If you're hubby is very good to you, and does extremely nice things for you Or even otherwise , In return, and out of respect, you should to do nice things for him too and also stop fighting him back and calling him names!
Have you ever heard someone say,
"Be the wife your husband can’t wait to come home to at night"?
No? Yes? I’ve heard it a million times, and I always try to keep advice in my head. As I would hope my husband would think the visa versa. Right?
So I began to think,
What are some things that he would love, to really make him feel special, different from the regular "favorite dish/drinks bla bla?
.........And this post was born.
No people, I’m not saying rewind 60 years and be a Stepford Wife. I’m just saying what I like to do for my husband to show my appreciation, and I would very well expect respect in return. Right?
Plz all the bullies should not hate on this post. If not....sorry.
This is something that works well in my marriage, and I hope it can give someone else great ideas too! If not, I’d LOVE to hear what works in your marriage. Every marriage is different
It may be a husband who is in the military, and is coming home after a year stay overseas, a husband that has only been gone for 3 days, or a husband that is coming home after a long day at work.
(P.S. You gals that have husbands gone for a super long time, I COMPLETELY adore your strength.)
Here's my two cents though
No matter what happens before he left home, while he's away "I send him sweet messages"
#facebeatbyme#photographybyme#Decorbyme
Have you ever heard someone say,
"Be the wife your husband can’t wait to come home to at night"?
No? Yes? I’ve heard it a million times, and I always try to keep advice in my head. As I would hope my husband would think the visa versa. Right?
So I began to think,
What are some things that he would love, to really make him feel special, different from the regular "favorite dish/drinks bla bla?
.........And this post was born.
No people, I’m not saying rewind 60 years and be a Stepford Wife. I’m just saying what I like to do for my husband to show my appreciation, and I would very well expect respect in return. Right?
Plz all the bullies should not hate on this post. If not....sorry.
This is something that works well in my marriage, and I hope it can give someone else great ideas too! If not, I’d LOVE to hear what works in your marriage. Every marriage is different
It may be a husband who is in the military, and is coming home after a year stay overseas, a husband that has only been gone for 3 days, or a husband that is coming home after a long day at work.
(P.S. You gals that have husbands gone for a super long time, I COMPLETELY adore your strength.)
Here's my two cents though
No matter what happens before he left home, while he's away "I send him sweet messages"
#facebeatbyme#photographybyme#Decorbyme
Lovely! But people differ though
ReplyDeleteNice to wake up to some positivity on the Blog. Its always good to give it our best, in everything, life, relationships, career. You never can tell, even if you don't get rewarded instanta, the person would realise your worth when you are gone.
ReplyDeleteA pig is a pig no matter how you treated him. Is good to do your best but some men never get satisfied irrespective of what their partner did. You can just give him the best srx of his life and the next minute he stepped out pouncing on another girl
DeleteA pig is a pig no matter how you treated him. Is good to do your best but some men never get satisfied irrespective of what their partner did. You can just give him the best srx of his life and the next minute he stepped out pouncing on another girl
DeleteAnd a bi5ch is a bi5ch any day.
DeleteAnd you won't bat an eyelid to marry any "pig" that shows interest.
And if the "pig" doesn't come to marry you, you send chronicles?
@anonymous 13:53, can I stop laughing pls?lmao
DeleteThanks anon. A pig is really a pig. By the way why can't the guy do something to make me want to have him home??? Why always me????? Abi men think their wives don't get sick of them??
DeleteJust sent the message to my husband and the reply? Honey are you alright? Is your phone stolen....Msthewwwwww so much for spicing up my marraige...Am back to sweetie pleae come back early so you camn buy Nicks baby food and pampers before the supermarket closes (lol). I HAVE SPOKEN
ReplyDeleteFunny you
DeleteStop it! I don laugh tire.
DeleteYour hubby is very funny. "is your phone stole"😂😂😂
That means you guys have lost touch with romance. Please, don't stop! Continue. He will get used to it and look forward to your sweet words. Give him good reasons to miss you when you have little misunderstandings.
DeleteYes he is surprise cos he hasn't seen you acted that way before. Enough of buy Nick's pampers, Nick clothes etc sometimes do the buying yourself. Let him come home and see you've bought some of those things he will earn you your respect trust me.
DeleteLimit the way you request him to do things in the house, and you as a wife also try and assist.
Ignite the romance don't lose hope.
Nice one bv. It surprises me when people think a healthy relationship is all about sex when their are a thousand and one thing to do to spice up your love life. If you don't know, try do some research and not sit like one yokozona while your love life fades away. I like hearing him say baby I love you so much and still don't know why in fact I love everything about you aaarh I'm really going crazy for you each new day...... I didn't knack any pigeon ooh but my acts are intact
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DeleteShare d acts too na!😉😒😁
DeleteSo I'm supposed to do all these for a man to come home....all the time?
ReplyDeleteNo Sis
I'm not about to baby a grown ass man just because I want him to come home
If he doesn't want to "come home"
He can stay out.
*Stifles laff*
DeleteExotic lala!
Treat your hubby like your first child
DeleteI'm not sure we are supposed to do it all the time, just from time to time and if he's a good husband, he will reciprocate in his own way.
DeleteI'm thinking of sending that text in the first meme to my bf but I'm wondering, 'is it not too cheesy?'
The day you don't do it there will be problem. But chi chi please don't let him stay out. Vampires are out there oo
DeleteHahahahahah🤣
DeletePls poster forgive My girl Chi cos she knows what she is saying. Some things she says,I just smile and whisper to myself "Time wil tell"
And I wil be here to laugh at her when she comes gushing about how wonderful her hubby is and all the mushy stuff. Time wil tell baby girl👌
Now to the business of the day,Lol😂
Point is this:When you are in love,you OUTDO yourself! Juts cos making him happy makes u happy! Simple! It's not a case of someone asking U to do something for him. Or u Bn pressured to do anything. At least I speak for myself and many other women I know.
Infact when u don't love someone,the person simply greeting u in the morning bites u like ants all over the body.
Love makes u do crazy things😍
And when the man loves u in return and lavishly pampers you and takes care of you,treats u super-right,Omg! Believe u me,those won't be roses on that bed. They wil be raw gold! And no I ain't kidding!
I am still looking forward to the day I wil take the General into an exotic car dealership,kneel and say "Pick any ride u want my lord!😍
#TeamPamperedWife
#VeryPamperedWife
The general wife's I love your comments. Chi you sound so bitter and cold about guys, the way you speak makes me think you have lost hope in true love. Chi if you don't try as much as possible to reciprocate a man's love for you then you are must likely to have a messed up marriage.
DeleteAwww that is so true. I am happy that general treats you kindly.
DeleteI wish I were a pampered wife. Time will tell indeed.
DeleteMy dear,all marriages are not the same.Your hubby may not pamper you but he may have his positives.Can you at least concentrate on those?Some may pamper their spouses but be tight fisted,some may be very generous yet be very unaffectionate .No husband is perfect and sometimes what keeps the relationship going is concentrating on the good side of the person.Each marriage has it's pros and cons.And forget about the sm gushing that some do,you never know what goes on behind closed doors.Some may brag about hubby doing that or that but you'll never know the real deal
DeleteEka Joy no offense
DeleteBut don't you think you should send that to your "fiancé" and not a "bf" at this stage in ones life?
my2cent
Chi exotic aka Choima it is your type that will keep on applying for SnM till eternity when nobody shows up, you send in chronicles seeking for a man by fire by force,then when nobody ask you nne how market? you become do desperate and send Stellarch IHN soliciting the intetest on that same man you weren't interested on initially. Awon feminist. This is September 21st,2017 just incase you dont know,time is running sit down there and be forming feminist.
DeleteMtchewww!
Anon 15:14
DeletePermit me to say this, if he Pampers and yet he is tight fisted, generous but unaffectionate, the ball is in your court, that is why he is your spouse, know where he's mumu button is and keep that on hold. Nobody knows where it is but you so tingle that button of his.
And yes TGW is right, she's not just saying it, she's been saying this for quit a while atleast i seems to have seen her on this platform since 09/010.
Will be back
ReplyDeleteI'll sit this one out.
ReplyDeleteNice..Would love to hear more comments from the Married Folks..
ReplyDeleteNice.. Variety is the spice of life
ReplyDeletePoster I did not see the message...
ReplyDeleteIs it the bed picture or the part your wrote about love messages?
You just climb the pitch and never land to the point...
Sorry to say this, your message is empty..
Or perhaps I did not read well...
Let me go back and read to know if I will get your message... 🏃🏃🏃
Hehehe, most Nigerian men ain't romantic na,infact dey won't even appreciate it. Wah works for u might not work for another,but all d same...nice one.
ReplyDeleteTill when I marry😩
Such a pretty face.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful pictures.
This is Lovely
ReplyDeleteAnd what does the man need to do to make me come home?. He's got to work for it too; it doesn't always have to be me doing the work. Infant I spice up 40%, the rest is on Oga!!. I cannot come and die😔😔😔
ReplyDeleteKay bee instead of u to sidon learn u de form itk... okay wen the time reach u go find person to teach u, but u no go fit cos u ain't used to it. Then it will appear u ar acting. I tell u,u Know gree#tellyperson
DeleteLol @deenity they no won learn.
DeleteThey forgot that as a woman you duty is to always return to your husband's house after the close of work for the day except if you aren't married.
Nice and romantic but a man that loves and respect you don't need ceremony to come home. This is an occasional romantic stuff not necessary to bring a man home
ReplyDeleteAv been away from my husband for almost 2months now... I spoke w8th him last night and realised how much av missed me... love is a very beautiful thing. He makes me feel 16again. Can't wait to see u again... Chi Exotic u won't understand, when u truly in love with someone u would gladly want to do more than these mentioned here just to see him smile. I feel like am not doing enof for ds man that would move d world for me...and yet ask for little or nothing in return... cupids got me this time😙😍
ReplyDeleteDoesn't work all the time. Some men will not even acknowledge your effort but still, it helps.
ReplyDeleteSlimqueen just learn to play ur part, humans are lik d@ male/female. Not everyone appreciate good things. Pray u get an appreciative partner
DeleteDoesn't work all the time. Some men will not even acknowledge your effort but still, it helps.
ReplyDeletewhat da hell is you're husband???? Proof read next time please. Wht will he do 4me in return, since we both hv jobs? *raisedbrow*
ReplyDeleteThe only reason I like him to come home is to help switch on the smaller gen if the other one that I can switch on is faulty. nothing else. This can't work in my marriage, the thing wey don die on arrival. Nothing can revive it again and I am happy like that. I wasn't desperate, thank God
ReplyDeleteI still bear my single name, didn't do change of name, so it's easier to work out. Did 7yrs family planning after our daughter, so I can walk away easily if he doesn't change . Someone should give me zobo and groundnut. I know beautiful marriages are out there unlike mine. Mcheeew
Na wah oh!
DeleteThis is funny and sad as well!
Is it that bad?
It is well
DeleteThe Lord is your strength.
The only reason I like him to come home is to help switch on the smaller gen if the other one that I can switch on is faulty. nothing else. This can't work in my marriage, the thing wey don die on arrival. Nothing can revive it again and I am happy like that. I wasn't desperate, thank God
ReplyDeleteI still bear my single name, didn't do change of name, so it's easier to work out. Did 7yrs family planning after our daughter, so I can walk away easily if he doesn't change . Someone should give me zobo and groundnut. I know beautiful marriages are out there unlike mine. Mcheeew
Bullshit, rubbish. It's all about "women making efforts for the men". A man that wants to cheat, will cheat even if your home is heaven. Our mothers taught us how to be "perfect" wives but they didn't teach their sons how to be good husbands. I love and respect my husband but I cannot come and go and kee myself with all this so called tips on how to be a good wife. Shior
ReplyDeleteQuite unfortunate, it's obvious u are not having it smooth. I pray for joy in ur marriage Enigma
DeleteDeenity abi kilonpe u are mad and very stupid for ur comment. My marriage is a happy one, all I said is that enough of this message of how to please a man or spice ur marriage. Let the lectures be for men to spice up their marriages and also please their wives. Quite unfortunate kill u there. Anumpama
DeleteEnigma no vex na habba, I was expecting this anyway but still take chill pill ehhn, idonunderstandyounow. Be blessed
DeleteObserving
ReplyDeleteAwwwww that's so lovely.
ReplyDeleteSDK single sisters please read and comprehen!Thank you.
😂😂😂😂😀@ who will clean that mess up.
ReplyDeleteWetin concern us with your face beat? Or wait o, do you think its fine??? Lmaoooo
ReplyDeleteHian! Madam where do you want us to see this flower to buy? And how much e dey give ne wey i go still go squeeze flower money from
ReplyDeleteLMAO
DeleteWow so you mean you and your husband sleeps on that tiny bed?
ReplyDeleteWhat if they do?
DeleteContinue deceiving urself
Yes they sleep on that tiny bed and see how she is glowing, then imagine when it's a bigger one.
DeleteShe is giving you tips on how to work on yourself and your marriage, you are here comparing bed size.
Smh!
I trust my husband...if he walks into that kind of room he'll be like 'you see why i said you should stop watching this your zee world'?
ReplyDeleteSo funny 😂😂😂
DeleteFor women who have good husbands who treat them right. As for me,I'm in my lane,on my terms. Ain't doing shi for a man who doesn't know my worth
ReplyDeleteU gat work to do babe, you shd remind him of ur worth, cos I am sure he married u for that, abi u hook am wt belle ni?#bestofluck
DeleteAnon 14:49 u want to kee me laugh abi??pls its afternoon oo and some of us dey work.. Jisos!!! I've just been laughing since oo... Na too much zee world dey cause am abi?na tru sef.. BTW, wen will a man post "things to do to make our wives smile all d time"??? Must it always be d wife doing all d time for d husband? Na wa oo! If d marriage fail,they'll blame d wife.if d house is not in order they'll blame d wife,if d kids don't behave properly they'll blame d wife.. Everything wife must do.. Pls u people should give women credit small,we no be robot or machine. Na born dem born us too.
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