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The Husband's reply to Monday's chronicle


My regular presence on this blog has taught me a lot of things about
life and relationships yet it is easier to give advice when you're not
the one involved..

I was shocked to read the Monday chronicle and say without a doubt I know the poster because of certain details in the story.

I won't say everything but my love for Precious is something I still
can't explain. She's all shades of evil yet I get drawn to her like
iron to magnet. Of a truth I met her on facebook a year after the loss
of my fiancee through a road accident in 2012..

We did many unthinkable things regular comm,sexting and all that.
We're from the same community and I met her in real life when she
returned for the yuletide in 2013.She's even more beautiful in real
life than in pictures. She spent three days in my house before going
home to her people.

The first taste of her anger issues was when she abandoned me because
of a misunderstanding during an outing in the new year of 2014 but
instead of settlement she packed her things. I met her at the ATM
stand withdrawing money to travel back to Lagos. I brought her home
and had a hearty talk with her. That's when she confessed about her
past life to me. Indeed I promised to help her overcome. I also
realized that she's older than me with 6 months but I belong to the
age is just a number group.

She told me she was pregnant in February and I hate abortions so I
started marriage plans and I really spent on the marriage,but she was
worth that and more because she had good business acumen despite
having only SSCE qualification. We didnt date for long and I concealed
her past from my family.

However our s3xual life was nonexistent whenever it was time for
lovemaking she was never in the mood and  with her was just like
rape. I never satisfied her. I thought I was doing right by permitting
her use of  objects and she preferred them to the real
intimacy.

I started having questions about myself when my own wife couldn't
allow me to kiss her or anything intimate.
Her pregnancy was lost even before our marriage so its not a matter of
trapping me with pregnancy. But it was not funny when she didnt
conceive again yet I was not bothered. In order not to put the whole
blame on her I started taking fertility enhancement drugs while she
preferred concotions than going to the hospital or meeting doctors.

I am not a saint and I still believe we would have lived peacefully if
she did not start denying me s§x and leading to my having an affair
with another lady.

She had previously attempted to leave the marriage 3 times before and
the 4th time was her final packing. Still I was pleading for her to
come back. My family summoned me to a meeting in which it was decided
that she was no longer welcome and my brother believe she charmed me
but I know myself. I disobeyed my family and visited her family many
times to make peace. i feel at times that she's not submissive because
she is older than me..

I had to give up every hope of reconcilation when her mum told me it
was no longer possible because of flimsy allegations she claimed I
said about her family:
1. That she (her mother) is diabolical
2. That they are poor
3. That they don't have anybody to fight for them
4. That they live in a rented mud house and all that..
Are the above not flimsy excuses to abandon one's marriage???
Moving on has not been easy as many things remind me of her. Few of
her pictures and personal stuff she didn't take along with her are
still with me.

All the household items we bought for the traditional marriage are
still intact and they so much reminds me of her because I don't even
know how to make use of some of them and I moved all the properties to
the city..

I allowed the business we were managing together to gradually collapse
when she left because I started suffering psychologically. I needed
help from a pychologist then because I was so much into her and she
knew it..

We live in the same community,but she can never enter #50 bike to
visit me/my family.
I needed a change of environ so I left business life and took up a
poor paying job in another town that can barely provide for me as a
graduate.

I've not even saved up to take care of myself let alone to maintain a
relationship. My life is all messed up but blames won't help me,bvs.
It is advise that I need on how to totally forget about her because I
am trying my best....

The girl my wife finally used as an excuse to pack out is no longer
with me because I always tried to reconcile with my wife and not focus
on her and we finally broke up last year.

However,I'm gradually overcoming my ex wifes emotional hold on me as
we've not communicated since November last year since she didnt show
any sign of changing for the better. I no longer call her or
communicate with her since november last year because I always feel
bad each time we talk on phone.::so it was quite a shock to read our story on this blog..

Apart from thinking about her at times,I have peace living as a
bachelor now. Truly like some people advised in the comment section of
her own chronicle she is a dog in a manga,a disaster waiting to happen
and i will be asking for my own death if I welcome her back into my
life. 

Letting this off my chest has given me the closure i so much
needed. Precious I thank you for all the good and bad times we spent
together but God is the ultimate judge. I leave everything to him and
I wish you well in whatever future you face.

*So that means Precious,the ex she poured acid on and her estranged hubby are all blog visitors?wow..let me recover from the shock first please!