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RECURRING PATTERN

Dear Stella


Please post either as a Chronicle or IHN.
I have been reflecting on a recurring pattern in my life and just need peoples views on the matter.
As with everyone, i have challenges in my life. However i have at different points met people who would say they ll help but then disappoint me. This happened quite often till with time, i will eventually find means (legally and non-sinful) to resolve them but this process can sometimes be tedious and long.


Like some time back, a Gubernatorial candidate was chasing me for marriage, even came down to see my parents and all. I was stalling because this man is married and i honestly didn'twant to cause pain to any woman so i told him to give me time. This man in the meantime made some promises to me that wont have caused him anything to fulfil but he disappointed me...i was heartbroken but tried to find a way. He came back a year after pleading and begging his cause and making fresh promises and within 6wks he disappointed and disappeared again.
Stella i cried my eyes out because i had my hopes high....fast forward to a few months, this man was heavily disappointed in a huge way, physically and financially....Even his best friend whos a governor at a different state cldnt help him.


Scenario number 2, another man who gunning for a post in the National assembly and was wooing me, promised to send me to Medical school and i was working at the time. I resigned and suddenly this dude stopped picking my calls or responding. Stella i was shocked and cried. Mr man lost woefully at the polls. He appealed and lost.
He came back a year after and we reconciled, within a short time he was awarded his mandate and sworn in at the national assembly. This time around he said i should juat so a Masters which he ll sponsor abroad, stella na so i begin apply when time reach, bobo disappointed me again oh, and then he was disgraced heavily publicly shortly afterwards.


This are 2 of few scenarios i often experience; meeting people who are capable of helping me and promising to help but then disappoint me however they then start experiencing major disappointments in their lives shortly afterwards.
Why does this happen and how can i stop this merrygo round from occuring? Most times when they comeback the 3rd time they actually stick to their promises.
I have prayed and fasted yet no answer. Done MFM, winners even some TB joshua prayers yet nothing.
Someone linked me to a White garment pastor who said marine spirit and all but in my heart i just felt its a guess work cos when all fails thats what they always say...i still did all the prayers + white fasting those ones asked me to do and i have to say i felt a slight relief spiritually.
Another one charged me money that they will kill goat in the middle of the river, i paid and then he wanted to keep charging me monthly meanwhile he said hes a pastor oh.


I will like to add fhat i have never physically met any of the above pastors (the white garment one and the goat killing pastor) everything was over the phone.


Please anyone that knows more about this should shed light.

Thank you.