Monday -IHN

OMG I am having a fast day.......too fast!!!

Hope your day is going well?IT SHOULD!!!

Shout out to everyone,including blog drammarians!!!

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PATIENCE COVERS IN HOUSE NEWS

Stella oniovo... This is your isoko sister from another mother.. Lol to say I love your blog is an understatement... Your doing a wonderful job(yea I know you have heard this a million times)but this is me saying it.. ....

Patience's Birthday was on Saturday but we didnt post it because it entered my spam....Happy Belated Birthday Babe....





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GIVEAWAY

Hi Stella,

I have clothes for give away. Mostly size 10 dresses, trousers and shirts. 

Size tops/shirts and 12 bottoms 

I would like to give someone or people who NEEDS Clothings for work.

They must reside in Lagos and be ready to pick up.
All.clothes are in good condition and some have not even been worn.
 08178659073..

BV Memmie

Thank you





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MAKEUP ARTISTE NEEDED FOR TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE



Please I'm in need of an affordable makeup artist for my Tm in dec. please hubby and I are on a budget and can't afford much. I'd prefer anyone who's in calabar and can travel to my villa in Abini. I can be reached on 08020657417. Thank you and God bless you.




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SMALL CHOPS VENDOR NEEDED IN AWKA


Am in need of anyone who can make small chops for a wedding in Awka and at an affordable price. Reach me on this number 08024573316




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BUSINESS MEME

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In-house News. Shedding more lights on yesterdays chronicle and replying some of the comments I read


Dear Mrs Korkus and lovely bvs. 
I will appreciate if you can post this.
I read the comments on yesterday's chronicle and I knew that some people don't understand a lot of things. 
Most times you don't know where the shoe pinches until you wear that exact type. I used to think hat way too until later.
I am.a married woman and a mother of one. I have been married for a year and some months now.My baby is some months old.
 We discussed everything when I say everything. I really mean everything. I attended different seminars. I applied all that was taught in my relationship. I was in control of what happens. 
We discussed sleeping routines. Number of kids etc.
I was a virgin, he became celibate. He had been with two others.
I was careful because my mum is in her second marriage. I didn't want a familiar family trend(like mother like daughter).
I didn't do all that washing of clothes for him or his mum before marriage even when I went visiting. Everything was always clean and span. He was still staying with his mum( she had been doing it for him unknown to me).
Fast forward to marriage. He can wear a shirt or even boxer for a week. I had to change that. In changing that I had to start doing his laundry. 


When Oga uses the toilet, he cleans on himself while standing with water. In correcting that I spoke to him about it. Oga did not change o. I get irritated easily. For peace to reign. We started using different toilets. Though is till get to wash the smelly dirtied poon water toilet. But at least peace reigned.


Most times when we were chatting, he will be in the  toilet. I didn't really think of it as a big deal until marriage.( Toilet is his favourite place in the house. He spends fours hours at a stretch early in the morning or late at night.He is with his phone listens to music and watches porn or probably masturbate).
We courted for four years. No sex, no intimacy, no sleep overs.
When we got married I was working.
So I bought foodstuff and other things needed in the  house while coming back from work with my money. When I get home. Hubby gives me back what I have spent. 


In my third trimester, I was always weak and I was not productive at work. I quit. I was a semi staff as no job. I just attached myself to the company. So I get some money but NY regular salary so I left.
Mind you for that months I rarely go out. Where we stay is far from the market. So hubby stared getting stuffs for the house even condiments for stew and soup while coming back from work.

One it saves money and it also saves me stress.


I delivered with ease  though with a terrible cut that didn't heal on time.
Three months post pregnancy, I was back on my feet and still not working. I was getting offered but couldn't take them. My mother in law is a full time workaholic. She has been a single mother for ages do work still dey her body. Her ship is faraway. Her type of business is not safe for a new born. Dusts and all. My mum attends a white garments church so religion differences and some other other differences. Its a No.

So I became a full housewife with small business like wig making and liquid soap. Its not booming.
Hubby began to buy things. When I request for money to go and get groceries for the house. He will say No that let the baby not enter sun etc. Flimsy excuses.

This were things I never thought will happen to me. Note that I don't get allowances. And I would have been  seeing some tits buts from markets money hence pad money and other little things. I have to ask.
Communication was dead. While courting via phone calls or chat we discussed everything. But now before I wake up by 5am (even during our honeymoon)Oga is already I'm the toilet. No cuddling etc. He cokes out after he is done and penetrates. No foreplay. That's dead on arrival for me. Because most times I'm dry.


I have employed dialogue. This is the real him. He only pretended during courtship. We don't fight. So the house is peaceful. He is not running away from me. 


I have reported him. It only made things worse.
Because he grew up with females, he is not manly. He is petty. 
For example, when he comes back from work and buy eggs(a crate). He will carry it to the kitchen by himself and arrange in a the egg rack. He won't give it to me because he says somebody need to be careful with egg(lol) Can you imagine someone who carried a pregnancy to full term o. 

He complains at everything. This is how to turn the wooden spoon. This is how to bath a baby. Etc. He will arranges the seasoning cubes into the jar and pours salt into the jar if this almost finished.

Mind you he is not doing these little.things because he is caring but because he feels he is the only one who can do it right. 
He asks for my opinion but never takes to it.

 He is dirty, petty and manipulative plus an emotional abuser and I didn't see alll that while courting.
 So my dear people I did my best in courtship but some men are capable of pretending and turning their wives into bitter people after marriage.


If I come back to the world again, or get married again,I MUST TASTE BEFORE BUY. THAT IS THE ADVISE I WILL GIVE MY FEMALE CHILDREN SELF. They are allowed to gbensh and sleepover for days to know him well. THEY MUST NOT ENTER ONE CHANCE.
Though I believe that if I get capital for a business soon I might be able to correct some things again because money and liberty walks hand in hand.
So stop judging not all of us walked in with our eyes closed.



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