Now to our Meeting, I need to give a little background so it might be a long read. Buggle up lets roll.....
Im 30 years old and i have been married for 10 years with four kids ( 2 boys and 2 girls). Met my hubby at a very tender age in my SS2.
I went to an all girls Unity Boarding school outside my state. He was sent to our school for his youth service and we were from my same state with a surname that rang a bell.. unto golden spoon children and he was finnnne for Africa ( chei!!! Sexy boy). You know girls school na, we all drooled. But he looked very proud, so I avoided him like plague. He rarely laughs, and goes about his bussiness with so much seriousness.
Then i used to represent my school a lot in quiz competitions and i was the school's choirmistress . He was later assigned to be taking us out on our different outings. Before I knew it, we just started talking to each other. And he one day mentioned he never believed I could talk to him that I looked saucy. Lol.
I got to know him and realized he was a very nice and humble guy. Very down to earth and real. We started our friendship and he was like an Elder bro to me. He will bring me provisions, toiletries including pad sef. He knew when I was on.
We were that close. So much that my parents coming during visiting day didnt make much meaning again. I lived like a queen. We talked on every issue when I visited him in the staff room when we had no lectures and sometimes when school is over and that was our only meeting place.
Ranging from my fears in life, my ambition and of course SEX. And he keeps drumming into my ears that any man that sleeps with me now only wants the cookie. And nothing else. So I should keep myself and all that.
Then one day, he asked if I was a virgin, I told him No (but I was) and he said even if I wasn't, I shouldn't accept it with anyone again.
Then during one of the visiting day, my parents met him and I got him introduced to them as our Brother corper that has been like a brother to me. My parents thanked him and daddy gave him some good cash and left.
Our gossip spread everywhere that am dating a corper. So much that our Principal summoned us and begged him that if he has anything in mind that he should please desist. That i am too brilliant to be messed up.
Then he passed out while we were writing our promotion exams to SS3. I cried for days. He cried too and I promised to visit him in Uyo when i was home for holidays.
But time and events made me forget him and I never visited till I wrote my Waec and went back home.
Then during one of the visiting day, my parents met him and I got him introduced to them as our Brother corper that has been like a brother to me. My parents thanked him and daddy gave him some good cash and left.
Our gossip spread everywhere that am dating a corper. So much that our Principal summoned us and begged him that if he has anything in mind that he should please desist. That i am too brilliant to be messed up.
Then he passed out while we were writing our promotion exams to SS3. I cried for days. He cried too and I promised to visit him in Uyo when i was home for holidays.
But time and events made me forget him and I never visited till I wrote my Waec and went back home.
Then one day,I sat with my mum to watch the network news and his dad name was mentioned and mum casually asked that must be the corper's dad and I said yes. And that i wonder how he looks like now as I haven't set my eyes on him since he left our school.
Then one day, I entered their streets and decided to surprise him. By then, I had started driving mum's car and wanted to show him his "baby" like he used to call me is now a big girl. I knocked on their gate, uniform men came out and I asked after him. They told me he no more lived there with his parents and I was given his own address.
Ok o..... i went home. And one weekend, during Jamb classes in the evening, I went looking for him. I went to the compound, asked of him and his security told me he just drove in and asked me if he was expecting me. I said No but gave him my name, he left. Before I could say jack, I saw my Boo opened the gate and gave me the longest hug ever.
Then one day, I entered their streets and decided to surprise him. By then, I had started driving mum's car and wanted to show him his "baby" like he used to call me is now a big girl. I knocked on their gate, uniform men came out and I asked after him. They told me he no more lived there with his parents and I was given his own address.
Ok o..... i went home. And one weekend, during Jamb classes in the evening, I went looking for him. I went to the compound, asked of him and his security told me he just drove in and asked me if he was expecting me. I said No but gave him my name, he left. Before I could say jack, I saw my Boo opened the gate and gave me the longest hug ever.
He usher me into his house and we talked, talked and talked. Took me around his house and showed me everywhere. He had started work and was doing well. I made dinner and we ate. While cleaning up the dishes in the kitchen, he came behind and hugged me. Turned me around and started kissing me. And told me, Baby i have always loved you And I told him "then Lets make love".
He asked me "Are you sure?", I replied yes. He carried me to his Bedroom, undressed me and started romancing me. He kept asking me if am sure I wanna do this. Lol
When it was time for the do, come see tool. Chai.... He wore his CD and tried inserting but it was locked up. Though i was very wet, he thought I didnt open up well and he pumped in. OMG....The pain was out of this world and I bled. He withdrew, went down and looked at my v, saw blood on his bedspread. The guy just went limped, realizing that he just disvirgined me. He became sad and asked why I lied to him in school. I replied it wasn't necessary.
I almost had to beg him to continue and it took a while before he went hard again. He made love to me few days to my 17th birthday. Took me to the bathroom, gave me a warm bath. I told him I needed to go home as it was almost 8pm. He drove me home and I promised to visit him again but that was it.
Then I travelled out for a year and we totally lost contact. I lost his number as i didnt have a phone by then. Unknowing to me, he has been going to our house to check on me but our security kept posing him and couldn't tell him ive traveled. Nor give him my contact.
Then I came back, got admission, started school and went into other relationships at different times. I got angry with him because i felt he didnt look for me. Not knowing he has been trying his best to reach me. But I couldn't take him out of my mind.
One day in my second year, I met an old classmate and the next thing she said was "Boo" has been looking everywhere for me o. And that I should please try and call him. He gave me his number. I called him immediately and just by saying "Hello" , he called me name. He asked too many questions at the same time. I couldn't answer all. I told him am at the hostel. It was on a Thursday. He drove down, and took me home. I told him everything. He gave me his own side of story and how many people he met, so he could reach me. We talked at length, and I forgave him.
Time to go back to the hostel, he said "you are going nowhere, and you better start getting used to been here". I told him i didnt come with any of my things. He said I shouldn't bother. He left me there, drove out and bought me everything I will need. So much clothes with perfect fittings. He came back, we ate and he gave me a bath. Took me to the room, cuddled me and we slept. I was under house arrest from Thursday to sunday. He never made love to me but we kissed.
Then he asked me to pack on sunday so he will drop me at the hostel. But on our way back, he took another way and I asked him why? He said he wants to drop something for his dad. He took me to his parent's house and to my greatest surprise, he told his parents he brought his wife to them and that he plans on getting married as soon can as possible. His mum was forced to ask me if Im pregnant, I said no and we all laughed. No one understood the rush. Mind you, we NEVER talked marriage and I was just 19.
His parents fell in love with me immediately and his dad said I should go home and tell me parents they are expecting guests the following day by 5.
I was confused, because I was in a relationship though it was full of troubles as he was outside the country, and I wasn't ready for marriage. I looked jazzed. I went home to talk to mummy but she didnt accept o. Especially when i mentioned his name and my mum shouted "The corper" and gave me side eyes like "This gurl don spoil tey" so i had to explain and explain that its not what she thought and I told her the entire truth. Then she said I was too young to get married and I had to cry and beg. We went together to see my dad and my dad accepted.
The following day, himself, dad and uncle visited my parents and introduction was fixed the following sunday. He never even proposed to me, he didnt want to have sex with me. Though i tried initiating it and he insisted he is not going to take advantage of me again. That If i want him to sleep with me again, i should MARRY him. NO PROPOSAL, NO RING.
His parents fell in love with me immediately and his dad said I should go home and tell me parents they are expecting guests the following day by 5.
I was confused, because I was in a relationship though it was full of troubles as he was outside the country, and I wasn't ready for marriage. I looked jazzed. I went home to talk to mummy but she didnt accept o. Especially when i mentioned his name and my mum shouted "The corper" and gave me side eyes like "This gurl don spoil tey" so i had to explain and explain that its not what she thought and I told her the entire truth. Then she said I was too young to get married and I had to cry and beg. We went together to see my dad and my dad accepted.
The following day, himself, dad and uncle visited my parents and introduction was fixed the following sunday. He never even proposed to me, he didnt want to have sex with me. Though i tried initiating it and he insisted he is not going to take advantage of me again. That If i want him to sleep with me again, i should MARRY him. NO PROPOSAL, NO RING.
Well, three months later, we got married, Traditionally, court and church wedding. It was a reunion for our old girls. My former Principal came to my wedding and till today, no one believed I didnt date him in school. Its 10 years now, i graduated, im working, with four kids and our love life is overwhelming. I couldn't have made any other choice. He is simply the Best.
Kaiiii really sweet story.thanks for sharing oh....
Please if you have meeting point stories,please share with us!
When she sent this story eh,it wasnt complete and i was so desperate to read it to the end..LOL
Kaiiii really sweet story.thanks for sharing oh....
Please if you have meeting point stories,please share with us!
When she sent this story eh,it wasnt complete and i was so desperate to read it to the end..LOL
Wow! Nice and well written article even Newsprex and Prexblog certifies this.
ReplyDeleteChoi! Ogini? See love ooo! I really like this one. E pass Telemundo own sef. I don't encourage underage romance normally, but with this I will pass, it is the exception for me. Kai! I love love sha...ππ
DeleteI legit shed a few tears. Romantic. ππππ
DeleteHer story reminded me of those pacesetters novels.... Evbu my love,fresh start and the rest....so sweet
DeleteAwww. Lovely meeting point.
ReplyDeleteHow come he slept with a 17 year old abi how old were you when he disvirgined you?
May the good Lord continue to bless your marriage and bless those that are still searching with the bone of their bone and flesh of their flesh.
Try and read again and comprehend
Delete*Larry was here*
You are very lucky you met a good man. At 17 u were having sex. The only good thing there is that it was protected. I hope u don't judge single mothers cos y'all the same. Thank God for you and hubby. I hope his dad is not one of the politicians robbing Nigeria blind. Good luck to you both.
DeleteWhat's the relevance of your question?
DeleteMiss Starry Larry I understood what I read very well. Maybe you are the one having it difficult comprehending what I wrote up there. Read and comprehend again. ✌️
DeleteLegal eagle nor mind dem. Na becos de story sweet well well.
DeleteLol anon what is wrong with you, so much pain. What a sweet story
DeleteThis is so sweet..
ReplyDelete*Wakes up from dream land
ReplyDelete*wipes tears
I didn't say anything o.. .
Very True And Sweet Story..May your Marriage continue to wax Stronger.
Nice story
Deletechai stella sef u too like sweet tins eh. d story sweet jare no be lie
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww
ReplyDeleteThis is all shades of lit!π
I particularly found it romantic tooπ
All the "carrying"π
Happy wife,sweet story,Forever to you guys!π
See my shining my teeth all through... better gist jare.
ReplyDeleteMay love find me oo
Awwww, So sweet. God bless and keep your home.
ReplyDeleteToo sweet.....so similar to mine bet we waited till I was 24,hahaha!
DeleteMay your home know no sorrow dear poster!!
Sooooo sweet.
ReplyDeleteYour meeting point is so interesting.God please pick my own call too.
ReplyDeletelovely meeting point. all single ladies and men, you will meet your love very soon in a memorable way.
ReplyDeleteAmin!
DeleteBeautiful, tho I know some people will still come here to quote bible page. Congratulations my dear....
ReplyDeleteIf dem quote nko? Me sha I enjoy am.
DeleteAwwwww *sniff sniff* Just beautiful!
ReplyDeleteAwwww!!! I love the relationship between you and your mom. God bless your union.
ReplyDeleteI smiled all through while reading it. Guess, when you know, you know.
ReplyDeleteAn interesting writeup i must admit. Your Union is Celebrated. Kudos to you and your Husband.
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwww so cute
ReplyDeleteNow u gonna make my cry ππππππ’π’π’π’π’. Story is too sweet chai, u just made my day. I'm a sucker for love sha. #alwaysbeenaromantic
ReplyDeleteVery interesting writeup, May your home keep getting stronger
ReplyDeleteThis is really beautiful..I smiled all through.
ReplyDeleteMy story is very very similar to this.
If I told you guys my story, y'all will be amazed.
I love love.
Maybe when I have the time, I'd send my story to Stella.
Nwanyi Afikpo
Send send send ππΌππΌππΌ
DeleteTell us na
DeleteAbeg tell us please na.
DeleteSomething like this almost happened to me but I ran due to fear.
Same here with me but next year will decide our fate, I'm so scared
DeleteWow nice story ..
DeleteBut wait ooh you had your first sex at 17 ? π wowza !
I'm 27 now , heard my first at 25 π actually thought it was too early π€£ππ...
No more guilt for me ..
This is very interesting, it's just as if I'm watching a movie, may your home continue to be peaceful
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wow what a lovely story.i know that girls only school kinda thing, one corper asked me out back then, but i only saw him as an elder brother, he had feelings for me but my love for him grew when we parted ways, he is married now and im married too but he just wont let me be although we are best of friends. he still blames me for rejecting his proposal.
ReplyDeleteNa this kind tori I dey like. ..I didn't even want it to come to an end...bia poster, comman continue o..tell us how the marriage went,the kiss your bride part,πππ,who dance pass? Abeg send in your Wedding night brouhahaπππ
ReplyDeleteYes ooo poster you are owing us the wedding night brouhaha. π
DeleteI love this!!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful story!
You shall grow old in one pillow....Amen
Awww this is so sweet
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord continue to bless your home
Wow! Thanks for sharing.
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ReplyDeleteThis took me back to Secondary school, we had this hooooootttt corper too. Girls had major crush on him
Young love and its innocence.
Thank God I didn't get discouraged by 'buggle up' I for miss this sweet story.
Its a beautiful story♥️
lol..I almost got discouraged too when i saw the 'buggle up'. Good I did not.
DeleteNwanyi Afikpo
Nice read.
ReplyDeleteWow!I think this is the best meeting point I have read so far!
ReplyDeleteGod bless your marriage dear.
lovely story. .. God bless your home more
ReplyDeleteThis story is so "sweet".More love to your home poster.At 30 u already have four kids, wow!.
ReplyDeletePlease send us ur wedding night brouhaha! Thanks
The part where you had sex at 17 spoilt the story for me. I couldn't continue.
ReplyDeleteGod bless your home.
Wawu...so sweet i just had to tap.
ReplyDeleteTanx for sharin,,,i love d story,,,also u meant a gud guy,
ReplyDeleteHaving sex at that young age? wow! Lets say you are lucky cos many people in your position still have their lives messed up from similar choice.
ReplyDeleteI love meeting point, This was well written and feels so sweet, I pray to send mine wen God finishes the good work he has started.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely story, may God continue to bless your family and keep you together forever
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwww, see love story. This took down memory lane. One day, I will share my meeting point story too.
ReplyDeletePoster I wish u and ur hubby many more blissful years ahead.
So you see having sex early is t always a bad thing, though if I had tried it my Mother would have killed me lol or maybe na d fear keep me from opening up till I was 25ish
ReplyDeleteMy dear you met a good man that have an accurate head with good conscience...enjoy your marriage
ReplyDeleteAwesome
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwwwwww this story is all shade of amazing, see me smiling ear to ear, you love will wax stronger forever, Amen.
ReplyDeleteNice story,love is truly a beautiful experience.
ReplyDeleteThis is Sooooooooooo wonderfulππππππ May God bless your home.
ReplyDeleteNice story.see me smiling till the end
ReplyDeleteLove will always find a way to your heart. Wat is meant to be will sure be. Love ur story die u made my day
ReplyDeleteI have to commend you for a story well written, and your honesty. It shows you have a good heart and personality, at times, I ask myself, why don't we ladies try marry who deflowered us instead of passing leftover to who paid our bride price?
ReplyDeleteVery interesting
ReplyDeleteAll of you that are saying it's the best meeting point would you have said same if she had gotten pregnant and rejected at 17? She had sex at 17 and even had other boyfriends before getting married at 20. It's an interesting story but it's in my opinion misleading to our teenagers.I am happy you found a good man, not everyone will be as lucky. God bless your home.
ReplyDeleteYou are right.
DeleteAt 17 you shouldnt be having sex. You even went ahead to start several relationships all b4 age 20. Please discourage your daughters madam.But rly you are lucky. Thank God for d happy ending.
God bless your home.
This is a nice story but not the best meeting point story I've read here. Let me also add that she's lucky too!
ReplyDeleteInteresting story, ur man was sent from heaven,enjoy....
ReplyDeleteNigerian women and marriage sef! So because she got marriage now the story sweet abi? Dont get me wrong oh, am happy it ended well. But must marriage be the sweet end for a woman? What happened to career? Am a man oh...just asking
ReplyDeleteIts like a movie....... It got me day dreaming. A story that touches the heart. God will continue to bless your marriage.
ReplyDeleteone of the best stories that i have read. Love sweet o
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