Male and Female besties?....Juliet thinks otherwise!!!
In the sense that; most of these besties secretly have a crush on each other and are just waiting for the right time to be the one to come to the rescue or be the shoulder to lean on. Or, maybe they had a thing once or twice before and decided to just stay friends...What do y'all think?''
Ofcourse you know this nah cause experience they say is the best teacher
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DeleteNa which kind talk wey no get head be this?
ReplyDeleteRead again enyim
DeleteGo and read it again
DeleteShe made sense
Very true most girls that claiming besties are actually sleeping with each other! You can take that to the bank. Watch them closely
ReplyDeleteToyin and one Mandy chick were claiming best friends .mother and daughter relationship not know toyin was f*****g on the low
ReplyDeleteIf I see two girls that are always together I dey suspect them seriously
ReplyDeleteMy dear na lie , what if ur ' friend' ( I don't blv in bestie) as in close friend is UGLY but u still like her for other things? NNE ur mind no go even go there, lesbians go for girls with CLEAN dispositions, no b d ones wey u go enter their ' expensive' room and c piles of dirty clothes + room b smelling of stale period! Hahahhhahahah flash back .
DeleteNot true abeg...
DeleteI can’t have a lesbo sex with a close friend...
Never!..
Intact,I prefer a random person or a very far friend!...
The closest person to me back in the day was a guy. We were like inseparable. Our individual relationship partners knew that we were that close so it wasn't a problem. Our families even knew of our closeness cos it got to the point that we call each other's name unconsciously when we mean to call someone else. Funny enough, even when people were cajoling us to date or prophesying that we'll end up together, we were not seeing each other in that light. Infact, we told each other that we won't even last if we got married cos we were already used to each other but our friendship was tight. I really can't explain it. Today, I'm married to someone else.. infact he would have been my MOH but something came up.😁
ReplyDeleteSo Jully, they don't need to have a thing or two, somethings just happen naturally.
My bestie is female. We've been friends for years...and it's been purely platonic. Even after we both got married we still were close, closer even. She's relocated to the 'abroad' now and I miss having a 'gossip' partner and confidante a drive away.
DeleteShout out to her hubby, cool dude
Me I don't believe in male and female besties, frm experience large percentage of these friendlationship ends under the duvet.
ReplyDeleteYou are right Juliet Ibrahim.
ReplyDeleteVery true...
ReplyDeleteTo an extent she could be right. Let's use me for example, i met someone back in 2014 and liked him straight away. We did share a kiss then (which was once) for the short period we were getting to know each other. However i had to leave the country permanently and knew things wouldn't work btwn us.
ReplyDeleteI noticed over the years since then the feelings died off naturally as i got to meet other people and him as well. But till date we've remained true friends and NEVER has any of us mentioned ever wanting to be with the other relationship wise as we've come to understand that not all friendship will lead to relationships. Who would have thought he'll be one of my closest friends till date. So to an extent yes such things could happen between the opposite sex being friends, However it takes maturity and strict discipline to separate frienship from whatever each person may have at heart.
Una 2 go still knack. Its called' hanging feeling'. Wen una taya to suspend d feeling, last last na to commort panti
DeleteMy best friend is a guy and we have been besties for over 10 years. We have shared our beautiful and darkest moment together ( we both experienced terrible break -up).he sleep over at my hostel back then in school and vice-versa. We shared our darkest secrets but we never ever hugged (except friendly hugs) . we are both married to different partners of course and still extremely close but nothing intimate as ever happened. This Juliet perspective to me lies with the intention of friends from the on-set. If you started the friendship because you are looking for opportunity to get close to someone in other to make out with them then what do you expect than gbenshing. Juliet perspective to me is not attainable to all.
ReplyDeleteSo true.... ere Kinni aja ba ekun Se.
ReplyDeleteWell she's right in a way 70% of the opposite sex besties are side chic's. Na so one keep me for sex yet relationship no get structure. I run ,no God go punish you ife, you will never find happiness in life. Aye e o ni lojutu o
ReplyDeleteHian!! Bravitude. You sure say dis ife no give you something chop??? Abi na d ponyor. Nobi ife, so called lawyer for Abuja? Guy na serial dude na. You don dey call this guy since 2014, abeg free yourself o! No go colo o, this one pass be careful.
DeleteAunty Julie i don hear
ReplyDeleteJuliet pls speak for yourself sogbo? As far I am concern opposite sex friendship is the best. I've got an opposite sex friend that's going to 9yrs of friendship now. And we've never taken undue advantage of each other. He knows everything about me and I know everything about him too. He encourages me to be a better person.
ReplyDeleteHe was even the one that encouraged me to go for my post basic in nursing anaesthesia after I was not chosen for Periop nursing in ife. In fact I really value our friendship no be small. I see him as my brother and I can never think about sex with him. So madam julietti everything is not about sex you hear me,we still have decent people out there.
Aunty nurse, now we know you are a nurse anesthesia, well done.
DeleteDear Juliet, that you are morally bankrupt hence can't keep a male friend without opening your legs to him doesn't mean everyone is like you. Male and female besties do exist; it happens.
ReplyDeleteAll my friends are guys and I have absolutely no sexual feelings for any of them. Being best friends with the opposite sex is real and not always sex oriented. Guys please stop putting ideas into people's heads.
ReplyDeleteTrue..... Same way Stella Damasus when acting towards Daniel when you had problem with his ex. God punish fake friends
ReplyDeleteIn some cases,it is not always so. I have a closer male friends than females. Some girls are backstabbers and two-faced bitches.
ReplyDeleteOh Chim!! Of all things to think about abi discuss in d world right now??😕 Juliet, Ike dikwa gi biko.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful Julie, she's kinda right thou.
ReplyDeleteNa wah o. All these generalizations shaa. Juliet should speak for herself. What of someone you grew up with, who is like a brother. The thought of it is like someone asking you to date your brother, unimaginable. i just tire for world people.
ReplyDeleteWell, she's 70% correct because most at times,these besites turns out to become friends with benefits.
ReplyDeleteNot true. My bestie is a guy and we sometimes sleep on the same sofa without gbenshing. He knows, my favorite food, color and sex toy. We are more like siblings. I can't imagine kissing, giving blow job and making love to Joe. Lord thinking about it now sef makes me sick.
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DeleteI AF headache
Exactly. That's the feeling.
DeleteLie lie @steffy.u wey dey gbensh anything wey long.when u don drink finish will u no if its Joe abi goodluck.
DeleteLie lie @steffy.u wey dey gbensh anything wey long.when u don drink finish will u no if its Joe abi goodluck.
DeleteLol @ 19.32.
DeleteAnon 19:32 let me help u laugh at ur dry joke. Kwakwakwakwakwakwakwa now move along.
DeleteTo every rule, there's an exception. That being said, I still a very close female friend, at a point people thought we're already gbenshing, but we've never gone beyond hugging each other which is usually in public. There are days we'll quarrel and won't talk for days, one day we'll get tired of ignoring each other and we'll just start talkin like nothing has ever happened between. Truth is we both have been attracted to each other,but we've never gone beyond being friends till date till she tied the knot... PS I've met her husband severally, and he keeps wondering what kind of friendship we have....
ReplyDeleteFor me, it's not true. I have guys that i'm friends with but I have never for once thought of sleeping with them.
ReplyDeleteI'm of this opinion to an extent,we can't be so sure all 'best friends' are a decoy,if u have been BFF since childhood abi long before the relationship,that's ok but not sudden new found friend,as the Yoruba's say eere kini aja n ba ekun she?
ReplyDeleteIv just 1 male friend,since 2007(shortly before I started dating hubby) and we don't talk often,atmost 2×s in 2months!
Im of the opinion of never making a friend with the opposite sex once u are in a serious relationship talk less of marriage!!
Rightly said
DeleteIt depends
ReplyDeleteBeautiful Julie, she's kinda right thou
ReplyDeleteThis is so true oh,100%.I am married now but my present bestie and I gbensh and still talk dirty now ,my husband is not aware,he comes to our house with his wife and kids often,we attend parties because we have same friends,we still do it and so exciting, if men can cheat so can women,we also get tire of same dick,we are so coded, mind you,my husband satisfies me but I lust for him.
ReplyDeleteFunkeeee!! You say? Who will tell her husband? Poor man, I am sure he thinks his wife is faithful. Lmao. Me sef I feel like cheating but it’s only God that stops me. Plus my ex that I like seems to be too jealous to even be my friend. I am so lonely...I need a guy I can talk to about everything.
Delete*clears throat*
DeleteFUNKE!!!!
Anti-healthy ikpu!!!
DeleteThis is so wrong my dear! You need to stop it before it consumes you.
DeleteWhat wants to disgrace you will start as sweet...Stop it before it's too late.
DeleteMy own is this: I will be seeing the person as a friend, they wee be catching feelings. Before you know they've started singing songs of praise on your head everyday.
ReplyDeleteCHIKE!!! Come and carry your sub... kikikikikiki 🤣😂😂
DeleteYou are a professional
DeleteThe only male best friend I have is actually a priest! We've been friends even before he went to the seminary in Ibadan and later became a priest and then moved to the States for further theological studies and he's now doing his PhD.
ReplyDeleteHe knows almost every thing about me because I see him as a friend and not a priest.
The other male friend that we were very close back then and I even sometimes sleep in his off campus apartment (with his girlfriend around) cut me off when he got married.
Yes, he is that discipline and his wife too is not the type that allows opposite sex friendship. So, I respect her stands.
I'm not a fan of sudden opposite sex bestie....
I can't keep a girl as friend o! I must gbensh u.
ReplyDeleteIn some cases yes.can't allow my future hubby to bestie any bitch...i'll be his bitch,bestie,girlfriend,wify etc
ReplyDeleteI have friends that are guys and I have never thought of gbenshing them. Either have they.....
ReplyDeleteHave one close one especially we have been friends over 10 years. He got married early wayyyy before me. We used to meet up to watch movies. His wife knows me,and I was even single then. He comes for my family functions I go to his. With or without our spouse's.
He just moved to my area and I'm planning on going to visit him soon. Offcourse his wife will be present. But even if she's not she will know about my coming. I will also tell my husband where I am going.
This is not to say I will be going to their house every weekend. Just once in a blue moon I happen to pass by.
Most of our talk is whatsapp and calls. Back them any guy that is asking me out he knows them, their stories and if they will be good for me. You can also tell him anything because he won't judge you as a woman might. I also have women close friends but this guy is just someone I can always rant to and he will always listen.
He has been in a relationship with his wife Since school days and got married early. So I never really knew him as a single man. Infact I admire the way he loves his wife and I am also her greatest cheerleader.
It has never worked for me so i don't believe in opposite sex bestie. You try to be yourself and the next thing,they start catching feelings
ReplyDeleteNo be lie o ,don't even believe all these bestie rubbish between a man and a woman
ReplyDeleteThank you o. Na so e dey start
DeleteMost of them are ex turn bestie I have them alot & they help me financially more than my man self
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This is a typical ghana people their & girls dirty lifestyle & witchcraft things that their women r known for!!!
ReplyDeleteLook at all of them, who is married ? Or legitimately open to the world about the man/ several faceless men they sleep with.
Tufiakwa for very perverse people & their crazy way of life. All they do is MAKE FRIEND, POISON OTHER PEOPLE'S RELATIONSHIP, STEAL MEN, F0CK AROUND, PRETEND LOVE & REMAIN SINGLE FOR REAL FOREVER!!!
Their men r lazy minded, poor or very weak in character to sit down & expect their "women" or sisters & whatevery they call it in their dark culture to feed the men, cater for them, pimping & depending on a woman to go bring them money.
Ndi ara Ghana people!!!
TUFIAKWA!!!👿😈👿
Is that not how Laura ikeji was calling ogbona bestie. Made the man to leave them mother of his kids.
ReplyDeleteBestie ndi ara!!!
DeleteLet any such girl come near me & my sons or grandsons. They will taste hell fire on earth!!!
I HATE THAT "MAKING FRIENDS" something with a passion. It's always a ploy for fake ass bitcches, conniving & twisted, manipulative girls way to destroy an unwitting & naive man into seduction, immoral life.
This is something ghana women & people r the #1 for. They steal, poison & pollute all in the guise of making friend with someone.
Exactly how Stella was claiming bestie with Ademinokan, Doris husband. Now, she's celebrating wedding anniversary with the man.
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DeleteThis has funmi and millen written all over it, rumour has it that they are married
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