Nollywood actress Chioma Akpotha, in an interview has revealed that attending a girls’ only secondary school affected her relationship with men.
Speaking with Sunday Scoop posted online yesterday, the actress admitted that a lot of people think she had an attitude problem.
She said, “I am aware that people think I am a snob, but I am actually a shy person. My job demands that I should abandon who I am. It used to be even worse for me because I went to a single-s#x school; so, relating to guys was difficult for me. However, I am adjusting now because of acting.”
According to Akpotha, she tries as much as possible to protect herself and that gives people the impression that she is a snob. “When you meet me newly, the first impression you get is that I am cold. But I am only trying to protect myself from people I don’t know.
“If I am in a room and I know everyone there, I will be very comfortable and playful. But if I don’t know anyone, I will be cold. I am not trying to blow my trumpet; I am just saying that I need to know you to be comfortable with you,” she said.
Despite starting acting at the age of 17, she claimed that she did not indulge in drinking or smoking like some of her peers.
She stated, “The way my mother raised us, especially as her first daughter, there was no way I would have lived a wayward life. My late mother would have been a solider if she didn’t have a job. In Igboland, they pay so much attention to the first daughter because she must be an example to the younger ones.
Also, I am allergic to smoke and many other things. I act stupidly whenever I am high, which is not good for someone like me in public because I like to conduct myself well. I had friends who questioned why I did not smoke or drink but if you know who you are, you wouldn’t succumb to peer pressure. However, I am not saying the fact that I don’t smoke or drink makes me an extraordinary being.
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DeleteShe's an introvert with a drop of melancholy. It's better to be such in your industry that way you are better equipped to protect your personal /private live. No jist means no controversy = Peace of mind 😊.
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DeleteInstead of defending her attitude ish she could have just said "im a private person and its tough for me to open up to people. I love my fans and i appreciate u all"
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I can relate to her because I also went to a girls school and uptill now, I still find it difficult to associate with opposite sex.
ReplyDeleteI went to all girls school and i love men and girls
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DeleteGoing to an all girls secondary school especially unity colleges makes you have an attitude. In fact if you went to any federal govt collages and come out without attitude then I don't know what you went there for. It keeps us
ReplyDeleteSecondly, I'm also like her. If I don't know you, I can't be comfortable with you. I need to know you for you to see my crazy side. I can't just meet you, say hello to you and then show you my crazy side.
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Deleteseconded,so much like her..especially if am new in a particular place. Its just in our nature can't help it.
ReplyDeleteStella. I can relate with her on the attitude thigy. I am exactly like her. Went to an all girls' school and it affected my way of relating with peeps not just men. Your first impression of me is that I am a snob but its really just me protecting myself cos i have been talked about alot and its tiring. But I never reply or defend whatever it is they say. I always tell myself, if people talk about you non stop, you are definitely of great importance.
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DeleteI remember a reality show she took part in, with Daddy Showkey and some other notable celebrities, in which she was, surprisingly, the most quarrelsome person there... issues left and right. I wonder if that too was as a result of 'same sex' school?
ReplyDeleteWonder also, how someone who doesn't smoke nor drink knows how 'stupidly she acts when *HIGH*???
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I think it's Gulder celebrity ultimate search. It had Emeka ike, mumma gee, funke akindele and the rest. She fought with muma gee calling her hurtful names, fought with Emeka and almost everyone on that show. I wonder why some people still call her a good girl
DeleteWas about to ask the same thing just now. How can she know how she acts when high when she never smokes?? It's Ultimate search by Gulder .Heard she was so troublesome ,nasty and a gossip while on the show
DeleteLol... gulder ultimate search back then. ... she was really troublesome. And I've heard from some people that had personal encounters with her how rude she can be. I attended an all girls school too and I don't think the attitude thing applies to everybody.
DeleteIf I say what she did in church now someone will come and say she was in the house of God while I was doing gbegborun. Chioma is rude 😊 QED
DeleteI can relate though I didn't go to an all girls' school. If I'm in a place where I don't know people around me, I keep to myself. Unless I know the people, I may appear cold. People also think I'm a snob but at times I'm just shy. It helped me at some point.
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ReplyDeleteStory. Chioma is a snob full time. And very mean too, who she wan deceive this Monday morning. Kai close mouth
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DeleteIt's not about an all girl's school. If that is your way, then that is your way.
DeleteShe is so rude, met her once at Ikeja and her attitude was a turn off.She via just a snob...m
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DeleteWe went to same school. She is a snob.Being a celebrity means u should keep ur idiosyncracies aside and make ur fans happy. Without them there will be no You. She is a good actress so i forgive her. Chioma is a snob and so is Linda ejiofor. We went to same school also so na the same snobby people
ReplyDeleteI can never forget how she was always quarreling during ultimate search.I went to an all girls school too and I don't have an attitude problem so...
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ReplyDeleteI really relate to what Chioma is saying. I have the same attitude like her and people thought am rude and arrogant and does not smile. And if i dont know you i dont come close. and again i have a hard face that seems as if am angry meanwhile am happy.
ReplyDeleteChioma is my towns girl and i know her house.
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DeleteEnglish fall on you dear metche. Which one is “people thought am rude and arrogant and does not smile” jeez, why’s English hard these days to some people... I laugh in Swahili 😩😩
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Chioma shouldn't have gone for Guilder Ultimate Search. The reality show made me dislike her.
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