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Hi Stella, 

I really need to get this off my chest and seek the opinion of BVs.


so I'm married and I have had a crush on my wifes' friend ever since the day I met her, let's call her Deborah. Shes just my type, cute height, eloquent, huge bum.. She's just sexy...
one day, she came over to visit the wifey, this time she came with a guy and said they were getting married with invites to their wedding, I was so jealous, so jealous that I opted not to attend the wedding with wifey which is now 5years ago..


so last month, after a couple of months of seeing her become very active on instagram, (we ff each other), I summoned liver to send her a DM telling her she looked good and seemed very happy and asked how her husband was, in about 5mins, she responded saying, "oh hi, I'm great and happy someone notices that I'm happy, I'm sure my husband is fine, we are now separated, thanks for checking on me" .. I was shocked cos they seemed good together and happy, but a selfish side of me wasn't exactly feeling sorry for her..


So I probed and she opened up about what led to their separation, apparently the guy was a "monster" and a serial cheat, she said she only enjoyed the 1st 8months or so of her marriage, the remaining years were miserable. She said she was loyal, forgave him each time, never denied him sex, She went as far as saying the guy started asking her for anal, initially she said no but gave in, I was like damn! Did she just give me sexual details between she and her spouse? 

She went further about how she would suck his dick whilst he drove at night to spice things up and that there were times he would go flaccid when they were having sex. Omo! I was turned on bad from all she typed and still in shock that she was telling me that much, for someone I hadn't said anything beyond hi to, we were talking about s§x, explicitly, within 2hours, out of the blue, randomly.


After a while, we moved to whatsapp, and then phone calls, I then asked why she hadn't come to visit the wife in over 3years, she said marriage and work took all of her and she and madam grew apart, at this point I'm smiling, (Ope oo! They r no longer friends), I'm like ok cool!

 I then gathered liver to say I had a crush on her for years, she was shocked, said she felt I was snobbish, and that she's surprised, that she felt I didn't like her, I told her I had to act that way for obvious reasons, she opened up and said she always thought I was hot and her type of guy, I was like freallllllll?????? she said yes, and that she smiled when she saw my DM. At this point we had been communicating for 6hours, from work to the house, it was the weirdest experience I had ever had, cos it was random, and we were about to venture into something that wud alter our lives forever.


To cut the story short, we ended up having phone sex that night, and planned to see on the Friday of that week, we couldn't wait. We met at a coded bar, was initially awkward but we had to over come that, we made out, alot. Couldn't stop kissing each other, her hands were in my pants half the time. She said she loved size, perfect for her. We got a room and had crazy wild sex, but there was something I noticed, I realised the reason her husband kept asking for anal, I don't mean to put her down, but she could comfortable park a trailer in her poom poom! 

Not like she had had kids so I was perplexed, her mileage was obviously very high, no offense to the ladies. I was a bit disappointed and all of a sudden started to feel for her, cos it could well have been the reason her husband "changed it" for her and to the best of my knowledge, theres nothing she can do to improve that department and so she would have major insecurities.


anyway, by the time I got home, I was filled with guilt, cos I had crossed a point of no return, I had joined the league of men that have slept with their wives' friends. I started to feel I made a mistake, that intensity we had communicating went from 1000m/h to 0.. It was weird, we didn't talk the next day, well, may be just asked how our days went. On the 3rd day, she started calling and texting, asking when we cud see and that she was horny and all but that she noticed I was withdrawn, I told her I felt guilty and pleaded with her to let me wrap my head around what we did. 

The Weekend came along, she asked if we could see, I told her we couldn't cos I had to go to work, I ended up not going cos the meeting was cancelled. So I'm home relaxing in the living room, wifey runs down the stairs to get the door, I twist my neck to see who comes in, lo and behold, its Deborah, I almost collapsed, I could tell that she was also shocked to see me, wifey then says, "babe, you remember Deborah right?", I'm like " uhhhhmmm, oh yes, ahn ahn long time, how's your husband?", she responds, "hiiiiii, he's fine thank you, how are u?" .. I never knew I could act, I couldn't believe it. 

My heart rate sky rocketed but I had to be calm. They both went to the family lounge upstairs and we're there for more than 2hours gisting passionately, I see such things in movies and I couldn't believe I was experiencing it. I kept pacing about, attempting to eaves drop but they were whispering. From that moment, I realised that the fear of women was the beginning of wisdom.


Deborah eventually went home, wifey seemed like her normal self, I watched her for a while and concluded I was off the hook, (for now). So I called Deborah later in the day to ask what she was up2 and her agenda, she responded saying she didn't know I would be home since I said I had work, I was once again weak, I said "so if I went out, I would never had known you came by" , she kept quiet, then gave me the shocker, "I'm sorry, I lied to you, we have actually been communicating for months, we just never saw, we had been talking about my divorce and best solution and other matters, I'm like " whattttttttt? U mean you both are still close? And u were comfy fucking me?", she just started begging and apologising, that it felt so good to be chased by a man after a bad marriage, that I made her feel wanted and special and she couldn't resist regardless of the relationship with her friend and that I should understand.

. I told her we couldn't see anymore and that it's best we stayed away from each other because it will end in pain and possibly blood shed.. Because it had now become a case of extreme treachery and that I didn't like the fact that she had some type of "upper hand" in my household, collecting info from both husband and wife. She said she understood how I felt and that she would let me be.


House, before you all crucify me, sleeping with her friend is wrong, I was foolish to think they were no longer close, I acted on a long nursed crush. Cheating has no exceptions, but truth is, there is forgivable cheating, but this one could end up in severe hurt on several counts, the fact that we acted like we didn't know each other wen she came would be painful for wifey, the fact that wifey was trying to put her through her bad marriage and she turned round to sleep with her husband could put lives in danger, not that wifey is violent, but it could reveal her dark side.

so I come to you for advice, what's the best way to tackle this matter, come clean to wifey or keep away from Deborah and be as diplomatic as possible? In as much as I'm afraid of debs and what agenda she has, I don't think she's that crazy to put her life and reputation at risk.



*Come clean to your wife and severe that friendship cos if she really wants you,she can get rid of your wife cos she has access to her.

Come clean to your wife to avoid what Deborah might have planned.

Advice that your blokos to respect itself.....Your wife's friend is a no go area...you bloody HO!!!

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