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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CHRONICLES OF A HUSBAND SNATCHER.


Good day ma'am Stella.

Let me pour out my heart here.


He bought me my first phone when I was 18 #7,000.
Not that I even wanted to date him in the first place oh. I only accept to date him due to fear cos I saw what a what a boy did to a girl who refused dating him back then.


And with the pressure he was putting on me even though he had a live-in girlfriend/wife back then. Now I know better I shouldn't have given in to his pressure no matter what, I should have told his then woman to kindly talk to her man. But no, I was too stupid so I accepted before he harm me(c**t).


The wife/live-in girlfriend got preggers shortly after we started dating(he told me happily that they've been TTCing for years and he gave her till the end of that month if she doesn't take in they will have problems but now she's preggers). Someone hinted her I'm dating her husband. I was in secondary school then. The worstest foolishness and regret in my life.



Only if I had known he smokes cocaine/charlie. of course I knew he smokes weed and I had no problems with that.

The wife dreamt(according to him) that I fought her in her dream. Omo, not a joking matter. The following morning he called and started threatening me that I have the guts to go fight his pregnant wife. How did I fight your wife? How?
His fellow "****" boys too were threatening me that I have the guts to go fight their boss' wife that they would do me something oh. Oh my!
Night time, he came to my father's house ,blow me on my tummy, my breast and gave me a dirty slap, I almost faint.


Seized the phone he bought for me and said should anything happen to his wife or unborn child I will see. I told my then friend friend of what's going on.
Had to go on a compulsory fasting and prayer for God to please keep his wife and child safe till she delivers safely. But I cried a particular cry to God. I said God, if this girl did not have any such dream but she just wants to lie against me so her boyfriend/husband can beat me, father may she born safely but let that Baby die.


God knows that day if I had had a gun I would have shot him or if I had gotten hold of acid I would have pour in on his.

Out of anger I went to where he normally buys weed. Bought 2 wraps and smoked them and ready to kill. But hey who give me gun or acid? Of course nobody.


He tried coming back, I told him it's over between us he said do I think I can leave him? That I can't leave him oh. Btw he was 28 then same age as his wife.
I had no choice than to accept him back.


We continued then on the night of December 24th one of his brother told me that his wife had put to bed a bouncing baby girl.
God! My joy knew no bounds. I was so happy and in the mood of watch-night I danced so much.
Mind you he brought in other girls whenever his wife went visiting her mom. All these happened in my SSS-2 class.


Then I got to sss-3 but no money to register for WAEC. I'm the shy type so I couldn't ask him for money for registration although he used to give me small small money then but I didn't have the liver to ask him for such amount of money. I know it wasn't his responsibility or so I thought.
Went to meet brother,stories of how things were rough. After every every the registration date was over so I didn't have a choice.


My then friend(bestie) who lived in a room which her aunt rented for her asked me to come stay with her so I could hustle and by the next session pay for my registration.


Went there pay was 7k cool.

Worked for 2months issues came up and resigned. A friend to my friend told me the things my bestie had been gossiping behind my back. Bestie will come to where I was and we will do our normal friendly stuff and tell me her friend said this about me and me and her friend fell out(didn't know she was the one igniting the fire till her friend sat me down and told me what was actually happening) people of here I was shocked.


I missed my period and confided in my friends and everybody started suggesting what works for them when they took in. We all were teenagers oh.
I took every every nothing happened.


My friend suggested I tell him so we could know what to do bout it.
I called him and said I was sick, he told me his daughter was sick also for some days now so I had to let my own matter rest first.

Following day he called and said he had lost his daughter,I knew it wasn't in anyway related to my prayer Sha. She was 3months plus.


Oh how I felt bad about it and was sad that day.

Some days later I told him what's up and he suggested I come down to his base so we could go abort it since that were people does it.
I was happy and went to meet him but guy changed topic for me that I shouldn't abort I refused and he started preaching of how some girls aborted till they couldn't bear a child again even used his sister as an example.
After much talk I agreed and that was the journey of my.... don't even know how to put it.


Anyway Sha he took me back to the village, did I tell you people we are from same community but never knew each other till the time we met cos we both didn't grow up there.


Suffered nor be here. To the extent i was calling and cursing my mom for leaving me behind in this hard world to suffer. I was 19 then.
Told her if she doesn't come and take me may she have no peace or rest wherever she was.


People I started hearing someone calling my name at different times and whenever I came out of the house to know who called I wouldn't see anyone.


It continued for sometime till the last one, I was in the room when I heard my then friends voice(may she rest in peace) very clearly called me and I was happy that my friend was here at last so we could go to her place together.


My people, I came out but not even a soul was outside. I was shock but then I remembered that maybe it could be my mum cos of the words I said. I nor carry eye see mama from small oh.
I quickly said please mama, I said those words out of anger that she should please go back and rest in peace. That was the last I heard my name being called.


One day I was inside and was hearing noise from outside the passage, said let me know what was happening. Lo and behold his wife was there to beat me but his brother came with her and was begging her to please leave me alone.


She called me names, called me a little witch that killed my parents and all sorts. I didn't utter a word.
All these while his brother was signalling me not to answer her.
She said me witch that killed her daughter, chai, this one really entered my bone marrow and I wanted to talk back at her but the brother signalled me not to talk.

I kept quiet till she packed every load in the house just the the pot I used in boiling yam and a mirror which the brother told her to leave that he would bring them for her.


Not long after she too took in and birthed her daughter 4 months after I birthed my daughter.


One day I called him and told him there's no food in the house for baby. He invited me over to his base to his relations house and said he was coming. My daughter was about 6+ months and her daughter was 2 months old.
About an hour or so later he came asked me to come over to his house, that's his parents house and his mom lived there but his own room was somewhat separate. Ehen, did I tell you people that there was one time he invited me over to his base the time she birthed the first child, we went together to buy food for her, he gave me the money and told me what I should go and buy for her.

Chai men! Imagine that I was some evil and wicked minded somebody just imagine what could have happened.


So I went to his mom's side greeted her and was there. He asked me if I had eaten I said no thinking that he would give me food from his mother's pot.
If I had known he would do otherwise I wouldn't have said I haven't eaten.
He later called me in to his room. I greeted her, of course no response.

He asked me to go boil water, make eba and dish the soup she cooked and eat.
I refused. He forced me then I had to go do it.


After which he started begging her to please forgive him, knelt down. She was very mad and started talking.

He begged and begged she refused to listen that why would he bring me inside the house.
He asked me to beg her, I wanted to, she said I'm not her problem that she doesn't have a problem with me.
She said that let morning reach first then he would know that she too she's a bad girl. He begged till he later left the house with anger and said let her do her worse.


When he left I wanted to beg her to please not be angry that it was a mistake but she shush me down saying if I talk I'll get her more angry so I kept quiet.
I slept on the floor with my daughter and she asked me to come sleep my daughter in the bed but my daughter wouldn't sleep, crawling to go drag the baby.


Morning reached he came and escorted us to go back. Days later he called and told me she left with her baby by the time he came back.
Asked him to please go beg her he said he did but she said never will she come that he should go bring his village wife to come stay with him.


That was how I started going to his place with my child. No I didn't have any intention of staying with him. Infact I was already done with him in my mind before this incidence.

That child too die 3+ months just like the first *sad face*.

My people, that was how my eyes see wheen.

First was that I'm having affairs with his younger brother. That was how the accusations started oh.

On day, his brother's woman came visiting with their two sons and our children were watching film inside the room while myself and their mom were discussing outside. By this time my daughter was 9 months old and was trying to walk.
They pressed something in the room and the TV wasn't showing again. Their dad his younger brother went in and did it and the ashes from the cigarette he was holding fell on the speaker and I didn't know.
They went back to their base later in the evening.


He came back from where he went and saw the cigarette and asked me who came inside there? I told him. Ehei! See beating. That I have slept with his brother. He blew my mouth and some of his friends outside told him it's enough after he stopped he asked me to make eba for him that he's coming. That was how I planned my exit but decided to leave the child with him to show him a lesson.


I went to my friend's place and explained what happened. She was like, what is wrong with him, does he see you like such person?
She Sha asked me to call him on phone and tell him where I was for the sake of the child.
I called him with her phone and he started pleading that I should come back and he didn't know what came over him.
He swore and promised never to do it again.
With his sugar coated tongue he convinced me and I went back.


I chop the beating of my life. Asin, he beat me, I was pleading he didn't listen.
Our daughter came to meet me I carried her, he took her from my hand and flung her to one side of the bed.
I was crying, begging to no avail.


And I knelt down begging that was how he used his knee and hit my forehead and it broke. Blood was gushing out but he didn't stop. I cried begged for where.
As he went outside to go pick something that was how I opened the g.m.p and jump out. He heard the sound and followed me immediately matching our daughter to the beg.
That was around midnight. He chased me, I ran to the neighbouring house shouting for help, I fell down he caught me and said I should move. I was crying calling for help. He said I was wasting my time that nobody in that area dares interfere in his matter.


He dragged me to the house and resume the beating. His mother travelled.
The beating lasted till dawn before he left me. That was on a Friday against Saturday. He bought procaine injection powder which I put in the very big tear on my face no treatment.


Reaching on Sunday he gave me some money to keep which he will come and ask me to give him some amount at different intervals. He wouldn't sleep at night. Him and his friends will smoke till morning before they sleep.


Then I slept off for some time before he woke me up to give him some money.
Got to where the money was kept I couldn't find anything. Told him, he said I had given the money to my boyfriend one of his small boy. I said no that I kept the money there. He wouldn't hear that one.


Another round of beating started. He broke my cheeks with bottle and beat me till I had to accept that I gave the money to the boy. We went to the boys house around that midnight.
The boy was with another of his friend and he told the boy to bring the money I gave to him. The boy asked if I gave him money? I explained to him what happened thinking they would find and beg him for me.
All of them joined him and started cursing me. All these while blood is pouring from my face.


Then a problem arose and they were having some kinda problems with the armed forces. That was how he discharged me and my daughter to go to the village. I was happy.


Everybody was asking me what happened. I told them I had an accident and told only one of my friend of what actually happened.
I was done man. I was done.

You know something? I never told any of my siblings of what was happening with that word that says, whatever happens between you and your man you don't take it out. I think that was where the problem started. Cos If I had told them about it they could have at least not let me die in his hands. My friend told me to breakup with him for my own good. I called him, told him it was over between us. He said ok no problem.
The problem chased him and his friends and come to the village.



He came to my house with a big fish and asked me to cook for them and bring to their house which I did.
He started with bring my daughter let me see her, wanted to have s§x I disagreed and later we went on. I took in when my daughter was 10 months old and had started walking. I didn't tell him.
My friend and I started looking for solution but only a drop of blood touched my pantie and that was all.


Finally told him, he said I should keep it. I said never! He told his mom who in turn talked to me. I said I wouldn't gree that I wasn't ready to have another child.

She preached and said if I aborted do I think God would be happy with me. I didn't listen to all that. We continued the search for abortion chemist and others. No way. By this time he had stopped giving me money at all that I will use the money to go and abort.
The hell wasn't here. He would forcefully sleep with me, as in, rape me while heavily pregnant. Beat me of having affairs, I wouldn't sleep at night till dawn.Oh God I suffered.


Then one day, I was about 8 months gone, I saw a white substance in his hands. Oh no! Cocaine? No wonder he behaves like this. Chai. If I had known. Only if I knew earlier that he takes cocaine never would I have agreed to dating him no matter what cos I've had enough stories about guys who take cocaine.


That is how we have been dealing till we've got 4 kids now in our 28 and 38 years respectively with the I don't want to born you must born syndrome.
He have done me too many things mehn.

Is it the bursting of my head? Cuttings me with cutlass back after bursting my head? Abi the one that he flogged my hands till they went numb? All for the, his instinct tells him i having affairs with not just his brother again but friends, all the men on our street and even some people I don't know exist?


I have been a runaway mother many times leaving the kids but the last time I took them but money didn't go anywhere so I had to return them.
Called to speak with them he refused giving them phone. We agreed that I will come visit the children, I went and that was how he seized my everything and even wanted to beat me that I left his house cos of men. The women on my street according to him are calling me useless and stupid and all sorts of name that how can I leave my home and children and run that we that on generator 247 ?


He goes to market himself cos should I go men will so rush me. I don't go anywhere oh. I m not even fine oh, if you see me worwor want to finish me.
My self esteem was low from time but he drag it to the ground completely but now I'm picking it up little by little with the help of Internet without caring of what the women or any body in this world thinks. Now if you stare at me I stare at you back in the eyes.


Oh God! I feared him so much that each time somebody talk unexpected I just shock and shiver.
Now I'm trying to tell him that I'm no longer the small mumu girl of 10 years ago and I can't be taking all those shit anymore.


I force myself to go to the market without letting him know, I dare not say anything on my mind, I dare not disagree to anything he says weather it sits well with me or not. If he's talking if I keep quiet I'm calling him a fool. If I talk to defend myself I don't have respect I'm challenging him. If I walk away i am disrespecting him and if I stand looking at him, I want to dare him.


He does something that annoys me i complain, he would say I don't have respect that's why I'm talking, if I don't talk to avoid problem he would say I'm evil that's why I'm holding grudge in my mind without letting it out. 


When he comes back and meet dirty clothes/plates at home he starts complaining calling me dirty and all, but you did not give me money now neither is there soap in the house , he finishes every member of my family from my parents to siblings. He buys me clothe if he sees any he likes.
Doesn't give me money at home. If I ask for#200 from him he will want to know what I want to buy with it and insists he will go buy it himself. But if we are outside and I ask for#100 he will give me#500-#1000.


One thing about me is that whatever causes problem between me and someone, I would try not to repeat or avoid such thing so it doesn't cause problem again. But people have always seen me as a wicked person cos of that.
But me I don't see it as wickedness but trying to avoid such repeat like the saying, once beaten twice shy. I don't forget things so easily but everybody misunderstood me.


whatever he buys is what we cook and of recent I've been strolling out with my kids and you know what that means? I'm dragging shoulders with him, I'm challenging him, I'm not loyal.

He says he is helping me as I am in his house, he is the help that God sent to me. My impoverished family.
Some times he threatens to kill me, cut off my leg and all sorts.

My last child is 3yrs old and I regret ever knowing him cos my life would have been been way better than this.
I was the hope of my family and people believed in me now I disappoint them.
My daughter got raped by one bastard in that short interval I left them.


Him and his wife started having affairs and I was happy let them settle so I can go my way. I don't care how many children i had for him. I just wanted an excuse that can't bring us back together.

She fell seriously sick and died 4yrs ago.
God, that day is another day I won't forget in my life. He poured my blood again.At every slightest thing he will call me a murderer that killed his wife.


Yes, go ahead curse me, insult me, call me every despicable name cos I deserve them.
I've been living in guilt and cursing myself ever since then. Hard as I try I just don't think I can ever forgive myself for breaking another woman's home.
I put myself in whatever I get here and I blame no one. Not even him.


He calls me home breaker. That I saw him with another woman yet I came in. That I am shameless that upon the good girl I am I end up breaking another woman's home. And yes he's right.

Mind you, I have been told by his people that that's how he used to beat that his ex that he will beat her till she faints and even stabbed her severally.
I drank bleach, kerosene, dettol, death refused to come.


The wicked thing he does now is making my children disrespect/disobey me.
If I tell them not to do something he will tell them to do it that it is their father's house so they should have the freedom to do whatever they like and I don't find it funny at all cos I don't want my children to grow up with such attitude.
It has gotten to a point where when I tell the 2 younger children not to do a certain thing they would go report to him and he will ask them to do it.


I told him that if he's doing this to destroy my children then he will later go get married and start having his good children since a man doesn't expire, that it's then he will know that everybody have a beast in them cos I will so destroy his everything in life. He started calling me names.

He's threatening me that should i leave the children and go he will tell his mother to tell them that I'm dead and he will never allow them set their eyes on me and even if we see I dare not come near them. And that he will spoil their minds against me by telling them horrible things about me.
And should I go with them, he is a man and can always have other kids and when they grow up they'll definitely look for him.


I just feel like forgetting the children and run away. I just feel like taking the children and run very far away from him.
I don't even have a heart to love these children again, I'm so paranoid, I boil at every little thing I can't just help it.


Sometimes I think I m mad before getting myself again. I can forget where I'm going.Sometimes don't remember what I was doing or how I got to wherever I may be at that time.Sometimes my children may complain or cry that I slapped them but I can't remember when or how I beat that.


I used to shout and correct people and even his aunt that used derogatory remarks on their children to stop it and nobody dared referred to my child as mumu. I would plainly tell you never to try that again, but now I'm the chief of derogatory and negative words to my children and I will even shout it out loud.
I find it difficult to breathe properly, I sometimes have to cry to relieve my mind and heart of some much worries and thinking.


Sometimes I feel like I'm dying, everywhere becomes dark.

I dare not complain of being sick cos it's just him that has the right to fall sick and go to hospital. I don't even know if I will live to see my children grow up.
I don't want my children to end up like me. Not knowing what it feels like to have a mother.
I know it is my karma.



JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH.....I know you are reading comments cos i promised you i would post this today......I dont know what to say,I am in shock.
Please mail me back .......OMG!!!