Thanks Stella.

Beekay
A Law graduate of Obafemi Awolowo University.



*LOL...go and learn na...Look for a busy place with students and not the empty ones......
Time to toast someone should not have a particular time of the day nau..maybe the tasoter is on leave..lol

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MRS DEE'S CORNER
LIFE AND ITS COMPLEXITIES.


Oftentimes when I sit down to reflect about life,I discover that it is complicated and maybe impossible to unravel. I wonder who my predecessors were,what type of good or bad actions/decisions they engaged in and took and the effect it's having on me presently. I begin to wish I can gain access to certain information on them and how it will change the choices I make and possibly the way my life has turned out..


You may ask what has made me to take this line of thought and I'll say  the stories of Rehoboam the King and Abiathar the Priest in the Bible.  If  Rehoboam the son of Solomon knew what God spoke against his father,he would have hearkened to the advice of the elders and he would still be king over Israel but he took the young men's counsel and lost ten tribes. Abiathar the priest in the time of king David switched loyalty at the last minute and instead of him to be elevated, he was thrust out from being a priest fulfilling the curse God placed on Eli and his descendants. 


 I am a strong believer that the spiritual controls the physical and nothing good or bad happens radomly. Most times it may not be as a result of where we are coming from,it could also be as a result of some other factors That is why I'll always advice Christians who are having certain challenges to seek the face of God in prayers.  Don't just attend church to dance,praise,give tithes and offerings,say prayers of fifty seconds interval and expect things to fall in place or change for the better and when it doesn't we are quick to blame God and accuse Him of being unfair when we compare our lives with our mates. 



It may change, but if it doesn't,  move to a church where the pastor has the anointing for deliverance and where serious deliverance prayers take place and never give up because if you don't win the battle it will still linger into the next generation till somebody stands in the place of prayer and prevails. I used to attend a church that believes once you are born again you don't need to go for deliverance.  All you need to do is live in holiness and God would erase all the negative things in your life . This cannot work for everybody and it definitely didn't work for me till I took deliberate steps to be free and persisted in the place of prayer till my change came and I am so happy I did. Some people have faulty foundations and their parents may not let them in on the root cause of their problems because of shame. 



My former pastor when he was quite young experienced childlessness for twelve years and according to him the wife visited everywhere in desperation and drank whatever she was given till she finally had a son.  Today that young man is still struggling to find his foot, his younger siblings are doing very well and the mum still wishes she did things differently. She did all this in ignorance but the son is still paying for it  today. 




Na wah!

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TOYOTA MATRIX NEEDED


 I need a toyota matrix from 2003 model in good condition for 1million. That's all I can afford. Please the car should be in good shape and the engine okay. I can be reached on 08086576684




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NANNY NEEDED
I need a live-in nanny aged btw 40-45 years in Lagos. I stay on the island. The person must be a Christian with a good heart.

Kindly contact me on 08028977355.

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