STAND ALONE NARRATIVE....
TIPS ON HOW TO CALL OFF A WEDDING...
Hello Stella,
I love your blog and i am thankful for this awesome family you have made via this blog.
Straight to the point, i am engaged to a guy who i barely know, we met via a friend and under 2 months we got engaged, he is based in one of those 'yahoo yahoo' countries and does yahoo. He came down to Nigeria to see me and we commenced wedding plans immediately.
The issue now is i am deeeeeply in love with someone else. Let me call him my prince charming. Prince charming and i know each other in so many ways other people dont, we bond too well and he is everything i have ever wanted in a man.
Hello Stella,
I love your blog and i am thankful for this awesome family you have made via this blog.
Straight to the point, i am engaged to a guy who i barely know, we met via a friend and under 2 months we got engaged, he is based in one of those 'yahoo yahoo' countries and does yahoo. He came down to Nigeria to see me and we commenced wedding plans immediately.
The issue now is i am deeeeeply in love with someone else. Let me call him my prince charming. Prince charming and i know each other in so many ways other people dont, we bond too well and he is everything i have ever wanted in a man.
Yes prince charming and i corpulate whereas i refused fiance the cookie simply because i cant bare any other man touch me. prince charming and i are too engrossed with each other and want to settle down, but my wedding date has already been fixed and my dad and mum would really be disappointed in me. Dad has invested a lot in wedding plans already.
My fiance is not a bad guy, he is just not the guy for me and i dont know why i let it go this far. He has invested over a million in me already and i dont know how to call the wedding off at this point. I am pregnant for prince charming already and we want to keep it.
Please help me with things i can tell fiance to call off our wedding. i cant tell him i have been cheating on him or that im in love with someone else. I am ready to return all he has spent on me too, i just need a way to leave without him coming to hurt me or my family.
Thank you Stella for this platform. Please hide my id
My fiance is not a bad guy, he is just not the guy for me and i dont know why i let it go this far. He has invested over a million in me already and i dont know how to call the wedding off at this point. I am pregnant for prince charming already and we want to keep it.
Please help me with things i can tell fiance to call off our wedding. i cant tell him i have been cheating on him or that im in love with someone else. I am ready to return all he has spent on me too, i just need a way to leave without him coming to hurt me or my family.
Thank you Stella for this platform. Please hide my id
*You commenced wedding plans immediately with someone you dont know because of money right?And now after eating you want to dump him?Just pray this doesnt go South OK?
Tell him you just found out your are HIV positive and he will run and not even collect change.
Let us know how it goes....this is just my suggestion and you must not take it.
See as you open your two naked eyes stroll enter yawa! Tell him you are an ss. God be with you o.
ReplyDeleteYou suffer from long troat and if you don't stop it will lead to your demise. You dint like him but loved his millions and now that your present bf has decided to man up you want to leave mr yahoo. Dint you know he was into yahoo before, tell him you are terminally ill and would need some time alone
DeleteLmao @ run and not collect change. From the chronicles i have readad so far, i will never get angry at any man that calls women stupid.
DeleteTake Stella's advice and pray your prince doesn't fuck up. What kind of home do you come from that they are planning wedding without properly knowing someone? Smh
DeleteWe should give you hints on how to lie to your fiance? You try! Mtcheew. Abeg carry ya cross jor.
DeleteMr prince charming will leave after the 1 million you collected from fiancee is finished.
DeleteAlso, he will copulate with you till your stomach grows to calabash levels, then he will flee.
Your mumu na grade 10.
Read
DeleteYou're not in love with any prince charming if not you won't have time for your yahoo yahoos based boyfriend not to talk of engagement.
ReplyDeleteIrritating story
Lol
DeleteStella your advice is epic
I have said it repeatedly that girl no longer do courtship.
DeleteOnce he is "abroad" he is rich and bam! Marriage!
Now you fixed a wedding date and went to get pregnant; why put the cart before the horse?
Must you girls open legs for sex before marriage?
You see, if you are not pregnant, these whole mess would have been better managed.
The man will understand you as a betrayer and his pain may drive him to vengeance in a way that will hurt you most.
Suggestion:
You have to come clean
Do not mention "return what he spent" rather (even as you ready that in case . . .),
let your parents know that you are pregnant for someone else.
That you have not had sex with "fiance"
That you are deeply sorry for the inconveniences caused.
BUT BEAR IN MIND THAT "PRINCE CHARMING" MAY AS WELL DUMP YOU AFTER ALL SAID AND DONE!
Thank you Blogb. This poster is just one senseless greedy human being.
DeleteGirl you are evil. If it's a guy now we will abuse him, but you sister have no word for you. Only 2months you got engaged and even knew he was a yahoo guy. Now you want to back out. Na lie oh you must marry wicked soul. If someone else dose this to your brother. What would you advice him or her? Use same advice for yourself.
DeleteDon, d not-anonymous on your case is eka joy
ReplyDeleteLmao. You wish
DeleteNothing someone won't see on this blog. You loved someone else yet started wedding plans with a guy you barely know except that he is fraudulent. No wonder marriages barely last after the wedding ceremony these days.
ReplyDeleteNow you care about your parent's feelings but when you were eating yahoo boys money and sleeping with another man you didn't know.
You're pregnant, prince charming cannot wait to marry you properly before getting you pregnant. I guess he is only charming to knock you up and not do the right thing. You're the one calling the shots, engaging one, sleeping with another and thinking of refunding money. Suddenly, you're rich enough to refund all you've collected from yahoo boy. Prince charming deserves someone better or rather you both deserve each other.
Hope you know yahoo boys are very vindicative and just refunding his money may not make the shame and disgrace he and your family would face go away.
Many of you do not think with your heads at all, always in a hurry to where. You're pregnant, there's no way you can pass off another man's child to another man. It's criminal and wicked. Cancel the wedding, talk to yahoo boy about your feelings and get it over with before someone who update make Facebook post dragging innocent people down. Your parents don't deserve such disgrace and they shouldn't have agreed knowing you barely know the guy.
This blog is full of so many foolish ladies but when they start correcting and insulting you, one will be wondering are they not the same women that sends this kind of silly chronicles.
DeleteMinus me o... Lol
DeleteHahahahahahaha! Wicket suggestion @ Sdk. Hmmmmm Poster, This is a serious one even though I get you perfectly. However, Its not a new thing afterall guys do this to babes on a daily basis. Just politely tell him that you are sorry and cant just go on. He will get over it.
ReplyDeleteYou're so confused that you're ready to confuse us here too.
ReplyDeleteFirstly, where was this your Prince Charming when you decided to follow someone you barely know?
Secondly, what did you want us to tell you now? You already concluded your parents will be mad at if you decided to call off the wedding. OK,
call your yahoo fiancee that you're pregnant for another man and he should forget about the forthcoming wedding. Now tell your Prince Charming to start preparing for wedding on that same day you already picked, with that, you will still get marry same day but to another man.
*Larry was here*
😂😂😂😂😂 @ your first paragraph & End time EPIC advise @your last sentence.
DeleteLol! Nne iji ya! You got it! Nonsense
DeleteStarry Larry, this ur advise get as e be o.
DeletePoster, just tell ur parents that u are in love with another man and u are pregnant for him. They will be the one to help u tell yahoo guy that u are not marrying him again.
You're right. Prince charming should just take the place of yahoo yahoo. That's all!
DeleteNice one starry Larry.
DeletePoster Pls adhere to the last paragraph of this advice that way money invested on d wedding plans won't b a waste.
See how I burst out laughing at stella's suggestion.
ReplyDeleteBut truly, nwanyi-chop-and-clean-mouth, what were you thinking?!
See where your greed has landed you.
You are a wicked person. If the tables were turned, you'd rain curses on him, yea?
My dark heart is wishing that the guy would use you for yahoo++
But my church heart is wishing you the best, whatever the outcome of your self-extraction.
Bangdadagang !!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd you have to drop the highest bomb on us @You are Pregnant with The Prince Charming 🙄🙄🙄
Are you related to that Lady on facebook that dated for How many hours again?? 😂😂😂
The main chronicles loading 🙋🙋🙋
Why do people like to complicate things for themselves? You watched everyone kick start a wedding plan while you were hitting another guy's sac?
ReplyDeleteYesterday's chronicles, now this?
Lord pls come already.
HIV is small, some guys may still stick and manage it, tell him you have AIDS. But don't marry immediately after you breakup o!
ReplyDeleteStella you badht gan. Poster no need to blame you now because the deed is done. Just be sure your prince charming worth the stress. Don't be in a hurry to call off the wedding. Just allow things unfold on its own. What am I saying sef? I don't know. Nne your matter dey complicated.
ReplyDeleteLol! Cos of money u agreed for the malay guy.
ReplyDeletenow u've seen another one with big dick, your brain has reset.
Simply tell them u don't love him anymore n u are pregnant, hopefully ur dick charming marries u.
Wetin dey kill some babes na small thing, u dunno how he'll react when he hears.
Goodluck!
Prince Charming is equally boxed up.
DeleteWhere was Prince charming wen wedding plans were going on, was he aware u were dating someone else
DeleteFoolish girl @yahoo.com.let me just keep quiet and not talk to this girl.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious. I think you should follow stella's advice or better still, talk to your parents first
ReplyDeleteSo I read that ystday chronicles! And all I can say.... U are a hero baby geh! Men need pple like u in this world so we can copulate without feelings attached! 😰😍😆😘.... MUMU!!'
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
HIV positive? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteNwunye Korkus, you are the baddest 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Poster forget that I'm laughing, you are wicked.
Me advise you on how to leave a guy you said is good and he has spent a lot on you? I can't do it.
Nke imetelu ka iga ebu.
Bros
ReplyDeleteDon't be loyal to these hoes.
You have money? Any lady that comes around you must bend to your will or they bounce!
Use your brain at all times, these babes wouldn't even look in your direction if you didn't have the money you do. So treat all of them like trash, except the lady proves to not be trash!
If you don't do all I said, you'll end up like this guy:- Probably find out the babe cheated, beat the hell out of her and then end up in jail or lose money all cause of your being too soft to not follow my initial advice...
Boh hey! If you don't have money, then you can be loyal like a fool..
It is what it is...
Dear poster, thank you for giving me the opportunity to state facts with you are evidence!
hmmmmm tell him you are pregnant na abi wetin sef
ReplyDeleteI wonder o! Like she can't hide the pregnancy for long. Just tell him you cheated, it resulted in a pregnancy and you can't give him someone else's child. Shikena.. but girl, you are evil! Rme
Deletelol@ HIV...
ReplyDeleteDid u get a cameo role in Fast & Furious? within 2months u accepted a ring from a stranger? & just in the nick of time you found ur soulmate & got pregnant? Thats crazy & recklessness.... i can bet there was no medical checkup done, u just nose-dived into bed with him, poor judgement all over.
You can tell ur family the truth, im not sure of what you'd tell ur fiance
Her and family suffer from intense poverty mentality. The parents didn't care to question how fast things were going because he had money.
DeleteI bet you the parent will encourage the babe to do abortion on a low and run back to her Malay Hubby...
Here folks, is a classical example why the rich try as much as possible to not mingle with the poor:-you never know there through intentions cause all the want it your money!
Don't mind poster@atheist,most ladies have cobwebs in their brain.
DeleteStella the baaaad Sharp....😀😀😀😀
ReplyDeletechim-oma a.k.a. Miss Kapusu
It's official. This weekend is the weekend for silly chronicles from extremely daft ladies.
ReplyDeleteTell him you can't go on with the wedding because you're heart isn't in it anymore. Simple. Whatever happens you'll have to pay the piper. My fear is that your prince charming may not give you that fairytale ending you're looking for because your character and priorities are highly dubious.
By the way when did "yahoo - yahoo" become an acceptable occupation? Greedy lot.
Are you sure prince charming will wife you? You can follow Stella or tell yahoo guy DAT you pregnant as a result of rape. Be careful cos some lies do come to pass oo.
ReplyDeleteI was about to say this. Tell him you are pregnant from rape and you catch hiv and cry like you are dying!
DeleteSit your parents down and tell them the truth o.
That love of your life will abandon you and that baby. Write it down somewhere. You better get your acts together and get married. You will love to regret this path you want to follow.
ReplyDeleteYou have painted him a yahoo guy because you have zeroed your mind. What evidence do you have please? Do not tarnish his reputation because of your scratching something.
Bia, REPENT!
**live
DeletePoster you are funny sha.
DeleteAs you make your bed so shall you lie on it. Don't carry another man's pregnancy to marry another. City me clean and hurt all hurtables now before you are MIA.yahoo boy? Don't joke with them mbok
ReplyDeleteHmmm ..let me read comments
ReplyDeleteSo many hungry desperate people in this country. From guys that marry geriatric old white women, to young girls that marry known criminal's they just met. Nothing surprises me in this country anymore.
ReplyDeleteLmao you just cured my illness this evening with laughter, thanks anon.
DeleteLmao!...😂😂😂
DeleteSorry I can't help but Bhahahahahahahh at Stella's advice.
ReplyDeleteposter I don't have any advice for you. When you were doing pepper dem with his money you did not know you are in love with lover boy. I just pray lover boy remains in love with you after you dump your fiance.
Stella this your advice nawa.What if he demand to take her for test himself, poster u be thief sha, just kidnap/elope urself and do not communicate ur location until after the wedding date. Olojukokoro, I hope ur prince charming will not dump you.
ReplyDeleteHmm.... were you not dating the Prince charming before you were introduced to your Yahoo guy? Why did you take things from him if you knew your heart wasn't there. No matter what someone will end up getting hurt the way i see it...your parents and the Yahoo guy if you call it off...you and your Prince charming if you don't. You just have to pick which you can live with best.
ReplyDeleteIts complicated
DeleteNo be small "python dance" be this. Wish you well as u wriggle itself out of this mess.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious!!!!! Let the comments flow
ReplyDelete'he invested over a million naira in me already....'
ReplyDeleteMschheeeeeeeeeeewww! Small mindedness extraordinaire!
Better announce that you ain't doing that shit and port for sometime.
Na WA!
ReplyDeleteI decided to read today's chronicles because of some comments I read on SP today about yesterday's chronicles.
I'm still shaking my head for you people.
Poster tell him you have Hepatitis B, Ovarian and cervical cancer, diabetic hypertension, glaucoma, liver cirrhosis, gall bladder and kidney stones, urinary tract infection, HIV, osteoporosis, and also that sometimes you have up-to five episodes of seizures in one hour just in case the above mentioned diseases isn't enough to convince him to run away.
PS: Please that wasn't me in yesterday's IHN. I will never in my life share such online.
Quickie, Swaggie it wasn't me😀😀😀😀😀.
My dear mum is working on my tummy though while I am still nursing the powerful vagina;sideyes @ Chikito. 🙈🙈
You're in love with one and engaged to another. Refunding the money doesn't guarantee it'll end well. Anyway wish u luck coz u will be needing lot of that
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteI really don't get it, you met someone just two month back and you got engaged already? Well tell him what Stella said and let's see how it goes but if it will to be a man now, you will be raining curses up and down. Let's be careful how we treat people
ReplyDeleteHmmm
DeleteIf the guy tru acid on u,we be here blaming the guy...not knowing u are the wicked one
ReplyDeleteFellow ur heart
ReplyDeleteWho told u Prince Charming loves u? I swear he doesn't. If he does, u wouldnt have gone this far with ur so called yahoo boy. BTW, u labbaled him yahoo boy to hang him right, kontinue! Anyway, my advice is for u to come out clean, tell him u r pregnant for Prince Charming and return his money including damages u must have caused him. As for ur parent, they deserve to be embarrassed coz they sought for it when they halfhazardly packaged u to marry someone they barely know. Anyway, waitin small pikin like me know sef? I wish u luck jare
ReplyDeleteThank you small pikin
Delete👍👍👍
DeleteThank you so much. She is trying to tarnish the guy's image by labeling him Yahoo boy.
DeleteEven after you have returned everything, watch your back for acid, fast car drive by while walking, so you don't get knocked into the curb. Just watch your shoulder because you are in a deep shit.
Poster your trolling has got me in stitches 😂😂😂😂
DeleteIt's like u and yesterday's poster are sisters? Brainless girls everywhere. And whats worse, this one is about to become a mother.smh....
ReplyDeleteMy dear I don't care whatever u are going to tell him, please do not go ahead with the wedding if your parents like let them be angry or else you will live to regret that marriage cos u will not be happy. You will be married and crying from the night of you wedding cos of the other man you love. See you can't manufacture love o. I am a living testimony to what you are about to do. If I had known on the eve of my marriage I was weeping, the morning I wept, I kept calling my ex and cutting the call o. My marriage packed up two years later. Please do not for any reason marry a man when ur heart is somewhere else. Pray about it and call it off, kpata kpata the yahoo guy will be offended, tongue will wag just for a few months, your parents will vex and forgive you but you will be saving yourself a life time of grief. Except u want to loose the man you love cos once you take that step you have lost him for life. It's either love or nothing for marriage, the heart will always want only what it wants. You will be more fulfilled marrying someone you love
ReplyDeleteI think these are new bvs...I have nothing to say
ReplyDeleteShit is about to hit the fan. You are a greedy thief, beware because this may be the beginning of the end for you.
ReplyDeleteI pray that guy run you round the bend and make you pay dearly for wasting his time and resources.
Longthroat don kill you now. Ashewo
There is nothing positive that ever comes out of you. It is forbidden. Afi packaged demon, kukute.
DeleteAlways looking for how to denigrate women, tribes etc and above all yourself.
Na who do you like this?
Male Werewolf that you are. Mtsheew
Didn't you know he was a yahoo boy before saying yes?So your family didn't ask what he does too before they agreed for a wedding?Does Prince Charming know you are a cheat and a liar?Three of you deserve each other.I hope you live to tell your story.
ReplyDeleteIF IT IS TRUE..I dunno why people love to complicate their lives..Dear Poster If this was done to you, will you like it?? If you like talk say na HIV or SARS, It will most likely not end very well..Obviously you dont know what you want..Here is my advise: 1)Grow Up and see you are no longer a baby and you are with child as they say ''With Change comes with a greater responsibility'' 2) I think you need to come out plain with the truth, yes it will hurt but lying would make it even worse 3) Try to understand that because someone impregnated you does not mean you must marry that person...Think very well my dear, all the best..
ReplyDeleteThis poster and yesterday's own are clueless girls...if u don't want your yahoo groom to-be,pls drop his number here oo... Clueless girls! May my brothers never meet ur type IJN Amen
ReplyDeleteAmen to your prayers. .May God protect our brothers o
Delete#A person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it*
ReplyDeleteYes, it is true that whatever will be, will be.
DeleteI ve nothing to say to you because I ve brothers and if any girl should try such nonsense with them, trust me it won't end well because I will personally deal with such girls 😕. Be careful sha.
ReplyDeleteAtiti...
Delete#Dizzy Angel
DeletePoster you simply have no value. You just follow as they come and I sincerely don t know the advice to give you. Sorry!
ReplyDeletePoster.....so where was this your prince charming when you were accepting his marriage proposal. Because you said you accepted to marry him after two months of meeting him and am sure he didn't hide his yahoo yahoo business from you. After chopping his money you now want to dump him.....hmmmm, I pity you
ReplyDeleteBabes are so funny... How can one be blinded by money this way? Never smell what you won't eat. Deal with your shi*t.
ReplyDeleteLook at me coming to type some genuine tips on how to call off a wedding you were hoodwinked into due to some very serious reasons not knowing that this one is related to yesterday's Poster.
ReplyDeletePlease let me use my time wisely.
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Poster, this is really tough and I can imagine how you'll wish everything disappears. The truth is, the hear wants what the heart wants. Do not go ahead with any wedding. Go and confess to your mum n dad and beg them to shield you this one time. Get them to speak with the guys parents about your medical conditions and their plan to take you for HIV and Epilepsy cleansing in the village to avoid you having a seizure on the wedding day hence the need to postpone the wedding a bit. They will pretend as if they don't know, you never told your guy. And that the priest is very good. He has the cure for AIDS. They will be the one to advise their son to totally stay away. You will even be begging him to be strong for the love u share.
ReplyDeleteSee one of them. Bad people are not hard to recognized..
DeleteImagine advice.
Mr. GOODY, You will rather she dies or go thru emotional stress in her condition? We all make mistakes and she admits that. Even your mother will shield you from facing the wrath of the law.
DeleteHow much more the guy na yahoo boy. Heartless idiot. Free him abeg. Let him go and sleep with his oyibo magas and marry 1.Or just dissappear and send him a text that you just found out u have Aids or was raped and now with a baby. Abeg. I don tire. Solve your problem abeg
So your parents are ready to marry you off to a Yahoo Yahoo? What kind of parents do we have these days? I blame your parents for their big eye and you for taking after your parents. Go and get yourself out of it.
ReplyDeletePoster i think u shuld fake a hospital result telling him u hv hiv just like stella syd nd give him,cry bitterly nd tell him ure calling off the wedding,tell ur parents wat u told him nd tell them the truth,leave that town pls nd relocate with ur baby daddy,let him pay ur dowry first,let evrytin be done hush hush pls...make sure u still remain in contact with the oda guy till he cools off....be safe
ReplyDeleteDear poster...all i can say is dont ever marry someone u don't love. I wish i had the courage to elope or form dead before marrying. I regret it everyday. Im depressed and lost. I told my parents n him i couldn't go on with the wedding...they were angry and my mum held on the fact that i wasnt forced into accepting his proposal, i shudnt bring them disgrace. Its barely 3 months and i hate mysef. I feel like dying. I tell mysef running away wud av been much better than divorce. I feel im trapped for life. I dont know what to do. The same feeling i had when i wanted to opt out before the wedding is wat im having...i regret my life. I hate picking his calls, i hate his voice, i hate his sex...boring. I feel one person wud av to die. I need help
ReplyDeleteIt is all in the mind. Do you know you can decide to change your mindset and make your marriage work? Marriage is different from boyfriend and girlfriend things. Think about your future and your children if you don't want to get divorced. If he is not treating you badly why not work on your marriage and decide to be happy? You can grow to love him you know.
DeleteI stopped reading chronicles a long time ago because of the depth of foolishness in the questions and I went there today when I saw your comment this morning. I'm yet to get over that and now this??
ReplyDeleteY'all have too much free time!
I just came to scan through comments. After yesterday's chronicle i am scared to waste my time reading another story. This New Edition Story on BET is bringing back fantastic childhood memories for me. I will come back to read the chronicle when i finish watching it.
ReplyDeleteMy goodness,this one pass me
ReplyDeleteMarry him and try to stop him from doing fraudulent business because he might kill you if you don't marry him after spending on you
ReplyDeleteLol that investment line nor follow o. Honestly
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha Stella oooo u advise is the highest
ReplyDeleteDance to the music that only you started playing, is best you tell him the truth and call off the wedding. Do not deceive him with another man's child, is better you hurt him now than later. Open up to your family and tell them the truth. I hope prince charming will not disappointe you after you call off your wedding?????
ReplyDeleteMalaysia things! if the guy calls her out now people will start saying he wants to use her to do ritual things. Advise what? You are a product of your habits.if you change your habits of not being content with what you have, another person will still come along and you'll realise prince charming is inadequate after all prince charming was always there before you came in contact with "the abroad" maga. Some girls enh they just dig their own grave, architect of their misfortune.
ReplyDeleteI don't have advice for this lady, she is a disgrace to herself not her family. Ogologo akpiri( long throat) that's what will land you to grave if you don't control it..... peoples��♂️��♂️
ReplyDeletePoster form madness when you are with him, or confess to him that you don't want to have sex with him becos of ur HIV status, or better still act epileptic fit in his presence he will jejely dump you sharply no story, just tell your close parent ur stand & situation, don't tell any of ur friends ur plan. Don't ever marry whom you don't love.
ReplyDeleteI sincerely do not know how you people keep your hand to type advice for these foolish people. I can't deal...
ReplyDeleteMa'am Stella, dathe advise sha!!!!!! Warri go say, na highest!!!!
ReplyDeleteMa'am Stella, dathe advise sha!!!!!! Warri go say, na highest!!!!
ReplyDeleteLol...this one no be small thing oh ...I no won follow go hell eat alone and face it ...you no good at all
ReplyDelete