What kind of mentality thinks like this?I am so shocked reading this ...............
So women who have babies via CS are not real women?WOW!
Second hand?....Well colour me bad,Had all my boyfriends via CS and don't care what anybody thinks.
I pray men with mentalities like this become extinct in Jesus name!
Hisss!
When will people stop all these rubbish? We're in 21st century for crying out loud. Maybe I will be the one to change my mum's mentality about CS as well cos since I've been reading about LRD, I've been thinking of Elective CS
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Why are you always crying out loud?
DeleteAnd you are always in the 21st century?
I had all my three kids (two boys and a girl) via CS. Thank God for the support of my husband, God bless him. I pray God will open every one's eye to the benefit of birthing through CS and enlighten the novice.
DeleteNa Wa o, in my parents street, there use to be a woman that makes hair, we call them "onidiri". She was in Labour for so long and the doctor suggested CS but her Inlaws said how can she allow her husband to waste money that she should be taken to church, she was carried to church and placed on the alter for days nothing happened and she eventually lost her life with that of the baby. When I heard the news I felt so sad cos her first born was still very young.i had my first normally and my second via CS
DeleteI had an elective cs cause a week to my edd I started getting scared and panic attacks, so I just informed my doc, I picked a date strolled in and had my son, when it was time for my daughters I did same, this time I dint even tell anyone, I went in the theater alone sef. Perfect dates for the perfect kids and God saw me through
DeleteNa mumu dey worry am,
Deletethis is my testimony.
One fine Sun morning, I woke up to get ready for church at 6am, after going to wee next thing I felt something warm i got up saw blood dropping next was a gush at (36weeks+5 days) gastetional age. Bleeding? For belle women dey trip at how good I looked? So strong with no sickness at all, Oh! Lord No! Not after battling PCOS and getting pregnant after 3 yrs of being called a man at my 23yrs of age when I know we don't have such in my family.
I and hubby called on God, I called the women leader in the church to call pastor that all should pray for me and tell church too.
Off we headed to Prime Hospital that morning. When we got there, it was the junior Doc that was on duty as it was a sunday early morning.
I said to him look I'm 36 weeks gone and I'm bleeding and my baby is not moving... He was like how heavy I said I came with the bedsheet which I was standing on so no long talk.
When he saw the lumps and clot of blood, i was rushed in and they call all the specialist in the hospital that there is an emergency.... See me naked before 5 male docs i no fit shame o! my hubby no even fit shame self Lol! Him that used to tell me " no allow male doc do you scan oh!. My baby's heart beat was dropping to 134..... And i wasn't even diluted just 1cm the doc said Na SC o! He put his hand inside me and brought out heavy blood clot, he said to me and hubby look your planceta has detached from the womb wall and your baby is running out of hoxygen, i started talking to my little Angel, I told her we both came together alive and non of us is leaving without each other out of this hospital and never to the dead world, I scratched my tommy and she moved I said yes you can hear me.I didn't even think twice I said pls go ahead cause I know what planceta abuptrue means.
Hubby signed for a go ahead, bought blood and donated too. I asked him to call my family and inform them before people say he used us for money purpose cos when God start blessing you after long suffering people go say Na blood money.
After the operation I was still bleeding they were giving me injections to stop it. like 2 hrs plus... I started reacting to the pain killer given to me, my eyes were bulging out of the sockets with terrible headache and pain, see confussion doctors were running here and there, I was in pains and screaming, they gave me some drugs again to nutralise the pain killer and I was left to bear the pains of CS operation cos they were scared of what might happen next. my bum bum, my veins were all in pain from the injections and drips for up to 3 months I couldn't run cos of pains in my bum bum .
like 5 hrs after the operation my blood pressure sky rocked I became swollen like 4 times my size...
My mother in-law ( God bless that woman) took the place of my mum (RIP MOTHER) she would run into the toilet and cry her eyes out thinking I was not noticing her, she closed the curtains to prevent me from looking at the glass window. This woman and one of my friends cleaned out my blood, looked after our baby cos I couldn't come down to even breast feed, carry me both up and down the bed as I couldn't move due to how swollen I was, I noticed and called the doc on night duty that I was swollen he was just going round and round I said look I'm not a fool what is going on? My liver? Kidney? Or heart? That was when he told me my blood pressure is extremely high and my liver was not responding to drugs that they had to put me on observation. Hmmmmmmm only me?
My people God saw us through we both came out healthy and hearty. It took me 3 months to reduce from how swollen i was not baby weight o!.
When I called a Friend that I have given birth, first thing she asked was " Na natural birth?" I said no CS, she said ha weytin happened babe? You no fit push pikin? I just asked her you wey push way your award.
Is been 5yrs now and we are TTC again and by God's grace and time we will.
OSNAC! You brought tears to Gangster's eyes! God bless you and your family!! 😍 what a moving story! What faith & courage!
DeleteOSNAC you scared the shot out of me. Sorry dear, God will answer your prayers and this time, it will be like the Hebrew woman
Delete*Larry was here*kk
Amen! Thanks everyone, God bless you all too.
DeleteChoi na real push award 🥇. Thank God for His mercy.
DeleteThat woman husband no try at all. What a wicked thing to say to your wife.
I read some things and I just wish it wasn't true. Hian!
ReplyDeletenot a sin for me
ReplyDeleteall that concerns me is the child
#GOAT™
what about the mum(your wife)?
DeleteSuch a cruel man!!!!!
DeleteAmen
ReplyDeleteThe man probably did not mean it that way. He stated his reasons to be financial. The economic reality in Nigeria today has turned folks to zombies.
ReplyDeleteThese days doctors do not take anything less than 150k to do CS. Greed is a disease superimposed on the "recession". And note that the politrictians do not know any recession.
Thanks Anonymous, you have a point! I was surprised when my sister told me she paid a quarter of a million naira for her cesarean section.
DeleteI never knew it was that expensive. Now, I know why some people are scared; monetary factor.
Even with that, she should not be blamed. If he wasn't ready for eventualities, he shouldn't have impregnated her. There are so many reasons beyond her control that could lead to CS...the baby is too big, she is not dilating properly,etc.
DeleteIf they didn't do the CS and the baby or mum dies, it is the man that will bring the story here and blame the hospital for negligence. The man has no point whatsoever. The welfare of his wife and child should be his ultimate goal at that point.
U re right anon. It's not bcos it's seen as an abomination,but bcos of d money.
DeleteIn fact,right from when I started hearing of dis cs s/thing, it's 150k, so dnt blame pple who fear cs ...lol
Quarter of a million is small na go and ask Nisa premier how far hahaha
DeleteYes is true, then I paid 480 plus thousand naira though mine was planceta complications and private ward that was 5 yrs ago. Don't know what they charge now.
DeleteHad mine for almost a million though I lost the baby I saved my womb for another one which I also had through CS and I tell you only real women use this method
DeleteWhich one be only real women use cs. Abeg shut up.
DeleteShe has low self esteem.tell her that to awaken her brain.
ReplyDeleteShe shld overlook that senseless being called husband of hers cos even a pregnancy for one day,I can bet the useless man can't handle it
As I usually say,mothers,let's continue to talk,train and continue training our male child. Its evident from his kinda home training and the environment he grew in. Our boys has a lot to learn and contribute in the home
Let him go and marry another first class girl.nonsense. I lack words to give this horseband cos he may not read this sef.
The man is an ingrate, the woman shouldn't bother her pretty head cos of hubbys archaic reasoning.....
ReplyDeleteThe husband is an illiterate, so dumb. He that is "strong" as a lion, why did he not bear the pregnancy for 9 months.
ReplyDeleteIs this what Uncle B has caused?
Stella this mentality is even among the learned. Imagine my former neighbours, the older one was telling the younger one that shes not a woman because she had her 2kids tru CS....that she the older one had all her kids naturally so shes a woman....i just shook my head....i dont know whether its Africa or Nigeria o....wen one delivers, u hear thank God o....i hope nor b tru CS...naso we see am
ReplyDelete#My case is different
I live in the UK and had my gorgeous ones by CS and my depressed in-law especially their elder sister has made it known twice that I dint do a good job.
ReplyDeleteWith the second one she dint call me to congratulate me, called my husband and he gave me the phone and she said CS again; stupid idiot.
She actually told me I can't have a son for them but God will have His way and His name be glorified for ever; I had both sexes.
Children are gifts from God, so many people seeking the face of God amd I don't understand why anyone will fill uve done less by having through CS, its just ridiculous amd big time illiteracy.
Please tell the lady to enjoy every step of her baby because they grow really quick and you don't want yo forget each milestone cos she will be depressed and wont even remember where it all went.
Hehehehehe. I never see DAT person (in law for DAT matter) that will say DAT to me. M sure their brother would have warned them before hand. Nonsense n ingredient
DeleteCan u imagine
DeleteAnd I learnt dat children dat are birthed thru cs grow up to bcom great.( I know some of them sef)
DeleteNd even, their moms dnt joke with them, cos of dat extra pain.
Thank you @omeh...I never see where in law alive or yet to be born will talk to me anyhow even though I am yet to be married.
DeleteOh God! Women have suffered all in the name of marriage. Why didn't the man carry the pregnancy himself? Can you imagine what came out of the horseband's mouth? End time horseband
ReplyDeleteThat is no husband and she should leave with the child God gave her. What nonsense! Men that will act like they are about to die when they have the flu meanwhile you'd see a woman going through the same thing while taking care of kids and weathering the storm.
ReplyDeleteThis story I believe because I remember a man giving a testimony in church thanking God for saving his wife's life after he refused to sign the papers agreeing for her to be operated on. They lost the baby but she survived. Women in church just started to murmur and hiss at his testimony. Imagine, risking his wife's life while using God as a wedge. Maternal mortality rate keeps increasing because some silly husbands refuse to sign off. Nigeria has the second highest maternal mortality rate in the world.
Arrant nonsense.
Our neighbour told her sister she is not strong because she induced before giving birth. That being induced before giving is not natural. Imagine such nonsense.
DeleteShe should live with the child God gave her?
DeleteYou are always advising women to leave, as if You would leave if you were the one.
Do you think it's that easy to leave?
I think the man should be educated or enlightened about ceasarian section.
If he knew how cs has been saving lives(both mothers and babies), he wouldn't make such careless statement.
Enlightenment about cs should be given to people( both men and women) in this part of the world!
So many people are still scared when it comes to cs, even the educated individuals.
And I also think cs should also be made more affordable to the people.
Inducing ids not bad nah. You can imagine a pregnancy that is already 42 weeks and the baby is still not ready to come out.
DeleteMy Darling wife gave birth via C.S though she never wanted it, but because she wasn't dilated enough. She had to go under the knife. My Joy was that it was successful done with no complications. I didn't even think of the cost or whether she is a Strong woman or not.
ReplyDeleteThank God for you and your wife.
DeleteNothing new.
ReplyDeleteWomen are blamed to everything.
If she no born, na winch wey don eat her pikin finish.
If she gets pregnant, na she seduce am; stone her. No be so them do for Jesus time?
If he marries her, she don bewitch am. She used jazz.
If soup no good, she no sabi cook. whether man bring money or not no matter.
If she come bear pikin through operation, she no strong.
If the man no de do well for business, the woman na bad luck.
Pikin turn out badly, na im mama born am.
Ha ha 😂 No be lie. Women can never win.
DeleteMy dear na true u talk....choi!!!
DeleteI just had my first baby 3 days ago via C-section and I don't see anything wrong in that. Any stupid man that thinks its easy should carry pregnancy and birth na, that man has a nonsense mentality.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on you new born baby.
DeleteCongratulations dear.
DeleteCongregation my dear
DeleteSilly man. What if that was the only option for her? What if going through natural birth would've cost her her life? This is what happens when people are uneducated. It's like an illiterate that calls himself a Dr of Philosophy, gossiping that it is a shame that I had to be taken to the E.R for a thrombosed hemorrhoid. A woman almost 8 months pregnant? What shame is there in that? Hemorrhoids and constipation go hand in hand in pregnancy. I went through hell for almost 2weeks without painkillers, just Tylenol and a cream every 6hours. I saw another side of pain. Thank God I am better now. While he was injecting my swollen hems, and cutting it open to drain the blood,he doctor kept saying "don't worry, labour won't be as painful". Women go through a lot, and seeing this up there is so annoying. I am a first time mum, and whatever option I am given by the doctors, to secure my life and that of my baby, is what I will go for. God is faithful, and the lady up there will be fine.
ReplyDeleteSmh...i wonder if such men have brain atall.
ReplyDeleteThe husband is insane! So, she should have killed herself trying to deliver their baby.
ReplyDeleteI don't see anything wrong in delivery through cesarean section. My lady friend delivered all her boys via C section even though she didn't wanted to, she even told her husband before hand not to signed the papers.
When she couldn't push anymore, she was begging her doctor to perform the c section.
When I was pregnant, I told my husband and my gynecologist that I was very opened to all options; but I delivered my baby within few hours of labour.
Women please, be open to all options. Your life and the life of your baby is more important.
Dont mind d man jor. Just negodu akuko.😏 Poverty prolly affected his mentality from what I can deduce from d writeup. If not, he wont say this trash.
DeleteNa d wifey sabi If she dosent know what to do nau. Inukwa depression over mere talk that involves life.😔
Depression comes mostly after cs. Now this man is causing his wife more pain. Madam take care of yourself., you are blessed.
DeleteWhy should one be depressed after cs?
DeleteDepression do come after CS.
DeleteSome are busy praying to have a child and some other people are bothered about how a child is birthed.
ReplyDeleteThe most important thing is safe delivery, whether it is virginal or CS, let the cry of both the mother and child be heard at the end of the day.
CS is never a death sentence, I pity some women who allow ungrateful and unreasonable men to lead them to their early grave.
Stupid man, if she had died while trying to give birth naturally, the Idiot would have gotten another wife. ...and the woman is depressed??? For what??? Really!!! I can't deal, instead of to be grateful she's alive and the Mr man to his yeye anger.
ReplyDeletePoverty is a bastard! I swear.
Be strong and take care of your child, May God bless you and the child and keep you in good health.
Some men are sent from hell
ReplyDeleteanyway u decide to hv ur baby is fine as far as u hold us baby in ur arms at d end of it all which is d end product,it shouldn't make u feel inferior..
Foolish man did you take care of your wife well for her to go through this. Only poverty striken men talk like this foolish man there.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is not serious, why will you get depressed for a foolish man's talk.
Chop kiss Yori!💋💋💋
DeleteEverything in d universe is against an African woman. I saw someone like her in d hosp. Told her iff shhe died, money would appear from that her husbands empty pocket for her burial. Well, she died. And the burial was nothing small. Take charge of ur life.
ReplyDeleteFeeling so bad, that man is useless can he even carry a baby for 9 good months not to talk of pushing. The woman should ignore the man, nothing makes you feel less of a woman. The most important thing is baby and mother alive, be it cs or normal delivery.
ReplyDeleteWow lol, so this is actually a thing? People actually attach stigma to birthing thru CS? Everyone wants to birth like the "Hebrew woman" lmao. Ignorant fools errwhere!
ReplyDeleteAny man that's gets angry or sad that his wife delivered through CS is a big idiot and a fool.No apology to that!
ReplyDeleteDo some men really know what women go thorough in labour room?I started loving my wife more when she birthed my first son,as I witnessed every thing in Labour room with her!
Women tuale for una eno easy to be a mum!
Sexy dadda!🙌🙌🙌 Two fingers in d air 4 you jare.✌
DeleteSo giving birth via Cs now mean second hand?
ReplyDeleteSMH for some men.
Pls loud it to everyone, d matter tire person
ReplyDelete#Mschew*
Is it d means we shud concern ourselves with or d result from d means; weda CS or V delivery, d koko is for mother n child to be healthy.
No he said the scar makes her a second hand wife.
ReplyDeleteI am a doctor and I am not ignorant of the pranks some of my colleagues play. They prefer CS even when the woman can deliver per. vagina. This is because they make more money by CS. I always advice women to register in a government or mission hospital. As long as the money is not going into private pockets, the doctors are more likely to act right.
ReplyDeleteThank you dr. most cs in nija are uncalled for, they (drs) put fear in these women that its for their own good whereas its for the drs pocket,
DeleteYou are sounding like they deliberately ignore vagina dilation just to perform a CS,u don't know it's dangerous to wait if d progress is slow, doctor nsikak.
Delete@ Anonymous, I am thinking towards this direction. I have been booked next week to go through the knife to deliver my twin babies. The doctor said their positions are not ok. But I am thinking of going for scan in another hospital because I feel that my present doctor deliberately want me to have c section just for the money sake. I can feel the position of my babies. 1 is already down, while 1 is breach but the doctor said the 1 that its head its down its actually transect. What do you suggest. I don't want the c section mainly of the money issue. I need your advise please.
DeleteAnon 14:29 use ur common sense it is free! Go to another place for scan. Dont rely on only one opinion. Keep risking your life!
Delete@anon, yes u can go for an or scan. But pls since u are carrying twins, if one is breached, u shld just go for c.s ooo... Pls i am begging you. @dr. Thank u ooo... This is what dey do... C.s is now like pure water. I had a c.s too... The Dr saw me at 38weeks 3days ... I had made my didi in preparation for labor ooo.I use general Hosp as back up.. I went for antenatal at my hMO hospital which is a private Hosp. That was how the gynae said my fundal height is 44 that d baby is big.. While going to general.. I had never had fundal height of 40sef.. Anyways that was how she told me she wants to check my vagina that the baby will b big probably 4.0 or 4.2kg. She put her hand inside left .. Right .. Center... U kno how dey check na... She said I won't be able to push the baby that I she would tell me d truth..and bluntly that it is c.s ooo.. She is booking me for d next day and that if I am adamant, I will sign that I refused c.s. bla bla bla. She also said something like if I go through labor.. D pain on my waist will b too much and d labor can later become obstructed and last last na c.s I go do after all labor pain... That was how I started crying oo. I felt she could have told me to do a pelvicmentry or something.. I was just confused and scared. I was told to do a scan at d hospital and d weight showed 3.9kg.and dey said na c.s ooo... I went home to go prepare my bag. I did an or scan outside and the weight said 3.7kg. I was confused on whether to go to general hospital for a second option. But at that time of the day, the consultants won't be around. So I will just see sub-drs under the consultant and I didn't want to trust those ones as in my mind, they are nt consultants yet. That was how I resigned to faith. Had d c.s d next day. To God be d glory.. Mum and son are doing fine. And the pain of c.s too is out of this world abeg. Now I think of my next pregnancy that I am sure the drs can say because I had cs first time... I shld have another. But God will give me the spirit of right discernment by that time.
DeleteOh! I forgot to add. The baby came out as 3.6kg. Is that a macrosonmic baby?? I dunno. BT thank God
DeleteD concept that c.s saves is to the effect that... Labor commenced and complications arose and c.s had to happen or in the case of an hypertensive preggy woman or when d foetus stop developing. Nt the lies that drs tell patients to make dem have elective c.s
DeleteWhen I was to b discharged, I signed a bill of 308k. The break down was plenty.. If I remember correctly c.s alone was 180k... Anaesthesia .. 40k... Theater. . paed... Accommodation... Etc..
Delete@ anon 18:42, next time use a general hospital, I did scan a day before I had my first child and it showed 4.1, I gave birth vaginally and she was 4kg with No cut or tear.
DeleteLol. My husband even loves that i had all our babies through cs. Everything nice and tight down under. Lol. My babies were so big, that whole area would have scattered. Let people continue in their ignorance abeg.
ReplyDeleteHeheheheeeheheheehe! Abi nau!
DeleteIf he thinks the money is too much I guess he should keep his tin locked up rather than blaming the wife. Nonsense
ReplyDeleteAaah,that man is a wicked man! How can he say such a thing to her?!
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong in having your baby tbru CS? I had my 2 boys thru CS & IF i wish to have more kids,i will go thru that process again! Me prefer it to vaginal delivery sef wey the "place" go still dey "tight"
There's nothing wrong with giving birth by cs, is even better when complications arises...to make sure mother and baby are alive and have seen it saved lots of ladies
ReplyDeleteI used to think that way too. Not my fault, I grew up believing it is wrong to birth through CS. Now I am grown, I know better. Either way is fine by me. All na make the ponyor nor slack😁
ReplyDeleteThat her husband is a very stingy n wicked somborri.i have nothing against normal delivery oo but come to think of it..The female vagina of some women is not usually the same when they give birth d normal way.it becomes slack which increases infidelity on their husbands part..Have heard some men complain about their wives pussy "saying that itz become wide n they no longer enjoy avin sex with their wives" after birthin thru d normal way....Based on recent analyses,it was confirmed that cs preserves d vagina especially 4 women with slack vagina...God that created science brought d idea 4 it 2 b carried out on women. D advantage of cs is more than d other(normal) biko.
ReplyDeleteIt is a primitive way of thinking. Things have changed. You hardly see the scar this days sef.
ReplyDeleteDelivery like the women of hebrew means a living mother and a healthy child regardless of the mode of conception or delivery.
ReplyDeleteI think this statement should be lifted and fixed up somewhere in the bible.
What a dumb man!!
She married a very wicked man,humans are very very ungrateful.
ReplyDeleteGod loved him enough to make him a father of an healthy child,he didnt allow your wife to die during the operation,both mum and baby came out whole,what does your husband want those who are still praying and hoping on God to bless them with child,what does he want he want those who lost their wifes during delivery to do?i dont pray to come across your kind of husband,imagine carrying a deep cut taht is yet to heal and mister man that is suppose to pet and spoil you at this time is the person crushing ur esteem,ingrate. That heathy baby is an evidence that God is faithful and loves you and your scar is your beautiful story.biko go and enjoy been a mum and forget your loudmouth husband.
That man is an enemy of progress, if it's my daughter and she reports such vile statement to me, i'll return ur fucking brideprice, no man gonna make my child sad n I sit n do nothing, 'lubbish'.
ReplyDelete#Sometimes letting things go is an act of far greater power than defending or hanging on*
ReplyDeleteI had my baby through c section, though i lost him a few days after I had him.
ReplyDeletea friend visited me and started asking me why i allowed them section me.
I told her it was an emergency and the baby had to be delivered asap.
my friend started condemning me o. telling me that I should have prayed and that it is not good to have a section. She said she had a covenant with God that she will never go through a section. I was so angry eh. In my grieve I lashed her so much that she has refused to call me or pick my calls.
just because she had her 2 girls via vaginal birth doesn't mean the 3rd wont be a c section. Before she left my house,I told her that her next baby will be through a section so that she will understand that it is not of him that willeth nor runneth but of God that showeth mercy.
she left angrily but me no send o.
I am alive and I trust my God to do it again, that's all that matters....
Morireoluwa's mum
First that is not a friend, I don't understand that kind of friendship. But you also did wrong in replying her that way. You could have set her right without so much drama. I wonder why you are trying to call her again though.
DeletePure she was grieving a lost child biko. I wld have walked into my kitchen plugged hot water and poured on her!!!;; some pple r WITCHES o.
DeleteThis type of stories make me mad, how is the woman's fault?
ReplyDeleteIt's not like CS does not have its own risky side.
May God keep us away from myopic thinking men like this man and far away from opportunistic Doctors too lazy to do their jobs
You're a liar
ReplyDeleteI had my four kids two boys and two girls via cs, though people stylishly mock me, but I give God the Glory for His abundant grace upon me. And guess what? My husband is enjoying every bit of it and you all know why
ReplyDeleteForgive my ignorance but a 'slack' pussy as a result of childbirth should not make a woman feel low about herself. If the man is no longer getting satisfaction, both should find a solution.
DeleteAll I want when I marry is to birth healthy children and bring them up right with my hubby.
And I cried again on reading this.I fell into labor on fri,it progressed till 6.5cm and stopped.I was wheeled into theartre sat morning and my precious son was brought out dead with cord round his neck.I came home empty handed yesterday.I would gladly give my life for my son but we all know its not possible.
ReplyDeleteI look at the pain of 9months,my engorged breasts,empty cot,baby space and shed tears in my husbands arms.This is besides surgery pain and hopelessness I feel.He is an ungrateful man.My son was buried by his father,he should count his blessings.My arms are so empty.
The Lord is your strength dearie...
DeleteMay you never have any cause to bury your child again.
May the Holy Spirit comfort you. AMEN
May the God of all comforts, comfort you in this moment.
DeleteYour joy and laughter is on the way.
The Lord is your strength.
So sorry for your loss. A church member's wife had to be cut open to save their son at 7 months because of the cord round his neck issue. You will be fine, draw strength from your husband and let him draw from you as well. Do not grieve alone or be selfish with your grief, remember even though he has to be strong for you both, your husband is affected as well.
DeleteGod bless you
So sorry dear. For your pain God will give you double. Just trust him. Please be strong
DeleteHe has gone to a nd more babies into ur womb. An Angel is taken to replace many more. Take heart nnem.
Deleteamen
ReplyDeleteIt might be because of the monetary aspect. I had my kids (2) between 2015 and 2017 through cs and each section cost 250k minus other little bills still added ontop
ReplyDeleteChicahalot it is well with you. Dont worry God Almighty will comfort you and give you double joy Amen.
ReplyDeleteOh dear....what a bullshit. What is wrong with some people?...Had all my kids via C section and I wear my scar like a badge.
ReplyDeleteDawn anyone and their inconsequential talks. And if them know say them get craze, then dare to say that to me face to face....I'm so pissed *hisss
Most of the comments against CS are made by ignorant & over-religious people. My wife put to bed few weeks ago via CS (although we initially planned for vagina delivery) cuz she was getting weak & the baby was beginning to get distressed. It cost me close to half a million (Which is extremely huge in this recession era) but I don't mind cuz my wife & prince are very healthy. Vaginal delivery is cheaper, so it's the choice of most people but if CS is the available option due to circumstances, kindly take it with speed to avoid stories that touch....
ReplyDeleteThat was how everyone was telling me not to go for fibriod surgery when water pass garri I took myself to hospital made arrangements came back told my husband that am going for it I didn't ask for money I paid my bill apart from my husband, mummy she no get choice again and my sister that took care of me in the hospital nobody know I left our city to the city my sister reside to do it no body could convince me not to do it even the professor that the surgery now am enjoying myself am glad I did it
ReplyDeleteI had planned for vaginal birth, when after 4 hours I had only dilated 3cm. After been stubborn after 8 hours it was ascertained that my baby was too big to pass through my pelvis. I had no other alternative but to have a c-section. After having an almost 5kg baby due to gestational diabetes nobody had to tell me to opt for c-section for my other 4 kids. Only in Nigeria that people still have this archaic belief that having an operation makes you less of a woman.I also have a vertical scar due to the baby's breach position which I proudly call my battle scar.
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