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Sunday, April 29, 2018

Actress Ufuoma McDermott Talks About Birthing Her Kids Through Cesarean Section And Says She Is Proud Of Motherhood..

Nollywood actress Ufuoma McDermott, and mother of two, who recently celebrated her 37th birthday, has revealed that she birthed both her kids through cesarean section and how she nearly lost her son during the child birthing process....








In a chat with Saturday Beats, the actress revealed that both her children were born by caesarean section. She said only ignorance would make a woman refuse to have a CS simply because she wants to be a strong ‘Hebrew woman’.


She said, “Both of my children were born by caesarean section and I still feel very proud of motherhood. My children are my treasure and pride. I don’t think anyone should decide how a child is brought into the world because complications sometimes warrant CS. If everything is good, then the doctor would insist on a normal birth.


“At any point in time, motherhood is motherhood. It makes me laugh when people say that women who have a CS are not strong women. It is amazing how ignorant some people are. My son, for example, was conceived through in vitro fertilisation and when it was time for delivery, there was a breach, which means that the head of the child was up in the uterus as against it being down, so it was not advisable to push at the time.


“I’m glad that I listened to the doctor because, by the time my son was brought out, he had his placenta around his neck. If I had pushed, I might have strangled him. I think it is ignorance when someone comes out to say that she is a strong woman so she has to do normal child delivery. Yet, I am patient with people because I got to a point where I was enlightened.


Most people that say they are Hebrew women speak from what they have been taught by their mothers and grandmothers. They have been told that if they do not have the normal childbirth, then they are not Hebrew women. These women can be forgiven because the truth is that a mother is always a mother. When it comes to the process of childbirth, you cannot take away the pain that comes with it whether it is by CS or normal delivery; you would feel the pain whether it is before, during or after childbirth.


The actress noted that even though her baby was born via CS, she was on her feet the second day just because she wanted to catch a glimpse of her newborn.


“CS is actually a stitch, it is a wound and it takes time to heal but in my case, I was already walking by the second day after giving birth to my son. The labour ward was different from where they kept my son and I could not sleep because I wanted to see him. I was a new mother, the nurses told me to stay put, but I did not listen. I was crying as I dragged myself on the staircase to see my son. 

In all of it, I think we should just appreciate mothers because they go through a lot. Even if it is an adoption, a mother is a mother and you cannot take that away from her.


*It is good that she is raising awareness on this CS versus Hebrew woman birthing thing cos a lot of women have lost their lives and/or their babies by refusing to be cut open....

30 comments:

  1. God bless and keep them for you...

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    1. U see all those foolish nurses that give us headache during delivery? 89% of them went tru CS. Women, which wld u rather? Live to see ur child or die to prove to d world u r a Hebrew woman? The choice is yours

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  2. Wow this must be a Nigerian/African thing because no one talks about these things over here. You’ve birthed a child you’ve birthed a child, simple. We care about mother and child being healthy and not how child was delivered smh.... meanwhile, the whole Hebrew woman thing is a myth. It was a lie told by some of the midwives to protect the Israelites from having their children slaughtered by Pharaoh. Read ya bibles people 😁
    Happy Sunday

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    1. Well it’s depends on where “over here is “ as there are a lot of women in the USA as well as in the Uk that gets shamed for birthing Via CS you might want to read up some more of go on Facebook pages to read about these things .

      My mom was subtly Shamed for birthing my little sis Via CS(she was 36 when she had my little sis and I was 12 )
      So yeah these shaming thingy do happen “over here “

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    2. Nobody cares how she birthed her children and nobody but members of her family need to know. Some of these z-listers just need a reason to trend or validate themselve.

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    3. Exactly @ 12:30 and 14:39! Nobody cares about these things!!! White people dont have Time, they’ll even encourage CS because that means more money for the doctors and hospitals but that’s a whole other topic. It is probably their Nigerian families and friends that are feeding them bs!! Don’t give yourself sleepless nights over trivial things. You gave birth to a healthy child, thank God and leave the rest. Besides, your delivery method is nobody’s business!!!

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  3. Is just some Nigerians women have poor mentality. Although sometimes is the huge money involved,any which way a woman gave birth is not a problem to me oo, it depends on the circumstances jawee..God bless All motherhood..

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  4. The bible never said d Hebrew woman gave birth through her virginal. CS or virginal delivery are both normal to me.. I have seen both sides of d coin trust me CS is more painful. So women please stop judging.

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  5. Which one is "normal" birth and which one is "abnormal" birth???.
    Nothing way all these our yeyebrities no go talk,
    Ms McDermott please have several seats.

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    1. You should be the one to take several seats and calm down...of all the issues she addressed na that one your small skull fit assimilate..

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  6. Proudly a cs Mum, how could I have pushed out a 4.99kg baby

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    1. @12.44 did u say ???? Almost 5kg? Bloooooooooood of God, wetin u chop?

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  7. Don't mind ignorant pple. I was looked down on by a fellow woman cos I had my first child by CS.

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  8. I had my baby through CS too. I always wanted CS against vagina delivery. Thiugh I tried vagina delivery, I couldn't dilate more than 2cm for more than 8 hours and baby was getting distressed so off to the theatre and my baby was brought out .I was on my feet same day. I didn't have my baby in Nigeria though .Another thing I have noticed is that the way we admire these white kids and biracial kids,even these whites admire our beautiful black- skin kids so much. Each time I take my baby for a walk or the supermarket or any outing the compliment she gets is overwhelming and she is aware of her beauty though less than 1 year old but she is always ready for the paparazzis and has her little way of showing off.

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  9. Each time this issue is discussed I get really upset.

    My husband called his mom to tell her we just welcomed our son and she wanted to know how I gave birth. Hubby told her and she was so upset that why did we allow it.That I should have tried to push.

    Me that I had high blood pressure in pregnancy,that just had myomectomy the previous year and was 37.

    Hmmm , she came for omugwo and didn't help me at all. She will just be looking at me with one bad eye like see this lazy one.

    She left my house and I had to pray to God not to let me hate this woman cuz I just couldn't forgive her.

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  10. Thanking her very plenty for this piece jare.😘

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    1. Sandra has Chief proposed?
      Congra!...

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  11. I've had both and personally prefer vaginal birth.
    Yes, I would take my 30 hours of labor, 45 minutes of pushing ANY DAY over my c-section! I always laugh at people who think C-Section is easier. At least with the vaginal birth, believe it or not, I was back on my feet the next day. I also lost the baby weight very quickly and the bleeding had stopped by 2 weeks postpartum.
    Whereas with my c-section, I couldn't even sit up for 2 weeks, not to talk of walking! The pain was incredible! I couldn't even breastfeed, the pain was that bad. My hands and feet were so swollen! Meanwhile, they didn't even swell when I was pregnant oo!
    My fellow CS moms, I salute una oo! Don't mind the ignorant ones talking about "giving birth like a Hebrew woman." CS is not easy at all at all!
    Thank God this baby will be born vaginally. And yes I'm also shocked I still had the courage to get pregnant after my horrible C Section experience LOL! This one na real surprise baby because I swore after my CS that I was done, but here we are!
    God's ways are not our ways mehn

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    1. You were attended to and operated on by a quack Doctor.
      Do you live at Ikotun.Egbe.Ijegun axis?

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    2. 14:04 you did your CS in a cheap hospital. Cs nowadays is not that painful and you will be up and going about gently in a few days time, some even 3days.
      This is why we tell you people to save well before getting pregnant you will not hear. If you save well you will be able to afford a good hospital if things change and you have to do cs. Not only to fuck and fuck, plan for your children too.
      Now you are pregnant again, next year you will get pregnant again till you born football team. Hope you don't come here to beg.

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    3. I tell you. A very unqualified doctor in a cheap hospital in ikorodu. Hope you have prepared well for this one. Anything can happen at the last minute. You people be patronising cheap hospitals even general hospital is better

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    4. Nice try bitch, but I had my baby in the UK. And I'm slated to have this one in the UK too.
      I don't think you are a mother-I use singular because I know your single digit IQ behind is jobless and pathetic enough to reply your own comments-because if you were, you'd have the sense and experience to know that anyone can have a difficult c-section recovery.
      In my case, I had an allergic reaction. That could happen to anybody.
      As a Chartered Accountant working with a Big 4 firm married to a pilot, best believe that I was more than financially prepared to have a child.
      Does living in Lekki sound broke to you?
      Does driving a 2017 SUV sound broke to you?
      Does having kids in private schools and summer holidays abroad sound broke to you?
      The fact that your idiot mother was dumb enough to have multiple children and YOU have to go about begging does not mean me or my kids have to do same!
      Come and beg on SDK! Excuse you?! EXCUSE YOU?! You got me all the way fucked up this holy Sunday afternoon! Your broke mother will go skiing in hell before that happens, you miserable skanky twat!
      Anon 16; 39 and 15; 37, get off your moth infested couch and go and get a job so you can stop using Techno phones to post nonsensical comments on SDK. Get a job, get a suit and get on your knees and beg your Chi for forgiveness for your pointless existence!

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    5. And my kids were born in 2011 and 2014 so what the fuck do you mean by "I didn't plan well for my kids?" The one thing you will not do is accuse me of being a financially irresponsible parent!
      Stella post my previous response. This cretin has to be dragged back to its sluthole!

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    6. So you can open mouth insult but can't use a good hospital. Sorry for you...

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    7. Am sure it's Queen Elizabeth hospital in the UK. That one no be hospital abeg!

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  12. Dr JaneFrancesca29 April 2018 at 19:16

    The awareness is good, God bless her. I remember when i had my daughter and i called a suppossedly friend of mine to inform her i had put to bed. The first thing she asked was " is it cs or normal"
    I was like is that all you can think of to say to me.
    I actually had her via cs but it was an emergency cs coz the baby's heartbeat slowed down and got my midwife so worried. And since i had passed my dd no need waiting longer as adviced by my gp. So you see so many things can cause cs, some are planned while some are emwrgency due to some health issues that pops up at the dine minute. And to say i healed quickly before my friend that had her baby vaginally the same day as me. So what matters is both mum and baby doing great.

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  13. Her kids are so adorable saw a video of them singing to excess love by Mercy Chinwo and I was just blushing anyhow

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  14. Anon 15:18 ,15:37 and 16:39 una don kolo finish... See me lol at your comments. But anon 14:04 CS isn't that painful again. I had my 2kids thru CS and was up the following day too.

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  15. The underlined truth is that people especially Nigerians fear cs because its very costly forget about this Hebrew women stuff

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