Monday IHN - Celebrating Love

Today we are taking out time to Celebrate love......Agape love!
Reach out to someone right now and let them know that you care about them!....
I cant reach out to you all but I need you,especially the broken ones to know that i care....

CYNTHIA COVERS IN HOUSE NEWS:....

This is how Cece looked on her Wedding day which was Saturday...
Here is wishing you all the best babe..May this smile never leave your face in Jesus name ...


Happy Married life once again.



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STELLA ONYINYE COVERS IN HOUSE

Good day Stella, I have missed your blog oh, I lost my phone and since then eh lol but the good news is that I am back now, happy new year to you. Oya use my picture as face of IHN, I hope full picture is allowed. I love you


Kisses and thanks for the love............Mwaaaaah!!!!


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OKIKIOLA AS FACE OF IN HOUSE NEWS

Good morning Stella and happy weekend to you, God bless you more for this humanitarian work you've committed yourself into.

This is my nephew of 19 months Okikiola who just resumed creche. I'm still waiting for the day he won't cry when we enter his school compound. Wishing all TTC women God's favor in this year 2018.

*LOL....Okiki looks so mischevious

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MRS R EXPLAINS WHY SHE AND HUBBY 'UNCOUPLED'

Greetings to you Stella Dimoko!

It all started towards the end of last summer, with him and his business partner making an horrible business deal and the government came after them and their business (you know how it works in this Europe, the government can easily wreck one's business just with a little mistake from the business owners part).


My husband just changed even when I tried to be there for him and encouraged him not to give up. He started getting angry easily.
The business issue was in court, all him and his business partner needed to do was give a concrete and genuine explanation from their side through their lawyers but it didn't just work out for them like that. So, the government locked them out of business.


I told him that he can actually start afresh again, it's his talent and handwork, it's in him. 

Stella things never remained the same again in my home (you know how some of these Caucasian men or any man at all can easily lose their cool after losing what they have laboured for almost all their lives)he easily snapped at anyone and it was beginning to get really bad, so, I asked that we go see a doctor or a counselor, so that he could get the help he needed (psychologically). He managed to go with me once but decided not to go again.


Long story short, He suddenly asked for a divorce after we had a little argument one day. I thought he was joking but he wasn't, he kept on reminding me of it. He said he was tired and that he doesn't want me in his life anymore and that he wants to live alone. I tried to make him see lots of reasons with me why we should not walk on that path but he refused to listen and understand.


I have to accept my fate, I have a cute son to live for.. I prayed and asked the Lord to let His will be done concerning my life and all that concern me.

I have a job too, I quickly got a job even though the pay is not good enough but I just needed to get a job to help me out of boredom and having bad thoughts.


Stella Dimoko, you're free to share my story on your blog because I'm not ashamed of my truth.

I have passed through the most difficult phase which is the trauma, anger and hatred. During that period, I was able to volunteer in Caritas in the refugees department, I did few humanitarian works and helped the needy in the little way I can.

I'm not perfect and I refused to lay blames on him or call him horrible names. I mostly remember only the good side of him and that is what I'm taking with me. He's the father of my son and I want them to have a good relationship and bond with each other.

Thanks...
Ms. R.




I pray you find closure and healing....The show goes on Babe.
Stay happy and spend time laughing and hanging out with those who love you.This too will pass.

God bless.


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HAPPY SADIYA BABY

Good day Stella, my name is Sadiya an ardent bv even though I don't comment, today is my birthday 29/01,i want to thank God for life and I want fellow bv's to wish me a Happy Birthday. Kisses

Have a great day!!!


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AMAZING TTC TESTIMONY

Hello Stella, complements of the season to you. My name is Omoye,Stella today is my Christmas and new year as I am more than happy and grateful, I have been ttc for 3years now, and then three months ago I used the ttc prayer for 21 days to pray and I told God that by his grace I will not end this year in shame. 

Stella today I confirmed the word of God in my life, OSALOBUA has done it, I am pregnant Stella.with joy without anxiety I will carry and deliver this baby without complication in Jesus name. Amen..  For all ttc moms in the the house, I want u to know that God is never late. Please post and hide my email. Thank u.....

Blessed be the name of the LORD...


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VACANCT OFFICE SPACE FOR RENT

Hi Stella, 

     Good afternoon,kindly help put this up on your blog.There is an office space in a very conducive environment at Allen Ikeja..it's very spacious,with water and almost 24hours power supply and just renovated.You only need to pack in.interested persons can reach me on 08175704677 .Thanks .

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THE HUNTER THAT BECAME BUSH MEAT

Stella, good day, don't know where this falls.just came across my diary and tend to share my experience then in school

One cool evening in my 200L at university (COEIKERE) I got a call from a girl. It was clearly a wrong number, but then it was a girl and a fine voice too. Boys eyes dey red na, wey the number just be wrong like that? No na. So babe was even calling from Ado -Ekiti sef. Hay God! And I said it was a wrong number? 

Look at me! Let us be knowing biko, I am in Unsukere. The next day babe started bugging my life with calls. Ahn ahn. My Father, my Father, are you doing bazaar for me or what? 


Jehovah Rapha, my provider who provideth for the sparrows of the air, hunter sidon for house bush meat leave forest come dey meet am? Who am I to argue with the will of God? Am I foolish? The second day babe started asking me for recharge card. 

Ahn ahn. Baba, is like it was really a wrong number o. I told babe straight up that I don’t send girls carsd as a matter of principle but she didn’t give up o. Just send anything, she kept pestering. I even gave her a lecture on how she should save herself some dignity but after my Martin Luther King Jr. speech babe still say, oya just send card.


 I just kuku relax small console myself say, is like this bush meat na real bush meat o. 200 naira investment is not too bad na. I send card. A week later was her birthday and she wanted me at her place. See VIP. Our first meeting was going to be on her birthday? But when I spoke with her on the phone and the background noise told me that there was a party and no be Ali and Simbi party my liver cut. I look my men for room, look my 3h for pocket, plot my graph see say the slope for that movement na negative, na so I kuku tell babe say boys dey my house to watch one Nigeria vs Sontin match o, and I no fit leave them.


 She vex. I console her, promise to come see her the next day which was a Sunday. I reason say she for don budget one crate of beer for my head and see me and my men de reason our next pot of beans. Baba, I gat to help my career or IKERE boys go call me real Oluku.


 The next day, a Sunday I prepared to go see her. I asked where I’d meet her she said she had a house na, I should come there. I blessed the Lord with my soul, very understanding girl, wife material emeritus. I collect my ATM card, withdraw my last 2k for account, you know in case I throway person onions for road, make we no speak “do you know who I am?” But as I reached the junction of her house she changed meeting venue to Genesis. My mind do high jump. 


Babe, is it not your house again? No, come to Genesis. So I went to Genesis, I don already reach warfront, no retreat. Babe was there with one guy sef, introduced him as her cousin. Cousin that will be escorting babe to first date in an eatery is that one worthy to be alive? 

As we sit down for table I begin reason my present and future destiny. Na then I realize say I just carry my two legs go enter armed robbers bus. But in order not to be looking like Mr. Jones I come ask them “What do you care for?” Even my heart dey judge me for that English wey I speak on top 2k wey dey my pocket. I collect Fayrouz for myself because I have sense, babe say she want chicken, take away, she is not really hungry she will eat later at home. God! 


Person dey book future tense on top my 2k o! The guy man wey I expect to use him brain in the spirit of sportsmanship tell me say, I am alright, come order for fat burger and Coke! Just see. Man’s inhumanity to man. Me that I am drinking only Fayrouz, is it due to lack of ambition? No, I did not know they have burger.


 I think after paying for everything I was with around 400 naira. I still dey use brain thank God say that babe no order for fried rice join that chicken, I for go toilet no come back. As I was drinking my Fayrouz with bitterness this girl just dey chat with her ‘cousin’ with careless abandon. I just realized I had lost that one, ADO babe don dagbo me wella, I dey form guy man from Warri-town but I enter wella. Na to mourn remain.


 Then suddenly she received a call and was directing her friends to meet her at Genesis. Father! You're just watching and not turning this girl into a pillar of salt? As these girls show ehn, you need to see their eyes! Tear reach ear, that my babe come be like their apprentice. As they were talking all I could hear was “I come chop”. I die well. At this point I know say I don lose finish, nothing remain, so I lock up. For my mind I say if these three girls just mumu say dem wan order anything for my head na civil war. Let us all just die here at once. 


Shortly, I feigned an important appointment and told them I had to leave for school. The babe just tell me “okay na, later we go talk.” In my mind I was saying, “your dad!” As I reach room see my hommies who were waiting for gist. Them think say my trap catch meat. I simply told them, “Guys, I enter better robbers bus! I left here with 2k, return with 200. Let’s just say I lost 1800.” 


Nope, she never called me again. Even if she did I wouldn’t have recognized her number. Because it didn’t take long after I left Genesis before I deleted it. Sometimes you meet a game that makes you wonder, who be the bush meat who be the hunter?


#Lawrence#

Hahahahahahahahahah so you been save the number sef?E GOOD FOR YOU
Hahahahaha abeg i no fit laugh..hunter turn bush meat na em you be so...





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ON TRENDING DOMESTIC ABUSE AND ASSAULT

Please keep this anonymous.
Good day. Am a frequent visitor to your blog, though I infrequently comment.
I thought about this and  decided to send this to you, due to a disturbing trend I've noticed for some time.

First off, I know some guys are/can be, unfortunately, sexual predators and perverse. I've been neighbors with one..a guy that told me he can't spend on a lady and allow her visit him and leave without his sleeping with her. I have heard of guys that will do 'anything' to get into a woman's pant and do too at times but this doesn't justify the growing trend that has been ongoing for some time now.


This trend of calling Rape and/or Domestic abuse for every disagreement/squabble/liaison gone wrong in order to garner social sympathy, and create a social media trial, is simply said, Just Wrong, and examples abound...from the Tonto Dikes, Toke Makinwas, Mercy Aigbe and now Shola, it's become the norm.
Why is this so, I believe it's because those that do so know that Nigerians will rather act on sentiments and emotions rather than take time out to ponder on facts/evidences before issuing 'Judgement'.
It's also prevalent because our judicial system allows it. Where people can curse and slander others putting the people at risk of even losing their livelihood without fear of repercussions.


Most annoying is when you consider that a number of these accusations are actually for nothing more than cheap revenge.
Consider alsobthat this is actually a Slap to the face of those that have truly experienced Rape and Abuse with its attendant psychological and emotional trauma, the stigmatisation etc, and you will see how evil and criminal this trend is.

Also, where does responsibility come in? Personal responsibility, situational awareness and responsibility, social responsibility??
Am not holding brief for anyone, nor justifying rape nor abuse in any form but we need to understand that we have a social responsibility and the law is the law for a reason to serve justice.

Two wrongs do not make a right and the earlier both the accused and accuser both seek recourse at the law courts the better it'll be in the long run.






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2.  Wallpaper installation 

3.  3D Wallpanel installation  

4. LED TV backlight installation 

5. How to draw up proposals and prepare elevator pitch for potential clients. 

...and a few other perks. 

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You don't want miss this opportunity. 

To indicate your interest,contact  us via whatsapp on this number 08062947971.





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VACANCY

 Stella, One of our Offices in Abuja is in need of a Secretary. Salary is 20,000. Interested Applicants should forward their CV to baby4realx@yahoo.com




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VACANCY

This is calling for the application of suitably qualified teachers,as vacancy exist in one of the leading Montessori  schools in the heart of ADP/ogba road extension, airport road, Benin city,
Please interested applicants must have experience in handling preschoolers and lower grade classes.
Salary is very attractive and negotiable.
If interested please call this number
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IELTS MATERIAL

Please I want to use this medium to appeal to my fellow bv's who have IELTS or TOEFL materials  to kindly give me. Please I have to manage funds and every penny matters. Please help a sister out. 
I reside in Lagos and my phone number is  08060095695.Thanks a lot



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VACANCY FOR ONLY THOSE RESIDENT IN LAGOS

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