Wednesday IHN

 No matter how hot your temper be, e no fit boil beans.......

Aleruchi Covers FOIHN

Good day Stella..I would like to grace today's FOIHN as a fine girl that I am.. i'm still struggling to get a blog ID your doing an amazing job. Well done.. Much love
P..S My name means Looking up God

''Aleruchi means looking up to God?it sounds German-Chinese


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HAPPY BIRTHDAY REMYS DAUGHTER

Greetings Your Majesty SDK,
My golden girl is a year older today. Happy birthday honey I am blessed to have you as my daughter.

Bv Davies Remy


Happy Birthday to her

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CHOMMY COVERS IHN

Hello ma,its bv "single ma" just manage this for FOIHN....shout out to all single mothers,remember God has our backs..


which one be all this ''ma ma ma ma ma?'''...Yes,God has your back forever!!!


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*10 COMMUNICATION TIPS FOR COUPLES*

A lot of times, couples get pissed off with each other by the way they respond to spoken words. We can do better if we learn response in the *affirmative* and not in the *combative*. Read the following:


1. *Statement:* I'm really hungry.
- *Wrong response:* Even I myself have not eaten since morning.
- *Right response:* Oh sorry, let's see if there's something you can manage for now.


2. *Statement:* Why don't you try this option?
- *Wrong response:* Why is it that you always find fault with what I do?
- *Right response:* Well, I've tried this before and I think it will work. If not, I'll try that.


3. *Statement:* I want more food.
- *Wrong response:* Ha-ha, rice has finished, garri has finished, and ingredients are almost finished, and there's no sign of salary yet.
- *Right response:* Sorry, please manage that for now; I'll find some snacks for you later.


4. *Statement:* I can't finish this food.
- *Wrong response:* Ha-ha, things are expensive o; and you can't be wasting food like this. You will eat it tomorrow!
- *Right response:* Should I keep the rest for you, or give it out?


5. *Statement:* I got wounded in kitchen.
- *Wrong response:* I've told you to always be careful with the knife.
- *Right response:* Oh sorry, let me have a look. You need to be more careful next time.


6. *Statement:* Are you okay; is anything the matter with you?
- *Wrong response:* Can't you see yourself; what kind of question is that?
- *Right response:* I'm not feeling fine; I think I need some attention.


7. *Statement:* I'll like to eat corn flakes.
- *Wrong response:* No way! It's for the children; and that's for one month! Take garri if you are hungry.
- *Right response:* Okay, you can eat a little. I trust you'll give us money to stock another.


8. *Statement:* Haven't you finished what you are doing?
- *Wrong response:* You are seated there doing nothing and you are asking if I've not finished!
- *Right response:* It will still take a while; can you please lend me a hand?


9. *Statement:* I bought this on my way; I thought it will be useful.
- *Wrong response:* How much did you buy it? What! That's too expensive - wọ́n ti gbá ẹ!
- *Right response:* Thank you; it will indeed be useful. Thanks for the surprise.


10. *Statement:* Handle that thing carefully please.
- *Wrong response:* Am I that daft? You will just be instructing me as if I don't have any sense.
- *Right response:* Yes dear, I will.


*_A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger._*
Prov 15:1


* Please send to your spouse and other couples, not for the purpose of condemnation, but for continuous improvement of your/their love relationship*



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DIAPER BUSINESS

Please I'm looking for someone who is into diapers business, i want to know how i can become a distributor weather in small scale or large scale.

Please anyone into the business and ready to share the idea, should please contact me on beautyc2020@gmail.com




Babe (you know yourself)you were into this biz,so please help us Educate her and others wanting to go into this biz..


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VACANCY

There is an urgent vacancy in a cosmetic company located at Akesan, Igando area for an Accountant, Qualification could be BSC or HND and a single lady will be preferable. The applicant should be ready to resume as early as possible. Contact: 08143765811. It's actually the office where I work and I was asked to recommend someone. Interview should be on 1st or 2nd March.





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VACANCY

My company is looking to start up operations in Abuja and we are in need of two customer service employees.
 Job title: customer service and ticketing agent
Job descritpion:
 Evaluatimg, booking, ticketing, refunds, etc
Achieving sales targets
Forecasting and tracking of sales opportunity
ensure customer satisfaction
Must be educated to a degree level in related field
Must be IATA certified, must have knowledge of 2 of the 3 systems (Saber, amadeus and galileo)

please send applications to : iigbinedion@ashtontravels.com




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DISJOINTED RANT

Good day Stella, please don't mind my disjointed piece as it sterns out of anger. I have been meaning to write you but was ashamed of the whole thing until after reading yesterday chronicle and this leads me to ask....


How can a man who calls himself a father/husband leave the whole burden of the family on the wife just because she earns more yet some people  will still have the mouth to call women good for nothing just because most women try to cover their husbands inadequacies. 


 All my life, people see us as this lovely family but deep within i feel bitterness some moments. Yes it's true that dad was doing good initially until things went soar, i wasn't even upto five but immediately he realized mum is financially okay he left everything for her from feeding to sponsoring us in school even paying of rents. 


My anger isn't that mum is financially stable than dad but because the little he has is used in helping the needy outside totally ignoring us yet i heard that charity begins at home, i can't remember all through my life when he paid any of our fees nor did something spectacular, don't get me wrong.  He is a good father and good Christian one at that, pampers everyone but no financial commitment and no he isnt cheating on mum. Mum have really suffered in training us almost done with the last child and it's so painful i still don't have a good job to support her. Now I'm in a relationship and it's affecting me because my boo believes that i am very stingy and can't get anything for him without knowing how angry i am inside because of the way i was raised, thinking all men do is to brainwash women into slaves taking the glory while society turns around to blame them for not bringing anything to the table, if not for love i wouldn't even be dating  and my mum's experience has taught me a great deal. Please no one should insult my father as i still love him and don't wish him harm but i just have these few words for all



!- Men please wake up and stop leaving the financial burden for your wives to carry alone, you may be thinking that you are smart but wouldn't know your kids are watching just like i have been doing for the past twenty something years


2 -Women please stop letting your husband know your financial status, no one says you shouldn't contribute but don't fall mugu for him:

3 -Women if you are to trust your husband with your finance, make sure he is worthy of it and has really worked hard for a long while to earn it.

4- Men please i beg you in God's name to stop letting innocent women who treats you as king down:

5- Bvs please pray that God should help me see things in different ways, remove my fear and may my fiance never fail to do his responsibility in future
I'm so scared of marriage:




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How I was defrauded by fake bureau de change operators at airport hotel ikeja


Dear Stella,
I am a quiet SDK blog fan, post comments when i have to :otherwise I sit back and enjoy the platform.

I will like to share this experience with you and will be glad if you can use your platform to sensitive the public, especially Lagosians.

Dear friends, pls beware of some fraudulent bureau de change guys at entrance to Airport Hotel Ikeja. They will change the money at the approved exchange rate but will use diabolical means to collect the money from you when you leave.

 I did not know such things are real until my experience.

 I was on my way to a dinner at the Chinese restaurant at the Airport Hotel, Ikeja on Sat 24th Feb 2018, when some bureau de change personnel approached me by the hotel entrance soliciting for business. They asked if I will like to change foreign currency, which I reluctantly answered in the affirmative for a little amount of GBP (Pounds sterling) and ZAR (SA Rands).

Initially the money I received was short of NGN 500, which was completed and recounted. The hotel security staff asked if the money was complete and when I demanded to know why they asked, i was told sometimes they guys issues fake naira notes and other times they do not give complete cash.

I verified again and my money was complete and I could not go back to them to reverse the transaction based on what the security staff told me. What iif they give me back fake pounds and rands.

I was shocked to discover that  the money was short of 5,000 naira on sunday (25feb 18) and it dawn on me that the money disappeared through diabolical means since I multiple-counted it before I left there And I purposely did not spend out of the cash due to a proposed budget. 


Surprisingly, The hotel management are aware of this fraud as they confirmed this when I reported to them . They promised to follow up to ensure I get my money back, while I appealled to them to do  everything possible to send the criminals out of their premises. They said they have involved the police commissioner regarding the activities of those fraudsters  but still nothing is been done to stop them from their criminal acts. 

 The hotel bought a van and station police there to arrest the hoodlums but no meaningful arrest and prosecution has taken place from what the hotel senior managers confirmed to me.

When the fraudsters were confronted, they acknowledge and claimed it was a mistake and promised to refund the cash when the guy directly involved shows up.

Even as the case was reported to the police officer at the time of the complaint but nothing was done or has been done to those guys.

I am truly sorry Stella for this long epistle. I will be glad if you can find a space to publish this.

Thank you so much. 

If you need to reach me on my monile, pls let me know.

God bless you. 

Tee.


*What!!!!!...Five hundred thousand missing just like that?bloody heck!

I was a victim the last time i was home but it happened at another location...Now thinking bout it,its either the person who negotiated for me worked with them or it was plain juju...na wah...
Abeg call and gimme this gist on phone..lol



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GIVEAWAY


I'll like to give this neatly used Omron Nebulizing machine to someone that has respiratory disease and NEEDS it,I mean someone that uses it in the hospital that can't afford to buy one.send a msg on WhatsApp, my Num is 09025277456.you must be ready to pick it yourself at Egbeda.

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RE: DRIVER NEEDED

A Reputable Organization is in need of a driver who would also double as a PA for the Executive Director, he should be educated and have good interpersonal skill. Around Magodo, Ikeja environment. Salary Attractive. Send your CV hr@stbes.org


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The above job opening was posted in In-House-News on the 6th of February 2018. I decided to give it a shot because I belong to the school of thought that said "half bread is better than now".

I was invited for an interview alongside other BVs that applied for the same job.

I just want to bring to the notice of BVs that I got the job. I received my offer letter on Monday. 

Thank you very much, Stella for this wonderful platform. May God continue to increase your brand and bless your household. 

And to the BV that sent in the opening; God bless you real good.

I pray everyone believing God for a new job, change of job, contract, business enlargement etc gets settled in Jesus Name.

whilst at the HR office on Monday, a lady was called to inform her that she has be considered for the secretary job, luckily, she's also a BV.

You are an angel indeed.

Congratulations to you both!

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PLOTS OF LAND


 I have 2 plots of land for sales @ mowi ofada inside an estate ( people are already living there) It's opposite RCCG camp.
It's 1.5 million per plot but could be reduced
Interested and serious buyers could reach me 08167373302

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DAVID BALLER MAKE UP BUNDLE

We are pleased to announce to y'all lovely BVs that the 6k deal is back in stock bigger and better. With 6 items in this bundle, you sure are to exceed your money's worth. This bundle contains

1. A Liyada lip kit containing 1 matte finish lipstick with lip liner (7 colours to choose from)

2. A well pigmented beauty glazed Earth & Fire pressed powder eyeshadow palette with 9 varying colours to suit everyday mood.

3.A Kiss Beauty highlighter for your outstanding popping effect.

4. A set of eyeshadow stencil to help you achieve a straight eyeshadow curve.

5. An eyebrow tint for the natural looking shade of brows and,

6. A 4 styles eyebrow stencil used both for achieving equal eyebrows and also for shaping of your brows.

To place an order, please call/Whatsapp 07084199586.

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