My rant is about the state of Nigeria,how things are getting harder and prices going higher.....where is the light in the Tunnel...?
The Rich getting richer and the poor getting poorer....
Are there Jobs for those in school now?
Are Jobs for those out of school?
Thinking about Nigeria gives headache.........
Very big headache. Tired of Nigeria mehn.
ReplyDeleteHe's so undisciplined, so much lies because of his new babe. U denied ur child, may yu reap all yu sow. I made up my mind to work hard & be far away from yu. Yu will eventually end up alone & in pains
DeleteI am ranting about not having an external hard drive. See correct movies I get in soft copies but after watching, I delete so as to free space in my phone for more movies. It hurts deleting legendary movies.
DeleteO u re useless bastard
DeleteI'm sick and tired of everything but I try to be positive, wear a smile always when outside. Inside of me, I'm so sad. Try as much as I can, things don't seem to get better, they get worse instead. Sometimes I feel I'm just useless as a mother. I feel for my poor kids roaming the neighbourhood when their mates are in school. Some women single handedly train six kids without their father, why can't I do same when I don't even have up to six kids? those women have two heads?
DeleteWell, they say when there is life there is hope, I'm holding on to that line. Thank God for life.
I just met a guy and he is serious about settling down soon. But I'm scared should I tell him I have doneabortions before? I don't want to lie to him. And something said I shouldn't tell him !
DeleteMy own rant is that I'm not happy with Mr AliBaba o.
DeleteOn a Sunday night at 11pm you stay awake to watch The AliBaba Seriously Show and he's bringing Gbenga Adeyinka 1st. E no do am. He still brought Mr Real a.k.a Mr Gbaagbaa to come and be miming oya fun won legbegbegbe, 1phone, IPhone 2, Iphone 3 etc. So it's Shaku shaku dance someone is waiting to see.
Mtscheeeeew!
Tomorrow let me see any mosquito with tiny voice come and disturb my ear during lunch hour with "did you watch the show". RME!
Mr Ali your level pass this abeg.
Una goodnight jare.
Madam I just met a guy, you get sense so? I feel like slapping you fa!!
DeleteHas the guy told you everything bad he has done in this life?
If you like go and start confessing you hear then when he dumps you or uses it against you in future, you will know how far.
Go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness and mercy and shut the hell up.
Miss Blackie can you please buy one make we hear word?
DeleteMy rant is that am tired of something but there's nothing I can do about it. I need God's Grace.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless Everyone
Yes you can!
DeleteTired of Life sometimes. I'm not gonna lie. At 16 I was the girl with dreams big enough to blind anyone. But look at my life now at 24, I can't boast of something reasonable. I 'm not lazy, I've never been. i just dont know how I got here. work life & relationship life isnt going well. I work like elephant & eat like ant. I put in so much work but nothing to show for it at the end of the day.
ReplyDeleteOn relationships, I dont know why I can't attract someone responsible. Oh God! I swear I think its spiritual . i dress well (Im d one my friends come to for fashion advice) & Smell Good (I'm almost OCD lol) but always attract irresponsible men. Tired of attracting broke men and men without ambition.
The only almost reasonable guy i attracted january last year, even got engaged to in august. you wont beleieve i discovered he was married. this man gave me a ring .His wife lives in Togo. I'm just tired . i swear.
Just at 24 all these complain?
DeleteDo u have a terminal illness? Do you feed through pipes? Have u been insane & lost decade of years in helplessness and hopelessness? Are you handicapped? Do you sleep under the bridge? Have you eaten today?
Baby girl get a sheet of paper, write down your blessings and keep counting until you get to 50. Yes 50 at least.
Habakuk 2v1-3 .... Though it tarries, wait for it. It will surely come to pass.
Baby girl, you're focusing on the wrong things. Life is for the living and worry can kill you at a very young age.
DeleteNigerian men that are single and serious are few, so you better take it easy so you don't rush into a relationship that would make you worse.
Some people even at 30 don't have their lives figured out yet, so take it a step at a time and you'd see how well things would turn out for you in a few years or months time. I promise!
What if all your questions up there are yes "highly favoured", should I still read and believe Habakuk2
DeleteI newly bought a car and my family automatically crowned me a rich man, my people I never save one kobo since wey car arrive, na financial problem wey no concern me I dey solve.. i'm contemplating of avoiding everyone
ReplyDeleteSince I got a FG job August last year my family just dey disturb me too with one problem or the other... I earn almost 120K but now I can't boast of even 10k in my account!!! Shut is crazy
DeleteI'm also thinking of avoiding everyone for a while.. Change number for like 6months
Lmaooooooo..... Na hin be say one rich man among 10poor pple na poor man
DeleteKeep contemplating. You are not serious yet
DeleteThat’s family for you.. Uou should have told them a friend loaned you the car to use while they traveled. Sometimes, we have to use wisdom to follow our family members. It’s not late to tell them so they can back off.
DeleteUncle, learn to say no sometimes. Eventually they will figure out your principles and learn to live you alone. And always put yourself first. If it is inconvenient, just say no.
DeleteYou people should start saving pls. If you can't put cash in your account by yourself. Start a monthly contribution in your place of work and when its your turn to collect, go and Put it in fixed deposit account or invest it on land depending on the amount.
DeleteThat was how my late husband was playing saviour of the family, no savings, only one house that he managed to built which was later sold. When problem came, they all stopped coming to the house, only occasional phone calls which reduced as time goes on.
Why do I have emotional OCD. I can't let go of my exes, can't even tell them hurtful words, can't tell them I dont love then. I always want to make them happy and hence can turn them down if they ask for anything especially sex. They left because I was broke ass and now that things are rosy I can't hurt them back. After plans to tell them how much I hate them I end up petting them. Also why can't I turn down sex offers from a needy lady especially if she sounds genuinely in need of it with no financial reward needed.
ReplyDeleteHa please let your no be no. Ask Jesus for strength.
DeleteYou need to stand firm. They dumped you when you didn’t have nothing. The sex part got me. Please tell Junior to behave when the needy lady comes with her horny and wet you know what.
DeleteAh! When u get married, ur wife go hear am o cos any woman that smiles ur way will get into ur pants then u blame it on emotional OCD, abeg be a man or whatever.
DeleteI woke up and found out my gen has been stolen,is not funny and am new in this environment,plus the heat in this new town sucks,very painful I cried my eyes out,cos to buy new one now only God can do it( broke to stupor),so painful Sunday for that matters. Ennysco#
ReplyDeleteSorry sir. It's painful oh, and it come be this heat period
DeleteSorry i laughed.... Were ni awon neighborhood pple yen o
DeleteThat's your welcome party, sorry eh, life happens sometimes.
Deletehahahaha....so sorry sir. I laughed real Hard. I have been depressed since morning. This ya post made me lolzzz
DeleteI pray God blesses you financially to get anoda one.
Dont worry God has said he'll restore you..remind him that he said he'll restore the years the locusts and caterpillars have stolen...
DeleteWhen he turned the captivity of Zion, they were like those who dreamt.
All these may sound like mere words to you now; but remember He's been your help in ages past..believe his word and it shall be made flesh
#keepHopeAlive#
Love Always
This sun is too much. End of rant
ReplyDeleteAnd nepa just dey do anyhow
DeleteMarried for 2yrs plus, no issue. My family says come and see a prophet for spiritual bath this week; i get no favours from anyone... times have been very very hard; my business is not doing well at all... my salon is always dry....i will be closing down because i cant afford the rent, its just so sad; i am extremely depressed and in debt! But still, i will not give up on life. I believe God has a purpose for me... i have my USA visa ill just relocate n become an illegal immigrant. This country is a hope and dream killer. Gosh!
ReplyDeleteKpele ma. God will do it for you.
DeleteUr own better, go to US and start a new life
DeleteMajority dont even have ghana visa
What are you waiting for if you already have a visa.??
DeleteMy dear don't go and see any spiritual for bathe. No go carry more than you are carry
DeleteCome to US and become an illegal immigrant. You will now understand what suffering is. You are not suffering yet, believe me.
DeleteHanty,if you are suffering in the US come back home now.U want to discourage someone else as if u are d only illegal immigrant there.U dont have d same destiny my dear.
DeleteWho do I blame my in law or my sister for not opening up.
ReplyDeleteimagine a just delivered woman eating just biscuits and pap.. oh gezzz I feel like slapping them both for this is not the first time. why the rush to have babies and still don't plan in advance
yesterday my sister baby daddy actually said my sister isn't training his son well
is like he's high abi cause you manage pay sch fees for once
mchewww I hope I get a job soon, let me at least train my sister sons for her.
May God help u
DeleteMay God help us all. This country is getting harder everyday. To eat these days is hard. You work, they will not pay you even though the money is stipend. I'm just here shinning my eyes thinking of where the next meal will come from. No sign of sleep with this my condition.
DeleteHow can I get rid of odour. how can one person have both bad breath and body odour. i'm not even sexually active but my vagina smells like onion even the under of my boobs. so embarrasing. i pull my bra at the end of the day and their is this onion stench. same with when i remove my pants. I've done the rubbing of lime water thing. it works but it have skin burns cuz of the acidity.
ReplyDeleteI have done dental check the doctors say i should use salt but it doesnt work. i also use sensodyne rapid action too. it doesnt work . I cant talk to someone without them rubbing their nose. its so embarrasing. I've never being a dirty person. this is so annoying and sad. I read somewhere about bad breath being from intestine sometimes. so if its from intestines what kind of drug should i take. i need all these nonsense to stop.
Bv chioma
Try rubbing potato under the breast and your under arms. It works.
DeleteBuy mouthwash.brush ur mouth 2 times a day n u use d mouthwash after brushing. Use roll on morning n night n use a good body spray.and for your private area use enough water to wash it n put ur finer inside. Don't use soap inside ur private area
DeleteYesoo.bad breath can be from intestines o.in camp during nysc, I had cold which later resulted to sore throat. after some times, I noticed that I was having bad breath. So I spoke to a doctor about it and he said the bad breath was from the intestine so I started to study my body . I noticed the bad breath when I have constipation or I didn't sleep well cos of stomach upset, bloating. And I took flagyl for straight 2 weeks and the bad breath disappeared
DeleteI heard about raw walnut. Check it out for the mouth odour
DeleteDrink plenty water
DeleteBrush twice, use dental floss & brush again. And pray to God
Me wey no get mouth or body odour, hates is all i get from people
Try deodorant under ya boobs
This made me sad. Babe, google o. Google. There's so many tips on combating odors from the body. Try all you find (at least the ones available in naija). And watch your diet too. What you eat can affect how you smell. While you are at it, pls see a doctor....you need a complete antibiotic course for down below ..... antibacterial....chlamydia and all...., antifungal, antiprotozoal.... You can chew minty gum all day too or just have it in your mouth.... bath as often as you can....never wear anything more than once.....dont use over-scented soaps,shave all body hair, use apple cidar vinegar instead of lime since it burns you.....I dunno jare.....i just know you can control it with plenty hard work.All the best.
DeleteVagina smell is an infection called Bv. Don't kn if the spelling is right but the best treatment is fragil tablet. Take the yellow flagil tablet one in the morning n one at night for 2 weeks. It works for the smell. Flagil is not just for running stomach.Avoid douching or using any scent soup in your vagina. Use just water to wash there. Sleep without pant at night for the cookie to breath. For your body odour pls take your bath 3 times a day. Use perfume n body spray always. Always have it in your bag. As a woman this will make men run away from you. Avoid bleaching cream. Use dettol or a good germs killer soup for bathing .Try Abeg. Then your mouth odour. Brush always. After long hours of keeping your mouth shut or after eaten. Always have chewing cum. It helps . Every morning take tea mix with honour n lemon . It will clear the one from the stomach . Pls avoid too much onion in your food . I can imagine what you are going tro. I am so peculiar about my body n vagina odour. How will DH put his mouth there if is smelling. Flagil works. Try it
DeleteTry euthymol toothpaste...,works like magic.
DeleteTry using coconut oil under your breast after bathing with dudu osun soap
DeleteBrush twice a day. Use listenrine mouthwash and look for dental floss. Use the floss to pull out food particles especially meat in hidden corners of your mouth.
DeleteWash your vayjayjay with water only. You can use a mild soap on the outside only and the butt area. Good luck!!
Use antiperspirant soap to take your baths twice a day. Also, always have a box of baking soda (NOT baking powder oh) in your bathroom. You want to add this to your toothpaste while brushing out your tongue, gums and teeth gently. You can also, add the baking soda to your washcloth plus the antiperspirant soap while in the shower. Remember, to drink plenty of water which you can flavor with lemon/ lime juice or even with a pinch of baking soda too. Good luck. NMTA
DeleteBabe, go to a General Hospital to get a check up of your liver and kidney function. You are worried about the symptoms but you should be more concerned about the cause...
DeleteDetoxify(cleanse) your body system. All these odours are from the inside. There are several ways of doing it. You can try the garlic method. Google it. If you can afford it,contact all these GNLD or Forever Living products sellers, they have products for detoxification. I heard it works well.
DeleteAnd de-worm yourself too.
DeleteGet secrets deodorant if u can, get all the types if u can afford it, use it.
DeleteHello dear, I can imagine how you feel. First thing First, for your body odour, please make sure you're not using any bleaching cream or over scented soaps, it irritates the body body, thereby causing more harm. My advice to you would be, to change your body cream, use something very mild, change your towel, use a very good deodorant( try rexona aloe vera). For you mouth, change your tooth brush often, scrub your tongue when brushing like your life depends on it, drink lots of water ( you can try warm water with lemon first thing in the morning before breakfast) eat bitter kola everyday. And for the infection, PLEASE see a doctor, there
DeleteAre different kinds of infection which requires different medication, and also don t take any anti biotic, causes more harm than good ( speaking from experience) wash your vagina with only water avoid any kind of overly scented soaps, and lastly no pants at night and oh change all your pants and under wears, dispose the old ones. Trust me you will be fine. Something similar happened to me (worst thin that can happen to any1 while staying at a friend's house), oh well,it's a long story for another day. Take good care of yourself and you will be fine. Cheers
Stop eating so meat for like 3 months. Eat vegetables and fruits. Fruits in moderation though. Also drink a lot of water and make sure you floss daily.
DeleteSomeone mentioned flagyl up there, pls do not use it if you are pregnant. It can flush out babies.
DeleteAnonymous 20:55 has said it best. Please go to a doctor. I had a similar problem with odor below and tests showed that I had BV. The doctor gave me Metronidazole. I took it for a week and I’ve not had any problem since then. Please, go for a medical checkup to find out the cause of these problems. Take care of yourself please.
DeletePlease get my contact from stella. I have something that will help eliminate the mouth and body odour.
DeleteSee a doctor to check out your tonsils. Chronic tonsillitis can give halitosis.
DeleteWhy is my sister's horseband such an insultive manipulative beast?????
ReplyDeleteSimply say were!
DeleteBecause he is just like you said. Very manipulative. He is a control freak.
DeleteTell your sister to be strong to deal with him. Look for boys to show him fuck up. He will cool down
DeleteI am tired Nigerian network providers and their Yeye data plans.
ReplyDeleteThe rate things e.g foodstuffs keep increasing is alarming.
A kilo of turkey that I bought couple of weeks ago was sold for 1900 today. Hian, what if I didn't carry extra money. Mscheeeew.
I'm tired of Nigerian politicians too. Can God do something already.
I'm tired of seeing pot holes on the roads.
I'm tired of putting leg inside flood whenever it rains. Lol
I'm tired of this sun, can it just snow in April.lol
I'm tired of NEPA interrupting my TV time. Can't we be like Ghana at least if not America.
I'm tired seeing angry people. Nigeria change!!!!!!
Your own better, I'm tired of being broke & jobless
DeleteDon’t forget this rant when elections come. That’s why we must vote them out.
DeleteMy mother hate me from birth. I was being molested at tender age by our neighbour. Instead of her to protect me, she took me to the hospital and circumcised me. I remember that there was a thread dangling down my private part and I always sit on hot water for it to heal. I was 6 years old when she did that. It was of recent I got to know the tern for it 'mutilation'. Since then, she startee calling me a prostitute that her private part is always itching her.
ReplyDeleteShe always thinks that no good can come out of my Jerusalem. I have asked her several times if she gave birth to me and she said YES. She once came to my school when I was in SS3 to disgrace me in front of my class mates, calling me a rebellious prostitute just because she saw a love letter in my textbook. The teachers in my school loved me and I wasn't punished publicly. I attempted suicide at that time and I became the object of ridicule by my classmates, seniors and juniors.
I decided to become stubborn and I chose a different belief and values. I sought happiness in my friends and in opposite sex.
She gets angry if people love me. She is always making me sad by telling me that those people that love me don't know how evil I am. I'm not saying that I am a saint neither but what is the essence of a motherly love.
I always resent her and I can't remember the last time I kept a secret with her. We don't talk and I always envy those that praise their mothers. Last week was mother's day and I wept because I don't have any good thing to write about her.
She is a teacher and attends the most religious church. I can't wait to get married and flee from her. She reduced my self-esteem to zero, always making jest of me whenever I stammer. Thanks to some groups I belong to. I find solace in them and I'm building myself and self-esteem.
Stella please post.
u need some time away from your mom. How about getting a place of your own if it's possible. If u are waiting for marriage to separate the both of you u might end up with the wrong man as a means to an end. I hope l no gbagaun
DeleteDont resent or hate her, that will work against u, accept all of it with love so u can be free. Ur resentment will hinder ur breakthrough. When u make it, ur mother will calm
DeleteI was in your shoes many years ago. I locked up and decided success was the best revenge. Failed waec-she almost killed me with insults. I picked my life up, studied like a crazy man, 20 years later, I'm married to a man that adores me, I'm a surgeon, and I'm currently the best mum to my kids. She calls me asking for money all the time, and I rub it in before I give her. Your life is in your hands. Not your mum. Stop the blame game and take responsibility.
DeletePlease do not wait. Get out fast
DeleteAnon 17:30, some mothers are like that. I guess she was treated in some similar way by her mother or experienced some difficulties in Childhood.
DeleteI am happy you surround yourself with inspirational groups but one crucial thing you must note is "Never, think getting married will give you the peace you seek, I know several women and as well read on this blog and FB, how seeking solace in marriage NEVER works. You know why? Marriage is a too be built on a fresh note, not cos your mum did not show you love, you have to give your husband genuine attention and love not because you are in lack, remember your man has had his own share of life struggles before meeting you so he may not be looking forward to lift ALL your burden.
I'm saying this for it to sink, do you think a man will marry a lady for no reason at all than to be a comforter? A man can never fill the place of a mother. So re direct your thoughts!
Why dyu I have to have so much pain at night?
ReplyDeleteCounting down but night time has become a nightmare ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
Stella you're not alone o. This country is such a mess, nothing seems to be working at the moment. We're all surviving by the grace of God.
ReplyDeletePlease I need someone to kindly help teach me step by step on how to make legit money online. I don't want to beg for fish anymore, but I want to learn how to fish. I've always prayed to God to bless me so I can be a source of blessings unto others. Please Lord hear my prayers & make it a reality. I'll be very grateful if my request is granted.
May God bless us all.
Amen. Pls when u learn how to make money online, tell others too
DeleteI also need someone to teach me how to make money online. Have searched for a job for a while and nothing yet. I spend most of my time online. Am getting frustrated not having my own money even though hubby provides my basic needs. But mehn I need to be independent.
DeleteMy Social life is just stagnant.I need real friends mehn not the type that always want to get something from you.
This country is frustrating me. I pray my hubby gets his papers so we relocate. Living apart from hubby is affecting me seriously.If I have a job I wouldn't be much affected.God please answer my prayers
Jostified mom, long time. I want to learn how to make money online too. Someone pls come to our aid.
DeleteThere are a lot of free lance jobs online (writing,and ...) It all depends on what you have passion for.
DeleteWhen I was in school, our lecturers gave us hope of employment immediately after NYSC. People are leaving higher institutions everyday, those at the age of retirement are paddling their age, thus; not leaving until the next 5 years. There are no vacancies in organizations that pay juicy salaries. The jobs available will use you like elephants and pay you like ants.
ReplyDeleteI graduated 11yrs ago, no job till date
DeleteThe the if that stole my phone I just want to say thank you, its been tough coping without a phone, I hold myself from asking people for tger phone to use chrome just to check this blog, its well. Things are so tough so its me and my kolo saving up to get an internet enabled phone.
ReplyDeleteRant is over
Phone is ur own problem? U dont seem to have problem
DeleteWorking as a teacher in private school is a mess.school owners will always support parents over teachers no matter what.parents feeling they are d one paying d little token u are been paid.no entitlement,nothing at d end no matter d years used.God should just provide better job.
ReplyDeleteMake dem no support dem make dem fold up, where u go see work? Manage, life can be so unfair at times
DeleteThanks Stella this rant post came very handy,
ReplyDeletelike why is life so unfair !!?can't things just work out smoothly,!? I have not been attracted to any girl in three years and the first girl I am attracted to, I mean she is the 'bomb', character, smartness, witty, you just name it, I even met her on December edition single and mingle, I love her a lot and she loves me too! BUT the problem is she is celibate, and I can't do CELIBATE! don't get me wrong if she were a virgin I would have waited but this one she is not,I just can't do it! and I can't let her go either, I really am into this girl, she is like my perfect girl BUTwith a twist! I have beg her to do it my way but she refused !and I can't do it her way, and I can't let her go either.
I never thought I will find my self in this kind of mess!!! arrrrg!.
sweetpie I know you will read this and know it's me, I am madly in love with you, please give us a chance I am not like the rest.
Thanks ones again Stella for this platform.
Sweetie, if you read this please don't do it because this his feelings would vanish as soon as you bend to his will.
DeleteIf you decide to stop celibacy, please do so because you want and not because you want to please a man who reasons with his penis.
A man who loves you genuinely would wait until you're ready. Una na nukwa she is not a Virgin. Love gba kwa oku there.
Ayon Thief yansh. Pls if you are the lady in question hold your punani strong . This one wants to fuck you . They will be claiming love when they just wan to off your pant
DeleteIdiot anon 17:38 so giving 'us' you a chance is buying committing fornication with you abi? You don't really love her so stop deceiving yourself and also stop deceiving her.
DeleteOya go knock properly nau. Abi you wan make another sharp nigga do it for you.
DeleteHey girl, he is like the others. He has no long term plans. Don't give in. Trust me I'm a guy
DeleteOnijibiti!!! Omogirl if u re reading this, dont mind him o.
DeleteOga ade, u dont sound real. Ole ni e
Look at this man, are you a virgin? All this yeye men that feel entitle to something, just imagine, sweetiepie,please run as far as your leg can take you, there are still celibate men out there, don't listen to this heartless deciever!
DeleteDon't worry bros CELIBATE will do you as you don't want to do CELIBATE you'll be fine. Dear girlfriend use stronger padlock for your punani no let him in 😹😹😹
Delete@Anon 18:25, thank you, nothing more to add
DeletePlease let her be. You are just saying all this so she can cave in. Miss Lady if you are reading this please don’t cave in. Remain celibate. He can masturbate once a month to relieve tension when he gets very horny. Thank you!!
DeleteI am the poster: Can you all stop being narrow minded Here and stop deceiving my girl, I love her! She knows that, I have show her all the time, BUT I love sex, and if she force me into this celibate thingy I will just end up cheating on her in the long run,
DeleteAbout future plans? Yes we have discussed that and she knows I wish to make her my wife as soon as possible, I we even discussed December this year! So please stop spoiling my girl's heart against me! I am not a heartless deciever! I am just being REAL.
Dear Mr Poster,
Deletepoint is,if you CANT discipline yourself now as a single man,you will be an adulterous husband because their would be times you cant have sex with that your wife. Dear Wife to-be, you have seen signs and shades of who this man truly is, so you can make an informed decision. The choice is yours.
Sweetie pie if you are looking for a faithful man please ignore this joker.
DeleteOnce he has fucked you, the 'love', (basic lust) he is feeling will wither.
Woman your vagina is not the prize, YOU are the prize.
Just your company alone is enough for a man for truly wants ALL of you and is planning for the future. He will manage the pressure and when he has finally married you will fuck nonsense out of your skull.
He has told you he wants to marry you even given you a tentative month for you to dream of 'to show his seriousness'.*yimu. So if he doesn't ride you before December then will he die, will he get cancer? Why exactly is he pressuring you since you already spelt out from the get go that you want to be celibate? He should find other willing partners who wish to be defecated inside. There are many.
As for the silly argument that 'after all you've done it before, what's the big deal?' Someone says I don't want to do something. You say you've done it once just continue. The reasoning of a premature juvenile. You'll be the same fool to dump her and call her a prostitute.
If you have no self control, others do.
Find your type, don't trouble those who are trying to live their lives in the way the feel best.
Just imagine receiving debit alert on your phone only to find out your nephew who lives with you has emptied your account and disappeared God to know where
ReplyDeleteOMG 😨😨😨😨
DeleteOmokomo.... Sorry o
DeleteOh lawd! This is bad, it is well
DeleteVery painful. Me that every one at home and cleaners and drivers know my ATM pin. Na God dey help me. It is well with you
DeleteGo and collect your money from his parents. Even if it means that you seize their house papers and sell the house to get your money back.
DeleteNothing to rant about, Thanking God for the gift of life, just need a good job, tired of staying home....
ReplyDeleteMy dear!
DeleteI wish someone can just buy a property I have for sale at Abeokuta.
ReplyDelete2013 during my service year, someone asked me how what I would like to be in 5 years.
ReplyDeleteI said I would like to be a career woman in the customer service sector, happily married with kids and probably running a side business. This is me 2018 , married but no kids ,I am a tailor, I mean tailor not a fashion designer.
Sometimes I ask my self what's the point of the whole education?
Zero Naira in my account.
I don't look beautiful as I use too
This is a phase i know.
For ur good health be thankful, I'm not married ay 38
DeleteMy rant is about lagos state. What is Ambode's aim? Lagos is as dirty as a shit hole. While he is going about looking for ways to increase charges. The land use charges and the toll fares are some examples. Our income is static and they keep increasing every and making the cost of living high.
ReplyDeleteA cup of egusi is now N200
ReplyDeleteSo? Cook another soup.
DeleteLike your soup?
DeleteWhaaat??
DeleteMy rant is about weight loss ohhh how much longer? Pls how much longer?
DeleteI’ve been 13kg heavier since I had this baby. The weight is just dropping small small meanwhile one slice of bread it will be like 3 kg is just added. I never said I wanted to snap back oh. I just want to go back to how I was.
Im tired I’m just tired. Gym 3 times a week. Running like a fool and lifting weights like I’m doing competition stillll! Blowing money to buy healthy food meanwhile bread and egg is how much.
I’m just tired. Paid personal trainer for two months guy man don abscond with the money. I don’t even know where to start from again. Doing d same shit everyday I’m sure my body will soon plateau. No refund no service and no money to get a new personal trainer. Thunder should fire that bastard where he is.
Hahaha.
Deleteyou shoulg join those instagram weight loss pages; askdamz or zinnyslifestyle. trust me i was skeptical too but i did lose 12kg before resuming from maternity leave... thats a total of 12 weeks.
DeleteHad my baby by CS. I didnt exercise or follow instructions religiously but trust me, a month is all you need with those guys if you are disciplined
Weight loss has a lot to do with diet (80%). You don't need to change your diet, just eat little portions of your normal food. You portion should be a fist size (year the size of your fist). Always take about 500mls of water before meal- that way you get full easily. Fill up too with vegetables and fruits. Your meal should always have protein (protein fills up and stays long).
DeleteIf possible count your calories (Google that).
Lifting weights and other strength training exercises may increase your scale weight because you're building muscle but you will notice you are getting slimmer. So don't bother so much with scale. Use tape to measure and monitor progress.
In fact employ me as your fitness instructor lol.
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ReplyDeleteKukuma turn olosho make we hear word. Sorry for u, how old are u?
DeleteI am so sorry to hear what that woman did to you. Kpele!! Don’t worry keep being a good girl. Don’t join the bandwagon. God will answer you soon.
DeleteThis came in handy. I am so so tired of everything.. I am in my late twenties and yet I haven't been in a relationship with any man before. I would love to get married easily but the guys I like don't come my way. I want to experience love, call someone about how my day went, gist with my man and all. I am so tired. It gets me depressed all the time. I want to get married this year. I have prayed, fasted and fasted and yet nothing. I ask God for other things, He answers.so why not this. What is my offense, what did I do wrong. Now I don't know how I will even act when I am finally in a relationship. I feel I will be acting like a baby cos I have never been in one at all. I missed my chances by not saying yes while in school or service year because I was so so naive back then, very shy and skeptical about a guy using me. I don't know what to do now.. Bvs, where can I meet a good, decent ,God fearing and working class Yoruba man? When people ask about my past relationships, I always lie that I just broke up with someone otherwise they will feel I am lying or something is wrong with me. Pls bvs what do u think I can do. I think about this all day and it is really affecting me
ReplyDeleteI meant ** this year**
DeleteMy dear God has been protecting you all these years and you don't know it. Go on your knees and be grateful that fornication, STIs, heart break and abortions have not been your portion. Be prayerful and patient. You are still very young. God will send your own husband to you but focus on building yourself up first so you have something to offer.
DeleteAnon 19:31 , thank you. I am not getting younger but older by the day. I once fasted for 21 days, is it the constant 7 days fasting ni, the three days .Now, I am just tired of it all. I don't even feel like going to Church like that anymore. I am just plain tired. People that are so younger than me are getting married easily. They get married to good spouses, why is my case different. Is there a place where I can meet good people?
DeleteAnon 20:29, wake up every night 12am-1am and just worship God. No requests/complaints, just acknowledge His Lordship. Come back with your testimony in a few weeks...
Deleteif you really want a genuine relationship with marital goals, kindly send an email to odo4u@yahoo.com and drop your contact so we can get to talk and see where it goes thereafter.
DeleteAnd my husband finally left me wit a child. Am so heart broken, esp as an Igbo woman,our men don't like second hand. Hmmnn, hope I can stop worrying one day.
ReplyDeletePray more, its not d end of life. My baby daddy is useless
DeleteYou are not second hand. Pick yourself up and focus on your son. Don't be in a rush to remarry. Build yourself up and have faith.
DeleteYou are very foolish to say "our" men.
DeleteMust it only be igbo men that you look for in marriage?
Here now look at a 36yrs old divorcee Black (African American)woman that is marrying the most eligible European Prince of English Aristocracy!!!
This is one of the most handsome young man in the world is marrying a black divorcee older than him, and with far less prestige or money and fame compared to him and his family.
Please LOVE YOURSELF & DO AWAY WITH THAT WICKED, EVIL NIGERIAN BACKWARD MENTALITY THAT MAKE MATURE, OR OLDER WOMEN AS INFERIOR OBJECTS & TREAT THEM AS UNDESERVING IF THEY DIVORCED, SINGLE MOTHER OR AFFECTED IN LIFE BY ANY UNFORTUNATE EVENT AND STIGMA.
You are second hand.
DeleteEven your thoughts are second hand. See how you sound like an overweight fool.
You can never be more than second hand.
Because you think like second hand and you can never rise higher than your thoughts.
Primitive, local, bush Nigerian mentality. Shithole people with their dinosaur shithole thinking. Smelling oafs. I HATE this country with a passion more than the devil.
3:22 you are wasting your spittle.
The heat is enough to rant about abeg,showering 6,7 times a day,it is well with naija,I even had a dream 2days ago seeing myself in Germany, make God allow it come into reality ooo,God forbid i return back to naija
ReplyDeleteU even see water to shower
DeleteAt last I'll be alright, i so much want a baby now bt my fiance has no job. It is well Ooo
ReplyDeleteI broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. I deserve better, he has been forming Alpha male, talking rudely to me, he deleted my photos on his Facebook saying it was a friend who deleted them for yahoo yahoo, that lie cannot fly with me Oga fit don dey cheat. This is 2018 I love him but I don't want stress am beginning to see red flags everywhere no be fine boy I go chop. He responds to every word when we quarrel and goes minutes talking, I think he has nagging tendencies, is forming unapologetic not with me, does not pet me when we never reach one year when I suppose dey honey moon. I am used to the exact opposite of all he is representing right now. Love sometimes is not just enough for two people to be together. Its day 1 without him and its hard am hurting but more determined because in my heart I know he is not the man I dream of character wise jare. Let me leave now because in my heart I know I won't stay with him. Surprisingly tears no want commot for my eyes but am still heart broken sha. I beg who know y I no dey cry? He even said I must come begging because he is a good man and he won't take me back, this dude is delusional as don't reach Asaba with leg no looking back but I guess he will discover this after 2 weeks. Bye
ReplyDeletePele. Go wash plates for ur mum pls
DeleteI hope u don't get weak n go back..but then you can't advice a woman in love.
DeleteAll I think about now is suicide,suicide, suicide.The urge is so strong that i don't think I will be able to survive again.Lost everything and everybody I had in this world.No parents, siblings not even a job.It hurts when you are in this world,have a family but they never want to set eyes on you.I am tired of crying,I just feel like ending it all.This pain is too much for one to bear.
ReplyDeleteDrop your number with Stella please
DeletePlease stop thinking about ending it. Believe all hope is not lost. You will be fine. Sending you plenty hugs.
DeleteWhy Dont you embrace God's love? Why don't you give Him a chance in your life! Why do you want to end a life u didn't create?
DeleteWhy don't u ask God d purpose He created u?
Dont give up on life when Jesus is d life saver and He's more than willing to give it a meaning.
Sorry, no space in d cemetery.
DeleteThank you Lord for all you have done for my family, but Lord I need you to help me, bills are piling up, so much debt to pay, rent is due dis month, nigeria which way na,
ReplyDeleteI think I will say the rate in which people are been killed in their community by those who feel they are the landlord of Nigeria and our leaders keeping quiet in action left me in doubt that if nigeria will ever be united again. People now lived in fear and mercy of the Fulani herdsmen marauding all over villages raping, destroying crops, killing farmers and host community and burning houses. We are no longer safe anymore.
ReplyDeleteMy own rant is that I want to fuck!
ReplyDeleteMy boyfriend be doing "Child of God" with his erections anytime I hug him...
There's this married man I really want to fuck jare.
Make i fuck make my body calm down.
The heat is killing and nepa is not helping matters.
ReplyDeleteI thank God for life. Even though things seems to be very hard, I thank God.
ReplyDeleteWhy do people with good heart and intention always have it hard. My hubby is helping someone in a building project, and the brother of the owner of the building has been telling him to inflate the prices of things of which he refused. The said brother now called his brother abroad to say all sorts of lie about my hubby. Now the owner have taken the project from him. Is it a crime to be honest now? Must one always have to steal/cheat to make it life? Is it that honesty has been thrown to the gutters?
That you don't eat a lion doesn't mean it won't eat you. Always remember that. Your brother should have found a way to call the owner. By now, your hubby would have been his one and only trusted friend. Opolo eyes no be open eyes true true. Una mumu. Kpele.
DeleteI decided to help myself by doing menial jobs. This woman that I cleaned her compound has refuse to pay me for last month. Why are people so wicked. 3000, that I was hoping to use to pay the girl that is helping to teach my kids at home. Cos they have not been going to school since this term.
ReplyDeleteMadam, God is watching u in 5d o.
Thank you Lord for all you have done for my family and I, for many more blessings and miracles of 2018 thank you God
ReplyDeleteI woke up this morning to open an Id so I can comment, the system was just playing funny, at first, I could not believe it. I said my village people have found their way to sdk blog, the devil is a liar. I will try again during the week or anybody can advise me how to open an Id, I love this blog. Have a good week everyone.
ReplyDeleteI'm frustrated ... no job I just pack certificate (HR, customer care) still yet no job.. it's killing ðŸ˜ðŸ˜¢ðŸ˜¢
ReplyDeleteDM
I just got married to my snm babe this past February and spent a lot for the wedding hoping I will recover more of the money from the wedding knowing fully well my rent will expire that February. I didn't even realize up to 50k from the wedding and biz is slow. Landlord is on my neck, I think everyday instead enjoying my honey moon. Wish Nigeria can get its electricity issues resolved, no light to even do the business well. I just have so many regrets... End of rant.
ReplyDeleteHhmmmm..It is well oo. Don't feel like ranting but i just can't help it. Really tired of the way things are in this country. It has not been easy finding a good job even after an MSc. It was even easier getting a job after my BSc. God where are you oo? After all these efforts I have put into developing myself. Maybe I shouldn't have left my job for this masters. I have things I'm supposed to do but can't because of funds. It's just tiring. I really want to do things with this my God-given brain, add value, make an impact.I just need the right opportunities. Help me God.
ReplyDeleteShe had so many dreams which all seem to be gradually fading, getting erased as the time passes. She never knew parental love or any real love save for her late Grandpa but then Grandpa's always love their grand kids. She always tells whoever asked that her parents are dead, truth is, she is tired of that lie and the real story is that though she doesn't know who her father is ( she was told he left before she was born), her mother is very much alive but doesn't care if she is alive or dead (she perceives the hatred greatly and it's beginning to affect her and get her thinking and asking why), she has two younger ones, boys, and recently found out that they don't share the same father. Her mother loves the boys so much, she lives with them. The short time (a term) she stayed with her mother was he'll, always gets beaten for the smallest things. Just because a neighbor called her his small wife, her mother beat her senseless, called her a prostitute while using a hot pressing iron on her thighs (a mark she still has till now), some times she looks at the mark and wonder why she was born because she used to feel she will make it someday to prove that she is not totally a waste but that seem to be impossible now.
ReplyDeleteShe is trying to get by but it seems the force of life, nature is against her existence like her mother is and she doesn't know why or the crime she committed to warrant such. Her mother feels like she has worn because her son is making it and so she feels right for casting out her daughter.
The people that raised her (aunts) have all turned their back on me. After University which she was reluctantly sent to because of my grandpa, she was cast away immediately after she graduated. No care, no pocket money, nothing. She got moved from one house to the other until they all got tired of me and she ran out of options of where to stay. She endured the last house despite the psychological and emotional abuse till she got out. She is on her own now but gets wondering for how long before she get thrown out again because not being able to pay the next time.
She has been harboring the idea of quitting her job. She works hard, very hard. Infact, she is still alive today and not begging for anything from the people that God gave her as family because she take jobs no matter how little the pay is, so long as she get paid. She just realized that the desperation she had then just to get any job that will pay basic bills like sanitary pads and the rest has greatly affected her and though she work hard, she don't work smart which is why she has been toying with the idea of resigning from her underpaid N50k job. But she is in fear. The fear of how will she get another one, who will employ her because she does need a job so she can be able to pay rent and feed. She don't and have never gotten handouts from the family that God gave her, so it' really going to be hard. She doesn't have friends that can help with even N100, truth is, she doesn't keep friends, so have none.
ReplyDeleteShe has stopped going to church, though she prays all the time but then, will God answer the prayers of a very resentful girl who accuses Him of been partial and blames him for all the wrong that is going on with her.
Last Sunday was mother's Sunday, she saw her brother's post praising "their" mother for been the best mother and how her prayers work like magic and till now, she still can't get the sense in it. Someone who turned her kids against each other. She used to talk to one of her brothers till he suddenly stopped taking her calls or even returning them. She and the other brother have never been in good terms right from time all thanks to their mother. The night her mother used hot pressing iron on her, he was there and in a way helped her do it.
She cast them out of my mind and intend to block him on social media soon. She needs to focus on my life and what she can get out of out which all seem impossible. She just want to achieve things, get a good job, maybe attract a responsible man though that's not a priority. She has ideas but no means to bring them to light. How long before her very own light is put out.
I just need 200k to pay my rent before it expires in two weeks. My parents want me home so they have told me in clear terms that they are not paying. I don't want to go home, I want to keep working here cos I know I'm on the right track. Even though I'm not able to afford major stuff like my rent, I've been making enough to feed and pay my bills. I know they mean well but I left my comfort zone for a reason. I can't go back now. Gosh!!
ReplyDeleteAm 26 and my boyfriend is 23 he's so broke and unambitious i don't just know what to do, moreover breaking up with him is not an option.
ReplyDeleteOkay so what should we do? Open a gofundme to finance your relationship? In the interim, send your location so I can gift you a rope to tie yourself to him since leaving him is not an option.
DeleteBreaking up is not an option? His Bedroom activities must be lit.lol
DeleteYeye shild...wait till you turn to qwegz before you will grow up. Lol
Hmmm have got loads of things to rant about, I need a better paying job,this teaching job is so stressful and the pay is not even encouraging at all, I need money to learn one or two skills then my major headache is my husband that man just bbehaves as if he is an alpha and omega,imagine calling his side chick at night when he knows I will be hearing him,he doesn't even respond to my greetings anymore,have tried to make peace with him but he doesn't want to hear me,my little girl is due for school but he didn't answer me I had to register her where I teach so that the money can be deducted from my salary,Godknows I didn't plan my life to turn out like this but am tired of everything.
ReplyDeleteMine isn't really a rant, am a lady serving and will soon pass out, am presently learning how to sew men's outfit, my worry is if as a lady i specialize in sewing men's wear alone will i be patronized, considering d fact that most men want their clothes to be sown by a male tailor. Pls i need sincere answers and opinion thanks
ReplyDeleteDont waste your time,men would not patronize you,i know a story of a female tailor that sews mens clothes,that was how she snatched and married someone's husband.Many married women wont let their husbands patronize you.Go learn how to sew woman cloth.
DeleteAnonymous@ 17:15...I read through your rant and I feel that you have a mentality of success and you dream big..You are so full of enthusiasm and trust me I envy your sense of reasoning.You will get there, don't stop. Just look @ your command of English and your diction. Tell you what, if you can think this mature @24,the sky is only a starting point. ..whatever skill, trade or course you study,first check for the market demand. After going to uni studying 2 courses that were not in demand, I went back the 3rd time and today @41...I'm well paid and very comfortable..If@24 I had your level of maturity perhaps. ...who knows
ReplyDeleteShe had so many dreams which all seem to be gradually fading, getting erased as the time passes. She never knew parental love or any real love save for her late Grandpa but then Grandpa's always love their grand kids. She always tells whoever asked that her parents are dead, truth is, she is tired of that lie and the real story is that though she doesn't know who her father is ( she was told he left before she was born), her mother is very much alive but doesn't care if she is alive or dead (she perceives the hatred greatly and it's beginning to affect her and get her thinking and asking why), she has two younger ones, boys, and recently found out that they don't share the same father. Her mother loves the boys so much, she lives with them. The short time (a term) she stayed with her mother was he'll, always gets beaten for the smallest things. Just because a neighbor called her his small wife, her mother beat her senseless, called her a prostitute while using a hot pressing iron on her thighs (a mark she still has till now), some times she looks at the mark and wonder why she was born because she used to feel she will make it someday to prove that she is not totally a waste but that seem to be impossible now.
ReplyDeleteShe is trying to get by but it seems the force of life, nature is against her existence like her mother is and she doesn't know why or the crime she committed to warrant such. Her mother feels like she has worn because her son is making it and so she feels right for casting out her daughter.
The people that raised her (aunts) have all turned their back on me. After University which she was reluctantly sent to because of my grandpa, she was cast away immediately after she graduated. No care, no pocket money, nothing. She got moved from one house to the other until they all got tired of me and she ran out of options of where to stay. She endured the last house despite the psychological and emotional abuse till she got out. She is on her own now but gets wondering for how long before she get thrown out again because not being able to pay the next time.
She has been harboring the idea of quitting her job. She works hard, very hard. Infact, she is still alive today and not begging for anything from the people that God gave her as family because she take jobs no matter how little the pay is, so long as she get paid. She just realized that the desperation she had then just to get any job that will pay basic bills like sanitary pads and the rest has greatly affected her and though she work hard, she don't work smart which is why she has been toying with the idea of resigning from her underpaid N50k job. But she is in fear. The fear of how will she get another one, who will employ her because she does need a job so she can be able to pay rent and feed. She don't and have never gotten handouts from the family that God gave her, so it' really going to be hard. She doesn't have friends that can help with even N100, truth is, she doesn't keep friends, so have none.
She has stopped going to church, though she prays all the time but then, will God answer the prayers of a very resentful girl who accuses Him of been partial and blames him for all the wrong that is going on with her.
ReplyDeleteLast Sunday was mother's Sunday, she saw her brother's post praising "their" mother for been the best mother and how her prayers work like magic and till now, she still can't get the sense in it. Someone who turned her kids against each other. She used to talk to one of her brothers till he suddenly stopped taking her calls or even returning them. She and the other brother have never been in good terms right from time all thanks to their mother. The night her mother used hot pressing iron on her, he was there and in a way helped her do it.
She cast them out of my mind and intend to block him on social media soon. She needs to focus on my life and what she can get out of out which all seem impossible. She just want to achieve things, get a good job, maybe attract a responsible man though that's not a priority. She has ideas but no means to bring them to light. How long before her very own light is put out.
people will hurt you and pretend they don't know. Hmmm. It's well.
ReplyDeletePregnant with my second child, lost my job, hubby doesnt care about me and our child and even the one on the way. I solely take care of the home with money i get from charity and my small biz which is about folding cos ive spent both capital and savings.
ReplyDeleteI have no financial bearing at the moment, how do i take care of the baby coming, my mini me and myself???
Im yet to register for Antenatal because i lack funds to run the necessary tests.
Who will employ a pregnant woman with my qualifications and experience?
My hubby isnt doing well either yet there's no love and care from him, i feel so emotionally draing and tired. I cry everytime and anywhere. I pray to carry to term and give birth safely. I pray my hubby will return to being loving and caring. I pray to have the financial means to go through my day to day activities.
It is well with everyone
Baby blu
DeleteYour husband is not taking care of you and the child yet you got pregnant again, I'm sure you will still birth the third and fourth child. You prefer to suffer with plenty children. Carry your load.
Anoymous SHUT UP!! You dont know my story so nothing gives you the right to talk trash. That i ranted here doesnt give you the right to come under my comment and type rubbish. For your info i will never suffer cos im perfectly ok to run my affairs by the grace of God. Please take a hike
DeleteI’m tired of this life,seriously thinking of sucide. Just ate my last food this night
ReplyDelete. God where are you
Suicide? Don't you know when there is life, there is hope. Just put your situation in God's hands
DeleteI am too shy and so so naive and slow to react even at 28. It makes me feel so stupid and say unnecessary things at times . I hate this. I want to be sharp, think fast, make decisions for myself and all... Pls how will I go about this. Is there a group I can go to that can help me.
ReplyDeleteI need a singles group to join where they meet physically. Pls how do I join one
ReplyDeleteI feel so angry with myself, my hubby thinks he is smart, brings a a girl close home on the pretense of helping her yet always doing more than, over care he thinks or he is mad, small time remain, I would leave him, thinks no one would at me, but that's where he gets it wrong, I would rather have a come and go guy, than one who would always give me bp. he doesn't release my strength and my happiness is mine to hold not his.
ReplyDelete@beloved SDk blog PA. Can you do us all a favour of shutting up sometimes? Your comments are as irritating and childish as they come and you have to splatter them on every one's comment. How old are you,15?
ReplyDeleteTry masturbating. It will help keep you busy. I know you'll come yakking but I'm hopeful it will be the last.
So last Wednesday was my 8yrs wedding anniversary, and I was so down cause my kids don't go to school.
ReplyDeleteExams start tomorrow an am serious afraid dat dem might be sent home again.
I just want to meet a guy, some with godly values, who is matured and single. Knows what he wants and is ready to build a home with a supportive and hard-working lady. I fear I might never find him, I worry.
ReplyDeleteI am just tired of everything,after his masters degree over 5years ago my husband is yet to get a job,no money for business.
ReplyDeleteThings are so hard.I don't want handouts,I just need a job for my husband