This post refers to both Male and Female...
The type of confrontation where you meet face to face and you decide to do something about it?Or did you do nothing?
Did you walk away?
How did the scenario play out?
Yesterday a wife met her hubby and his side piece at the movies and she slapped the younger side piece and her hubby got physical with her...........Damn!
You have no right slapping your mans or woman's side piece...slap your lover instead and not their lovers....
Some guys end up fighting and breaking bones cos of a woman!
One day I met my Boyfriend's girlfriend,I didn't know he had one and I was shocked...she was shocked as well but he wasn't at home when we met there..we both had the keys..lol
She was rude but i calmed her down and we had a long talk and realised how he fooled us....we became best friends after that day and we both broke up with him....lol
He never got over the shock and from this experience i knew that fighting or exchanging words is the wrong way..
This should be interesting!
Never happened before.
ReplyDeleteConfront ke? Abeg no time to check time,the moment I know you are entertaining someone else,then they can have your ass....no time for drama or accusations...as hurtful as it may feel,I will jejely move on and later get over you fast bcos I will tell my sef I better feel this lil pain now and get on with my precious life than fight and feel pain always over someone who definitely has no respect for me or relationship
ReplyDeleteWhen someone talks you know her age!
DeleteI Haven't. But I heard a story about who did.
ReplyDeleteBabe went to her man's house and met another woman. She said she was surprised at first, but she later composed herself and pretended to be his younger sis. The side chick was like, sorry o. He didn't tell me u were coming. Let me quickly prepare noodles for you. Argh! She said she wanted to cry. But, She just played along. She said they talked o. Starting from when they started dating. She found out that, they've been seeing each other for more than 6months. She said she was devastated.
That was how oga later came in at night, and when he saw the both of them gisting in the living room, he almost passed out. LMAO.
What a disgrace of a Man. Real men don't pass out.... They...
DeleteWait for it...
They die on the spot. Lol
@Rhoda Rex: See Gobe!!! But the truth is it's only very few ladies that can manage this type of situation like the lady you talked about 👆 there.
Delete@Rowland:😁😁😁
Hehehehe! The earlier u put it in ur medulla oblongata that men/women cheat, you will have no time to confront anybody. You will sip bacardi n take urself to namibia, fuck, clean mouth n come back enter house like say nothing happen. Lol
ReplyDeleteGbam! Heheheheheehee
DeleteBlackberry, the only thing I see in this your message is that Bacardi.... Oh my throat aches for some... I really can't wait for this lent to be over. 😊
DeleteExactly!!! No time to carry hypertension o, no man is worth it at all.
DeleteConfront ke? Tiny me... Who dash me power. Lol.
ReplyDeleteI've no business with 'Side piece' (That's if I'm not even the side piece sef. .lol) Biko life is not hard. If your partner cheats, deal with him or her! Leave side chickens alone.
If you succeed in chasing side chicks today, are you ready to chase side Fowls tomorrow? You deserve to be respected! Engaging in physical altercation isn't the right thing. If you like slap, konck, text and even pour acid on the 'popular' side chick... Your partner will simply move to a more coded side piece.
I am going anonymous on this.
ReplyDeleteIt was back then in school one idiot called me and told me to stay away from Nkechi(not her real name). And that Nkechi was all his. Unknown to him I was No1. I just laughed. I called Nkechi over and asked her, she said her ex is still disturbing her. I asked her candidly if they are done, she said yes. One weekend Nkechi said she was traveling. So I had 4 of my boys track him and brought to me in the middle of the night, alongside the girl that was with him in a hotel. You guys won't believe it was Nkechi that was with him. So I had him dealt with for that useless call he made. Told my boys to remove two of his teeth, and told them to all go two two rounds with Nkechi. Yes it was wicked but then I don't regret it.
Some of you might be thinking, nemesis will catch up or Karma? Well I already made do or should I say paid my debt in full.
Huh! Are you for real??? I am speechless. Weldone oh!!!
DeleteStupid cultist , you are lucky you've not met your match😕😕😕
Deleteyou deserve jail. moron
DeleteI did o. Bloke I was dating and both families have been introduced to each other? Why agree to no-sex till after marriage, form Holy Holy then one rainy Friday night I come visiting after spending hours in traffic with a city cab loaded up in different goodies, then I open the door and met a dark living room. Headed to the bedroom and your sidechick is bouncing on your d.ck? Who does that?
ReplyDeleteOf course I gave him a hard push when he ran after me to explain,he fractured his right arm, I was out faster than I came luckily for me the cabbie was still around and attending to the things I brought as the gateman was dropping some by the staircase already. I opened the gate and we drove off. That was the last time we met eyeball to eyeball. Marriage called off. Thunder fire devil.
Ok na. He married his Ogbaru (apologies to NDI IKPELE MMILI) sidechick 1year and 6months before I got married not knowing that chic is an 'owu mmili' hahahaha. Today he's got no piece in his home as nwammili is tormenting him seriously while I cruise the mini boulevards of Oregun and Maryland. Duuuh!
People do pay for their sins don't they? And he stalks me off and on till date.
Hahahahahahahagahahahaha.
Sorry to the lady up there that the hubby dealt with, probably he was in a business meeting or in some serious discussion. You have no right touching the sidechick. Ndo.
*take Aboniki and rub on your body*
You'll be fine.
How do you know he stalks you??? Lol u people like to feel like what u are not,u don't want to believe nigga has moved on too abi,yeye dey smell
DeleteGIRLS HAVE FOUGHT ON MY BEHALF
ReplyDeleteI have never confronted any of my girlfriends about another guy. However, about fifteen years ago, I was in a serious relationship with Nkechi and it was really heading somewhere because, despite my meagre resources, I had to pay for SSCE exams (something she claims she will forever remember).
However, I had this my childhood friend, Blessing, that appeared on the scene after many years of being away. Even though ours was a platonic relationship, I felt more at ease with her and we always exchanged ideas.
Unknown to me, Nkechi felt I was dating Blessing. Instead of confronting me about Blessing, she decided to fight Blessing to leave me alone for her. After series of warning to her, Nkechi finally attacked Blessing one particular day, with the help of her friends, and really disgraced her by tearing her top.
Even though Blessing did not tell me about, I still learnt of it and it somehow affected our relationships: Blessing started avoiding me (in order for my girlfriends not to break her head, as she put it then) and Nkechi's insistence that I was having an affair with Blessing made me to start getting bored with her; as I was tired of explaining to her that ours was just a platonic relationship.
Nevertheless, Nkechi had to relocate to another state and Blessing and I continued our friendship. My closeness with her never prevented my going into relationships with other girls. Not for once did it cross my mind to ask her out, as I was comfortable with us being great friends, but, many years later, after an analytical view of our communication, I realized that she wanted us to be more than friends.
Thankfully, she got married in 2015 and made her husband her priority. Nevertheless, our friendship convinced me that you can be friends with the opposite sex without sex coming into it.
Always epistle sha
DeleteMy wife called side chick that I comb that she wants to see her, the girl just asked her do u want a 2some with your hubby? From that day my wife stopped calling her.
ReplyDeleteWhat are you saying?
DeleteOnly you and your God understands dis rubbish u just wrote 😂😂😂😂
DeleteHe said his wife tried to confront his side chic. And the side chic offered to have a 'threesome' With them. So his wife got shocked and stopped calling her. Capisce?
DeleteShebi all na confrontation? 🤣🤣
If you don't understand Abeg Waka pass. My wife called a side chick that I have been combing (fucking) and the girl asked her do you want a two some with your hubby. My wife stopped calling her.
DeleteI once had. It was during his elder sister's wedding. On the engagement day (Friday). He told me the girl is his cousin's ex and she's still battling with the heartbreak.
ReplyDeleteHe told me the girl is using him to get over her heartbreak from his cousin, as per big brother, and her mentor. I never bought the lies but was only playing along.
On the engagement day, at around 11pm, I went out and saw him and the girl, the girl was sitting on his laps. Just told the girl to stand up as I wan see "our" guy. All his friends came from where they were sitting and I was just smiling. Well that was the end of the relationship.
He was even shouting that why did I disgrace his visitor? That after all, everybody already know me as his fiancee. Till tomorrow, he's begging me to come and claimed he was tipsy that day, that was why he misbehaved.
I'm not saying you can't cheat o, but when you rob it on my face, even if we're married, I can divorce you because of that
*Larry was here*
I haven't confronted anyone, I've also not been confronted. But a guy I was dating called and threatened another suitor. Not like he was serious o. Lol. He was like the Pharisees who stood at the entrance, they wouldn't go in yet wouldn't let others go in. Mathew 23:13.
ReplyDeleteMy mum told me of one lady. She had been abroad for a while, doing cleaning and nanny jobs and living with her elder sister, since hubby lost his job in naija. She kept the kids with her mum so that hubby can hustle and go visit during the weekends. Not knowing she gave him the 'liverty' to be single again. Isokay.
ReplyDeleteThese werent the days of cell phone. So the weekend she was supposed to travel back to the US, her son fell ill and she decided to postpone her trip by two weeks. The veeery next weekend, hubby was out. She dey house next thing one fine girl shows up. Saying she's looking for bae. Who be bae, her husband. Hmm! Okay. She asked the girl to come in and explained that she is the man's elder sister who just returned from the village to start life again in lagos and these are her children. That her brother has told her about his university girlfriend (the lady had no university education) and that she is welcome. They cooked food and ate and gisted till night time when Oga showed up shocked to his bone marrow. She excused them only to come back seeing the girl kneeling down and apologizing. That she told the girl that she doesn't have a grudge against her biko. Apparently, oga had tried to get to campus to tell her to wait another two weeks before coming, but she was on her way to his house before he got to hers.
I've been confronted before oh. During my uni days, I think OAU was on one of those long strikes. I was home for a while so one of my mum's friend's son with whom she has been trying to matchmake us took me out once after plenty begging. The next afternoon there was a loud bang on my gate, my sis went to open and later came to meet me that someone was looking for me.
ReplyDeleteI came out to meet this girl. She looked a mess, red teary eyes and holding on to a laptop. She started confronting me. Asking how long I'd known the guy for, if I'm aware they had been together for years. That he just wanted to play with me. Telling me all she had been through with the guy. See me oh
Apparently she saw pictures of us from the hangout the day before on his laptop so she broke it and came to warn me. That I should stay off her guy oh since she traced me to my place, she has done some digging etc. Lol see me oh. Na boredom even make me follow the guy hangout that previous day. I just told her to leave that I had nothing to do with the guy. I never knew he had a girlfriend neither did I care.
I felt pity for her though and I kept wondering what kind of love would make you subject yourself to such.
Dude later called that evening asking if I was OK, that she told him she was gonna show me, that the girl was mad etc. He was really trying to rubbish the babe. I just told him off and warned him never to contact me again and keep me out of their drama.
Nah,I didn't confront, confront for wetin,I just sent her a very bad cough and smelling one too,she will continue with that cough till it kills her,I don't joke with my man and anybody that tries her luck around him again will be sent to her early grave
ReplyDeleteEwo bcos of man I can't oh
DeleteWawu. Straight road to hell fire for you, no gallop.
DeleteI beg help me with the cough, make send to someone wey want make I enjoy
Deleteit was the day my ex Boo uploaded his "girlfriend" picture and tagged it "My Queen" that was when i knew that my ex Boo had another Boo. it happened that he uploaded my pic in the morning and uploaded hers two hours later with same tag. when i confronted him, he denied dating the girl so i had a chat with the girl and i discovered, they have been dating for long... i jejely left him...
ReplyDeleteThis happened while I was in school
ReplyDeleteI had a key to my boyfriend's apartment,I got bored one Saturday and decided to visit him without calling first(I dont call whenever I'm visiting any of my bfs) .
I got to his house but he wasn't inside,So I jejely went to his bedroom, armed with key in hands and opened the door. Loo and behold, A girl was inside the room😅😅😅 The girl was terrified and had this inferiority air around her,reading her countenance, I keyed to it and was smiling sheepishly to myself as I was just looking at her, sizing her up with my eyes(if na person wey I go fit beat incase she try nonsense) She felt intimidated and greeted me, I answered her and asked her where my boyfriend went to? She stammered but managed to answer that he went to get something.
I laid on the bed while she started reaching for her bag to leave😅😅😅 I told her to wait and simply went to lock the door😆 sister was shaking, she thought I was going to start a fight, but God forbid I fight over a man,I could sense her frets and I was enjoying myself watching her being terrified by my crazy acts. I just picked my phone and form call to my frds "Babes, where re you girls? Locate yourself to this zone (guy's address) bcos e don set o"😅😅😅..Aunty was crying o and pleading that I let her out,Oga finally came back o, opened the door with his key and saw two girls. Hehehehehe, it was like a film in his eyes, he asked the girl to go out and was trying to explain,I landed him one slap first, he started begging o. He managed to pacify me and I went outside just to look at the girl again, but aunty don run 😅😅😅😅..
Another one was my ex threatening my current boyfriend, hahahahahaha and my boo was forming strong guy , but oga you and I know say you be ajebo without power, thank God you run wey he block you with him car that day, na hospital you for dey now😅😅😅 Agric fowl baby.
You locked her inside say wetin happen? Hahahaha you never jam my dear. You people play too much.
DeleteCastle, I used to be very crazy in my teen o and I ve this intimidating look that even my lecturers were not comfortable with😅😅😅So, I guess the poor girl couldn't take it as well.
DeleteNever confronted anyone, never been confronted either. My first boyfriend was a cheat,he chopped plenty slaps. He was the only guy I ever slapped. I realized I didn't respect him so I left.
ReplyDeleteMine was long time ago. Sometime in 1996, l had met this guy called Ben months earlier at my best friends birthday party. He came on so strongly that l eventually gave in. I had asked if he was in a relationship and he told me he was done. I had also ended a long term relationship so we decided to give it a try. Dude picked me up after work, dropped me off at his place and went to get some things. I decided to take a nap and later woke up to a girls cry. I thought l was dreaming but l later heard dude telling the girl they were done. The girls cries got louder. I eventually went to the sitting room and told him l needed to leave. Dude said l wasn’t and asked the girl to leave. She came with her friend who unknowingly to her was my childhood friend. The friend was able to get her out of there. That girl turned around and told Ben that he was cheating on her with her friend. I was so shocked when he asked me if l knew her. I never met that girl all my life but she refused to give up. She came the very next weekend again crying and screaming that she loved him, etc. l couldn’t deal with all that so l left. Six months later, he reconnected with an old flame that was based in the States. He came and told me at work that he was getting married. I wished him luck and that was it. I felt so bad for that girl though. The cries were agonizing!!
ReplyDeleteI no get time to dey confront girl upandan.. Na that man I go use Mouth tear! Out of the relationship Straight coz I too loyal to deserve anything less! I no fit shout
ReplyDeleteI did it but belt me the guy wept like a baby and a matter of fact I told him to date the both of us and it's a most, believe me am seriously enjoying thus game....
ReplyDeleteNa your leg you use type this ba?
DeleteIssokay.
So far you understood wetin you dey yarn.
mine was confrontation borne out of been beaten. went to my husband's base and was not allowed in, I sha forced my way in and got beaten by him only for me to pounce on the side chic. I av been there before and met a lady and didn't get confrontational but rather faced hubby. well I made up my mind as I took departed for my base the next morning (slept in a nearby hotel). nna mehn, I never knew I could get so angry and be confrontational in public (I feel sad and hurt but life goes on as I m so done). my mum was so vexed that I was the one calming her. e go betta.....odikwa alright
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