This world is just a crazy one where you see and experience things that seem impossible and unbelievable.
The couple were in the hospital few days ago and this time around the Big Boss was on seat. After about 2hrs of consultation they came out of his office with tears and left the hospital premises immediately.
Couldn't get an update until about 48 hours when the MD came around for consultations again. The big Boss is a Family Medicine Consultant so he was able to dig more.
This is the story:
The woman confessed to her husband because she couldn't keep up the appearance and she pleaded with the husband to come with her to the hospital to seek help concerning their childlessness.
During the session with the consultant, the man suggested adoption which took the wife by surprise because according to her, she has pleaded with the husband for same course before and he declined abruptly.
The consultant asked the wife to excuse the room as he realised the husband suddenly became uncomfortable. After few minutes of drilling the husband opened up to the consultant that he is actually the one with infertility issue which he has confirmed from several specialist hospitals but he just made the wife the victim because of the wild past his wife had.
He supported this wicked act with statements like: She would have left if she found out...... I don't wanna lose her to someone else...I did it out of love......
After the blabbing, the consultant demanded he opens up to her wife about the whole issue before he could convince the wife about adoption. After much persuasion he succumbed.
The wife was re -invited into the consultation room and he broke the ice. She felt so terrible and sad. They both agreed to go for adoption and left the hospital afterwards. The big Boss called them afterwards to check on them and also advised them to come for counselling sessions as it may help them...
I just learnt another lesson as a nurse..... do not judge no matter how horrifying the situation may be because what you know or see may actually be the opposite of the truth....
Note: women and men with infertility issues out there should always go the health care facilities with their partners, go through the screening and treatment processes together.
Women are always made t be the ones with the problem but it is not always so....
*WOW,so it was actually the man who had the problem?Na wah oh!!
Wow wow wow! WOWnderful story...see me enjoying the story like the first day Ed visited me. Anyway...I rate the story 1/10.
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Lol elastic are you an ambulance? See ur plenty wow
DeleteSee your wicked grading... If you be lecturer sha😂😂😂....good story and a good lesson learnt also
Lols...Isaac, fine girls don suffer if I be lecturer.
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Do u mean u didn't enjoy ed's visit just as u didn't enjoy this story? hmmm
DeleteAre you being sarcastic?
DeleteHmnnn.men!
ReplyDeleteWicked sombori.
DeleteHahahaha 😁
ReplyDeleteEnd time couple!
Umu nwoke sef!
ADONBILIVIT!!!
ReplyDeleteFabu!!! 🙆🙆🙆
ReplyDeleteThank you!! 🙄
DeleteJust imagine!!! Women haff suffered. According to what I heard, the men dont like following their wifeys to d hospital to check themselves up.
ReplyDeleteThey just feel so comfy heaping all d whole blames on their partners. Such pride. Smh!
My hubby did.
DeleteHmmmm, na wa. And the man was just making the wife to go through all those trouble. And I am sure even back lashing from her in law. Thank God the have decided to adopt. I wish them luck.
ReplyDeleteFoolish man and was blaming the wife all along. Na wa.
ReplyDeleteI dont know if to advice good to taste what you are buying. Anyway the man is bad market but the woman had to agree.
It it was the woman, she would have gone long ago. I think the woman should show him pepper small
He made the woman look like the victim because of her wild past, and sometimes we say karma is not real? God will help both of them
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
That is it, carry all the test together and get treated together if needed..
ReplyDeletechim-oma a.k.a. Miss Kapusu
Men are mean! My God!
ReplyDeleteNerse, bring us 'caught in cupboard' gist naaa, abi u no dey catch them? Lol
ReplyDeleteNa those ones they sweet pass
DeleteHmmmm na wa for some men oh. So na im get the issue e con put the woman tru that kind thing.
ReplyDeleteIf a DNA is conducted in most families. You will be shocked at the result. A lot of men are shooting blanks. The women knowing they will be blamed just step out to do their thing
ReplyDeleteIf it was the man's fault why didn't he suggest gettiing a sperm donor from fertility clinics? The wife must be a nice woman to agree with him, knowing how he blamed her. If I am the woman, I won't agree.
ReplyDeleteLeave his sorry ass. He'd do same if the tables were turned. i'll only stand by a man who would stand by(and with) me. Not after putting me through all these stress will i forgive you
ReplyDeleteCan you imagine? Wicked man! He did it out of love my ass
ReplyDeleteThat is our men for you.
ReplyDeletethey will know they are the problem but keep making life unbearable for their wives. They will even refuse to go to the hospital for testing claiming they are OK. some will go buy connive with the doctor to twist their test result to look OK.
Eeeeya
ReplyDeleteSee? And he was laughing and smiling and calling on the phone when he thought the wife was Preggers. Meaning if dere was actually a baby,he knew it wasn't his. Wow!
Poor wifey!!And see how harassed and afraid she was thinking it was her fault.
You just mirrored my thoughts... So, he was happy at first?? We human beings play a lot
DeleteThats true oooo.... Imagine if she had played away match before and conceeded...how nice and twisted the story would have turned
DeleteIf I was the woman i will ask for donor sperm.
DeleteSomeone can't come and hold you to ransom and cause you not to enjoy motherhood.
But knowing Nigerian men he will never agree to that.
Why shld the woman get preggy with another man's sperm.
The man is wicked. I can only imagine the emotional trauma the lady went through. Depriving her of the joy of carrying her own child while at the same time blaming her for what she was not responsible for. If I was the lady I would have resented him, probably left him but I'm sure she doesn't know where to start from, it's not easy starting all over again and God forbid u don't find anyone serious enough to settle down with. Anyway let them go for adoption and I pray their treat the baby like their own, with love and care. Oya let me go back to my studies. I'm studying to become a nurse so I love these chronicles.
ReplyDeleteWomen endeavour to know your husband medical history instead of snooping around looking for side chick. Men are so good in keeping their medical problem secret.
ReplyDeleteLoool @ snooping for side chick. True that!
DeleteI really feel for the woman.Why will she wait this long before inviting her husband for medical consultation.As a woman if you get married and noticed for a year you could not conceive.Kindly certified that you re okay then invite your husband to the hospital you know he does not have influence over them for his too.Africa culture have being blaming woman for infertility since 1900000.
ReplyDeleteVery typical for Nigerian men.
ReplyDeleteThere was one man in my area that had low sperm count. Mother inlaw was always coming to throw his wife's things out because they have been married for 8 years without a child. The woman don visit all the hospital and churches for Nigeria and she was certified very ok. That was how she started making trouble with this man till he agreed to go to the hospital o. Lo and behold... her husband was the cause of their problem after all. That was how she called for a meeting and mother inlaw was rolling on the floor... begging her not to disgrace her son by leaving the marriage. Aunty sha stayed because her husband was never in support of her mother. They have sha relocated to "the abroad".
ReplyDeleteThat is pure wickedness. The man even said he framed his wife because of her past. If I am the woman, once I ever get pregnant, I leave the man.
ReplyDeleteYes, I saw they opted for adoption.
My question...what was the man thinking wen his wife told him her pregnancy test was positive?
ReplyDeleteHe tot she cheated?
he actually was willing to cater for another man's child knowing d circumstances d child might hv come frm?
Or he knew she was lying and played along?
I wonder too. I believe he will just be mocking her in his heart and even start looking at her with sides eyes (oloshoism).
DeleteOr maybe he felt a miracle has happened
Stella, I follow you say Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteNa wa! Things are really happening.
ReplyDeleteSee life! If she has gone out to play away match, conceived and tell him she's carrying his child since she wasn't aware that he was the one with the problem, he would have rejoiced outwardly but knows she has messed up.
Talking abt victimization... He knew he was to blame BT opted to trade d blame card,at d end d woman always suffers and pay d biggest price.
ReplyDeleteGod help us all.
I have said it several times here that 97 percent of TTCs in our families today are cause by men, the husbands.
ReplyDeleteIf you visit any fertility clinic you will understand what I'm saying.
My advice to the men in this situation, don't be shy to sick medical treatment.And stop blaming your wife for the whole problem.
Secondly, adoption is not a sin,as it opens doors sometimes for the families looking for the babies of their own.
Bad man,just imagine
ReplyDeleteKai so this woman was going through all this without knowing the husband is the cause, Kai people dey suffer in marriage Sha and may childlessness never be our portion in Jesus name Amen
ReplyDeleteNa wa o! Men are really good at keeping their medical records a secret. That was how I was pleading with my husband to allow us go for a pre-marriage test before our wedding,he didn't agree and in fact turned it to quarrel, that I'm giving him conditions.
ReplyDeleteCan you imagine! So the what was actually his
ReplyDeleteI personally know a woman that was ttc for about 22 years, a friends aunt. Very pretty successful woman. Married since her 20s, the husband was also doing very well.
ReplyDeletePeople will look at her with pity bcos she had everything but no child.
Out of the blues she left her husband. Whole family including hers were angry with her. How can you leave a man that stood by you through TTC. The man too was broken.
She left Nigeria for some months, came back heavily pregnant.
Apparently it was the husband with the problem all along.
Her daughter shld be like 10 now. She has also re-married. So many women are going through a lot during ttc. always make sure your hubby is also doing test along with you.
But poster, isn't this rather unprofessional and breach of medical ethics posting this kind of story without the patients consent in any form, how do you think theyd feel if they read this, this is gossip and rather unprofessional of you!!
ReplyDeleteThanks in as much as I enjoy her stories. She's breaching the trust placed in her. Stella why not tell her the truth? This is just wrong. The delectation of a few should never break privilege. Never pray to encounter this nurse, she can cause a marriage to break up.
DeleteWe have hear madam ethics
DeleteThank you o! As much as this segment is interesting, it's very unprofessional! What if the wife/husband is a blog visitor? Plus I don't even believe this story much! What's the husbands issue? Low sperm count or no sperm at all? Because I know adoption isn't their only option. SUSPECT!
DeleteNothing is to big for my God to handle.
ReplyDeleteBut did she write out their names?
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