HUH????
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BABY DADDY BROUHAHA
I met my baby daddy 4 years ago at an event in Lagos,we exchanged contacts but never kept in touch till i saw his friend who was with him the day we met n that was in 2015..I guess his friend told him he saw me cause he just called out of nowhere and asked for us to meet and since I wasn't in a relationship then and I wanted to get away from Abuja for some days I decided to Honor his invitation to Lagos.
I travelled to Lagos and he lodged me ,we had sex once and i got carried away or lets just say God wanted it that way he didn't use condom.I left after the weekend back to Abuja n he promised to keep in touch but almost 2 weeks after I found out I was pregnant and abortion is not an option.
I told him on phone and he insulted me,called me a gold digger and said he doesn't want to have any thing to do with me and I shouldn't get in touch with him again and I kept on trying to get him so we can at least talk but he blocked my number and didn't reply my text msgs plus I don't know where he lives.
I had the baby and called to tell him,he said he doesn't want to have anything to do with my baby and i and I should never contact him cause am a slut lol.
The baby is almost two years now and i still haven't heard from him but i know his office in Lagos although have never been there.
Please how do you think i can go about him taking up his responsibility,am not asking for marriage I just want him to stop being a dead beat.Do you think I should go to his office with our baby or is there anything my lawyer can do,is there anything like child support in Nigeria or any law child welfare plus I just realised hes married with children.
Thanks Stella for bringing back this e-slap!
ReplyDeletePlease, in all you do, do not bring God into this disobedience of yours.
DeleteIf you have repented of your fornication and sluttery then what he promised
is that this situation will "work for your good".
Why should a girl run to visit a man in another state?
Why shouldn't the man come to visit you if he wants you?
Why give him sex; and you "don't want marriage" really?
Now who is writing chronicles??
Who had nine months hassles to go through?
Who is saddled with the responsibilities of a baby/child/teenage etc.?
Who is the baby mama with "baggage?"
who has moved on to the next victim?
Excellent e-slap
DeleteFor those of you that will imitate the whites
"Have fun, get pregnant etc."
You forget that the whites have health insurance
They have benefits for the child till 18 years
The baby daddy pays child support and it is not
difficult to access.
Keep imitating the vices of the westerners.
@E-slap...Hahahahahahahahahahaha
DeleteBefore I finish the post, I don de vex think how to press your throat😂😂😂😂😂you fall babes leg and hand😉😂
Babe the mistake has already been done, get in touch with your lawyers to contact him first and follow him up from there...
Poster, you are a gold digger.
DeleteWhich gold she see dig?
DeleteNa mud she don land so
You people will just be opening leg yagaaa. Una no dey fear STD or HIV?
DeleteJust free the guy. He will look for you and your child in future.
Anoni @ 16:25 Gbam!!!👏👏👏
DeleteU said it all there. Naija girls & people be doing copy copy. Dem no know say that thing na western culture.
Abroad for many countries u don't even need to hire any lawyer to chase after baby daddy. The govt will do all that for u.
*note that in some western countries too like in Sweden u have no right to tie a man to any pregnancy or a child that he chooses to deny!!!
Ur on ur own if u make foolish mistake to have cheap sex, get pregnant any how in Sweden.
Even in France too. Many women today over there have gone crazy because of having baby for a man who deny them.
***if u need child desperately, BETTER GO & ADOPT FROM ORPHANAGE IN ORDER TO KEEP UR DIGNITY & SANITY INTACT!!!
ADOPTING AN ORPHAN LEGALLY IS 100000 TIMES BETTER & RESPECTABLE THAN HAVING ILLEGITIMATE CHILD. GIRLS PLEASE LEARN!!!
Hahahaha E-SLAP is back
DeletePeople will fornicate and then add God in their sin.
DeleteSome ladies have no respect for their punanis. Ladies.... we can do better abeg!
DeleteAnother idiotic poster. I don't even know what to tell you. Just collect that Stella's e-slap and multiply by 7.
DeleteYou are on your own. Just once and you expect to commit.
ReplyDeletePoster I got angry with your whole chronicle when you said "it was Gods will" are you saying God wanted you to go and fornicate? Or don't you know unprotected sex in most cases lead to pregnancy. Abeg leave me alone jare
DeleteHoney girl, you made a mistake or perhaps a deviced a well-planned one-night of fun. Whichever way it resulted in a child.
DeleteBut, I thank God you didn't take the easy way out. That would have been a sin.
Stella's BVs are some of the toughest and most critical. Don't let their insults get to u.
Though it may sound like a hopeless situation why not pray and fast for God to soften his heart towards you and the baby.
Also, try doing some research. Are his parents alive? Perhaps, an older member of your family can go with you to appeal to his parents.
Make it clear you don't want to breakup his marriage. Just some financial support and for him to acknowledge his child.
Let them know you are willing to subject your child to a DNA test to confirm this man's paternity. Good Luck dear.
It's not the end of the world if he doesn't accept your child. You won't be the first or last single Mom.
There's a Yorube adage that says "kids bring their own money to world when they are coming". (Something like that). Strangely it's true. You will find out miraculously that you ALWAYS have just enough to provide and your baby at all times.
GOD never sleeps. And, he's not judgmental like these BV. So go to him. It is well.
hahahahaha our slaps is back again. Stella what about koboko or bulala that one should come back too for this lady.
ReplyDeleteWhich kind yeye chronicles be this. You were thanking God that it happened because it is not God that made it happened it is you because you wanted to use the baby to trap him. Let me thank God it backfired for you. See ya life.
Now you want him to take responsibility? how much be condom, this buhari period am sure it will be N100 or N200.
Anyway train your boy yourself and God will help you. Stop disturbing him because he already has called you a gold digger. Leave fuck men alone mba una no gree.
You are not the first, and won't be the last.
ReplyDeleteBring up your child to be best among equals, the father will come back by himself.
Simple, short and precise. God bless you for this reply
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmm this is serious but he never wanted the child. Please I don't know before I say something that will make the issue worse.
ReplyDeleteKai, you mumu..
ReplyDeleteU sounded like u could take care of d baby all by urself, if he doesn't want to take resposibility, u take it, if he says marriage, you'll jump n say yes, see as you block urself from potential suitors, you make people disrespect baby mamas.
Mstchew, you had sex and didn't use a condom ? What of the morning after pill? You forgot too abi.
DeleteOk,before you rushed to the hotel to spend time with this person, why didn't you investigate to confirm if he was married or not.
Apart from pregnancy, you no dey fear hiv etc?
My dear,wake up and smell the coffee,this is the time to face your reality. You wanted more, he wanted pleasure, now the burden is solely on you to take of the child.
You deliberately chose to be a baby mama, not like you guys were even in a relationship.Some of you are so selfish with your decision that you don't even put the innocent child you are bringing to the world into consideration.
We say it over and over on this blog that it behoves on the ladies to be more careful. You get pregnant, you face the stress and 9 months journey alone, if you are unlucky you bear the expenses and responsibilities alone, you put your plans and future on hold so I ask again, who do you think is at the receiving end? Who should be more careful?
My advise is for you to leave the man alone and let him come round with time. Going to his office won't change shit and don't even think of making a scene.
As in eh......stop lying you didn't know he was married... U deserve everything u re getting.. Go and wait for him outside his office wit a cab and trace his home.... Then u can take it from there... Really feel for ur baby wit horrible parents
Deleteslap of zachariah!!!
ReplyDeleteAs if you don't know he is married.
ReplyDeleteBetter train the innocent child and forget about him.
It is well with you.
Exactly. She was blinded not by love this time o, but by money I guess.
DeleteChike how are your sister, her child and inlaw? Hope they are getting better? It is well with them
They are getting better.
DeleteThanks AGELESS T
this is very deep?how could you be so careless?after you realise you had unprotected sex why didn't you try taking postinor 2 or drink hot,using the rest room immediately sef to wash off the sperm ...someone you just met?no strings attach ..babe I don't have advice o ..please carry your cross ...i pray he comes around soon
ReplyDeletewashing off sperm after sex wont help
DeleteAre u minding her. Look poster to avoid further embarrassment just raise your child OYO
Deleteshe wasnt careless she was out rightly stupid.
DeleteWash off the sperm? You guys are hilarious on this blog aswear 😂
DeleteWash off sperm? 😂😂😂 nothing wey I no go read here.
DeleteRosemary you na expert sha. Weldone ma
God wanted what which way? How do you expect him to accept the baby when you proved yourself notorious for booty calls. He needs a lot of convincing to prove the baby is not a product of another booty call........and perhaps you too.
ReplyDeleteLol she wan hook the man but she no plot her graph well.kwakwakwa😂😂😂
DeleteLol u really deserve that slap. Well, i think u should forget totally abt him and take care of ur child yourself cox he has no interest in the child.
ReplyDeleteU know when i started having sex, I told myself 'girl u have to live with the consequences. Don't blame anybody o, bear the consequences that come with premarital sex.
ReplyDeleteyou are a good follower at least you dont lie to your sef
DeleteYou hoed yourself to a man, who from this narrative is married, did not use protection, nor after sex pills. Aunty carry your cross! Small fuck wey guy man been wan fck forget, na hin you wan dash am responsibility for life. Be a proud single Mum, leave d man alone.
ReplyDeleteYour comment is epic 😂😂 na really small fuck
DeleteIt's your story but I don't believe you didn't know he was married before you both had sex.
ReplyDelete2ndly, he has told you he doesn't want anything to do with you so why are you still stressing????
Third,if it's child support you want, hire a lawyer to do d work. You do not need to contact him,the lawyer will.
Lastly, enjoy motherhood and leave that man alone!!!
Regardless of the status of the man when they fucked she should have protected herself. Now the baby is here. Girl go to whatever length to make him accept his responsibility, if it means going to his office so be it. Do you even know his last name. Be prepared to dance naked if you truly want this. This is what l would have done at 16.
DeleteBut the most reasonable thing to do is to free him, delete his numbers and let him be. He is a part of your past. Struggle to give your baby the best within limits of your resources. Luckily government primary and secondary schools are free. The best in most fields today in our nation attended public schools. Don't stress yourself over what you can't control. Dont even dream that someday he will come looking for you. This what my younger sister did. Today her twenty year son is in his final year in the university.
Thank you and God bless for not aborting.
Josepsine the great
You mean "protected herself" from God's wrath?
DeleteAnon 17:31, God’s wrath? Haven’t you heard the good news? His mercy renews every morning and His love for us is unbreakable.
DeletePoster, your actions were wrong and the consequences great. But God’s love is greater. Leave that man alone. You are being vengeful and it is not your place. Take you sins to God and He will pull you through all of this.
It is and will be well.
Jesus will fix it.
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...hmmm.i'll read comments
ReplyDeleteDid I just read "God wanted it?"
ReplyDeleteI don't know why you are not taking responsibility for your actions..and I mean full responsibility!
You met someone once, he forgot about you and he contacted and then you crossed not less than 6 states, had raw sex, took no afterpills and expected what?
A PLASMA SCREEN TV???!! I am sure no one ever cursed you that you will be infertile.
He has told since the conception of that child that he doesn't want to have anything to do with it. That you kept the child shows you were ready to take "full responsibility".
He just donated the sperm...
Leave him and go hustle hard for that child who didn't ask to be born by your carelessness.
And the way you write...you seem to just want to be on the payroll of the father of your child, you ain't concerned about anything else.
dont mind the fulani cow she doesnt even have the courtesy of giving me the glory.
DeleteThey never pity the child who will grow up with no father figure and love. Most of them do this out of selfish motives. Please brace up and take care of your child.
DeleteYou're just realising that he's married with children???
ReplyDeleteWow..... Olorun a fun e se!!!
She is a liar she decided to share as your name implies 'cookie'
DeleteHahahaha.. What does she mean by "God wanted it that way he didnt use a condom" If he infected u with a disease ud say God wanted it that way abi? Oboy see that slap from Stella, lol, well deserved.
ReplyDeleteIs this fiction or girls trully do this? An unprotected one night stand with a stranger u dont even knw his last name.. hmm, you or the married man i dont know who's more stupid.
she is obviously the stupid one,guy man just got a free pussy. what would he do?
DeleteBoth of them are stupid and irresponsible. To born they hungry her, she think say na beans.
DeletePoster no advice from me to you!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
She deserves no advice foolish girl
DeleteI join my own slap to yours. Rubbish.
ReplyDeleteTwo years without him. May i ask for what exactly do you need him for now? You already made the mistake of sleeping with him without protection and without getting to know him better.Please let him be and raise your child.
ReplyDeleteYou don't know this is the time she will hear wen! School fees for nursery starts now.
DeleteSchool fees things. 😂
DeleteNa wa ooo....this one pass me.
ReplyDeleteWhat did I just read? Who sleeps with a man they know nothing about? To even make matters worse, without protection.
ReplyDeleteOh, how some women have become a cheap commodity!
A man that refused to accept the paternity of his child will not accept to pay child support.
Since you know his office, I'll advise you take the child with you to pay him a surprise visit. But, do not try to create a scene.
Also, I hope you are 💯 sure he's the father of your child?
Who sleeps with a man she knows nothing about? The lady who had sex with a guy within hours of meeting him in an elevator was celebrated on this blog. I guess you were among those that celebrated her
DeleteThe only difference here is that the man married the elevator lady while this poster is a baby mama
Invariably if it ends in marriage having sex first day is great, if it doesn't it is shameful. Hypocrisy
Josephine the great
@anonymous please, don't be too quick to add me to your bandwagon! I will never celebrate or applaud such a disgusting act.
DeleteI don't support immoral activities no matter who's involved.
You careless cheap hoes just bring in kids to suffer, you know u cant cater for d child, give it up for adoption if d father don't want it.
ReplyDeleteMy husband confessed his after d girl threatened to contact me, we called her n asked what she wants, she says money for d child, my hubs said drop d child with my wife, n we'll look after him, she refused, she left n started bugging le hubs, that one ignored her, she turned to me, I sent her small money,she told le hubs that I sent her money, he was so red in d eyes n warned me never to do it again so I stopped, d babe thought she could drive a wedge between hubs and I by telling him anything I discuss with her, I cut her off, she kept calling, texting n begging for money, I told her deal is off, when le hubs updated his will, he willed all estates between our three kids I asked him to include that child, he tore up d will n said he's gonna will everything to a charity if I ever mention that child again, anyway he re wrote d will again, didn't include d child, he included his late brother's two kids (nice man). Never heard from d baby mama for 8yrs now.numbers off, facebook, nil.
Are you serious? You were even nice to her by trying to accept the child and even sending her money!
DeleteI hope your husband learnt his lessons.
beats my imagination how a nice man can turn his back on his fleshnblood, even if it was a mistake by the lake... at least show support from a distance, that child shldnt pay 4ur stupidity
DeleteMaybe your husband later realised the child wasn’t his
DeleteMadam you have a very wicked husband
DeleteHow do expect a mother to drop her kid for you. She took care of that kid alone, something she and your useless husband did together. An innocent child is fatherless. He doesn't know what that child will be tomorrow. Tufiakwa
And you're proud of your wicked "le hubs" with a wandering dick?
DeleteNa who send her go chook man pikin , abeg stay well, he is not a wicked man.
DeleteWhy on earth will she drop her baby with you. The way you are foolishly rationalising the stupidity of your husband.
DeleteYour husband cheated on you without condom, came back home to place the same dick in your mouth and you are vomiting here instead doing asking you husband to be responsible for his actions. Somebody like you fit kill that baby
Josephine the great
Be deceiving yourself. See her calling "le hobbs".
DeleteIt will shock you when this girl presents your le hobb nobbs with another baby.
Your hubby got someone pregnant and you are entertaining her to the extent of sending money.
Better be watching that husband of yours so child 2 doesn't enter into equation
Things women do sha.
Poster you be mumu sha.
DeleteThis is Nigeria........ you better train your child yourself.
You got pregnant for a married man.
Cheap holes, your husband is a cheap stick. Are you even sure your wayward husband told her he is married
DeleteHahahahah, oh lurrrr, so I shuldve left him for her to come in? You girls got no experience, beds n roses chillax, wandering dic or not, I'm not leaving my home, your father's and husbands are saints whilst mine is the wanderer, kwakwakwakwakwakwa, for your info, he's retired n I'm in charge of EVERY SINGLE financial assets n chairlady of d company, I married a single older man, he's mid seventies and I'm late forties, so no fresh babe can try me now and go clean, that BM was lucky I was younger n compassionate, So relax, d babe won't come with another kid for ur peace of mind.
DeleteYou are even more senseless than the poster up there. Useless woman justifying nonsense
DeleteAnd why is your "nice man husbondage" denying a child he fathered?
DeleteDevil
DeleteMadam , Beg don't listen to all dis jobless and husbandless people talking trash here...
DeleteKeep ur man jareee. Even the marries ones talking dey house dey collect serious beating
Lol@le hubs. You are blaming the woman and not once did you blame your husband.
DeleteNot only did he cheat, got a woman pregnant and abandoned his own child! Your husband is wicked!!!!
wow!what a chronicle. Speechless.. that's how this makes me feel
ReplyDeleteYour hubby is the most stupid man in the world, why is he getting red up and down, your hubby obviously doesn't respect your opinion haba. He is tearing will, dint he pour his sperm into her even if he doesn't want to give her money now he should better include that child in his will cus that child is innocent. I thought I was angry at the poster but your hubby just made me even more angry. Chei
DeleteI'm amazed you're calling him a dead beat now. Wasn't he a deadbeat from the beginning when he heard of the pregnancy? Abortion is not an option but fornication is. He abandoned you all through and till now you're still disturbing him. What do you aim to achieve by the way? You've birthed the child what's stopping you from taking care of the child since the father was never a part of the plan before. You kept the child and I felt you even had the means to take care of it and now you're disturbing the father that told you clearly to leave him alone. What sort of advice do you want now? Go and make trouble at his office and watch yourself being kicked out by the security. I dunno when "us" girls will start having sense and draw the curtain when the ovation is loudest.
ReplyDeleteShe did well for not aborting; didn't she?
DeleteAre you encouraging the killing of innocent babies?
And are you encouraging disobeying Gods word?
DeleteExactly!! The hipocrisy of some people here is appalling! So fornication is pardonable but abortion suddenly becomes the greatest crime. None sense! Sleeping with the married man, stubbornly insisting on having the child, no concern for the legitimately married woman in the house - all are pardonable in 'their' eyes. They suddenly become holy and remember Gods words when they want to force someone to take up the responsibility of raising a child you insisted on having deliberately
DeleteTer
Pretend he is dead and focus on your baby. Are you looking for a hand me down?
ReplyDeletethe mistake has been made.stop collecting insults and being called a whore.
Forget about him.
Chaiiii!!!!! Receive brain in Jesus name....... Amen
ReplyDeleteAm just trying to gather advice for you poster but nahhhh e no work....huh????? Slept with someone u jst met for d first tym without protection haba haba..plus did u jst say God wanted it that way??? Na wa o
ReplyDeleteI really do not want to use the word stupid on you.... How could you sleep with a total stranger without protection? I am sure you knew he was married. Let me not talk too much because of the innocent child involved. Go to his office and get embarrassed. If your were in a relationship with him and this happened, it will have been another case.
DeleteWHAT ARRANT NONSENSE!!! IS THIS CHRONICLE REAL??!!!!!ARGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!
ReplyDeleteLet me read comments
ReplyDeleteI know someone who this same thing happened to and till today, the man has not acknowledged the existence of the child. In her case, the guy was married and she was a side chic, he told her all he wanted was ponyor and he gave her a very good life; got her an apartment in a nice area and a car too. This my big aunty(she's way older than I am) was already a single mother from a broken marriage oo! He was even footing bills for her son, the man's wife got to hear about her and embarrassed her in public severally. I don't know who told her that pregnancy was the key to everlasting enjoyment.
ReplyDeleteTo be continued
Who told you she had "everlasting enjoyment?"
DeleteAren't you deceiving yourself and her?
poster na wa for u ooo i dnt want to judge u bc anybdy cld hav made d same mistake but its still not a good tin.well sinc u wnt to knw yes there is child support in Nigeria,social welfare department.u can go to ministry of women affairs in abuja or u look for social welfare dpt in Lagos.if it favors u fine if it dosnt den jus forget abt the man and move on as he has moved on too.dnt cme and disrupt his happy family pls
ReplyDeleteNoooooo beebubble only senseless pple make this kind of mistake biko, she should go to his office an watch security throw her out.
DeleteYoung Lady, it is such a shame that you added lol in ur chronicle and even acknowledged the fact that it is God's will to have the baby as in the wish of God for the man to impregnate you forgetting that the judgement day is coming. I don't blame him for calling you a gold digger because he must have lodged you in one of the expensive hotels in Lagos which made you to fall for him and sleep without protection. My advice is for you to train the child in the way of God with ur last kobo and forget the man bcos calling ur lawyer of going to his office is to break his home. Girls should learn lesson from ur chronicle and I believe ur parents will be ashamed of you. Now ur a single mother, you should focus on ur career and pray God to forgive and give u a husband.
ReplyDeleteWell said my dear... She even added her yeye lol walahi my body dey pepper me as I dey see D's chronicle
DeleteAbuja runs girl. The preconceived plot backfired big time. I pity the poor child who didn't ask for this.
ReplyDeleteThe way girls open their legs to gbensh these days is just so alarming.
ReplyDeletePoster, just carry ur cross.
Part 2;
ReplyDeleteShe faked a pregnancy and told him she had taken in, the man gave her money for an abortion and told her he didn't want a repeat episode. She eventually got pregnant for real and told him she was preggers again. The guy cut her off immediately, stopped the flow of cash and goodies and told he was willing to take her back if she had an abortion, my aunty refused oo! That was the end of that relationship till today. She went round his family members telling them to plead on her behalf, the guy didn't budge. His wife even heard about it and begged her hubby to at least give my aunty a monthly stipend, the guy no gree oo! You need to see my aunty today, she's not finds it easy at all. Hopefully, the guy will remember he has a child somewhere one day and take responsibility.
Moral of my epistle; you can never use belle to catch anybody na you go take head carry the consequences.
What kind of stupid mistake is this, my advice to you is to keep the baby to yourself
ReplyDeleteYour carelessness caused this your drama, see let me tell you train your child by yourself don't involve him cos by so doing his wife will no about it and is gonna cause a lot of havoc
ReplyDeletePoster, please forget the guy and move on, you only have been taking care of the baby yourself, so keep doing that, because who knows that might be a married man
ReplyDeleteshut up and stop saying nonsense God will never want you to have premarital sex talk more of doing it skin to skin, it all my doing so give me the glory.
ReplyDeleteBia poster hwy are you so stupid? What were you expecting after you had unprotected sex for the time? A tuber of yam? Mtcheeeew let me not even waste time reading the rest of your stupid story, coz its obvious you have always been enveloped by a huge bubble of stupidity.
ReplyDeleteYou need more than an E-slap. Who in his right senses will accept such a child knowing fully well that you look, sound and behave like a Hoe. You met someone casually and he calls you out of the blues after 4years and pronto you travel from Abuja to Lagos and spread your legs without protection. Tell me if you are not a perfect example of a cheap prostitute. You now call him up to say you are pregnant. You sound like a gold digger who wants to tie a man down with a pregnancy. Now the deed is done and you want him to take responsibility? Just take care of the child and forget about him. You can't force him to be in your child's life. He has clearly shown he is not interested. And you might try to get back at him by telling his wife. You would add a homebreaker to your qualification. And it won't help your situation but worsen it. Just raise your child and pretend he has no father. And it shows the man is also a hegoat. He sleeps with a woman he has not seen in 4 years unprotected. You both deserve each other..... Hegoat and Hoe.
ReplyDeleteAre u sure u re not hiv+ plus other stds... geez u slept wt someone u just met without condom. Chime! Hw do u even expect him to accept d child u re as cheap as .... my dear it's hard to see a man dat would after one night stand...
ReplyDeleteYou deserve that slap Stella gave you. As for advice, ask God since you had the stupid guts to say He approved your whoring about and pregnancy 😩
ReplyDeleteChronicles of an ashawo.
ReplyDeleteNa this kind poster dey spoil some better girls outside wey born pikin for one circumstance or the other, this agbaya 'travel ' all the way from abuja to lagos according to her out of 'boredom' you need to cool off, ok that one dey, but you get mind open leg chook the guy 'skin/skin', and as you kolo reach you carry the same sperm inside you travel go back lol, this girl don craze o. Call man pikin wey just meet you after how years say you get belle . A man wey no promise you shit let alone mess, you well so ? You think say na chronicle you send ba? Carry your kaya and no even try to disgrace yourself say you dey go him office
ReplyDeletebut bane you need serious slap wey go make you feel better that's the solution to your chronicle annoying poster.
So in ur wildest dreams, u think a man u met once, didn't get to see or even hear frm him again until after 2yrs, called frm nowhere, convinced u to come over, u packed ur two left legs (as a ho dt u are), u didn't just go n hv fun, u actually went and had sex, not just sex but unprotected one at that with a TOTAL STRANGER then 2weeks down, u are calling to say u are pregnant.
ReplyDeleteAunty, if that man were to b ur brother and he tells u this story would u advice him to take responsibilities ? Knowing fully well u portrayed ur self as a HO? probably he SETTLED U WELL just like any other "ash*wo" .
My dear, I do not feel ur pain but dt of the innocent child dt wouldn't get to meet/know his dad or any of his relatives. Better start thinking of what to tell dt innocent baby wen he starts asking abt daddy.
Brave up and take responsibilities for ur carelessness.
That man probably thinks
ReplyDeleteThat man probably thinks u are an official whore considering ur meeting and subsequent easy gbenshing so he CAN NEVER buy ur story unless he agrees to do a DNA which might be d least of his problems
ReplyDeleteDid i just read right, let me go back and read again. I am coming.
ReplyDeleteWhattttttt....I cannot believe what i just read....i do not want to believe it is real. If it is real then first and foremost poster you are very very stupid,senseless human being Infact, the names i have for you endless....whattttt
ReplyDeleteYou went to Lagos to trap him..Having sex with a man you met and he lodged you in a hotel and not his place.....commonnnnn i can see every reason why he called you a slut. You seem desperate as you were not in a relationship so you needed someone to tie down so you went to Lagos and had UNPROTECTED SEX and also forgot there is morning after pills to take. Who does that Stupid Stupid Stupid...
You think this is abroad that you might have a case my dear you are going to lose any battle you try to fight. As you decided to have the baby better provide and take care of the child...as you nor first get sense...
I wish i could see you and slap the living day light outta you. I can't believe we have people like you in this Nigeria. Wonders shall never end. Oturugbeke.
Please go back to 1corinthians 6:19 and stop deceiving yourself that God wanted it that way, it is your nice nature that wanted it that way, take responsibility for your action. No advise for you cos u will get it here and be ready for backlash. I will just read comments.
ReplyDeletePoster first of all I want to say I'm proud of you for having the baby. I have been in a similar situation and I was not woman enough to accept responsibility and I had an abortion. I'm not better than you and a lot of the people judging you aren't.
ReplyDeleteBack to the topic, you are at fault for having unprotected sex with him just like he is also at fault for putting his d*ck inside you without rubber, nobody forced him. He should take responsibility. My advice is to talk to a lawyer to see if there is anything that can be done legally. While that is going on, please try to work and make something of yourself so that either way your child will be fine and you can focus your energy on moving on.
Stella, please how can I be connected with this poster to confirm the story and do the little that I can? I'll keep refreshing to see if you respond.
I am proud of you for keeping the child and I know that God will look upon that decision to favor you and promote you. God bless you.
Some girls can be impossible, well will not insult but you must be hallucinating if you think that the man will accept the baby, put yourself in the mans shoes now, both of erred but he told you initially that he did not want so, carry your cross next time be careful not all that glitters is gold.
ReplyDeletePoster I don't envy you an inch but judging you won't solve your problem either. Firstly, I think you need to seek the advice of your parents and hear them out.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, go with a lawyer to his office so you can talk things out. Besides, you can't force him to take up the responsibility as there was never a relationship between you too.
Thirdly, for the sake of your son's future, don't get close to the man to avoid battles for him. Just get proper details of the man because your son will ask you who is father is and where is from.
ALL THE best.
Nkea bu ikpe Aramara,Nne,kara obi zuo nwa ime mkpuke ituru.udo!
ReplyDeleteLol,anony, obi adiro gi mma chai ikpe aramara
DeleteNkea bu ikpe Aramara,Nne,kara obi zuo nwa ime mkpuke ituru.udo!
ReplyDeleteYou are a cheap slut indeed! You knew he was married when you slept with him. You didn't wonder why he lodged you in a hotel when you visited him. You better go and raise your child because his wife will never want another child to intrude her home. His family is all that matter to him. Next time, close your legs.
ReplyDeleteThis life is funny shaa.
ReplyDeleteThis story reminds of a Guy that called my line out of the blues and said someone gave him my number. We became acquintance through phone shaa. He had a sweet voice, like 29-32 years.
He started sending me money, the first money he sent me was 40k, subsequently the money sending continued ooo.
I don't know him neither have I met him in real life. It was solely on phone
He started inviting me to his base in Abuja, sent flight tickets😇 to me. I kukuma declined ooo, when my phone was bad, he called and was like he couldn't reach me for sometime, Kilo happen.... I told him
He asked what type of phone I want, I said blackberry z30, cos my bad phone was bb z10. He said it's too cheap, that I should be talking about Blackberry Porsche😇. My jaw dropped ooo, just like that. I still declined his offer about visiting a total stranger, my longer throat never reach that one, b4 person pikin will just kpai because of fone.
After some years of talking to a stranger, he agreed to come to my base. He invited me to his hotel suite. I went with my Big Aunty. You need to see this man face, he was livid with anger cos I came with my aunt. He didn't even offer us common H20
He couldn't hide it..... He asked why I came with someone ooo.
The stranger was a 40+ year old men, he has a small stature shaa.
Imagine, if I went alone, what would have happened.
I left with my aunt shaa, he called me and was kinda apologising for his rude behaviour.
He tried to cajole me into visiting him again that he want us to go for SUMMER VACATION in UK. The man get parole shaa, but my liver no reach abeg. My aunt said I shld 've gone, that He looks harmless and smells of money
He still calls till date.
Why did I write a long narrative like this...... Some circumstances can be avoided especially when you are OVULATING, body dey sweet no be small.
Babe, why didn't you take a morning after pill,
This story for no come chronicles diary.
Why have sex without protection??If you are working and capable of taking care of your child,please continue to do that and save yourself from embarrassment.Keep sending him pictures of the child,perhaps that will change his mind too.Useless married men who go sleeping around,God will continue to punish you
ReplyDeleteWhat about useless ladies that go around sleeping with married men?
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Poster you need Jesus
ReplyDeleteWhy the insults please,yes she made a mistake by playing smart with the guy thinking she can hold him with preggy but I also think the guy is stupid.the deed has been done i don't support any of dis,but haba you guys take it easy with the insults.I'm very sure most of you here do have unprotected sex as well and then you come here to rubbish someone as if she is not human.
ReplyDeleteOoooooboy!
ReplyDeleteI feel very sad reading this chronicles.
Wish I could just hold your hands and tell you that everything will be alright.
What of your parents, can't they speak with the baby daddy? The friend nko? Have you tried to locate him and tell him of your plight? The man should be held responsible for putting you in a family way and abandoning you.
I would suggest that you start by trying to know his real names, town and important stuff about him. Try and connect him on any of the social media.
I won't advice that you meet him in the office with his child.
Go to the office with maybe your parent,or a Lawyer if you can afford one, but for goodness sake go with a matured and reasonable person you don't need to create a scene there.
If he's in doubt, let him order for a DNA.
May God Almighty show you grace, Amen.
Poster I put it to you that you were pregnant and went to Lagos just to trap this man. If you could fornicate why couldn't you abort it?
ReplyDeleteExactly! If you can fornicate why can't you abort? One sin isn't "bigger" than the other. If you knew you were too holy to abort then that holiness should have translated into a strong aversion for fornication. Since the end product of unprotected fornication is pregnancy.
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Why bring God into your own mess and stupidity???? You knew he was married and you went on sleeping with him lol if not you shouldn't have slept with him in an hotel,you should have asked to be taken to his house...to think he will father your mistake child sorry..hear yourself because you were out of a relationship so you honored the invitation to go and have sex lol see the result nau..are you one of those abj Anty old sisi looking for how to rope a man into your own planed predicament??? Go get a job face the life of bringing up that child just like you did till you have he or she...you won't tell me as old as you may be that after knowing you didn't use protection you forgot to take care of that sperm lol no young and vibrant girl who is not ready for drama would do that
ReplyDeleteOne night stand
ReplyDeleteNo be small one night stand.
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