For some this might be too painful,but for others this might be an avenue to open up and find closure.......
This was sent in by someone who lost his Angel before she was born......
I pray this post and sharing your story with others help you heal!
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Saturday, April 07, 2018
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Hmm,sleep well Angels,atleast we know they are in heaven
ReplyDeleteI miscarried in 2014. The feeling, the emptyness, d depression, d hate , the tot that God allowed it happen is so unbeatable, but at d end,I got BEAUTY for ashes( BLESSED SACRAMENT IS BEA) because I remained in PRAISE instead of Pain wen it happened. May all mother's especially the once TTCing who have/ had miscarried b strong and go against all odds but continue to worship and praise him.
DeleteLost my baby when she was 9 months old. I still wonder how I survived it. Went from size 12 to size 6 over night. I cried so much I couldn't see anymore. If only tears could bring her back. 6yrs and 3more kids later, I still miss her...
DeleteOh dear, what happened to her Jules?
Delete@Anonymous 14:57 honestly, blessed sacrament is really bae. @Jules it's well. May her soul rest on.
DeleteLost my unborn child few weeks back. Nigerians most especially, men don't understand that even you already bond with your unborn child even if a month old .
DeleteI'm much better now but I can understand women who have lost a child whether born or unborn ...It is the hardest thing to ever experience.
This is a very sad post.
ReplyDeleteI had a miscarriage before my last daughter, I will never forget, it happens right in my bathroom, my baby came down just like that, we'll formed but no flesh yet. I screamed and was rushed to the hospital. I have other kids but will never forget the one I lost. And something keeps telling me it was a baby boy. All same I give God the glory. Sleep on my angel.
ReplyDelete"Happened and well"
DeleteOh Stella, Solomon lived with us for 6 months plus, he would have been 14yrs May 25th, we lost him to pneumonia or whatever it was, God alone knows, I told God dt the first thing i want to know when i die is what really happened as he was healthy n handsome, people we passed, looked back, yes 14yrs n I am crying here, u just reopened a wound i thought had healed, why Solomon, why why, o chimoooo
ReplyDeleteSorry ma'am
DeleteMy dear be rest assured that he is with the Lord ok..jide obi gi aka.
DeleteMay God comfort you.
DeleteMay God heal your heart dear. Rest on Solomon.
DeleteMy childhood friend lost hers last week of March. God it's so painful. May the souls of these Angels rest on!
To my dearest father, my elder brother and my immediate younger brother Gozie(papa Madrid) may your gentle souls through the mercy of God rest in Paradise 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteI had two miscarriages, the first was very traumatizing for me (not something I want to relive).
ReplyDeleteAfter all the years of TTC, God blessed me with a beautiful, healthy, bubbly little angel who make motherhood such an amazing and easy job.
May the innocent souls of all sleeping angels rest in perfect peace, may their parents find comfort and closure, and may the Almighty put back the smiles in their faces.
Amen!!
DeleteAmen
DeleteOne of my good neighbours lost her "beautiful" baby boy after four months. She was TTC for 10 years, if not more. Most of her friends' kids are close to 20 years. Then, she gave birth miraculously last year. We were all happy. The house was filled with joy. The father was always going about with the baby. Then, we got the sad news of his death after a brief illness. Oh, we wept. The house became cold, more than before. The parents are just recovering after a family member took them away with him for a while. I believe that God will answer them again. They are just too good people and very united.
DeleteThis post always sends me into weeping galore.
ReplyDeleteI cried so much after reading the one of 2016, the one that one Fadekemi or so sent in and it had over 100comments about dead children, stillbirths and miscarriages. Some were ttc for years, had plenty stillbirths and continued TTC. The way I cried, you would think I won't open such a post again but here I am today.
May God console you all and may the angels continue to rest in peace.
Amen!!
DeleteAmen.
DeleteSo my precious son should have been a year old next week Friday. Had him 2017 April but he passed 5 days later.
ReplyDeleteHa my BV's I have not recovered from the pain. I have been crying since this incident happened.
I had this child with IVF after trying for over 4 years. I was very happy it was successful at first attempt.
Didn't know my joy would be short lived.
I am still battling with trauma. Infact, I cry whenever I see kids his age.
O my good God, I have faithfully served you. God Biko smile at me, take away my shame, restore and compensate my loss.
BV's please help me beg God. Am loosing it..I need twins,a boy and a girl..
God will definitely give you twins and more in Jesus 6
DeleteGod will answer your prayers, by this time next year, if Jesus tarrys his coming, you will sing a new song
DeleteEhugs dear, this is d most traumatizing...this one reach to ask God why...oh lord.
DeleteIt is well with you. God will grant your heart desire. Keep thanking Him in advance.
DeleteAwww God will do it for. Amen
DeleteOh sorry dear the Lord will compensate you, amen.
DeleteSorry madam Kemi.. Rest on Lil Angel.. God will surely put smiles on u face. It is well with u Ma
DeleteI'm not Good but I see God working great things for you. It will happen soon.
DeleteSorry madam Kemi.. Rest on Lil Angel.. God will surely put smiles on u face. It is well with u Ma
DeleteYou will have another one soon. I speak into your life that on or before October 1st you will get pregnant and soon and very soon you will have another child and this time it will be triplets. Take heart. God is working on your case.
DeleteIt is done already in Jesus Name.Amen.
DeleteGod will surely answer your prayers. Don't give up.
DeleteKemi, the Lord comfort you and grant your heart desires. You will rejoice again in Jesus name. Amen
DeleteFrom your mouth to God's ears darlg . its well with your soul.
DeleteAmen and amen to all the Prayers!
DeleteI patiently waited. Mum said the doctor was keeping the baby for her that the hospital will bring her home that I should just make sure everywhere is neat.
ReplyDeleteI believed her ehn. After a while even my small mind had to work it out that chinenye* as I named her was never coming home. Till today every time I see a friend with her younger sister I remember it.
May they continue to rest in peace. Amen.
Wow your mum is deep . I would have vexed if she tried that. I lost my baby at 8 months. Two days to my induction. All was well although the doctor told me I had preecllamsia. Thats why they wanted to induce me. I was so excited after doing baby shower and all. I had bought everything car seat, crib every single thing. I even did my hair so that when people come to visit I will look good. Felt pains that morning got to the hospital and they said the baby had died. Just like that!!! Baby I felt kicking just that morning.
DeleteI cried. I cried everyday for about a month. After that I stood up dusted myself and reconstructed my life. More babies will come. Butt this time the account will be very very fat. If you believe it let me hear you say Amen!
Sad post, made me remember my nephew. We lost him two days after his birth. May his soul and the souls of other angels that are with God continue to rest in peace. 🙏.
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteMay God give closure to everyone that has gone through this. The pain of losing a baby can be depressing.
ReplyDeleteBaby Eric, my sleeping angel. I knew of your expected arrival a month after a took in for you and lost you a week later. It was in 2015, after one year of marriage. I later had to leave the marriage 2016 for circumstances beyond my control. I wonder how life would have been if you had arrived. Rest on my sleeping angel.
ReplyDeleteI can't help but reach out to you at this point... God will restore and compensate you for all your losses in Jesus name
DeleteSo sad# RIP lil Angels...
ReplyDeleteOh dear...why did I open this post,am still healing... People are already congratulating me,..calling me mama Ejima,mama twins,iya ibeji...we have started buying things,God!!I still cry over those things,we already have names...i can't talk about it now cause it will put me backto the place am trying to leave
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you please don't dwell on it much,I had three miscarriages after my first daughter and it has been hell on earth,when I got pregnant the second time,I told myself that if I lose this please oh lord how will I cope but I did lose it and the third one too now am in my early forties and looking unto God whilst thanking him for my daughter who is eleven and always praying for a baby sister.yt? his year shall not pass us by in his grace ma,may we all mothers be blessed and those looking to have and those who have not had any are all mothers one way or the other
Delete3 miscarriages after a live birth. Are you rhesus negative? If you are, were you given rogram injection after the birth of your daughter? If not,it can lead to recurrent miscarriages.
DeleteUhnnn it's hard to share but it's best to, turned 32 this year. But in 2011 I was told by my gynae that it's best I have or try to have kids before 30.. as I had been diagnosed with the worst form of PCOS there is/was. I lost my 6yrs relationship at age 26, I was broken but that's one huge blessing in disguise. Fastforward to 2016, newly engaged, turned 30. Boom I was pregnant, locked myself in the hospital toilet to cry and cry because what if I left the hospital and it was all a dream.. I walked out holding my tummy like wow... my engagement broke that very day(mother in law), I cried and cried stupid me! I lost what was to be my angel 2weeks after I found out I was pregnant💔, my heart still breaks, I am 32 now, single but alive. I just truly wish I dint loose that baby. I know God has my twins waiting patiently for me as soon as He connects me to the amazing man who will be there dad and my own husband. Till then, I wait.
ReplyDeleteTake heart dear. God will cause you to laugh again and those that hear it will laugh with you. Be of good cheer.
DeleteThis is really a sad post for me
ReplyDeleteConceived after 6months of marriage
My hubby was over the roof,compiled names already
Painted the second room,he said it was gonna be a boy
I don't even do any chores or cook anymore.
Just go to work and no stress.
Then in the 4th month,the shocker came
The baby is outside the womb and evacuation is next
Is it the pains,I watched my hubby weep like a baby
I was trying to be the stronger one
My angel would have been 2years now.
But God knows best.
Still on the journey.
I can't forget but I know God will compensate us soon
Not been easy.
Crying now.
Awww...wipe your tears dear. God will do it sooner for you and yours. Amen
DeleteIt is well. God will do it again.
DeleteMy dear God's time is now soonest dear
DeleteMadam kemi God will remember you pls have faith, your desires shall surely come to pass.
ReplyDeleteI have four beautiful angel with God Stella. Miscarriages. Till God smiled my way after four years and blessed me with triplets (two boys and a girl) after ivf. I'm grateful now but I still remember my babies lost.
ReplyDeleteI was in admitted in the hospital sometime last year, a lady was brought in bleeding later she was taking to theatre for evacuation, I cried with her for two days nonstop coz she just lost twins fa... Later she told Me that she's had like 8 miscarriage, each time she gets pregnant she loses the baby 3-4 months... I just weak.. B it's well God will surprise you soon.
ReplyDeleteShe has an incompetent cervix and needs to get a transvaginal or transabdominal cerclage. They are bands or stitches placed in or at the top of the cervix to keep it closed and keep baby inside the uterus until it’s time to deliver. IC is tough to diagnose without multiple losses but her case seems pretty straightforward.
DeleteHmmh, I told myself I wasn't going to comment. But I am doing just that now. Got married and one month later I got pregnant, we were ecstatic; only to loose the baby when we travelled to the village at 5months. We attributed it to the journey and decided to try again as I was 25years then. I have had 7miscarriages/IUFD. I try not to think about it and press forward. Almost got into depression but I have chosen to be happy. It wasn't incompetent cervix, we were told its a rare antiphospholipid condition. I am now in my 8th year of marriage. I believe this is my year in Jesus name.
Deletehey wonder mum. sorry about that. ask your doctor about the use of aspirin and heparin in treating " the antiphospholipid condition ". Remember God's got you always.
DeleteThanks anonymous, I am now on Vasoprin 75mg daily. It is well.
DeleteGot married at 37yrs, was pregnant immediately. We were so happy, only to loose my Angel at 34weeks.That was four years ago, I'm still ttcing. I know the good Lord has remembered us, this is our Year.
ReplyDeleteAmen God is still in bsiness of performing miracle it's your turn in Jesus name Amen
DeleteHoly Jesus..this just opened a deep wound in my soul.i got married 2014 and was lucky to get pregnant immediately.lost it after 2months and i have lost 4 pregnancies after that.got pregnant January this year and still lost it March 7th.im still in pains...its been crazy..im just a shadow of myself right now.I haven't been bitter or sad like this all my life.i keep losing my angels at first trimester,done all test that i can think of but nothing positive is coming forth.hmmmmm...its well
ReplyDeleteGod will heal your womb
DeleteAmen dear..thank u
DeleteMy friend lost the first pregnancy before we met. Waited for about 8years before she conceived again, unfortunately lost the baby after two months. I wish I can help her to carry the pregnancy. Moji, I pray God will visit you in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteWow still feels like yesterday. ..... Lost my son when he was 5 months old...He was such a big baby. Labor pains is nothing compared to d death of a child.. 19th March 2016..
ReplyDeleteAnyway fast forward to 19th March 2017, I was in 22hrs labor for my son, the one God consoled me with..He was born exactly a year after God took my little angel...
Does this pain ever go away?
This hits home badly... 💔
ReplyDeleteI lostmy pregnancy on Easter Monday. I'm stil
ReplyDeleteI got pregnant immediately after my wedding. Had the best pregnancy ever, no sickness whatsoever. Did my scan and discovered I was expecting a baby gal. I was over the moon. Was in labour for almost a whole day and eventually had a c.s when she was 41 weeks. I was the happiest mother on earth. Cos shehad my complete looks, same shape of lips and had my dimples. I just discovered that she was not gaining weight. I complained at the hospital. She was diagnosed with billiary atresia. I thought it was a joke. So sad to see her go through so much pain and needle prices daily at a young age. She eventually left to be with the Lord in October. I had her for just 3 months. She would have been ten years old on July 3rd. I have 3kids now. But I still think about her .my Ada, my first fruit. God knows best and does best.
ReplyDeleteMy niece and her baby are in the mortuary as I am typing now. She died while giving birth to her second baby after ttcing for years on the 21st if last month Onyeka. May God rest your soul and your baby's soul IJN.Amen. Typing with heavy heart.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear God rest Their Soul
DeleteReading through all this stories makes me see how ungrateful I have been. God I'm so sorry, please forgive me o
DeleteFor your losses, I pray God give you double.
ReplyDeleteAmen.
DeleteSuch heartbreaking stories. May God wipe you all's tears real soon. I've just become so emotional.
ReplyDeleteGod pls grant those who are going through a loss closure and give them double blessing...And all who are TTC grant them their heart desires.
ReplyDeleteMay God console you all. It is really heartbreaking
ReplyDeleteMay God give y'all double for all the troubles
ReplyDeleteAm left with little or no option than to comment, I pray God console all heavy heart rapidly....
ReplyDeleteLord have mercy on me and forgive my ungrateful heart. I have always had smooth pregnancies and delivery, but I was ungrateful the last time cos I wanted a male child but had a female. My doctor always hails me that I carry my pregnancies like a pro (both the first and the second ). I'm truly sorry Lord please do forgive me.
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