An Ibadan Customary Court sitting in Mapo on Tuesday dissolved 21 year-old marriage between Mr. Ibrahim Tajudeen and his wife Idowu over laziness and irresponsibility.
He said “It is our duty as a court to ensure peace wherever there is trouble.
“The union between Idowu and Ibrahim has ceased to be henceforth.
“Custody of the three children produced by the union is awarded to Ibrahim,” Odunade said.
Idowu, a mother of three while narrating her ordeal had earlier informed the court that Ibrahim was a lazy and irresponsible man, noting that she has been responsible for the payment of their house rent since 2016.
She said “My lord, Ibrahim is so lazy to the extent that even when I took it upon myself to get him a job, he chose to be lazy.
“I have tried times without number to ensure that he is productively engaged, but Ibrahim kept telling me that he is not strong.
“Besides, he is so troublesome that I can no more cope with his troubles.
“Worst still, I have been reduced to almost nothing because Ibrahim does not give the children and I any form of care. He neither clothes our nakedness nor does he provide for our food,we are just there.
“I am principally responsible for the children’s education and other needs.
“There is no more love between us, please, separate us”.
But, Ibrahim denied the allegations.
He said “My Lord, I have a well established car wash service and so it is not true that I am lazy. I provide Idowu’s needs according to my capability.
“I have been responsible for everything in the house and I will continue to perform my duty”.
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hmmmmm painful.
ReplyDeleteMay God help both of you Amen
... yet they awarded custody of the kids to the so called lazy husband? Or i didn't read well?
Deleteoga u even sound like a lazy man sef
ReplyDeleteChronicle poster may this not be your portion.
ReplyDeleteEven the bible cursed a lazy man.
So why this lazy man got custody of the children? These courts are biased against women.
ReplyDeleteAbeg better before she becomes like my neighbor who is getting to fifteen years in marriage with five kids but her husband has never worked for a day. And upon that, e get bad mouth and character join. You need to see the way he abuses the wife. Chai! Some women are really trying because of Christ.
ReplyDeleteI can't deal with lazy and arrogant people.
Are you for real?
DeleteNa wa o!
y on earth will they allow the so called lazy man to take the children? haaa nawa ooo! they would have the woman to go with her children mbok.
ReplyDeleteWho do we believe now? I somehow believe the woman
ReplyDeleteWhich kind judgement be this one?
ReplyDeleteYou have been married for 21 years and you have been paying rent for less than a year therefore the man is lazy abi? He paid it for 20 years and didn't call u lazy
ReplyDeleteWho will we believe now?
ReplyDeleteIbadan people, that's the uneducated ones are very lazy o,
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