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JINXED BY HIS MOTHER


Good day. I'm at a crossroad in my life and I don't know what to do.

I'm a 23 year old lady.
I started dating this guy December last year and it's obvious that he genuinely loves me and wants to marry me. We decided to date for a year before getting married.

Early this year around February, I was diagnosed of having fibroid and PID. I was advised to get married fast and try to have a baby. When I told him about it he said he doesn't like to get married due circumstances that he prefers to do it because he wants to.

My mom called me one morning in March I was to tell me that she had a bad dream. She said she saw me crying and my boyfriend was walking Away and that I was lamenting and saying "it's his mom o" repeatedly.


Sometimes in May I realised that he hadn't told his mom about me (his dad is late). I was bothered because he had an ex-girlfriend that still goes to visit his mom and his mom believes they are still dating. I later got to know that his family was friends with the girls family. 

He promised to tell her about me. 

He surprised me with a call from his mom... I had a brief conversation with her and was happy. That was the beginning of frustration in my relationship with him.

I need to mention that my boyfriend is his mother's favourite and most successful child. He tells me she's always praying for him. There was a time he mentioned that his colleagues at work tried to do evil jazz on him....that they later confessed that he was untouchable. The

He started quarrelling with me over silly things. Sometimes I'd think about the cause of the quarrel and find it unbelievable. I'd conclude that it had to be spiritual.

On three occasions when we were going out together in his car, we were accosted by police /frsc.... And he always had to part with money. He confirmed that it was only when he's with me that he gets accosted.

He did some contracts around July and somehow they all refused to pay him.
I started experiencing some things on my own end too that were abnormal like me not being paid my entitlements.

In October, we had a major fight and almost broke up and as usual the cause was ridiculous. Somehow we reconciled and were enjoying our relationship .

Then he told me that he told his mom that he wants to marry me. She told him she wants to pray. 3 days later he messaged me saying he had bad news that his mother embarked on 3 days prayer and fasting and went to 3 different mountains that they said we must not marry that if we do things will be bad for us. She told him that "you people ought to have been seeing signs"

Of course we were sad at first. Then I realised that his mother must have some secrets... because that her prophecy was too good to be true. How do you tell someone that they ought to have been seeing signs?
Signs that my boyfriend didn't see while dating all his exes (his longest relationship was 6 months). And she didn't go to ori-oke when he was dating them.

We separated because of this matter. No communication at all. At first I was devastated, I cried a lot. I later decided to start praying and fasting that I wanted God to intervene. In the midst of my fast he called back and said he was sorry and still wanted me. He still wanted me but the problem was his mother. I continued my prayers and he started praying too.

I even asked if he did blood covenant...he said no.

Just last week after attending my church church convention for days and praying. We met and somehow we made love. I felt bad and we asked God to forgive us.
On my way home I had a bike accident and it was only me who was injured...the bike man wasn't.

Now my boyfriend feels it's because of him that bad things are happening to me.
He said he wants to stay away from me.

Two people prayed on our behalf. The first person said he promised marriage to someone. The other one said he has a deep secret that I won't like if I find out.

My relationship was perfect from December till may. It was after he told his mother that trouble started. I still love him very much and he loves me too.

Should I leave the man I love because some people don't want us to get married and they are attacking us spiritually?
I need good advice/counselling from experienced people.
Please BVs recommend any good Christian marriage counsellor you know.