This is almost becoming acceptable in the society....
Will this stop cheating men or increase the problem....?
I wonder why a man is allowed to marry two wives like this but a woman cant and will be labelled prostitute if she even has two boyfriends...
Odiegwu!
ReplyDeleteIt's becoming a trend and normality here in Nigeria. I like no such idea
ReplyDeletewomen are now two for one kobo?
Deleteare we women not degrading ourselves by submitting to this?
E go reach 7 to 1 na bible talk am. Meanwhile his three some fantasy will become a reality
DeleteHe is good to go all I know is that he will add another one to the list.
ReplyDeleteCongrats to the man. It is remaining 5
ReplyDeleteGbam
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ReplyDeleteWhich portion of the Bible if I may ask, or you just quote cos you heard. Do you actually study the Bible???
DeleteIsaiah's prophesy my dear dumbo
DeleteThis is a normal thing anyway..
ReplyDeleteThey do it in the north all the time..
Is becoming a trend lately, if it will reduce or stop cheating then its okay but I doubt. Marrying two women if you are rich could be enjoyable lol.
ReplyDeleteIts not a new trend. Polygamy has always been there.
ReplyDeleteThis is what an African is best known for naa...
ReplyDeleteNa wa o .Death beckons quietly. ..
ReplyDeleteHave you not seen monogamous men killed by their wives?
DeleteLolzzz
DeleteHahahaha. It is well with them
ReplyDeleteGood for him.
ReplyDeleteI hope he loves them equally.
My question goes to the women. How do they bear it sef. As in when the man come to suggest such to them.
ReplyDeleteThis is not new, it has been in existence in the northern part little wonder they birthday like rats. I'm even suprise to see deltans and bayelsans following that trend
ReplyDeleteMe I'm beginning to think almost all men cheat with the amount of married men that toast me nowadays.
ReplyDeleteMarried women please encourage your hubbys to wear rings. This one approached me recently asked to give me a lift,i obliged since our offices are close by. Exchanged numbers and started calling me. But something told me a guy of his age and such wealth can't be single,but no wedding band. So I asked. And he said yes but will still like to date me and take care of me.
Told him im in a serious relationship I can't risk.
When I get married my hubby must wear ring. I know it won't stop cheating. But for someone like me once a spot a ring I won't even give you my number. Not to talk of getting close to you.
I hope my fiance will have more morals than what I'm seeing out there now. Married men now feel it's a normal thing to approach girls.
This has been going for decades not only in Africa and Asia but in America too. Most white in Utah( a state in USA) are into prural marriage. I don’t think it will stop cheating. As long as the people involved are adults and not forced into it, they should go ahead.
ReplyDeleteI think its more common in the North,others have joined the bandwagon.it is ridiculous though.
ReplyDeleteEnd is very near
ReplyDeleteJust as olden days fashions are returning back to us as oldschool so is poligamism returning and I like it.
ReplyDeletePo what? 😥😥😥
DeleteI no fit laugh abegy 😂
DeleteDrinking panadol for another person headache. 3 consenting adults!
ReplyDeleteI don't envy this women oh, make them enjoy.
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooo
ReplyDeleteI think i will try this,hopefully my comment will get approved for the first time.
ReplyDeleteThis is not new na.... Especially in the northern part.
ReplyDeleteNa wa. Me I can't share my husband oh! I still even get angry when I remember he had ex(es) before me sef. 😋
ReplyDeleteWomen allow man to use them any how, let women start the own by have two husband
ReplyDeleteAny woman who wants to marry 2 husbands should be capable of providing for the men and the kids she go born for them, pay rent and bills, plus do everything that is expected of a man who marries his wife or wives...
DeleteNo be to dey sleep for house and expect 2 grown ass men to go and hustle for her all day and provide all her needs and all she got to do na to open toto make dem come fuck at the end of the day.
If she can provide, then she is good to go. Me sef no go mind make the woman marry me join her current husband(s)... she will be the one to pay dowry na! All i got to do na to move into a comfortable joint and chill...
Why would two women allow one man to marry them though. If we get to a point that no woman agrees to be second wife or side chic, this madness will stop.
ReplyDeleteIt is written in the bible that in thr last days, 7women would beg for 1man to marry them saying "Let me feed myself and buy my own apparel but let me bear your name". Needless to say..it is already happening.
ReplyDeleteThis is not to support polygamy here. I will just speak based on my observations on things happening in our world today...
ReplyDeleteThere are more female births than male births and there are more male deaths than female deaths. Even in most so called "successful marriages" that have lasted 3 decades and over, in more cases(if not most), the wives outlive their husbands by up to 10yrs and over. All these contribute to why there are more women in our world today than men. If we were to pair up all adults(people of 18yrs and over), and all the men get a woman each, what happens to the women who didn't get a man?
NOW CHRISTIANS...!
Bloody hypoctites most of you are...
Let's start by looking in your church where you worship... you'd discover there are always more ladies than guys in the church where you attend and if y'all are to pair all adults(one man, one woman), you will definitely have a suplus of women. What will be their fate? If it's one of 'em churches where the pastors make the members feel anyone who don't worship in the particular church is serving the devil and is doomed(there are churches like that), what will be the fate of the single ladies in such churches if all the men there are married? Now, if a church will allow its single ladies to marry any man who attends another church, and she decides to go attend service in another church, she is most likely to find the same situation in the new church(more women than men). This is the major reason y'all have sexual immorality in the so called house of God. Pastors having a lady member wey he dey screw and some married men screwing the single ladies in the church.
I heard about a pastor who said polygamy is not about one man marrying many wives, but about women needing husbands.
"Christianity remains the most holy faith but when preached from the perspective of the European or American gentiles, then it becomes the filthiest religion ever!"
He married two wives at once and cares for them....only them without any side chics...and he remained faithful to both wives forever.....if the marriage will turn out this way....then it is cool....better off than settling down with a single wife but still being a serial philanderer....smh!
ReplyDeleteWomen are free to marry more than one husband o! As long as she ready dey hustle and provide for them and the kids wey she go born for them. As i dey so, make a married woman waka come meet me, i just might accept as long as na she go pay dowry and i no ready work for woman that's been taken already. Even if she get belle, she will provide o! As she think say she's grown testicles and can do man stuff. But then life would be easier. Any woman whose husband decides to take another wife should walk away if she cannot take it. She should not continue to be in the man's life and cheat on him just because he wants to get another lady off the streets and put an end to her "getting picked and dumped after use" by other men, while he still provides for you your every need... Cooperate with the man if you still want to remain on top. Open his eyes to things like... *how much he earn, *new expenses, *is this necessary?, *who is the new lady, *where is she from, *why this very lady?, *her health status, religion, spirituallity, background, etc... Remind him of your future plans and how his decision may ruin things. Ask him or find out what this new lady is bringing to the table. Will she help in making the home better and increase family wealth?, etc... these could make a man rethink. Also your findings about this just might make you totally agree with him. And if you agree with him based on these, you are sure to have peace in the home. But if you don't like this, please walk away. Divorce him and share him property already and go find another man who would not as much as cheat on you, let alone go and marry another woman.
ReplyDeleteMen...!
If your woman is having an affair or wants to marry another man, na to relate terms and conditions o! If you are the bread winner, then i think it's high time she takes up the responsibility o(this is if you still want to continue with her)!
Or better leave her.
In all, make una protect unaselves from physical and spiritual afflictions!
I'm in the boxing gym. Come and beat me if you dey vex for wetin i talk here!