In an interview with Vanguard, The actor accuses his estranged wife of blackmailing him and the role played by Pastor Chris Okotie;
"Have you watched that one movie, where the wife was saying “everything is alright between me and my husband. He takes care of me and provides all my needs”. That was the situation between my wife and I. If I didn’t know I would have blamed her sudden change of character on my enemies.
I love her so much. Why would she blackmail me by claiming that I was always beating her up when I didn’t. To avoid the disturbing mess, I had to abandon my businesses and house in Lagos and find a new life in Abuja
I don’t even believe we are divorced and I cannot remarry again. I am a real Christian and Christians don’t divorce. I told the court that I’m not divorcing my wife but they went ahead and got an injunction against a High Court order.
Why was she trying to walk out of her marriage? Who was advising her to divorce me? I must see to the end of this matter because they have put my children out there without a mother. She’s in pain wherever she is right now because I know they are dealing with her.
I learnt that she was beaten black and blue by one wife snatcher sometime ago, beside Mobil Petrol Station on Lagos-Ibadan Expressway. My own wife beaten up like a common criminal! I want to know what has gone wrong with my wife, I want to know the devil that is behind this. What is the extent of blackmail that brought her to this degrading level?
The Inspector General of Police will be investigating into the matter very soon. While doing this, I have to stay away from Lagos because they could be after me.
The guy who is confusing my wife attends his church. He’s one of the elders of the church. It’s a church arrangement. When there is crisis in the family, a true man of God should invite both husband and wife with the aim of resolving their differences but Chris Okotie refused to pick my calls.
Whenever I called him on the telephone, he usually avoided my calls. As a man of God, he was supposed to use his position to save our marriage. I didn’t chase my wife out of my house, I wanted Chris Okotie to advise her to return to her husband but he refused to pick my calls.
He did not bother to find out what went wrong between us. While I am still alive, my wife was demanding that I should ‘will’ part of my property to her. She shut down a school I spent millions of naira to establish.
Who was telling her to make such a demand? Where is she taking the property to? What happens to our children who will inherit my property? She was insisting on getting her own share of my property. At that point, I had to leave Lagos for Abuja because some people were strongly behind her and my life was no longer safe.
But I’m coming back to Lagos soon. My house and property are still in Lagos. Nothing is hidden under the earth that cannot be unearthed someday. She blackmailed me for what I am not. You will feel sorry for a man whose wife was blackmailed to blackmail the entire family.
Forget about marrying her again. I don’t need to marry again, but I need to know what was wrong with my wife. I need to know why she started blackmailing me.
Accepting her back is not the problem, but let her confess and get herself back. I believe she’s under the influence of something."
*He sounds like he is still in love with her..wow!!!
Ehya.... Kpele, you will be fine.
ReplyDeleteThis two will reconcile. He is still madly in love with her.
DeleteWhat if u later marry... What are we gonna do to u? Flog u?
DeleteHe's definitely in love with this woman. Deeply so.
DeleteAnd for the first time I feel sorry for emeka ike. Only love can humble a stubborn man like him. I think he raised some pertinent questions regarding the so called Pastor. Hmmm God help you emeka.
Ok bye
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DeleteI use to crush on Emeka Ike eh!
I wish them both all what they wish themselves.
I smell love all round... Sniffing
ReplyDeleteI am surprised people think he loves her! He frightens me! Sounds obsessed and pyshotic! The red alerts are glaring! Read, my people. Love je?!!!
DeleteThis one is crazy....
DeleteCan this man just accept his wrong and apologise?
Gbam!! Anon 00.43, your head dey there! I don't think all this is love. Obsession or systemic luring back, maybe. But definitely not love. With everything he's said up there, if you read in between the lines, you'll see right through him. And we Nigerians really need to understand something, just because a man doesn't want you to leave him doesn't mean that he loves you. We tend to confuse that fact a lot and it has lead to a lot of ladies' demise and or destruction. That woman and maybe the others who witnessed incidents are the ones who know the truth about that marriage and when a man beats you, puts you down both privately and publicly but at the same time is completely unwilling to let you go but blames everyone else for the failed relationship; that isn't love. He's blaming a church and "pastor for not telling a woman to go back to her husband after she complained of domestic violence and even presented proof. Narcism comes to mind, not love...... Just Saying
DeleteMy kind of nigga... He knows his wife was being"gingered" by someone to leave him, now he wants to find out who?? Sorry is that person's name..
ReplyDeleteEh ya. He's still in love
ReplyDeleteThis write up sha🙏. Still trying to assimilate and understand.
ReplyDeleteWhatever , I pray God restores your home.
Nothing is hidden in this life forever.
ReplyDeleteHmmm....sounds strange to me
ReplyDeleteEmeka ike what do you expect from Okotie that has divorced his own wife Cynthia..Just continue living your life if all you've said is true God will vindicate you.
ReplyDeleteMadness o. Emeka is finally mad. It is well
ReplyDeleteLife oh Life,the world is a stage where different drama happens everyday.Emeka this too shall pass ,no sane person will have honey in their mouth and spit it out,so Emeka check yourself too.
ReplyDeleteCan he please stop all d rants on social media? If truly he wants her back, he should go on his knees and pray. Dont just understand this man
ReplyDeleteHe granted an interview, he didn't put it up on social media.. You do realise an interview comprises Q & A, therefore his answers are based on the questions asked...
DeleteEmeka it's just like the movie u feature with omotola in 2004 ..when love die....the same thing happened to you..lol.until it was too late for omotola to come back
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ReplyDeleteThe man still loves his wife obviously
ReplyDeleteHe is not in love with her, this is manipulation of the highest order. Don't be surprised he is shacking up with one woman. He is doing this to gain sympathy with the public.
ReplyDeleteSome of you are very sentimental and illogical. His wife needs to run away from him as fast as possible.
If he is in love with her, will he talk about her being beaten black and blue. He does not love that woman at all. The children will be fine.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
That is true. This does not show a man who loves a woman. All I keep reading is me!me!me!! He sounds like someone who can't accept that he is wrong. If this is the way a man who loves a woman talks biko no man should love me.
DeleteHmmmmmmmmm oye Olorun.
ReplyDeleteAll that happened may not be normal. He needs to apologise to someone he had a terrible argument with over a property. A curse was probably placed on him after he took the property. All will be well if he can humble himself! He should fast and pray.
ReplyDelete@king xoxo mystery. Best comment so far. You can see through this man's bullshit.
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of an inlaw, the guy is so violent the violent men have similar traits, so abusive and manipulating, when they beg it's like their life depends on it but watch it,it's all pretence, he will still continue the circle of abuse if she dares go back
ReplyDeleteThe only reason why they're always like this is that they know it's difficult getting another woman that will take the same kind of abuse from them like their ex
In one breath she's indispensable while in another she's a husband snatcher, can you notice the trend? Way God deliver our daughters from this kind of men
This isnt love,he wants pity. This past years hasnt been enough for him to trace who ever he is looking for,na now daybreak?
ReplyDeleteIf so he has my pity. He sounds pathetic. I pity him.
DeleteBless you KING XOXO MYSTERY. His write up rakes of manipulation, ego, pride and has got real bad mouth. With these rants, imgaine what the poor woman would have endured these past years. He strikes me as a psycopath who will way-lay his ex and harm her. Bro is still pained that wife could leave his demi god personality. He annoys me alot
ReplyDeleteAbusive man!from the way u are sounding u are very abusive and guilty. All u women walking about following senseless men in the name of marriage u better settle down and train ur boys so that they don't grow up like animals. This one no be person.
ReplyDeleteSmh... Read the article again, that's all I can say..
ReplyDeleteNice thought
ReplyDeleteLet the story keep unfolding
ReplyDeleteSorry oooo
ReplyDeleteHe used to beat his wife in my estate. Was he not the one that insulted the elderly landlord of his house then. Arrogant thing. He knows where he can find her. She still stays within the area cos she cycles and jogs most times, though I no de see the effect on the body sha cos she has been in this system as far back as 2009-2010. Oka dikwa ka odi.lol
ReplyDeleteAbeg, he should let us hear word. Men like him are serious wife beaters, he is blaming everyone except himself for the breakup of his marriage. People are sworn you used to beat your wife, she wants to divorce you and you expect her to leave empty handed after she spent years helping you build up businesses? This interview just exposes him for 1. the bush crude man that he is - everything is "his" and his wife was a nobody with nothing 2. She was asking him to "will" her his school - if he read the divorce papers he would have realized there is something called a divorce settlement and especially when you have kids, you are expected to continue taking care of them. Did he expect her to leave him with everything she helped him build and be destitute on the streets 3. He felt no matter what she should come back to his house because he did not chase her out - I can quite pity and understand the poor lady, can you imagine trying to reason with someone as stupid as him? He probably feels he has a right to panel beat her because he paid her bride price and no matter what she has to stay put with him. 4. All these potestations of love are fake - I men what is the essence of the story he is giving about her getting beaten up and it being done by a wife snatcher? Is he trying blacken her name that she is a wife snatcher???? 5. He was beating her, if not why did he not turn up in court? If someone accuses me of something like that especially someone like him in the public eye, I would not just run away from the story, I would clear my name. He probably realized she had witnesses to his beatings so he did not bother. Instead he is now telling the world about how she was brainwashed, she was blackmailing him, it was her pastor, she wanted his business. Is it not the same school, which the landlord gave interviews about how he was owing him and was being arrogant and refusing to pay - instead he was threatening the landlord? I think his wife has dealt with him in a way he never thought she would. Who knows how many times her pastor had told her to go back to him and he thought it would always be that way.
ReplyDeleteEmeka you forgot that you have offended Some one in past.
ReplyDeleteGod take control...don't know whose side of the story to believe
ReplyDeleteThis man is a manipulator, very deadly obsession!
ReplyDeleteThis is not love,its obsession.He is a manipulative abuser.I was in a relationship with a mad man like who almost ruined my life,he beats me and kneel any where to beg.I had to leave Abuja for two years because of him
ReplyDeleteAbegiiii. He is a confirmed wife beater, used to stay around his former area and it was common knowledge to neighbours. When he took 2 of his kids to Abuja and left d remaining 2 with his wife, he didn't know that he " loves her"....nonsense. She didn't shut ur school. D govt did.
ReplyDeleteI nor trust this Emeka one bit!!!
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