Zynab Itohan Obahon the former wife of the Ooni Of Ife, Oba Enitan Adeyeye Ogunwusi is reportedly now free to remarry if she wishes.
The customary bride price paid by the revered monarch has been returned fully from the elders of Zynab’s Family in Benin City, Nigeria.
According to a source in Benin, the Ooni was initially reluctant to collect the bride price, but was persuaded by the Elders as a way of closing the controversial marriage and separation.
“She’s free now, she’s free…,” the Ooni was quoted to have exclaimed afterwards.
The Elders had sued for amicable settlement instead of a rough separation. Both families appeared relieved about this final foreclosure of the marriage that crashed before its first Anniversary.
The marriage which was contracted in March 2016 in elaborate ceremonies held in Benin and Ife hit the rocks before its first Anniversary due to yet to be confirmed reasons from both parties except hear says...
According to a reliable source, it was imperative that the bride price be returned even as it is just a token, adding that it holds significant value and meaningful according to tradition.
“When a bride price is returned, the man no longer have ties or right over the woman in question, and they can only see themselves afterwards as friends if they so desire,” the source said.
Recall that after the declaration of Olori Wuraola that she was done with the king, a Yoruba popular Ifa traditionalist, playwright, actor and author, Yemi Elebuibon opined on the consequence of a queen separating from a king.
While noting that Ooni would not be the first Yoruba Oba to be separated from his wife, Elebuibon stressed that marriage breakup is not very common among Yoruba Obas.
He said, “The wife of the Oba will be asked to consult Ifa and Ifa will give directions on how she will make the necessary atonement for her cleansing. In Yoruba tradition, a woman who has been married to a king cannot lay with any other man even if the marriage breaks up. But when the right atonements have been made, there won’t be problem.”
On the kind of problems which an Oba’s ex-wife might encounter if she refuses to undergo the traditional cleansing rites, Elebuibon said: “For the woman, she might not really have a problem but for any man who sleeps with a queen or marries an ex-queen without the appropriate cleansing, the man may die prematurely, he may be struck with sickness or there might be retrogression in his life.”
He explained that if an ex-queen wants to remarry, she will have to do the cleansing with her new husband. Both of them have to take part in the atonement procedures so that they won’t have any future problem.
Edited from kemiashefonlovehaven
Good one ooni....but why was he reluctant in collecting the bride price if he divorced her
ReplyDeleteWhere are all the Ifa priests on this blog? How market? Nonsense and ingredients. They know the babe no send them message in the first place. Make dem siddon with their old wrinkled dick dey wait for Oyibo pepper to come and do atonement. I wish women could be courageous like this. BTW,why is everything about this separation centered around her pussy and what she does with other men? What if the woman no want even do anything with any man again sef?. Heard the Ooni was not agreeing to collect the brideprice but was forced to,I wonder why.
DeleteZainab Itohan welcome oh.
DeleteBleaching "Oyibo pepper".
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DeleteThe story continues. It's only normal for the Oni to be reluctant in taking the bride price. But the man has been done. Goodbye Soniaπ
Ok bye
Wareva mehn...tired of their ish. Had expected better from the Ooni from the start. Na dem sabi...
ReplyDeleteMuch ado about nonsense. Who cares anyway
DeleteHe was reluctant to collect the bride price, why?
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell.
See the picture you used. A picture says a thousand words.
ReplyDeleteAs ln. Very very deep photo with a million interpretations. No one should very judge a book by its covers no assume they know what goes on behind closed doors.
DeleteVery disconnected couple, maybe everything was even staged so that he has a queen immediately and later she is freed
DeleteAbeg we're no more in the stone age, so many things that never happened Obas in the olden days is now happening without any repercussion
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
I'm still shocked at how this marriage packed up so quickly. I somehow feel so sorry for the lady because we know how it's the woman that gets shamed more than the man when it comes to marriage, divorce and remarrying. It is well o
ReplyDeleteThis cleansing they are talking about, hope no be men go clean the woman? I dont trust people to start looking at ponyor and breasts.
ReplyDeleteGoodluck to Wura. May you meet another maga that will love you with all your flaws Amen
Hahahahaha,before nko? Na man go do the cleansing now. Women don't have the instrument to do sexual cleansing. They need to cleans her punnani environment so that it will be safe for another occupant.
DeleteLike play like play this marriage is over true true. It is well, husband number 4 loading.
ReplyDeleteAnd wife number 3 or more loading for the Ooni.
DeleteAbi oooo
DeleteWish them better luck with their next marriages.
ReplyDeleteSo which man will want to endanger his life now cleansing or no cleansing?
ReplyDeleteWell except a white dude.
Wuraola...oh no sorry, Zainab is really controversial.
She really needs to re-evaluate her life. How many marriages packed up within the space of how many years?
Clearly there is something about her that needs to be sorted out.
Ooni too should get himself sorted and be sure of who becomes his next olori
Na wa
Na real wa!!!
DeleteJust short of words and wondering what really went wrong.
Zainab was the one that divorced Ooni.
DeleteTrue talk BL.
DeleteAnonymous.. it was the Oni that disposed her jare. He only made it seem like she wanted out so not to embarrass her. She was asked out of the palace abeg
Eeyah.. Good for them.. Zainab should pls forget about marriage for now... Marriage is not for everybody. Wish u the very best dear.
ReplyDeleteBTW, looking at that picture up there, is that the Abobaku sitted in front of the ex Olori?π
ReplyDeleteThat name Abobaku and his job description cracks me up
*seated✔
Delete*sitted❌
Ikwakwakwa
DeleteBloglord you corrected your self sharp sharp before the Professors arrive
Lol @ Anon
DeleteYes oh
This marriage has truly crashed hmmmm
ReplyDeleteI taught when a bride price is returned that means the marriage is over,I know dont understand the cleansing part
ReplyDeleteExactly. Meaning there is still some spiritual ties and bond.
DeleteAgain I ask, which man will want to risk getting involved?
The whole thing is somewhat creepy
Yes in a normal settings but when it has to do with the King,she is different because in the cause of their marital rites,some antonment has been performed, so she had to be cleanesed by been seperatefrom any spiritual ties to the King.
DeleteAs far as I know, no sensible Nigerian will deep his neck in her shit for now. Not unless they wake a dead man who isn't aware of this ish. It's rather complicated and fetish.
DeleteGood to know that she's free now.... marriage is not a do or die affair
ReplyDeleteunto husband number 4.
ReplyDeletezainab go to MFM, something isn't right.
The only cleansing she needs is to go to a God and let him make her whole again.
ReplyDeleteAll those traditional kind of cleansing is demonic and she should not try it less she wants her life ruined.
LEPπ
They didn't even hide it in the picture. you can tell they were quarrelling.
ReplyDeleteB4 nko. You feel say she no go remarry b4?
ReplyDeleteShes free! I so much love olori.
ReplyDeleteOoni was reluctant because reluctant to collect the bride price back because it is not Yoruba culture. Some tribes think by returning the bride price you can pretend the marriage didn't happen. I understand that in certain cultures it has a strong meaning to pay the bride price back so the bride can be absolved of responsibility to the ex and can remarry. The two traditions have to be respected hence the ooni conceded by collecting it.
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteLol. All the fuss about returning the bride price must be strange to the ooni but abeg free my Edo sister. Let her remarry. Yorubas don't it doesn't seem to be an issue for them because most of their divorced women don't remarry, they just focus on taking care of their children but we if he doesn't collect it, he will be tying her down because our elders cannot accept bride price from another man for her.
ReplyDeleteOjibijibi, Olori is free indeed. The yellow pepper will soon remarry. She is hotter than akara oku. But wait, if she marry oyibo man like our dearest Stella, will the oyibo come and do cleansing abi na atonement? Again, adornment for what if I may ask? For marrying Ooni and be separated or what? Wuraola go and enjoy your life biko, fame is not force.
ReplyDeleteGbam Jeni_zee
ReplyDeleteAnother one bites the dust!
ReplyDeleteThere's something painful about a marriage breakup: the abortion of a future and the plans therein.
May they find peace in their separate lives.
Stella! Allegedly? Abi he really collected it
ReplyDeleteso does it mean that she would stop wearing the Olori white dresses?
ReplyDeleteTheir so called marriage was never to be......
ReplyDelete