The message reads:
“I am in very sad mood, I feel used and rejected, I feel so terrible, I am married with four kids and I always felt I am married to the best man in the world. I am registered Nurse in a Government hospital here In Lagos, while he is a dentist.
Our plan has always been that when our first child finishes primary school, we will relocate to the US. About a year ago, my husband started dating a lady in her late 30s. I saw her messages and challenged him after which he apologised and I forgave him.
However, to my surprise, he came home late on Friday night and slept very early on Saturday. I drove his car out to refill the gas. I saw an envelope in his car. Inside this envelope, was his passport with US visa on it and the lady’s own with US visa. I saw the form he used to fill his visa application. In the form, he said his wife was late and my death certificate was attached and his wedding certificate with the lady was also attached. In the form, he wrote out all our children’s name but he claimed their mother was late. I made a photocopy of all the documents and returned the documents. I nearly ran mad. He observed that I have been so cold lately and he has been asking what the matter is.
What should I do? How should I accept this level of wickedness and traitor attitude?
However, to my surprise, he came home late on Friday night and slept very early on Saturday. I drove his car out to refill the gas. I saw an envelope in his car. Inside this envelope, was his passport with US visa on it and the lady’s own with US visa. I saw the form he used to fill his visa application. In the form, he said his wife was late and my death certificate was attached and his wedding certificate with the lady was also attached. In the form, he wrote out all our children’s name but he claimed their mother was late. I made a photocopy of all the documents and returned the documents. I nearly ran mad. He observed that I have been so cold lately and he has been asking what the matter is.
What should I do? How should I accept this level of wickedness and traitor attitude?
*This woman is very funny!!!...Madam you should have burnt all the passports or torn out the visa pages haba!!!..what will photocopy do for you when they are gone?In fact their travelling will be faster if you confront him on this.....mscheeew!!!
That woman shouldn't burn those papers. She should take her kids with the papers to where her husband will not find them then report to the embassy.
ReplyDeleteThose people may have even started planning her death
Gbam!!!
DeleteThe funny thing is that whatever visa they got for the USA is a VISIT OR TOURISM VISA. It will expire after two years at most and in the present government, they will be illegal. How can a man be so foolish to thrash a "good" marriage with four kids for trivialities??
DeleteWow, this thing called vagina/penis can finish off people!
This man is not acting in his right mind; he has been taken captive!
DeleteAm telling you, such a heartless man.
DeleteFake story just like the poster
ReplyDeleteAs in she contacted Toke so she can help talk to the husband or for what exactly?
DeleteTo think Toke has been fingered as moving with a married man and then you take such matter to her🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️?
It was Oma Patrick dt d lady wrote to first and she posted,Toke copied from her without giving her credit.
DeleteEnter your comment...This woman is too gentle. I will burn everything including the car and let the embassy know he is a bloody liar.
ReplyDeleteBurn your only evidence? How will you now convince the embassy
Delete@LaNoc embassy has records. They have copies on their system. Be not deceived. All they need is his full name to bring it all out
DeleteThe woman isn't wise at all.You left original with him and made photocopy? What do you want to use them for? Instead of you to hide them where he will never find them and watch the drama of how he is going to react when he can't find them anymore. Na these kind games I dey like. I will just be killing you silently. Be smart women ooooo!!
ReplyDeleteU are d truth
DeleteGbam!!!
DeleteGosh!
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with that woman? She wants to answer Mrs by all means even when she's dead to the man?
The whole envelope was supposed to disappear to start with
Photocopy my fat ass
The side hen, hmm, that's how people get acid bath or even get killed
Wth
Why not divorce her?
I don't blame you, getting a death certificate is easy na cos you are a dentist but you and your side hen will die first
Iranu
Chei
Let me calm down, this looks fabricated but mehn, worse things happen o
Receive sense woman
This is exactly what the Bible means that the heart of man is desperately wicked.. Omg! She should walk out of the marriage already, someone that wishes you death.
ReplyDeleteHold it there Joyful wife!
DeleteThe "man" in this context is a generic term that includes women and humankind in general not "man" as in the male specie.
I'm sure she knows dat
DeleteAt times one cannot help but wonder if the stories you read about are true because of their reaction of the victims. You found such documents and still returned it? Is that not crazy? It's like he fired a gun at you and missed lucky before he could shoot again you where able to grab the gun. Then give it back to him to try again. Stella she is indeed a very very very funny somebody.
ReplyDeleteNa to tire the visa page make una meet for embassy, he is trying to steal your kids and disappear with his mistress
ReplyDeleteGbam!!! He knows if she's alive he can't leave with the kids...
DeleteTo leave with the kids, he would need their passports. It's either he doesn't intend to take them along now, probably until he's settled in d states OR he plans to kill wifey and do the necessary documentation for d kids so they all leave together. Pure evil..
DeleteI would have taken them,hide them then wait for him to ask him and claim ignorance.
ReplyDeleteThat same day im out of that house with my kids, cos such man can kill.
Once I'm in a secure place I can now start planning what to do.
But I must keep those doc's as evidence.
Stella, since when did toke become former OAP? Lool. She still works for rhythm fm last i checked.
ReplyDeleteThe woman's reaction though.
ReplyDeleteDon't believe the post.
Some women are not married to their God given husband. Yet they will come to places like Stella and be insulting singles. Do you even know if that your husband that you have now will not leave you for a gwegs tomorrow? People should be humble because husband or wife matter is nothing to boast about. Human beings can surprise you well...
ReplyDeleteAbi oh!!
Deletetell them, preach it loud. YOUR YOUTHFUL HUSBAND OR WIFE TODAY IS ANOTHER MAN'S OR WOMAN'S RETIREMENT PACKAGE IN OLD AGE!
If you doubt, go ask Prince Charles & Camilla, or go ask soon to be Princess Meghan & her now God given toy boy husband Prince Harry!
I see many married naija women now wey dey rubbish and mock the single women, but unknown to them that many "happily married women or men" today will be divorced tomorrow or even dead, leaving their partners up for grabs by those available unmarried women and men who are open for marriage.
Eiyaah 2 gwegs giving themselves hope.
DeleteYou actually prefer to be picked as 2nd best when the man is nearing old age sickness. Anyway maybe you're both nurses and caring for the elderly is your job.
I want to guess u r unmarried
DeleteThis woman is not smart at all. Instead of her to tear all the documents to pieces and then confront the stupid man, she's there writing epistle......but wetin she do the man.....hian
ReplyDeleteThis is story is on mamanett on fb its a true story.
ReplyDeleteShe should have hidden the passport and pick her children and run out of the house,report the case to USA embassy with evidence
I hope she comes alive to conclude the story
Tiwa
Jesus....
ReplyDeleteOMG..and u returned the visa???
Why?
This woman isn't smart oh! finding it difficult to comment with my Id. spot remover#
ReplyDeleteShe cant do all of that because it will tarnish the image of he kids too. Remember he is their father.
ReplyDeleteShe should have reported to the embassy and the police but Leave the social media out of it.
Na waoo ijust open mouth..
ReplyDeleteAnon 16:51 what point are u driving at?
ReplyDeletemtchewwwww
That a man became stupid,allowed the devil to use him to destroy his family is enough summary for u.
You just transfer ur anger to the wife.Marriage is a beautiful thing,pray for ur God-given-husband and stop commenting out of point.
This story just weak me, it's all over Instagram.. ... .. This Woman should flow Olivia silk and Eka Joy's advice, I no get strength to Dey type...
ReplyDeleteI de vex sef! So mk i no comment. You saw evidence and all you could do was photo copy? Weldone
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stella we are twins oh! The passports would have gone missing. Simple. Then I would report to the embassy with the death certificate to say I am alive. That way, he and his new partner would be denied entry for life based on falsification and forgery. She's still at home keeping quiet and giving him attitude? Where are the 'virtuous' women when we need them? Shebi una see wetin una dey cause with your 'a woman should deal in silence' speech. Rabbesh!
ReplyDeleteThis better be a lie,haba!!!!
ReplyDeleteOlivia this your own sef na small 🤣🤣 by the time I'm done with the man he will hate his history.
ReplyDeleteAnon17:41 hehehehe my children would seize to have a father until they are old enough to go and look for him. Father of which kids? The ones i pushed from my vagina for him? #isokay
Madam go straight to the police station and report him with the evidence before you can proceed to the embassy to stop them from eloping
ReplyDeleteSpeechless, speechless that's hw you make me feel,when am with you am lost for word,it's like northing is for real-------- speechless.
ReplyDeleteI'm speechless too. Toke will do anything to remain relevant... am not buying.
Delete(leave our dad alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
I just can't believe this annoying
ReplyDeletestory, Madam you saw such document all you could do was photocopy and leave the original for him? ojigijigijigi my head was burst. In short let be keep quite
This is the height of wickedness. The woman shld act fast before that death certificate become a reality.
ReplyDeleteSome men are hardless and useless, why lied that the mother of your children is dead? My own lied to girl front, right, center that he is not married, not even engaged. Now that he has walked out of the marriage why do I have to beg him? At least I have my life back.
ReplyDeleteAnd you took copies? Aunty what happened to taking the originals and burning them up and do as if nothing haappened while you map out your plan for 2018.
ReplyDeleteOmo why do we human being act funny so times, if na me na to burn every thing
ReplyDeleteSome stories sef. The man is he from Sodom and Gomorrah.
ReplyDeleteOMo i cannot imagine how the woman must be feeling. are we men really that scum. Hian
ReplyDeleteI am sure Toke made that shiit up.
ReplyDeleteShe need attention badly.
Hmmm Odiegwu, na waka pass I de these days, I get sore throat, ije uwa, Ije di oo
ReplyDeleteThe things people do
ReplyDeleteFake story.unrealistic
ReplyDeleteAnyone that said this is a fake story is on a long thing. I feel most woman here are not in Nigeria. How can you call this story fake when it is happening everyday around us. 1 amongst 5 married men that approaches a single woman will have one negative thing or the other to say about his wife.
ReplyDeleteMy younger sister was planning wedding. Everything was set. The man took her to meet his mother and siblings as his father is dead. He admitted being married but the wife is dead. Few weeks to the wedding. we found out the wife was alive and even pregnant.
Definitely a fake story. Must have been sent by someone with a legal background with little writing experience. Writer advised to use her time writing story books for children. I bet the person is Abuja based too....lol!
ReplyDeleteMadam share the senders email if you are not looking for fake stories for fame!You could have been smart enough to know the US embassy will investigate this.
Abeg i have better things to do with my time......mschewwwwwww!