Growing up, my dad used to enjoy playing some of our native music, mostly on Saturday mornings. But as soon as he stepped out we will quickly change it to Bobby brown or the latest hip hop song at that time.
Dad would come without saying a word he will change it back to his record. (Na record plate those days)
At first he used to get angry and give us lectures but with time he just ignored us and kept changing.
Many years later, dad passed on. One day I was in a bus and heard somebody is playing one of dad's songs. (ohenhen, benin peeps should know him) The thing sweet my belly no be small, I even wanted to hug the person.
This was our song. Me that is usually shy I had to beg the guy from the back seat where I was to his front seat to share the song with me and he did.
The song became my favourite it was on redial, it brought sweet memories of those Saturday mornings.
One day my elder brother heard it on my phone and quickly deleted stuff from his phone to have space to download it. If you know Ohenhen songs they are usually long.
I was amazed, so my brother knows this song?
Those Saturday mornings them no born us to change my father record, na only this my brother gather that kind liver.
But because he was older popsie kinda respected him. And he even used to wonder why pospie loved those songs.
Now come see my brother loving those songs and even singing along.
I teased him that I was surprised he knew the lyrics and he said he was surprised too.
When our cousin called that he was coming from Benin we gave him money to buy best of Ohenhen, Victor Uwafio and all those songs my dad used to play. Even though we didn't like them then but we listen and now we are teaching our children the same songs and they are resisting but we'll just smile.
So is there something your parents thought you and you didn't like, but you do now and you are trying to get your children to like but them no send you?
Lols...nice,my father love shina peters,seni ada song,the funniest part is that he doesn't understand Yoruba at all..am so missing him now
ReplyDeleteAww this just brought back lovely memories. Ours was mostly Christmas periods... rudolf the red nose reign-deer
DeleteI remember the good old days of waking up to My Mum playing Bob Marley songs, Don Williams songs. Whereas my Dad would play Fela's songs(You won't blame the fellow, he fought the Biafran war) π―... Oh! when ever my grandmother was around She'd love to teach me how to dance Sunny Ade's songs.
ReplyDeleteThose were good old days oh Iya Ibeji. If I start narrating the experiences I had of them ehn una go think say I be Paul Ukah☺️.
ππππ @paul ukah.
DeleteMy father loves Jim reeves songs alot. He still plays it
ReplyDeleteMy dad too, he had almost all his songs and he will be singing with his terrible voice. Don Williams and Kenny Rogers too. I love their songs too and they remind me of him
DeleteIf I ask who Paul Ukah is will I sound ignorant?
ReplyDeleteYou know wetin Google don use my eyes see so don't say ask Google.
He is the BV with epistles. Paul Okah
DeleteThe way my father lovs sunny ade and barrister eehn, I luv them now especially when I am alone
ReplyDeleteMy father call him seni Adaπlols
DeleteMy dad loved reggae, he had a collection of them, we practically grew up on Bob Marley, Anthony B and co. Buju Banton and lucky Dube were his favourites.
ReplyDeleteFor the home front, his cousin Sir Warrior and Kabaka peppered our ears, Bright Chimezie and Oliver too.
#memories
I can relate. Now I so love music by Sunny Ade and Ebenezer Obey. To think my siblings and I hated their songs growing up
ReplyDeleteFor my Dad its Barry Wonder
ReplyDeleteGrew up listening to Classical music, ABBA, Bob Marley, then Nigerian music such as Onyeka Onwenu, Shina Peters, Legendary Osadebe etc. They plenty oh! My parents still do play them.
Delete#sweet memories#
And honestly it made us (my siblings and I) open to good music.
In my home, I play Classical music ,Jazz especially my Yanniπ!
My dad love Sunny Ade and Ebenezer Obeys song. He would playboy for hours on saturday and sunday. Still does
ReplyDeletePapi will always call us individually to ask when we are coming home back then when we were in school and it continued even after school anytime it's festive period and I am always the last to go home cos I don't have friends back home most times I grumble cos I will add weight before coming back as time went by I will give excuses and stay back but papi passed this February and I have been crying cos nobody called to ask me when I'm coming home.....rest on daddy I love you
ReplyDeleteOh dear!
DeletePlease be consoled.
Oooh death!
May he continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord, Amen.
It is well with you my dear. I absolutely can relate.
DeleteMy late dad loved Bob Marley, Michael Jackson, bright chimezie, Oliver and NTA 9pm news you dare not change it. May your soul keep resting dad i miss you so much.
ReplyDeleteHaaahaaaa !
DeleteYou just reminded me how I 'destest' 9pm NTA News in those days, used to wonder why my parents always switches to it daily! Lol !
I'm now a parent and I don't joke with my AIT News by 8pm daily ππ€£ππ€£ππ€£ππ€£ππ€£π, my kids not finding it funny!
My dad so loved king sunny Ade, Ebenezer Oby, Evi Edna Ogoli and Felix liberty songs in those days.
ReplyDeleteYes o. U tend to like those things as u get older.
ReplyDeleteMyself and my junior brother use to refer to my stepfather as an educated illiterate just because of his fixation to Orlando Owohs music. Fast forward to 20yrs after, i had all of Orlando Owohs cassette then in my car, my kids keep grumbling every time i play them.
ReplyDeleteThen i realised that musical taste changes with age. Am sure my son will one day have cause to say this too