The photos were shared on the social media and all hell broke loose...
Marrying one person whilst still married to another is not regarded as a crime in Nigeria...
Yes I have seen cases that even people who wed in court,do so again without getting a divorce and nothing happens to them.
If you do this in another Country where the Law works,you do time in Jail......
He is cooling in hot soup..m
ReplyDeleteThe man night have divorced her without her knowledge. In the uk if you are saperated for a certain number of years and your address is not traceable by spouse, bailiff will send the petition to the last address known, they will then wait for few weeks for you to sign, if you don't they will go ahead with the decree Nissan and absolute thingy. Let the so called wife check the registrars office at her council, if she's not registered divorced then she can sue the man for bigamy and if case is won, Mr.will have a long vacation in prison with his red passport recalled upon completion if he's got one.
DeleteThis happened to a friend of mine. Finally they are divorced because the man chose the white lady. He couldn't bear to go to jail . But my friend caused it, she knew from the start and even the man asked her not to post their marriage pictures online but she refused. But she is married again sha. Some people are just lucky like that.
ReplyDeleteWhy did she post the pictures nau, must she "pepper dem"
DeleteSome girls no dey hear sha...
My aunt is married to a man in this type of arrangement, and she is so coded with her family, even the man is not on any social media platforms, just Wattsapp and on his Wattsapp, he has never had a profile picture... lol
This hustle is no joke o, I respect everyone in this way of life because e no easy at all.
My uncle did this same thing and his naija wife never for once posted pics of their wedding.
DeleteBabes do not care anymore provided the foreign currency flows in well on regular basis.
God forbid I engage in something like this
Let him come and explain himself. Gill shouldn't worry herself. Unless oga plans on living in naija permanently she can always get him arrested if he goes back.
ReplyDeleteOga just marry this white woman for paper and for work while his heart is for the wife in Nija. Na him sabi
ReplyDeleteNa wah oh!
ReplyDeleteEnd time men everywhere!
Na wa
ReplyDeleteGhen,ghen! .... E don happen.
ReplyDeleteWahala dey *in Brymo's voice*
ReplyDeleteWhen will all these old white women be wise. I bet they even met on facebook. Once you hear of a Nigerian man, shine your eyes. Even us living with them here, most of us know their tricks.
ReplyDeleteI know a lady who was a nurse here, had one daughter. Her husband travelled to UK and married a white woman he met on facebook. With the wifes knowledge. The plan was that he will send for their daughter first since she's very young it will be easier, then send for her later.
He later sent for the daughter, and after stopped calling her and picking the wifes calls.
She didn't see her daughter for years. She finally found a way to illegally get to the UK, shes working with someone's name and has to even beg to speak to her daughter on the phone.
The little girl even calls the white lady mummy. The white lady doesn't have any kids and has made that child hers. The white woman is very rich, and she and the man run her family business together. I guess she paid the man more than his wife.
I am very sure this calabar wife has been with this man since and knows about the whole arrangement.
@ your story,wow! Just wow!
DeleteHow someone wil do that to a wife is something I don't get.
And how u the so-called wife wil agree to This kind of arrangement is just beyond me!
Anyways,from what I read,this new "wife" knew about the man's wife. She knew and played along.
Now what I don't understand is her coming to FB to flaunt the man and their "union"
Is it that the man didn't tell her? (You know sometimes God works in miraculous ways! Unbelievable but The cheat could have actually forgotten to tell her)
Or did he warn her not to but she didn't think anything of it. Didn't think of the implications and the consequences of posting those pictures.Did she think "Oh The wife wouldn't see. You Know the Nigerian Facebook doesn't reach to Obodo oyibo Facebook🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hain.... Wicked man!!!
DeletePerson wey marry Oyinbo never marry oooo, expecially if you did it for the Passport. pikin no b your own, property no be your own, money self no be your own even if na you de earn am. The hustle is rea oo abeg, make una no de here de yearn Okpata.
ReplyDeleteMan wey carry 6 months Visa enter Jand, hang, him eye de red oo. na survival be the matter ooo. And for real, his future is back home in the Zanga, men.
Reality.
Na so Brother. They no go understand.
DeleteMarrying 2 people in court in Nigeria is a crime but the parties involved hardly sue,so stop passing wrong info,even abroad people marry multiple times without divorce and many are never found out,go watch "who the hell did I marry".
ReplyDeleteExactly ooo...Bigamy in Nigeria carries 5 years jail term. Please always pass correct info.
DeleteBut, we are Africans and polygamy, or if you want to call it Bigamy, is quite legal here. Gill should take a chill pill after all, na she go marry African man
ReplyDeleteYou are permitted to marry 1 wife under the law and many other traditionally..
DeleteReally?? That is if your legally married wife allow that.
DeleteAre you aware he is an african man and african men are entitled to marry as many as 4? So somebody cannot use una for papers again without you all putting emotions into everytin abi?
ReplyDeleteIf somebody marry you for paper and dump you later, will you be happy? Remember they're humans too and have feelings.
DeleteThis is not new again, it happens here and there.
ReplyDeleteMy husband friend married a white woman in the uk, came back to Nigeria to marry his lover, she traveled to uk to birth her first child and that is it.
They did everything coded that the man was living with the white woman while the Nigeria wife stayed with the Man's sister. He got his papers divorce the white lady and he is now living with the Nigeria wife with 3kids now.....it is matter of understanding
And if somebody treats you like that white lady you'll be happy right?
DeleteSee his life outside....shit happen....He should have warned the Nigerian lady not to post any pics on social media......Nija runs
ReplyDeleteStella U don join me to say IF IT IS TRUE...this one na natural occurrence everyday..Man must whack!!
ReplyDeleteEven the white man knows very well that is not very easy to stay marriage with
ReplyDeletea white woman,,some of them are good thouhg but alots of them are good for
boyfriend and girlfriend things,
its africa condition makes them using black guys here as there slaves in marriage.
you will pity some black guys here really.i am happy for the man who remembered
his old age now,,,who no go no see
If you believe all this American woman screaming biogamy your are dead. I know about a Spanish American lady that has abused a Nigeria man for good 3years. They only marry Nigeria man because they want to use them to get there bad record straight and they are infected with sort of disease. They make Nigeria man a victim because their country name is in bad sharp already. Nigeria man be careful of disease America woman are bring to our country. Don’t get used in property scam.
ReplyDeleteNigerians be aware of Americans coming to Nigeria to marry our man. They are coming home with infection. They will only use you for property purchase and you will be dumb at the end.
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