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Sunday, October 08, 2017
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Sad, this is what most women go in the name of marriage
ReplyDeleteThank God my relationship with Abraham ended. Imagine after a dry fasting going on a mountain and my ex still couldnt contained his anger.
DeleteSometimes I'm grateful to God everything turned out this way cos with our marriage preparations already fixed, a destination wedding at that, well I'm glad it ended though, I felt heartbroken and hurt but,a broken relationship is 100% better than a dead marriage.
When a grown up man in his late 30's is still battling with unforgiveness, anger and insincerity I'm glad when there is life, hope comes alive.
I'm sorry I had to rant now I feel relieved.
*pheew*
So ladies, we see the signs but bluntly ignore either bcos of age, how wealth he is/his family.
I feel your pains though cos this could have being me if I had gone ahead with our marriage plans.
Madam endure and keep parying feverently and its high time you get a Job and damn all consequences.
Aunty how did you carry out the research that most people go through this, I have friends and sisters who aren't going through this so where did you get your most from. Men may change yes but that's why in most cases we should marry men who are in God, who can't be easily moved by money and mostly your friend. Marriage is a good thing which the devil would try to make bad and people like you try to stop people from getting married by making them feel is and evil waiting to destroy them, many of us are married and happy we don't just like to boast about it
Deletethe things DAT goes on in marriages!!!!!! hmmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteLiving in bondage!
ReplyDeletePART ONE ππππ
DeleteLEPπ
Na wa oooo!!!!
ReplyDeleteNawa o! This one na scumbag and a monster join. I so much detest it when a man wouldnt want to let his wifey work. E pele o!
ReplyDeleteShe is the one entertaining his nonsense.
DeleteWomen are their own enemies, I keep saying it dnt marry a man that won't let you have a say concerning your own life.
If he changes after marriage you too change your attitude toward him,no one has monopoly of madness in the home
The fact that she's your wifeet doesn't make her your slave.
Sometimes you wouldn't know until you step into the marriage my dear.
DeleteI am telling you and to think some women feels comfortable with the tag "housewife".
DeleteWhat a wawuuuuuuuπ
ReplyDeleteIyamnotunderstanding
ReplyDeleteA woman's financial independent matters a lot,I'm talking from experience...hmmm
ReplyDeleteOh lord,I know you visit this blog,please that "THING" I've been asking you lord,please answer me oh!!!
Independence
DeleteHe will answer you...Amen
DeleteI am telling you.
DeleteThou some weak men feels insecure with a woman's level of independence.
Na Side boo ooo. Don't worry God will answer ur prayers ok.
DeleteLMAO π @ dukes,side boo ke?
DeleteHahahaha π
Marriage not bondage.
ReplyDeleteWife not slave/prisoner
You need to get out somehow before he kills you.
Where are your folks?
Are they aware of the situation?
This is no marriage..at all.
Toooooor!
DeleteExactly she has to get out and with her kids, she can even pretend to be loving and obidient for the time being then run to an unknown destination. I heard of a woman who lived in an uncompleted building until she got back on her feet. Dear women please save, always save even if your marriage is 100 percent always save so that if you have to run, you will be able to take care of yourself
DeleteNa wa oo! What actually went wrong.. God help us
ReplyDeleteWhen some people have the school of thought that a woman must have done something to provoke domestic violence, I laugh. Some would say it is because of your sharp mouth. What about me who would not talk, would only ask him for stuff to keep the family going and he would beat me. Some men are not worthy of existence. The poster should run away like I did. For the sake of her children. Bringing up those children in a war front affects their psyche. Please leave the animal.
ReplyDeleteRun away to where?
DeleteWhen she doesn't even have a Job. For her to stand on her feet to take care of herself and her kids, she need a job then the business can come in as a supplement.
Is it not better to live with the hope of a tomorrow than stay and die in the man's house? What are u saying?Let her leave!!!
DeleteThis is sad
ReplyDeleteMadam leave him, I keep saying this no one can take your child away from you the woman except you let him.
ReplyDeleteEven if your horseband is the commissioner of police of an Army general he cannot take your child away onless you let him.
You are a woman you can make or break a man,You can destroy his destiny and purpose in just one day why then will you let him have the upper hand. π π π π π π π π π π
Pick your self esteem from the floor where it has been rubbished dust it pick your kids and leave his house while you are still alive.
If he comes to threaten you, show him what it means to be a woman
I hate weak women, A woman has the power of change every situation all you need is to make up your mind to do it.
Wake up woman π€π€π€
LEPπ
Easier said than done...
DeleteEasier said indeed.
DeleteIts that easy nai she never commot since? Abi you think say she no know this one all these while?
Easier said dear. Has Dino Melaye’s ex gotten custody of her kids? This is Nigeria, the law tilts towards the rich and powerful. Chances are that this lady won’t see her kids again if she leaves abruptly.
DeleteShe needs to play the fool while working on her plan b. Save as much as you can, make sure you use condoms with him, go to Family welfare and they’ll advise you of your rights.
I would have asked u to save and relocate with the kids but that would make you a kidnapper.
All the best.
What about me that my wife is beating but shame won't let me say what is happening to me to anyone.
ReplyDeleteOga it is either you have a heart to heart discussion with her concerning her behaviour or you quit the relationship.
DeleteDnt leave in a home with DV your sanity and health matters alot
LEPπ
Awww! Not laying a finger on your abusive wife yet bearing all, you are a good man. But do talk to people, preferably your pastor or someone she has utmost respect for. I pray things change for the better
DeleteWhy do I find this funny? π
DeleteSorry Oh!
You want her to kill you right? LEAVE
DeleteHow does she beat you, slap, blow, kick, with belt or with her words??
DeleteI'm sorry for asking but I find it ridiculous when men say their wives beat them.
I'm sorry I have to laugh to this...I can imagine your wife pounding you and can't scream cos of shame.
DeleteJoke aside, either you're the one at fault and brought the out the beast in her or she just have temperament issues...reporting her to her parents/family members or Pastors should help change her.
I have always believed it is only the weakest of men that lay hands on a woman
See mugu talk
DeleteLol, your wife is beating you ke? Stop pulling our legs jare, funny shit.
DeleteIt’s not funny. A lot of women are like this and I must commend you for your restraint. When the man strikes back, they scream bloody hell domestic violence and then take him to the blogs for crucifixion.
DeleteHave someone she respects talk to her or seek counselling for her. If she’s not ready to change, you might have to take a walk.
All the best Sir
Grow a back-bone and leave that bastard. Wait for him to go out of town, pack everything in the house take your children and leave.
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteStart now to gather enough money you need and leave. Do it fast.
Remember Hepatitis B is REAL!
If you die now,give him less than 6months he will marry another woman with 3kids from another man and father the children, he will even do their change of name to his..
Drop love and pity syndrome aside and use your head
Enough said.
God... I jst read some stories and feel what am going through its noting.. See me here killing myself thinking because of one small quarrel we had mcteeew... Nawa me I can't be in ds kinda marriage o woman beater and womanizer ha I weak
ReplyDeleteThe things women go through in the name of marriage.
ReplyDeleteSome women
Delete500 naira sniper can send him to meet our sdk Lucifer in hell. What are you waiting for?
ReplyDeleteOh lord. Come down
ReplyDeleteNa waooo
ReplyDeleteTired of these negative stories abeg
ReplyDeleteThis marriage thing is begining to scare me.
ReplyDeleteToo much bad report
Na waooo it is well...
ReplyDeleteMay God helps us. Because their is no peace at home you will even be scared to go to your matrimonial home, my dear pray their is power in prayers
ReplyDeleteMadam leave if you have to. Your children will not die but he can kill you and the children will still be there
ReplyDelete#divorcenotdeath so you are from a humble background no mean say u no get background, except ur people sell you to the man with exhorbitant bride price.
ReplyDeletegive yourself brain mbok.
Husband from hell!!!
ReplyDelete@just Bella.
Madam,I recommend that you get help as soon as possible. The problem with violence is that once it starts, its very difficult to combat except decisive actions are taken to keep the perpetrator in check. Get your family and close friends to intervene if possible.If not, please then make use of the domestic violence help lines to get a counsellor.
ReplyDeletehttp://domesticviolence.com.ng/help-for-domestic-violence/
Always remember that you can always do something to help yourself. While wait for help, always try to protect yourself and your kids anytime he gets violent. Run and hide in a room and lock the doors and you all scream for help if possible. I pray God strengthens you and give grace to deal with this difficult situation.
Madam,I recommend that you get help as soon as possible. The problem with violence is that once it starts, its very difficult to combat except decisive actions are taken to keep the perpetrator in check. Get your family and close friends to intervene if possible.If not, please then make use of the domestic violence help lines to get a counsellor.
ReplyDeletehttp://domesticviolence.com.ng/help-for-domestic-violence/
Always remember that you can always do something to help yourself. While wait for help, always try to protect yourself and your kids anytime he gets violent. Run and hide in a room and lock the doors and you all scream for help if possible. I pray God strengthens you and give grace to deal with this difficult situation.
This is so serious.
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