HELEN OF TROY PLEASE COME BACK HOME
Dearest Stella, I greet you I need constructive advice, please my wife is a blog visitor and I'm hoping she sees this I'm so sorry my love,
My story is long please be patient and read through, I was married and sent my wife out of the country to have the baby after doing so, she gave excuses for 5years without coming back I had to go and see them my self at least let my kid know me, it has been extremely expensive traveling to them and bringing them over here for visit at least twice a year, we have been going back and forh for almost 12years, she just won't come back fully so the burden became too much I filed for divorce, she refused to come to Nigeria.
I went out one day and met this very beautiful woman who is so humble and sweet I fell really hard, she is soft spoken and she is just 25, I pursued hard until I got her but I didn't tell her I wasn't officially divorced she got pregnant and I engaged and started stalling for time she said she wanted to have the baby abroad by then I paid her bride price but refused registry marriage::
I kicked against having the baby abroad or we go together she refused so I didn't sponsor the trip she went alone and had my twin boys she came back lived with me for one year she bought everything the boys needed although I bought my own sets of baby things but since she is acting like she has money let her continue I refused to give her and she didn't mind,she holds a top position in an oil servicing firm plus her brothers are very influential people.
After one year my conscience was pricking me and I started begging by then I had finalised my divorce,I gifted her a new car paid in a huge sum of money to her account brought, everything I had bought, yet she doesn't allow me touch her the boys sleep on our bed, I had to move to the next room, as if that was not enough on their two years birthday she moved out after the party told me I had paid her off she left the boys...
Stella it's been 6months the whole world has begged her she refused I am willing to do anything her friends showed me your blog and I decided to ask the world to beg her, If she sees this she will be shocked at my marital status cos I never told her before it is her first time she will get to know, abeg she should come the boys miss her I miss her I'm sorry I'm just tired of fighting who has more money fight please I need help, pardon my typos I'm going mad.
I call her by her nick name Helen of Troy that way she will know it's me.
*You should have been truthful with her from day one and maybe she would have understand your fear in sending another wife to birth abroad...
Oga you fockup oh,you made a big mistake but you didnt kill anyone so you can be forgiven ..IF YOU HAVE LEARNT YOUR LESSON...
I think helen left you with the babies to teach you a lesson.
Hey Helen,please forgive him and take him back,especially in this festive period of love....
Please do it for me if you are a BV......
Kisses!!!
Ngwanu aunty Helen biko forgive him and come back. Don't mind his mistakes oh, he's still a growing child👶🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteMadam Helen please don't go back to a divorcé. He can never make a good husband ,moreover its a sin to marry a divorced man bcos his wife is still alive. If you marry him you're living in formication. Dump him sharp sharp..he's a bad news.
DeleteHelen of Troy knows you are married and that is why she left. She is in a relationship and can't complicate issues with the boys. Find wife no 3 since you can't keep a woman. Look inwards and see what is chasing women from your life.
DeleteBut in the meantime, some desperadoes here on this blog will happily marry you especially those ones that don't see anything wrong with dating married men.
Intelligentsia princess, it isn't a sin of fornication to marry a divorcee even when the divorced partner is still alive. That can only be a sin if SEPERATION WITHOUT DIVORCE was what took place. Read Paul's inspired counsel regarding this in the book of Corinthians.
DeleteAuntie Helen of Troy..E ma binu. Forgive and forget you hear. This world is just once.
DeleteWow
Aunty Helen pls give uncle for the sake of the twins
DeleteA person reaps what he sows; so says the good book.
ReplyDeleteYou've told us about your girlfriends/wives, please look inwards on yourself; which girlfriend did you dump, made to abort, or treat badly? Did you live abroad at some point and was there anything you "sowed" there. Please I am not make "accusations", I am only wondering because I'd seen these things in people's lives and they weren't ever considering them.
Then if that's the case; reach out to God in repentance and find solace in him and he will repair your life. Ask your new wife to forgive you.
Anty abortion! Hahahahaha, olorun!
DeleteLol. Na wa oo
DeleteAunty abortion e had come.
DeleteAunty todays issue is on divorce,lies and pride and not abortion
Helen of Troy biko go back to your husband and boys. He said that na ogaghi ama gi aka again. Na okwetago na ibu ego ka Izuogu siri buru ogwu.
ReplyDeletePlease forgive and forget.
Lol @ ogaghi ama GI aka ozo.
DeleteYou are funny Chike and the river.
Look at Ex. 1 verse 20-22 and see if you had shed innocent blood before or given a girl money to do so. Having a family of ones own is one of the mirages that surfaces when such was the case.
ReplyDeleteAnd mind you that "getting married" is different from "having a family of ones own".
Houses and wealth are inherited from parents but a prudent spouse is from the Lord!
Hahahahahahaha
DeleteAnti-Abortionist aye!
Please every problem is not because of abortion, say something else biko.
DeleteDid you look at those scriptures she quoted or you just out of guilty conscience jump at her? Let me help you also, look at Proverbs 6 vs. 10-16. What she said is quite relevant. That you attack her does not make the word of God false. Repentance is the way to go to avoid reaping what one sows.
DeleteThis one all ur women dey dump u up and down, are you a philanderer?
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment... Dearest poster, are u sure u are saying the whole truth? How ll a woman abadon her kids and home just like that? Abi u dey hit her ni? Anyway Helen pls come and tell ur own side of the story.
ReplyDeleteWhen men begin to toy with ladies, they don't know that there is strength in weakness.
ReplyDeleteBut ladies, how do you get to marry a man you don't know anything about his "status"; from relatives, friends, neighbors etc.
It is appalling how ladies open legs these days and collect babies. And more appalling is the way they want to go "abroad" at every opportunity!
poster u think she will forgive after finding out the truth about ur marriage? some men get mind and think they will be forgiven after asking for it. if am ur wife i will jux jejely come n carry my children and dats d end. she get mind to leave her children for u sef. i pray she forgives u anyway.
ReplyDeleteShe is not leaving the kids for him. Runz man meets runz girl and runz girl has moved on because runz man is not as rich as she thought and his bed game is wack. She doesn't want burden as her next prey won't even know she has children.
DeleteGod fix it for you Oga.
ReplyDeleteMay God have mercy on you and restore your marriage.
Helen of Troy, please forgive for the sake of your twins..
Helen of Troy,may God touch your heart..
I dont know why my instinct tell me there is more to this story. Sir, something about you is chasing these women away without them minding the consequence. Asking Helen to come back wont fix everything, there is something you need to fix about you. Women dont just abandon their kids on flimsy grounds, African Women hardly abandon their family after giving birth in USA. We need the full story.Are you a serial cheat? Are you abusive? I am a married man.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
DeleteYou might be correct.
There is more to this your story Oga.
There is more to this story
DeleteThe real Helen of Troy ran away with her younger lover, she could possibly be acting like her as well. Shebi Stella was mouthing off last week dat no sane woman leaves toddlers behind... read well oh! Some mothers just dont bond firmly with their kids. Some ppl are just unlucky in their affections!
ReplyDeleteThis man hand no pure.
DeleteIt will surprise you she knows about your ex and was waiting for you to tell her. You come compound the wahala where you dey form Mr right. Helen just forgive bros em no go try you again
ReplyDeleteOh Atheist!!!Lollllll
ReplyDeleteAunty Helen . I wish my ex husband would beg me to come back home. Please forgive him, he is sorry please for the sake of your kids go home already.
ReplyDeleteOya gist us... why did u leave?
DeleteSee you, only pack out, only wish they called u back, why did u leave then? Hian.
DeleteChronicle of a rich fella... Oga, please check inward, there's something about you that's making them flee.
ReplyDeleteI believe your Troy lady will come back at least for a chat after seeing this,then try to convince her that you're genuinely sorry and show her love (not money).
Imagine reading about your hubby's ex wife and the story that follows it on SM.
ReplyDeleteHmmm... I just pray Mrs Troy will allow for a dinner so that you can explain yourself to her well because she deserves it. All the best Sire.
The writer should tell us other things he does that these women are getting fed up. In your story you said you once refused to pay any money when she was going abroad for the baby becos she refused you following and she footed the bills and came back. You are a very terrible man . In her state of pregnancy no mercy self. You are heartless . No matter what she was carrying your children . And then you went ahead to say shebi she has money , I honestly dislike men that think and act like this . You are a very wicked man. You even said you are tired of comparing who has money pass- oga grow up becos maturity is far from you. No Woman will stay with such a man . You need to change completely . You have a terrible habit I don’t blame the girl. I pray she forgives you . Your attitude sucks
ReplyDeleteI thank God the lady was able to foot the bills, imagine the stupid man!!! He has serious attitude problem. This lady should come so that they can arrange.something about their children.
DeleteAnon 15:51 you are very stupid. They say once beaten, twice shy. If this man's account is true, the first one he sponsored ran away, you want him to repeat same. Ogbeni poster, what happened to having your kids in Naija, you should have insisted and discourage the second from traveling.
DeleteStop the insult. Opinion is like an ass hole everyone has got one okay?
Delete22:30 your comment is disgusting there are many body parts all human has must you use what you wrote down?? God have mercy on your kind n fill your hearts with humility and love
DeleteHelen of Troy, i like you well. You are a strong independent woman, i really like your type but please just forgive him. This man loves you and you have two boys for him so please forgive.
ReplyDeleteOga no worry, your woman will return to you.
Helen pls forgive him, he has realised his mistakes. Give him a second chance oooo, inugo?
ReplyDeleteI suspect anonymous @16:35 as the so-called "Helen of Troy". she seemed to be writing from an informed position.
ReplyDeleteStella, I think you should encourage her to have her own say i.e., tell her own part of the story.
Helen of troy, pls forgive ur husband and go back to ur boys. I am sure u miss them. Make this Christmas a happy one for ur boys and husband. Pls forgive him.
ReplyDeleteOga there is something you are doing wrong for these women to keep leaving.
ReplyDeleteMy mind is telling me you are all those men that get angry easily and carry things in their mind.
I once met a man in his 40's who 2 women have also left, both with kids. One was a baby mama, the other was his wife.
On dating him for a few months, I also took my leave. He gets angry easily, keeps malice like no tomorrow. You will beg and beg him, he may not pick your calls or text for one month.
On the last fight, he tried contacting me. Me that had moved on and met somebody else. Who has time for love one month, the next month fight for full month. And it goes on and on. After every malice break he gave me, the love kept dying. Until it finally died.
Oga if after this helen doesnt come back, move ON!
ReplyDeleteDrop your number now. You obviously want to move in @17.24
DeleteHelen you left your kids too, i thought women don't forget their children. Oga leave Helen and go look for your first wife.
ReplyDeleteI think u r a useless man. God knows what I did to Helen to make her move out. I want to hear her own side of the story.
ReplyDeletecouple have made up.......Helen has gone back home after reading this....We spoke.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Helen and thanks for listening to me.
Oga take it easy from now please.
Awwww, really? GOD bless you Stella I am curious though how Helen got the mind to leave her twin sons for that long! Hmmm......
DeleteTee
Dats goodnews... Thanks Stella and Helen
DeleteDats goodnews... Thanks Stella and Helen
DeleteWowwww that was fast.
DeleteHehehehehe! Stella of life, na you biko! I just love this your enchanted life. Such aura! Weldone girl. You are blessed!
DeleteYeessooooo!!
DeleteI love this!!
May God continue to bless your family, Amen.
Stella na wetin dey bring quarrel be dis. How you go kolobi the sweet insider gist come starve us? No be all of us follow beg helen? We no get right to know the inside story? Osiso, yarn am, make helen do rejoinder despite being back home.
DeleteBia, helen, I'm waiting for your robust reply. No fall hand o.
Good work Stella
DeleteGood news
DeleteThanks Stella
God bless you @ Helen for going back to your lovely cuties (Twins)
Oga please take care of them well from now on
No more complain oooo
Good news
DeleteThanks Stella
God bless you @ Helen for going back to your lovely cuties (Twins)
Oga please take care of them well from now on
No more complain oooo
You are not clean oga for two women to leave you? Kai there's more to the story. A woman that leaves behind her childre, twin boys effortlessly? I think you should move on. Doesn't she have family though?
ReplyDeleteHelen, please go and get your kids.
ReplyDeleteThank God for everything, Helen it's well with you, love is still the greatest.
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