This is sad!
BORROWING MONEY IN A RELATIONSHIP BROUHAHA
Hello Stella,
Hope you're doing great, God bless you for this platform.
Straight to the point, am a 24yr old lady. I have known this guy for over 5yrs but we started dating 3yrs ago.
I have been job hunting and nothing has showed up, then I decided to go into business. I borrowed 500k from my dad, and after much begging and pleadings my boyfriend loaned me 400k which must be paid back in two months with a 150k interest, making it a total of 550k.
He flared up and cut the call, after sometime he picked my call and said that am a liar, he'll never believe anything I say again and he lacks trust in me for lying this long. Then he said his whole family will hate me forever if he dares to tell them what I have done.
Should I keep pleading for his forgiveness, or should I just run around, pay him back and move on.
So confused right now. No cusses please. Thanks Stells
Hello Stella,
Hope you're doing great, God bless you for this platform.
Straight to the point, am a 24yr old lady. I have known this guy for over 5yrs but we started dating 3yrs ago.
I have been job hunting and nothing has showed up, then I decided to go into business. I borrowed 500k from my dad, and after much begging and pleadings my boyfriend loaned me 400k which must be paid back in two months with a 150k interest, making it a total of 550k.
Stella o, I don't know how it happened but somehow I got duped. Knowing my boyfriend very well, he wouldn't like to hear stories about his money, so I lied to him that everything was going on well. I had sleepless nights, I prayed, I cried, hmm and my parents don't know about this yet o because it will break their hearts plus their heath ish.
On the 50th day, my boyfriend was already restless and disturbing for his money, he said he doesn't want stories and all so I should pay back exactly the date I promised.
I managed to get extra 300k from my dad again and paid my boyfriend, convincing him that I'll pay back before August ends or first week of September, I was hoping that another deal I did would produce Money to settle the two debt.
I managed to get extra 300k from my dad again and paid my boyfriend, convincing him that I'll pay back before August ends or first week of September, I was hoping that another deal I did would produce Money to settle the two debt.
But I got a very heartbreaking news yesterday afternoon about the deal and how my pay will be delayed till November.
I mustered courage and called my boyfriend, explained everything to him and told him to give me time to run around and get his remaining 100k plus the 150k interest.
I mustered courage and called my boyfriend, explained everything to him and told him to give me time to run around and get his remaining 100k plus the 150k interest.
He flared up and cut the call, after sometime he picked my call and said that am a liar, he'll never believe anything I say again and he lacks trust in me for lying this long. Then he said his whole family will hate me forever if he dares to tell them what I have done.
He gave me an ultimatum to pay back before this month runs out. Stella I don't know what to do o, am trying to run around for some loan but am just wondering whether this is enough reason to talk to me in such manner. I did not plan to be duped and God knows I have learnt my lesson. I have given him 300k from his 400k and still promised to pay the rest plus the interest but he doesn't want to hear that, I don't even know how to get the rest of the money now because I don't have friends I can run to for help, so getting the money this August will be a miracle.
He insinuated that the relationship has ended tonight. Is this enough to end a relationship?
Should I keep pleading for his forgiveness, or should I just run around, pay him back and move on.
So confused right now. No cusses please. Thanks Stells
*He is right though...YOU LIED and he has a right to be angry with you.
Never borrow money from someone you are in a relationship with cos of stories that touch and sometimes Disrespect that follows....
Please run around to pay him back his money and move on...I dont think the relationship will ever be the same....
Well at least be happy to know that the situation brought out the devil in him.
So sad!!!!
ReplyDeleteMMM gone wrong
DeleteGirl there was no "relationship" in the first place.
DeleteWhat I saw here was a business deal from a shyock that does not even know his onions.
How stupid can some girls be?
How can someone who claims to love you lend money to you with almost 50% interest?
Will he like that to be done to him? Don't you see that this fails the basic tenets of what love is?
Please stay away from such a greedy character.
Pay him back the remaining 100k forget about interest and break off the relationship.
DeleteHe does have a right to be angry, for d lies.. But I'm wondering if he would've been more considerate to your plight if he knew the truth.. There's nothing wrong with borrowing money from your partner, so long you're being honest..
DeleteEven mmm will not pay the kind of interest her so called boyfriend demanded. My dear agreement na agreement pay him his remaining 250k. Next time you want to strike a deal with someone get a lawyer or SDK visitors to go through the terms and conditions.
DeleteThis chronicle has SCAM written all over it but if your chronicle is true, then I'll go straight to d point.
Delete1) u invested in "money doubling ponzi scheme" and dats y your bf insisted on interest.
2) if you actually lost the money, then you can't payback what you don't have, so there isn't any need to send in a chronicle.
3) so many people here lost money to ponzi schemes so don't think you can whip up emotional sentiment here. I don't think u will get a dime from here.
4) whatever happens, YOU WILL BE FINE.
just thank me later.
Wowie what a bf. I can't have such a bf, never.
DeleteI hope you didn't invest in a Ponzi scheme. Anyway oyo na your case.
But a boyfriend that borrows you money on a condition of such high interest. Is that a boyfriend at all?
DeleteThis is not a chronicle. This is character flaw exhibition of two adults. An inconsiderate uncompassionate man and a lady with little commonsense.
DeleteSMH! The heading along don make me weak. Hope its not what I'm thinking? Let me read. Space booked! ☝
ReplyDeleteIs this the first time you're asking him for money? Have you been tolerating his greed and stinginess before now? Because to me oh 400k is money your bae should contribute to your business not loan you with a knife to your neck. A good guy will even say you should take 50% as his support and pay him back 50%. WHY should he ask for interest? That alone should have been a sign to not get involved in this money with him. When your friends or sisters or your family borrow you money do they ask to interest? I dont know the kind of guys you people date. Because you dont want to be single you go and be with soemone who has bad money habits.
DeleteBaby geh, you see if I were you i won't pay him one naira. You were duped and you dont have it 😐 and the said guy isnt worth it anyway. Apart from relationship, as a friend is that the right approach to use? Even using family to threaten you? If I were you i won't pay him an extra dime until I can tell him to his face that he's a greedy scumbag. He doesn't even have shame saying this out. How my bobo go borrow me money ask for profit? Is he crazy? He would be terrible business partner!!
And You too why did you lie? Forming independent woman abi? You people actually think that when you show a man you have it all figured out you become more attractive? Come let me show you damsels in distress marrying well behaved young men. You wanted to form bulldozer and started telling lies. I'm sure you're even lying to your parents. You now collected money from them to pay the undeserving Boyfriend. God saved you that you're not 30km radius near me. I would have tied you to a tree and flogged your ass red.
As in ehh... profit and you guys are dating?... abeg whenever you pay him, move on from him biko. You still want to keep a guy that is treating you like cause of money?!!!....
DeleteChikito you are so correct. A guy who loves you will never lend you money with an interest, he will either give you all, half of it, or wait till you pay bk the money without reminding you of it. My dear, this shows that you have been dating yourself for 3yrs. That guy sees no future with you. And why would he tell his people what happened?? And why would they hate you if he eventually does. Yes you lied, but with a reason, that he should have understood. Pay him whenever you get the money or let him do his worse. And dont ever rob your family again to pay him. Nonsense.
DeleteHmmm. Sis you that's always screaming women shouldn't give men especially when dating, so men can invest while dating? As if marriage is guaranteed?
DeleteThat's not just double standard but outright shameful. Despite all you girls rant, you objectify women. She can ask and take but shouldn't give. Arrant nonsense. When you get home we'll talk more. But I'm ashamed you'd spew this trash in public.
@Poster...if you are sincere with the story of what happened to you...run around to get 100k more and pay him. In my opinion, that's all you owe him. 150k interest and you guys are dating? Selfish air-head. Abeg that is not relationship...I don't even think that guy have your interest at heart. Pay 100k and pack up the relationship yourself. Stella sef!!!
DeleteChikito, That one no follow for boo na. Yeye gold digger he is. Interest ko, interest ni.
DeleteThis Poster sounds annoying too sha. Where I have a probs with her is that she lied to her gold digging so called bf and even her parents join. Who does that?
Agreement is agreement so you have to run around and pay him back his money. As for d relationship, fogerrit it.
Bros sorry. But I can't fit Abeg. My comment is based on personal experience. That interest spells greed. Let it even be that he is aksing for his loan back. NOT INTEREST.
DeleteBabe when you get money, pay him off for good , dont let him put you under unnecessary pressure. Mk you no go get hbp oooooo. If have been dating yourself all this while and you no know. Thank God for things He reveals to His children.
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
DeleteUgegbe m haff vex.
But the said boyfriend is very wicked
Now i see why you single @chikito. You are so stupid, frustrated and bitter! Go and check your character old cargo.
DeleteThank you sis.
DeleteMake I join una family tonight.
How person boyfriend go dey ask for interest?
He's her fuck mate not boyfriend
Anonymous 23:43 you're a goat, ewu Gambia!
DeleteFirstly, the relationship is not meant to last, how will be so called BF borrow me money and still demand interest on it? It's so ridiculous and for you, you're not duped, you invested the money in MMM, so look for his money and pay him and after that, cut off every relationship with him
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Was weak too reading that he asked for interest.
DeleteAhahaha..@MMM.
DeleteWill anyone use borrowed money to do MMM inspite of the issues surrounding it??? Only lazy fools will. And if thats what the poster used it for, then she deserves the treatment meted out to her. And that's one hell of a boyfriend though.
Your boyfriend is an idiot. How can he demand for 150k interest on top 400k, that's almost 50% interest. Na wetin??? Even esusu will not demand for that kind of interest. Abeg look for that money any legit way you can and bid the goat farewell. That's not a relationship jare. Beht you sef, why will you make that kind of agreement with him ehn??
DeleteI suspect the investment she talked about is MMM. Because MMM duped her the 1st time and come back again duped her again.
DeleteThat reminds me
Fan Emmanuel I hope you did not put your money into MMM again because rumor has it that they are on 2nd holiday.
Eeyahhh..
ReplyDeleteMoney prowess ....
Why dint I read this cronicle since na, I feel like buying the fight abeg look for his 100k to give him, don't I repeat don't give him any extra 150k. Wait first did you guys sign any contract? No so he should get out such courage. I just taya for the kind of guys you people date, who cares about what his family thinks? Don't even marry his type cus I pity you, anything you do na family go hear about it, pls give him the 100k but take your fucking time if he can't wait he should go to hell, infact get another boyfriend. This chronicle just annoyed the shit of me and if I ask you, you will tell me you people are making love. If you leave shit na him it go dey smell mtchew
DeleteThe guy sef. That money is much but try and balance him the remaining cash and know for sure you are no more in relationship with him. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteThat guy is a very micked man haba, how can he ask for 150k interest, he doesn't like u at allllll, and to think u are giving him steady nacking is very annoying,are u a learnet,if it's me i won't pay the balance,babe u be real EWU.
ReplyDeleteAs in eh, very sfuoid boyfriend.no bank can give such interest in 2months. No genuine business of 400k can give such profit in 2months either. He was greedy that's y he lent u the money, he is lucky he has seen 300k. The relationship has already ended so pay yourself the 100k let him go to hell. Milking his own gf ,nonsense. He has been played ntor
DeleteThis ur bf na wa. He wanted 150k extra on top what na. My dear, try and pay up what you owe him, and do not beg him to take you back oo. He insulted you on top money matter. I have learnt never borrow money to ur bf ooo. I learnt the hard way.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, this is not a chronicle, just open up to your father, he will help u out.
ReplyDeleteYes to telling her dad. No to him giving her money. Has the man not tried?? Which kind daddy's girl moves?
DeleteForget about the relationship and just try to get his money paid.
ReplyDeleteHmmm babe stop using the word boyfriend. 3 years of relationship and extra years of friendship and he couldn't even support your dreams. He actually loaned you money with interest? This is not a relationship but friends with benefits but the problem here is that there is no benefits. Please at least pay him the complete money he loaned you. You might forget the interest for now till your business bounced back. The guy is not a good person at all o.
ReplyDeleteYou can say that again, stupid boyfriend. Or is the poster lying? The interest rate is too much even abokis don't lend on such rate
DeleteSupport MMM dream? Joker!
DeleteStella, i agree with you on this 100%
ReplyDelete@ Poster, what just happened with your BF is called see finish.
That relationship is over, go and look for where to get the money and pay him back before he will openly disgrace you.
You should have told him when you got duped. Tell your parents the truth also, money doesn't grow on trees everybody dey hustle. See lies are like wounds the more you cover them the more they grow wider.
ReplyDeleteAn agreement is one you must always keep. You both agreed on when debt would be repaid, sadly you couldn't meet the deadline. When you had issues you should have told him that's why it's a relationship and reason he trusted you enough to give you 400k. You owe him that much, truth. He has every right to be upset like everyone would be. Also, you need to find out why your businesses keep failing and reason you get duped at every whim. Maybe the kind of business you're into isn't God's will for you or you just don't have enough information to run it to be successful. Try to give him time to calm down then go and beg him again to give you time to pay back. Explain to him why you were afraid to tell him the truth and tell him you were ashamed of failing yourself and him. Forget about salvaging the relationship for now and focus on how to repay him his money. If he gives you time to pay back, please find family members who can assist you till you can get back on your feet. Hopefully, he calms down and understands your stance or you let him go.
ReplyDeletePele
She either did MMM or s spinoff of it. Cyclers or some other shit. If not why only her being duped and losing money, kilode!
DeletePay him back and move on.
ReplyDeleteBut what got me is the interest a whooping 18% interest. For someone you are dating... That interest is kinda huge except he borrowed the money from someone on your behalf sha
You shouldn't have lied too.
Pay the money and move on. He has his issues and you weren't straight either
Kinda huge? It's ridiculous!!! Na bank?
DeleteYou mean to say 38% interest I guess. It's not 18% pls.
DeleteI read the chronicle and can't stop laughing. How can your boyfriend borrow you money with interest.
DeleteWhat kind of broke ass boyfriends gives his Bae money and asks for interest.😲😲😲
When they say you people should date men who will respect and support your hustle, you will not
IT is to be dating boys in pencil jeans that cannot give their woman money to support their business that you will be following about.
How can you date a guy you can't tell the truth of been duped.
Infact it should be him that should be helping you look for money to sort your father as against you borrowing from your father to pay him.
Just pay his balance and dnt pay him anymore interest.
As a boyfriend all the free fcuking you have been giving him should cover for the interest.
Poster tell your father about it and sort your dad when November money comes.
Dnt go back to that loser except you have a thing for been with idiots
LEP😛
How many of your boyfriends don loan you 400.000? Yall bitches are so full of shits
DeleteLol ooo... all the free fucking and sucking
DeleteHe is very right to get angry with you. Why did you ask him for a loan in the first place. You should have been contented with what your father loaned you and restructured your business plan to suit that amount. Your boyfriend even tried to loan you a whole 400k but he was wicked in asking for 150K interest in two abi three months sef. And you were stupid to accept the loan under those conditions. Does your greedy boyfriend think he will get a whole 150K in 6 days if he had fixed that money at the bank? Abi he thought you were going into money doubling business.
ReplyDeleteI am angry at both of you. You for not having a well thought out plan before going around borrowing abi you don't kno the bible said he who goes aborrowing goes asorrowing. See as u don put urself for igbese.
And I am angry at your bf for his wickedness. He could have refused to loan you 400k and instead sowed 100k as a gift into your business.
In conclusion since I don vex for una two: find his money and pay him ASAP. I seriously detest people owing me or me owing someone. My body will be pinching me so I know how ur bf feels.
*excuse any typos. Ain't gat time to proof read honey
Lol your advice is the truth! Spot on! She took a loan under those conditions and as painful as it is should be able to honour it. My dad and bros are like that. If yoi ask for a loan they expect you to honour it. If you want them to dash you they will once it's for a good reason and will never ask for the money back. I hate loaning people money and when it's time they disappoint me. Also he was very wicked to demand that kind of interest. Interest at all sef. If someone asks me for a loan and they aren't in my trust category I dash them the amount I can so when it's time to pay me back, if they now start giving excuses I know it's money I could part with
DeleteExcuse me...why can't she borrow from her boyfriend.
DeleteAre they not dating or isn't he supposed to be her better half and to support her life hustle.
Bianca Bruno am really disappointed in your level of reasoning, so a girl can't borrow from her man again.
Is she even supposed to borrow or he supposed to give her😤😤😤
LEP😛
Bianca chop kiss jare.
DeletePoster you made a mistake by lying to him at first instance! But that does not warrant him not understanding your predicament you are in now!
ReplyDeleteDon't go and kill your self now.Cut off the relationship and give your final word when you can be able to raise the cash for him.If can't take it let him go to the police.When you get there ask them to give you time to pay the money.
Wishing you luck!
Nawa for that your boyfriend o, try get d 100k balance and pay him, dint give him any interest o since he's done with the relationship...
ReplyDeleteAsin ehnn. Interest for what???. Pay him his 100 k, he can goan die or pluck 150k frm d trees cos thatss where he thinks u get it from. Abi na mmm u do?
DeleteWhat kind of boyfriend lends his girlfriend money for business and asks for interest even higher than a bank?..."kill and dry microfinance bank"
ReplyDeleteWhy will you do a business with a whole lot of money you borrowed?
ReplyDeleteWhy not start small, then when you see progress you borrow. If you had borrowed money from the bank is that how you will be complaining?
I don't blame your bf for been angry, who knows maybe he loaned that money from his place of work and his salary is been deducted or he saved it for something important. If he has called off the r/ship so be it, maybe he is so angry and mad with time he will calm down and you can call him.
Pls ayam not understanding o... You mean person wey dey fuck u steady borrowed u money and actually expects you to pay back and even pay with interest sef? Orishirishi
ReplyDeleteAh! If you say it now they will come and ask you if you're a prostitute. He should give her interest on all the pussy juice she has given. Don't even come and tell me there was no sex involved 😐 I won't belive you cos nigga seems to have f**ked your brains out.
DeleteHaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa see me laughing seriously on this comment, I've never heard of such too
Delete*Larry was here*
Lmfaooooo
DeleteWhy did you lie to him at the 1st place?
ReplyDeleteThe only solution is to find money and pay him.
But that your boyfriend na wa ooo..
Collecting interest for waiting nau
Chike don't try that with me oohh 😐👈 heeen...
DeleteHahahaha, Chikito baby you no go kill me abeg. Chike I hope you heard what your Ugegbe said? 😂😂😂
DeleteUgegbe m I told my money, My body na your own. We will have joint account but I will be the only one funding the account. So don't worry yourself Baby, I gat you. 😘😘😘
DeleteStrong woman I haff hear 😂😂😂😂
Na wa! Which kind Bf be this? So he can't even help you out?? You were dating yourself all along my dear, Pele!
ReplyDeleteYou lied, I know you put the money into MMM. Your boyfriend is a greedy thief, why telling you to pay with 150k interest ?
ReplyDeleteNo advice for you here. You both deserve each other.
Buhahahah. MMM! Oh Chi m oh 🙆 its true
DeleteLolx..
DeleteTwo cunny mushuru
I suspected MMM too.. The guy wants to reap too...
DeleteBut wait... Is this one a boyfriend?? Dear lawd
Even banks won't loan you 400k to collect 150k interest in 2 months! 10% of 400k is 40k x 2= 80k. You want to do business and you left your brain at home. You are very foolish and your boyfriend took advantage of your stupidity. How can he do that to you? Loaning you 400k to get 150k interest from you in 2 months. This chronicle must spoilt my day.
ReplyDeleteDid i hear an interest of 150k. Nne you have been dating urself all along. You should not have told a lie. From the moment u were duped u should have told him d truth but that dsnt justify d words he said. So find a way to pay him n stop begging den move on with ur life. I think u need to put ur thinking cap on when making business deals.
ReplyDeleteWhat did you use the money for? MMM or one of its brethren I guess. That is why you can't open up on the type of business you did.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, that man is not nice. I'm sure if it was the other way round, you would have forgiven him and even forfeit the rest of the money. Ladies with their fish brain.
Let him go. And don't kill yourself if you can't get the remaining money. Tell him you will pay instalmentally. Let him threaten fire and brimstone. Infact don't give him any interest. Pay only the 100k of his original money.
Girl you lied, period.
ReplyDeleteYour guy too get temper, but ain't no one joking with that kinda of money for this post recession.
So let me say it clearly incase you don't get it, the relationship is OVER, like OVER, don't waste your energy crying, begging or regretting, because you are a grown woman and you know what grown folks do? They move on!!
I don't understand your boyfriend. But you were very wrong by lying. You should have told him point blank that you were duped. He wouldn't have killed you or would he? Now to the main matter I think he is taking the matter too far. You never said you won't pay so what is he on about. Anyway run around and pay him and then you will know the next step
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it, borrowing you money was bad enough, he come add interest join, what a boyfriend!
DeleteI don't want hear you paid him back and still stay with him, because there's nothing desperation cannot cause.
You need figure out a way to tell your parents too , they deserve the truth, even though you were robbing Peter to pay Paul, and now Peter has to suffer too. From the look of things you might rob Patrick to pay Peter and the cycle continues.
Break that lie chain now and face the consequences.
Don Mayor chop kiss. They both deserve each other. They are both greedy. The lady did Ponzi scheme. The boyfriend too wanted 150k interest ontop 400k in two months. Thieves!
ReplyDeleteThe boyfriend is a very stupid thief. 150k on top 400k. Find his remaining 100k and give him. Let him go to court for the balance. The court will never give him 150k interest for 2 months of investment. Tell your parents what happened. Stop lying to yourself and other people. Do t date your boyfriend again. He's a cheat.
ReplyDeletehahahahaha the Don. Thank you she put the money on MMM because they give higher interest. How can you borrow and add interest including all the fucking he will be giving you. Abeg dont pay interest. Tell him it is the fuck fuck is the interest you have paid. Try and look for his 100,000 and give to him.
ReplyDeleteMe i borrow people money up to 3 million, pay na problem. Anyway I told God that it is my money, i did not borrow, so He should bless me more. So i am not that worried because God has my back.
Hahahahahahaha! You and this your fuck fuck. They both enjoyed it na if na that one. The interest thingy is really annoying. Someone you call ya boo. For wetin kwanu? Nawa!
DeleteMy dear pls find his money and pay him back then run away from him fast. What sort of a boyfriend is that? Pay him back with interest?? Hian. Others are encouraging and supporting their girlfriends this one is asking for interest. My dear U are not a girlfriend. U r a business partner. Sorry
ReplyDeleteWhy agree to an interest that huge in the first place? I put it to you that you didn't intend to start a business but put it into all these quick yield 'investments'. No true business person will accept that kind of interest.
ReplyDeleteFor a 3 years relationship, you could not open up to your ex about your failed venture but instead continued lying. Hian! And the lies are still piling up as you are lying to your parents as well and now owe your dad N800k.
Tell your boyfriend you were duped and you will come up with his balance, borrow from your father if you have to again. I have an issue with the way your boyfriend has reacted though...good your characters came out.
You should have opened up to him when you were initially duped, try and pay him the balance and take a walk from him...what kind of boyfriend will demand interest for helping you.
ReplyDeleteIts really very annoying when someone borrows you money and you can't get it back. Poster you were wrong not to tell him since he is your boyfriend. You would have still gone back and explained things to him pending when they pay you. Its an integrity issue.
ReplyDeleteSorry, but your boy friend is a mad man. Banks don't even ask for such interest over a short period of time. This is coming from a man, you had better run away immediately you pay him back. Is he doing you a favour by dating you? I can't even remember the amount of money, running into thousands of dollars that I have given out to my girlfriend as loans. We just laugh about it because that is what love is alll about. I even joke with her that my own loans to her turn to gifts while her own loans to me must be paid back. No man that loves you will ever demand interest from a money he gave you to support your dreams.
ReplyDeleteEven if you get the money to pay him, you will still run back to him after all this.
Interesting
ReplyDeleteIn as much as I feel a strong urge to sympathize with u I also feel a need to scold the shit out of u. U had parents who gave u 500k and 400k from ur boyfriend and u were duped. My dear in this recession calls for extreme wideness there are people like us who need both house rent and money for business with 200k we would have tried to turn that 200k around so it's paining me that someone misplaced 900k. It is well I guess we all make mistakes. Please that ur boyfriend is a mad man. He is greedy and harsh as hell and this is his exact true colour. Truth be told he has a right to be mad but seeing u have made an effort to pay back 300k should have calmed him a bit and you asking for time to pay the rest back. Please pay him and run far he is no good at all. Please next time be carefull as there are people who do not have half the opportunity u were given
ReplyDeletePay him what you borrowed and move on. Although you should not have agreed to add interest in the first instance the guy is greedy what kind of business yield that much in a short time
ReplyDeleteStella,not again today na, where's my comment? After taking my time and strength to type,you won't post. Nawa oh
ReplyDeletePoster love and money do not gel well at all, you made a big mistake by borrowing money from him in the first place, some people gorge about friendship, love when it comes to money matter. You can't get that trust back anymore I advise you run round anything you can raise give it to him pending when you can have the remaining balance, move on with your life that guy is not in love with you, cos of 250k balance he has to end your relationship of five good years babe that guy is not good for you.
ReplyDeleteYou also made a mistake by hiding the truth from him from the on set, look elsewhere for love, move on with your life, but what kind of business will you invest 900k on a blow without starting little by little? Hopkins not mmm and twinkas,?
A boyfriend you couldn't tell you were duped😳😳😳what is a relationship if you can't tell him you were duped??You both fit each other,he wants interest on money you borrowed and you lied to him too.Please pay him his money and move on.
ReplyDeleteTry to get him his money and move on.....
ReplyDeleteWhat I learnt from your story:
ReplyDelete1. You are greedy and not straight forward, that is why you got duped.
2. It also mean that you are not careful with money
3. Your boyfriend is money conscious, money is a big deal to him instead of helping you
4. He has no real love and patience or your interest. You can see that he values his money over you
5. He seems to be someone who mistrust people easily
6. Change your ways, pay him and move on
Una no dey fuck...he borrow u money
ReplyDeleteIf you are dating a guy and you ask him to borrow you money and he asks for interest in return, pls dump him.
ReplyDeleteNobody got time for a broke ass who can't support his woman's hustle.
God forbid I date a broke ass male or female.
Poster tell him you cannot pay him till November, if he vex let him take you to the police.
In Nigeria nobody can inprison you for borrowing the worst that can happen is that the police will ask when you can pay and you give them a time convenient for you.
Keep to your November and tell him not to disturb your peace until then.
As for your father tell him the whole truth.
When all this is done try and pay back your father something no matter how small, that way it shows that you are not some irresponsible daughter.
Tell you idiot boyfriend you cannot pay him till November and dnt kill yourself with HBP before then.
Just hustle the money and give him a date and dnt go back to the broke ass relationship.
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Dating male or female? So you banging both sexes? Na wah o.
DeleteAll I can say is an agreement is an agreement pay him his 100k and use the balance as your payoff. Oton
ReplyDeleteMmm don come again o....people go die because did them do now pass last year.June and July has not bn paid oo
ReplyDeleteDear poster, what sort of business did you invest in that you had to borrow money. It's obviously a Ponzi scheme because of the high expected interest involved. If you had been truthful about the nature of your business/inVestment, perhaps your family/boyfriend might have discouraged you. Even after you got duped, you still lied to cover up. You have yourself to blame. Come clean with your parents and desist from Ponzi investments.
ReplyDeleteIt's only wen u r abt to invest in a ponzi scheme dt u wld promis an interest of 150k for a 400k loan within 2months! Lady, u ran faster dan ur shadow. U hv a fada dt gv u 500k(not 50k oooo...) for business yet u still went for d devil's carrot. Hop u c wat ur impatience has caused u. Wld I blame d guy? NO! U weren't coerced at gunpoint to enta such obnoxious agreement wit him. To d guy, biko collect ur balance 100k & forfeit d interest.
ReplyDeleteYes I agree you didn't open up to your boyfriend about being duped that maybe because you know how he would react but which loving boyfriend would ask for such an interest and even call off a relationship cos of a loan? What kind of business did you tell him you were investing in? From this your story your boyfriend is just one of a kind,why threaten you with his family.
ReplyDeleteI mean as a good boyfriend shouldn't he be protecting you from his family, he should be covering for you but he is willing to expose you just like that. My dear its seems the family is full of lions and beaters better run for your dear life.
Its either you are always taking loans from your boyfriend and never paying back or the boyfriend just did not love her enough.
No matter the amount of money involved I believe a relationship is about love and sacrifice.
But in my own opinion you can keep the remaining money and interest as your pension for services rendered while in active service.
issa thief and not a boyfriend. 150k from where
ReplyDeleteHe who goes a-borrowing, goes a-sorrowing says the old saying..You didnt settle down to think and plan of that business and with what you said, its like 10kobo of your money didnt go into that ''business''..That means you did it at spur-of-the-moment..Why did you agree to such outrageous interest. That guy is a ''Shylock'' in Merchant Of Venice and very wicked..Babe next time you are in a relationship, stop borrowing from guys you go out with, its like mixing business with pleasure..Just give something to fuss out cause you lied to him on top..May God help you and Tell your parents cause at this juncture, they are the ones that can truly help you..
ReplyDeleteI remember when I was in school then, I ate part of my school fees , I had to beg one guy that was asking me out to help me, promised to refund him in 2 months but the money i expected didnt come..This guy came to my hostel then in Hall 2, and created a scene, when i was able to pay him after the embarassment, he started asing me out again..Can you Imagine? I just told him to fcukk off!! Idiot..Na so Amnesia dey worry me..
MMM be swallowing peoples money since nineteen gbogboro.
ReplyDeleteIf truly you invested in such not wise of you at all cos they said you should use
your spare cash. Anyways, you have learnt the hard way. Just look for the 100k and
give the guy. Its an eye opener for you that this type of guy is not tolerant at all.
Boyfriend wey no dey tolerant is that one a boyfriend???
You are not a truthful person, your boyfriend is selfish, greedy and wicked. Start by telling the truth to your dad, I'm sure he'll help you. But please, don't you ever date someone you cannot tell it to as it is. Don't date someone who you can't open up to no matter how ugly the situation is, please. Ex: I was raped in the uni, not by my bf but a guy who was my friend, my bf who lives outside the country was the second person I called after my dad. My bf and I went through my therapy together though he was not physically present. The incident didn't tear us apart, though we are no longer together. See,whatever you do, please poster, let truth be your friend. I hope you'll learn from this. Say the truth no matter how hard it seems.
ReplyDeleteHe who goes a-borrowing, goes a-sorrowing says the old saying..You didnt settle down to think and plan of that business and with what you said, its like 10kobo of your money didnt go into that ''business''..That means you did it at spur-of-the-moment..Why did you agree to such outrageous interest. That guy is a ''Shylock'' in Merchant Of Venice and very wicked..Babe next time you are in a relationship, stop borrowing from guys you go out with, its like mixing business with pleasure..Just give something to fuss out cause you lied to him on top..May God help you and Tell your parents cause at this juncture, they are the ones that can truly help you..
ReplyDeleteI remember when I was in school then, I ate part of my school fees , I had to beg one guy that was asking me out to help me, promised to refund him in 2 months but the money i expected didnt come..This guy came to my hostel then in Hall 2, and created a scene, when i was able to pay him after the embarassment, he started asing me out again..Can you Imagine? I just told him to fcukk off!! Idiot..Na so Amnesia dey worry me..
This chronicle makes me angry.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart stop saying "my boyfriend". That person is not your boyfriend. So he lends you money with interest? Lol? We humans sef. Plz try to pay him and move on. Hr is not your boyfriend. Thank God you didn't marry him.
ReplyDeleteHelo madam if you can find 50k to give that fool you call a boyfriend, if you didn't see don't bother urself since the relationship is over that's ur pay off from the relationship, Pls tell your dad that you are duped, 50k should be ur payment for all the sex he has with you For all ur time he spend with Abi u never hear say time na money, then if you ever give him 10kobo from his so-called interest then you are a fool, if the table is turned believe me that guy won't give you 10kobo & will still break up with you, you Don try well well by giving him 300k if na me he won't see 1naira this is what we called Ife emetara na ENYI, I no dy pay am back ooo, is obvious you are a learner
ReplyDeleteposter, I don't want to insult you. How can a lover borrow you money with interest? And you people are still dating? And if he prophesies love, you believe? Get ready for heartbreak
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