My young lady,
If he is insisting on sex before marriage, he is not the man for you. You cannot use sex to prove love. Goats have sex. Infact, dogs have sex and everywhere too but they are not in love.
If sex means love, then the prostitute should fall in love with every man she has sex with.
Sex is meant for marriage young lady. Waiting is the real love. It is mark of maturity. That is the kind of man you should say yes to, not the one that wants you to compromise your virtue, pride, dignity, just to satisfy his lust.
And how many will you love cos I'm sure he's not the only man you've had sex with.
#EyenBoIfiok
#TruthIsBitter
#LearnFromOthersMistakes
Women have heard enough. ..Haba. .somebody should start writing to the men too....Women have read it all..we Don taya
ReplyDeleteWord!!!
ReplyDeleteObot etuk!!!!mehn! Been ages!
ReplyDeleteI tell ya! Took me back memory lane. Very correct actress those days. Didnt know she has become an evangelist now. Nice!
DeleteBut men can focus on both sex & marriage......After all, boobs prove that men can focus on two things at once.
ReplyDeleteThis is an African mindset and nothing else. In certain parts of the west, people have sex etc and go ahead and live normal lives. Places like Scandinavian regions that are decent do same. We focus on no sex and yet we are mostly freaging fracking rogues.
ReplyDeleteAnon 18.30 bestiality is their favourite past time in scandinavian countries. Which decent?
DeleteWhen did the west become the model of morality?
DeleteYou that are writing, do you have health insurance?
when "unwanted pregnancy", abortions, depression, STIs etc. set in,
You go to quacks and end up death and in hell; no chance to make amends.
Do you also know that suicide rate in the west is more than 5 to 10 times that in your country?
Same with divorce rates.
In the so called west, there is social programs for single moms, they receive unemployment benefits
And antenatal care is free. The child is trained free at school till 18 years.
Young high school leavers get decent jobs that can enable them run a family if they choose to.
In Nigeria, even a phd graduate does not see lorry to drive.
Please do not talk about the west in glowingly enviable terms, some of us live there.
Anon 21:21! Well said! But some people refuse to understand this.
DeleteUK based mate, we don't do health insurance. As I said, you all presence h no sex and are crooks
Deleteeziokwu na ada aja aja n'nti.she is ryt
ReplyDeleteLol...Igbo amaka
DeleteThis message on ladies keeping themselves is timely.Nowadays no guy wants to even stick around when they hear no sex...smh! God have mercy.
ReplyDeleteSo true.
ReplyDeleteIt's funny how when they finish their own waka waka, they now want to come and be advising. Advice they did not take or practice. Mcheew, Abeg.
ReplyDeleteYou dey mind am?
DeleteThis one that went to Ghana to start sharing old pussy everywhere, everyone know her in pure fire church na, snatching people husband's even in church, oma se ooooo... God haff really suffad!
Yeye thing!!!
Obot where have you been?
ReplyDelete"They" have seen it all
ReplyDeleteObot Etuk is a Pastor?
ReplyDelete#faints
She has changed a lot.
ReplyDeleteMe, I like to give in a very satisfying way just to totori the guy, then I lock up. The guy go wan die just to have another taste and would give anything to have it. That has been my style.
ReplyDeleteFor where,when u lock up,then he goes looking for cookies elsewhere,then u get hurt that hje chop u clean mouth. Best is to zip up. If he cheats,u know that he did not chop u nor clean mouth
DeleteYou are on point sisterly
DeleteSex before marriage is the best joor.i sori for those that disagree.a good sex can make a man marry you and a good sex can make a woman's fall in love. Sex is like food to the soul,it make every living thing happy.so have people tot about marrying with out sex and after wedding de sex no make sense.what do you do? A man will leave the woman to have it out side and the woman will be so so unhappy till she too will get it out side. So ask ur sef which wan better pass?
Delete👏👏👏 yinmu 😏
DeleteWhy can you guys talk to the single men also to focus on success instead of sex.
ReplyDeleteSingle men do not get pregnant, abort, die in the process or get abandoned with pregnancy.
DeleteThe girl decides if sex should take place and not the "single man".
Anonymous 20.07,because single men don't get pregnant and commit abortion, they should be wasting their sperm?
DeleteIf you don't open that hole, how them go come waste am?
DeleteIf them force you na rape!
Have you all forgotten what she did to Enest? i mean when the guy dumped her hmm. The guy kolo one time because of her ja..
ReplyDeleteStill fresh in my memory but I doubt the story.
DeleteWhat do I know.
Longest time @ Obot Etuk
DeleteSpite on
*spot on
DeleteBut am the one always insisting...this ur advice no go well for me oh
ReplyDeleteI didn't even bother reading the advice sef I just came to read comments. The advice going to women are too much ppl should Try advising the men also. Cos some will tell you straight up no sex no relationship,except you are ready for hardcore cheating. Abeg it haff do
ReplyDeleteWoman pretend a lot and that is why una relationship dey get K leg. Una dey talk like say women fit stay in a relationship of no SEX. Im a guy and i know women worry me for sex,sometime quarrel me put I say NO! So if women no like sex as una claim, then why do married women cheat?
DeleteSo true.
ReplyDeleteIt has always been ladies..
ReplyDeleteI remember this actress from way back. Wasn't she Ernest Azuzu's cougar that year? Chai this lady showed that guy pepper 🌶 when the boy say e nor do again o! I guess that heartbreak led her to Christ. Well done Auntie Obot 🙌🏻🙌🏻
ReplyDeleteWow! She's now preacher!
ReplyDeleteMen should not focus on sex abi!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhile women dey focus on money aka ego, we dey focus on what's in between their legs oooh
Women and money nna twins ooooh
Dem born together!!!!
After she don over share her own cookie jar in the past,men don tire sex,now she is preaching to women to keep their own...well,its good...
ReplyDeleteokay.....just passing
ReplyDelete#OlajiWrites
Na your sex?
ReplyDeleteNa your punani?
Don't mind them. They would have finished sharing pussy sotey he don slack. They will now become born again after suffering heatbreak e.g. Tonto then we won't hear word again.
ReplyDeleteAunty leave us to share our pussy as we like.
This women think even ladies don't have sexual needs. Me that my fiance lives in another city. I'm the one that almost rapes him sef when he visits.
I enjoy sex and can't be in a sexless relationship. My fiance bedmatics is what even made me love him more.
We women too enjoy getting fucked. So leave us anty. The only thing I don't support is casual sex. I must love you if not I can't even get wet.
The irony is that young girls want yo be cool by having sex . They starr regretting after a heartbreak or catching something. The wise will listen
ReplyDeleteYou guys should face the message and not the messenger.
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