Do you prefer a man who gossips or a man who doesn't?
I am of the Opinion that if you hang out with or get hooked to a man that doesn't gossip then you are in for a Boring ride....
If you are for or against this school of thought,please back up your YES OR NO with solid gist.
Stella I better stay with a man that does not gossip than the one that gossips. I could remember when my Aunty was looking for house back then, there is this beautiful house in a very good neighbourhood, she has agreed to pay but decided to go and make investigations about the house. They told her that everything in the house is almost perfect, but the only problem is that one of the male tenants gossips. my sister rejected the house immediately saying that she rather live with a woman that gossips rather than a man that gossips. In her opinion it is poisonous..(She is a doctor though). Abeg nobody should TOBILIZE MEOOOOO.
ReplyDeleteYou started the story with aunty and ended with sister. Ok o
DeleteCeeceerize you you mean
Deletei am married to a man who gossips and he has used gossip to scatter the family..you better not say anything in front of cos be sure that willl repeat it...really really frustrating...and to think i used to enjoy when he used to gossip others to me not knowing that his gossipy lips is not faithful to anyone.......stella you wont understand until you jam someone like this......
ReplyDeleteI can relate. I shared a story sometime about a friend while I was in school who gossips all over the lodge. His gossiping was on another level. Don't just say anything to him that you don't want another person to hear. He will even gist us about his girlfriend and how some things she confided in him about he couldn't just "bear it" and opened up to her parents. Imagine! The girl will be surprised when her parents call to ask her yes or no. Dude was terrible abeg. None of his relationships lasted due to this....almost 40 and single.
DeleteA guy should be able to bridle his tongue please.
chai Tobi syndrome
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteI’m sorry for laughing but you got me with your comment..
LMAO@ gossipy lips
Gbam! My husband used to gist me about others and I thought it was love n closeness.
DeleteNow the tables have turned, the same way he used to tell me things happening in other people's lives, he is now telling them (including his side chicks( things that happened between me n him....
With your story above,who are you?
DeleteCheck the meaning of gossip in dictionary. Madam or Mr Choice
A gossiping man? How disgusting. I can’t imagine a man sitting down and crossing his legs while engaging in meaningless conversations about other people’s life. Doesn’t he have something to fix in the house? It’s bad enough that girls do it talk less of a grown man with penis sitting down to talk about Chioma’s cheating husband or how Annemarie is 39 and unmarried. Abeg oh. It’s a huge turn off. Please just stick to normal interesting conversations about life, movies, work and so on and not gossip. I can do that with my friends.
ReplyDeleteA man that gossip will destroy anything he set his mind to destroy. I prefer a man that talk less and listen more.
ReplyDeleteYoo hwa this ur 🆔 always remind me of one Korea drama I watch then, are you a lover of Korea drama?
Deletebeeolah yes, I am a lover of Korean drama and you're also correct. The 🆔 is from jumong
DeleteAnd u didn’t bother to say hello to ur fellow Korean movie lover abi... I am ur sister here ooo
DeleteGossip get level...i rather roll in d hay with a non gossiper.
ReplyDeleteI don't gossip ooo😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteMy neighbour can gossip for Africa, 37yr old man oh, he talks about every damn thing, if a fly passes, he'd talk, all the other tenants know him for that, Onos the gossip man, tueh
ReplyDeleteI follow you do tueh
Delete"them say, they said that them said . . ."
ReplyDeletewill never tell you wetin he/the teller said
Dangerous character. Im go tell you say Nkechi wan
kill you, im go go tell Nkechi say you don bury am.
Im go commot for corner watch the wrestling match
Na so una go leave wicked spirits come dey battle
flesh and blood.
I've been there!
I think some really don't understand what GOSSIP MEANS. By the time we understand the MEANING, then we'll or can understand the IMPLICATIONS.....
ReplyDeletechim-oma aka Miss Kapusu
Exactly. There’s harmless gist that couples indulge in and there’s vicious/harmful/malicious talk, better known as slander.
Deleteevery man gossips but gossips get levels. there are some necessary gossips but some are just outrageously out of place. men gossip with style
ReplyDeleteThey plenty for my compound oh, I just beg God to bless my husband so we Pack our load commot for that yeye compound, the funniest be say na person wife matter them go dey discuss, and they're wives na amoeba.
ReplyDeleteThis is exactly the case of a couple we are trying to settle right now. The man talks for the entire Africa!!! The woman is calm and gentle.
ReplyDeleteI already knew I wasn't going to come close to a running mouth even with a very long pole.
Let me list out what a gossiping man can do to you and your family. Gossiping here is an incurable desire to talk about other people’s business, in a very vicious and sometimes malicious manner. Please don’t mistake it for regular ‘gist’ couples have that stays between them. Those are goodnatured,not geared to smear anyone and are usually about a flitting event.
1)Your own secrets are not safe with such a man. Immediately you have a little issue.. He will carry ogene round to other people he considers as friends and family and download your matter. Gossips always have a large circle, so go figure.
2)Sex of your unborn babies, Future plans and even the day you took in can never be within family. You will just be getting calls from different people telling you the sex of your own baby before you even digest the info.
3) The joy they get when talking about other people can make you very uncomfortable especially if you are not someone that is usually up in people’s business. They love gossip pass food and sex.
4) A gossiping spouse can never be loyal, when you have inlaw issue.. They can sell you for a few accolades from your ‘enemies’
5)Never ever discuss your own family issues with a gossip.. Example: Your Dad used to womanize. Or your Mom once cheated. Etc. hmmmm, just know that when yawa gas,those things will come back to haunt you.
Finally. Most gossips hardly listen.They love to talk endlessly.
If you doubt me, Goan date a running tapped man. Come back and testify🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Everything you said 👍👍
Deletevillage people love such a person, they can easily know a way & pattern into your life
DeleteThanks Iphie, read my comment ☝️ there. People don't really know what it,GOSSIP is....
Deletechim-oma aka Miss Kapusu
SO True. this is Tobi
DeleteIphie dearie: with this your above story who are you,please?
DeleteIphie dearie you be KING OF GOSSIP OOOOH
DeleteI can't respect a gossip. I can't fall in love with a man I don't respect...
ReplyDeleteI hate men who gossip. Not a good trait all.
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ReplyDeleteMost pple are schooled but not enlightened. It's one thing to discuss issues with a friend, partner or husband .its another thing to be malicious. All the stories we read and comment about on this blog and other social media network is what? Are we all not gossips at the long run
ReplyDeleteYou are correct
DeleteAll of you on this blog are gossips.This blog is all about gossip and rumours.
ReplyDeleteThe person that said his or her neighbour is a gossip,what was she doing at that point,gossiping about her neighbor.
Abeg park well.
My boo is my gossip companion.
ReplyDeleteAbeg gossip get level,I met one during my service level,every gathering he must look for whom to slander..even d girl he was dating who happened to be a corp member as well dat confided in him some of her top secrets before the break of dawn it became a public topic in the entire NYSC lodge,can't deal with such person abeg.....
ReplyDeleteThere's a difference between a man that's highly conversational and a man that gossips.. I can't be with a man that gossips. You'll just end up keeping so many things to yourself cos telling him is as good as using a broadcasting system to announce it. A gossiping man can hardly keep a peaceful home. Before you know it,the whole world already know how you guys make love sef..
ReplyDeleteI can't deal with a men that gossips... My very close friends husband is just a terrible gossip.. To think that he told his friends n bought them beer the first day He slept with her (when they were dating) if you wanna let your secret to be known to the world, just let allow him hear it.
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