STAND ALONE NARRATIVE::
A NON EXISTENT MANHOOD AND MARRIAGE.
Good day Stella thanks for this platform. Please I'll like to remain anonymous. I just want to share a burden I've been carrying for months now and I need advise from people that are experienced.
My only challenge is the s§x. I am not satisfied with our s§x life. It's been giving me concern we have tried to improvise by getting sex enhancers. N/B he doesn't want vibrators so I am on my own. He also told me enlargement is a NO NO as well because he's afraid of the side effect.
We've tried some products online yet no change. I love him so much and we are thinking of settling down soon. I just want to confirm from BVS that are married if s§x is really a necessity in marriage? Can one cope without being satisfied s§xually? Should I just call off the relationship because of s§x? Or is there a solution? Will what I feel for him withstand the dissatisfaction?
I sincerely need your advise because I am confused and don't have who to confide in. Please I need guidance please. Stella please I need your red pen please. PLEASE.
Good day Stella thanks for this platform. Please I'll like to remain anonymous. I just want to share a burden I've been carrying for months now and I need advise from people that are experienced.
Please I've been in a relationship for a couple of months now. Sincerely he's my dream come through. He isn't perfect but I feel I've found the man I prayed to God earnestly for.
My only challenge is the s§x. I am not satisfied with our s§x life. It's been giving me concern we have tried to improvise by getting sex enhancers. N/B he doesn't want vibrators so I am on my own. He also told me enlargement is a NO NO as well because he's afraid of the side effect.
Even the enhancers I got I had to threaten I'll call off the relationship before he managed to try them. Now he enjoys taking them. It does little and I am not satisfied with the size and his P.E issues.He's a one minute man. He opened up to me about it after I complained. He said most of his exes just kept quiet about it. Some days when he penetrates me it's like there's nothing inside at all. Surprisingly, he's satisfied and begs for s§x like food.
He tells me he feels the walls of my vjay but as for me I feel nothing. He's good with foreplay but the penetration just kills everything. I've dated other guys and didn't feel this way sincerely and I know I am not loose because my ex use to find it difficult to penetrate while I was dating him.
We've tried some products online yet no change. I love him so much and we are thinking of settling down soon. I just want to confirm from BVS that are married if s§x is really a necessity in marriage? Can one cope without being satisfied s§xually? Should I just call off the relationship because of s§x? Or is there a solution? Will what I feel for him withstand the dissatisfaction?
I sincerely need your advise because I am confused and don't have who to confide in. Please I need guidance please. Stella please I need your red pen please. PLEASE.
Thank you.
*The devil has a way of messing one up..if you end up convincing yourself that you can do this and go ahead to marry him,your libido will skyrocket by 200 to teach you that gbenshing matters a lot.
You sound already like someone who ill be disappointed..
Sex does not matter so much but you your story sounds like you wont be getting any at all,so if you ask me,I will ask you to find someone who satisfies you in every way......
Men with problem like this end up suspecting your every move when they cannot meet up...
You said you cannot feel anything?meaning it practically NONE EXISTENT?
My dear,dont do it!
My dear, you will cheat on that man if you finally marry him, you're on your own
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
So we should advise you on better ways to fornicate?
DeleteOh wait.
How to enjoy it when you finally marry.
A na m abia.
Sunday rice di n'oku
"'ve dated other guys and didn't feel this way sincerely and I know I am not loose because my ex use to find it difficult to penetrate while I was dating him"....
DeleteWe don't need to know that part but seems to me dude is rich.
You guys should visit a sexual health facility. Thank u.
My dear don't kill the guy. All those sex enhancers have side effects. Biko he can't help how God made him. Go to professional sex therapists and medical personnel to advise, guide and monitor you both. If that doesn't work I suggest you jump the coop because you are already not satisfied and it seems nothing will change it and it is not something you are willing to accept.
Delete"The man you prayed to God for?"
DeleteWhich "god" are you talking about?
With this "serial prostitution", you are talking about "praying to God for this man?"
Please do not deceive yourself. Choose whether to serve God almighty or to commit fornication which is idolatry (Col. 3:5)
If you are serious to be found by a husband, do not jump into bed and open your legs when he comes around.
As for this one, there is no marriage, just sexcapades and heartbreaks.
Shut it. Errbody pretending to be celibate. You are the prostitute, bastard!
DeleteKratos
You guys are not sexually compatible
ReplyDeleteNah that you are complain better give your self brain. But wait ooo! Who will marry all this small 'dickened' brothers.
And their shakara no be here ooo. Shioor!
Lol! I can.
DeleteNow
DeleteComplaining.
Blacky say Bible 😁😀 small prick plus 2 seconds. Ha!😷
I was the first to be gbenshed by my man. The first three months was wack. He didn't know where the hole of the pussy was. Na me dey guide am. The first time was 2 mins. I didn't leave him because I love him. We worked on it. No enhancer, no enlargement. He opened up to his bro about it and we both made lots of researches. I do come up mostly. At a point, we noticed that if he cum inside, his dick goes soft. So, we resulted to withdrawal. He gradually changed. He started to 5 mins to 10 mins.
DeleteDear poster, he can now go for one hour, any style o..He even does missionary styles, cum inside and outside, toilet and bathroom and na me dey beg him say e don do. I thank God I didn't leave him then. Hold on dear poster and check for better positions.
You guys should start using toys. If he’s serious about the situation. why is he bringing ego into the matter? He is the one not performing so you need to convince him that you guys should use toys. Use it together. If not please don’t go ahead. When you give birth your chat jay will get wider there will be no hope
DeleteAnon 19:16 calm down, your case is different from hers.
DeleteBy the way, these guys with small duck can cheat for Africa. How disrespectful!
Sister sex in marriage is food o. If you cannot handle it now just move on I know it won't be easy but you have to decide.
ReplyDeleteMissed this year playing santa
Ic
Can't complain Jesus have been faithful thank God for life.
You can't live with it now so what magic are you expecting to help you live with it in marriage?
ReplyDeleteHe is the one with the problem and should strive to do anything to please you in that aspect and not you running around for solutions while he sits back and kicks against them. He is selfish .
Exactly!
DeleteVery selfish man.
The lady must have a very low self esteem
I don't think u should go ahead. It's obvious u will get bored and need more to satisfy ur sexual urge, this might then make u cheat on him.
ReplyDeletePlease dump him fast. You will be glad you did. I did the same with a guy i was supposed to marry 12 years ago and i have never regreted it.
DeleteEleyi gidi gan.
ReplyDeleteOne minute man and small dick. Na wa ooo. I still don't understand how small a man's dick will be that a woman won't feel it. My own is big enough for a lady to feel it when it is not even erect. So I still wonder how biro cover will be bigger than an erect dick of a grown man.
Poster
Well, judging from your write up I don't think you can do without sex in marriage. It will make you flirt when married. I will advise you to move on since he can't satisfy you sexually. He might even stop taking the enhancement pills when he marry you because he is only taking it now to keep you in the relationship.
To be sincere with you, sex and money are the most important thing in marriage. Odi very importamkpa. Once anyone miss, marriage is over.
So I guess he is not the one.
As for one minute problem,
Tell him to reduce intake of alcohol and sugar and eat well. He should relax anytime he wants to make love to you. Anxiety and stress causes it also. Let him know that your pussy is his and her can do the do anytime he wants. I guess that will make him to relax and stop rushing it for him to last longer. Tell him to be thrusting gently and stop doing it kpa kpa kpa kpa, that it will help him last longer. The kpa kpa kpa should start when you have cum so that he too will cum and the two of you will dey OK. Tell him to be doing it to satisfy you and himself and stop thinking of how to cum and feel the peak of the sweet sensation.
But
If you love sex, biko bikonu bikozianu don't marry him because you will definitely keep a side boo. Because even if you use vibrator it can't vibrate as the real dick.
Lmao! Good points though.
DeleteThat’s how one fools I was dating will come in 7seconds. I told him about it, he only laughed. Very lazy idiot. Although he had a nice prick. I dumped the moron asap. How can you laugh about such a serious situation. Instead of you to think of ways to correct it. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteHan han! Aunty easy na. Shuuu.
Delete7 seconds?
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
I don't believe this one.
Do you know what is 7 seconds?
Enter 1,pull out 2, enter 3, pull out 4, enter 5, pull out 6, enter 7 then cum..shikena
DeleteLmao!
DeleteI know it was 7seconds because I counted it. Now my new boyfriend can fork for Africa with correct prick. I love him scatter. As for that 7 seconds, thunder fire him. I have a good and healthy sex appetite. I can not marry a man that can do less than 10mins.
DeleteAunty sugar, leave shakara matter., please follow aunty Stella's advice.
ReplyDeleteMy dear you will cheat on him, so you better walk away.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o! Really a situation...
ReplyDeleteS3x in marriage is very important. S3x in marriage is compared to oil applied to a car engine to prevent it from "knocking".
ReplyDeleteSo my dear if the s3x is not good now there's no guarantee it will be better after marriage.
If couples have quarrel they use mind-blowing s3x to make-up according to the novels have read o.
From your write-up, I don't see u as someone who will satisfied with small size
Lmao @your 1st paragraph.
DeleteNne make her understand maka marriage ya eme kuo engine.
Lol
Lmao! Novels Kwa. Ehen I too have read that in novels.
DeleteMe self I read am welle welle for novels walahi
DeleteI don't want to sound like a saint, but let me ask, why even have sex with a man who is not your husband?
ReplyDeleteI know you'd want to justify by saying if you'd not had sex with him, you wouldn't had known he had issues with his sexual life;but my sister, a sin is a sin. So now that you know,it has become a thing of concern and might make you end the relationship then you begin to wait for the big size man who can satisfy your libido and also Willing to marry you.
@Stella, why have you stopped preaching to ladies to tie their legs?
Hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteMust u have sex before marriage, see urself.is that what God says
ReplyDeleteSmall Dick I Love it kikikiki,poster biko Seems your Bobo cannot satisfy please dnt start what you can't finish...
ReplyDeletePoster, if you cannot stand the heat, kindly back out.
ReplyDeleteHow do I get blog I'd please? Since three years now
ReplyDeleteChike are you a comedian 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Poster please if you can't cope you can take a walk, so you don't end up cheating on him in the future. The small size part is the main problem, cos premature ejaculation can be treated and with some tactics it can be overcome. 😐
ReplyDeleteAt least you have tested and have known, the choice is yours. I didn't test but got to know in my marriage what I had entered. *story for another day". It was frustrating o. I endured for a while and we were working on it but my sister I ended up cheating, he found out, God helped and he forgave, now am carrying my cross and my vibrator. So my dear, can you endure?
ReplyDeleteEwooo! It is well. Good of you to carry your cross. It means there are other great aspects of your husband and you value your marriage.
DeleteOr maybe the guy she ducked outside wasn't ready to wife her.
DeletePls send in ur chronicle the box is almost empty. Make we learn o
DeleteAt least you have tested and have known, the choice is yours. I didn't test but got to know in my marriage what I had entered. *story for another day". It was frustrating o. I endured for a while and we were working on it but my sister I ended up cheating, he found out, God helped and he forgave, now am carrying my cross and my vibrator. So my dear, can you endure? This is my 9th year in marriage, I cheated on my 4th year.
ReplyDeleteas for the PE you can tell him to take action bitters before sex, thats from my own experience as for the size well na enlargement get am
ReplyDeleteAll I saw here was a serial fornicator who is chanting "God"
ReplyDeleteGod does not change and has not changed.
1 Cor. 6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
1 Corinthians 5:12 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside?
Hope you saw those scriptures?
Please "pray to God properly" without desecrating his temple which is your body.
ReplyDeleteIf he has a very small dick when he is hard (less than 5 inches). Then that could be a big issue. To properly feel a penis in you as a woman...you need at least 5 inches or more Penetrate on.
ReplyDeleteHowever...if his problem is premature evacuation or weak erection...Here's what he should do....
Go to a pharmacy...buy vitamin c supplement 1,000 - 3,000 milligrams. Then he should buy 'odolourless garlic' supplement that is 1,000 milligrams.
Then he should take 1 pill of each daily. By day 30 his erection will improve.
Note: this is not a quick action solution like viagra.
It's a corrective supplement for men with PREMATURE EJACULATION That's not caused by anxiety.
Also...get him to learn the art of fucking. There are youtube videos for this too.
Thank u
DeleteI’ve never had an orgasm in my 30yrs on earth
ReplyDeleteThat is stolen probably by fornication.
DeleteSex outside of marriage is not protected and the fornicator is prone to just "anything"
Can't remember the last time i had one
DeleteI actually did not know what it felt like till 2 years ago . My partner taught me how to touch myself and I felt my first orgasm . It was mind shaking I then realized I have been lying to myself and others when I said I had previously felt one .
DeleteDiscover yourself by yourself that's the only way .
Till today I don't orgasm with penetrative sex , Good thing is he knows how to touch me to cum now
If you've not had an orgasm....Here's what you should do...
DeleteLearn to explore your body with your fingers. Use your fingers to touch yourself....and rub your clit gently....until you can make yourself orgasm.
Calm down....I know religion has made us think it's a dirty act...but in truth..it's not.
You are simply trying to find out what pleasures you.
If you don't know what part of your body can make you orgasm...how do you expect a clueless guy to know how to do it?
One other thing you can do is....
Get yourself a Vibrator. The jack rabbit one with two heads. Then put a battery in it and turn it on...make sure you are comfortable in bed on your own and place the Vibrator on your clit...with your eyes closed imagining that you are having sex with your partner....within 5-10 minutes....you will feel the pressure of orgasm building and explode in ecstasy.
Hain!!! Nne eh, biko flee ooooo. Small dick and doesn't last as well. For how long will you keep up. I tested hubby b4 I marry am, I nor wan hear stories that touch the bumbum. Stella I saw u r msg to us on instagram...Make we keep our last fuel well lol.
ReplyDeletewhy not put pillows under your hips, and put your crossed legs over his shoulders next time, if it's from behind, put pillows under your hips/stomach, lie down flat, not on all fours...it's not about the size but how you're willing to use it...
ReplyDeleteAs for P.E, please contact a urologist. Lastly, please go for fertility tests like sperm count/ viability test and hormonal profile for you before marriage, ttc is not a road you'd enjoy travelling. happy married life.
Small prick like biscuit bone.
ReplyDeleteCome join premature ejaculation for body.
Sorry ma.
But na so you go dey test dey go?
So if na 50 guys you go test the 50? Hian!
Your pudenda go just be like inside of cabbage.
Remember that sex ages people.
If you put a sexually active 25 year next to a non sexually active person of the same age, you'll see a big difference.
Lack of sex ages people. Nothing like slack pussy either. If you have slack pussy then it’s genetic or as a result of childbirth.
DeleteWho said anything about 'slack pussy'? Are you naturally dumb or its just your birthright?
DeleteLack of sex ages people? Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa I'm sure that why you quickly started and now looking like your mates parents.
Which God are you talking of while fornicating? Please face yoir front.
ReplyDeleteThe problem isn't from your man's penis. It's the fault of your ex that found it difficult penetrating. He has widened and slackened your vagina .
Stop fornication and pray more!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm ...it is well with u poster
ReplyDeleteYou have to learn to deal with it, if not you will end up hating him. There is always solution to everything, we only have to search for it
ReplyDeletePlease note. In marriage, what you see is what you get. So dont deceive yourself. What you are seeing now is what you will get in marriage. If he's not willing to make extra effort to attend to his sexual problems now, it's what your marriage will be like. So it's up to you. If you can stand a life of sexual frustration, then please go ahead and marry him. Or you try to solve the problem before you marry him. Sex is very important in marriage. It's the only act that consumates a marriage. By having sex with him, youve already married to him. So you've seen already what life with him will be. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteStory of my life. I’m married and sex life is nothing to write home about.I’m not really a sex person, can go for years without it but at atlease when it happens let it be good. My husband is a very nice guy but doesn’t even know how to insert his dick into pussy. He struggles to put it in. He tries his best to satisfy me but it isn’t working . Boring boring boring
ReplyDeleteLolll, the funny thing is that he will be beating h h h a local champion. You will be grinning like a hyena and suffering in private. Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa. Abeg sex is not food. According to the holyious amongst us. Drink hot tea and read your Bible, you'll be fine.
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