Ever had a friend who celebrated when things went bad for you?
Thursday, July 20, 2017
Wicked Friend?...
Some of you might agree with me that she is wicked but at least she said it...some of you dont say a word but have these same thoughts in your minds....
Ever had a friend who celebrated when things went bad for you?
Ever had a friend who celebrated when things went bad for you?
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The shade is unnecessary and she might have said it out of excitement.
ReplyDeleteNa she first get excitement.
Delete'They are still where they are' is no excitement abeg. Cruel thing to say about one's friends
DeleteThere is probably a story behind it that only the friends in that circle would understand. Not everything is bad belle.
DeleteI think people are misunderstanding the tweet.
DeleteShe said in 2014, she told her friends she will be married in 2017. They probably ALL laughed at her that 2017 was too far , that they will all get married together (they probably ALL had hope that theirs will be in 2014 or 2015
Now, she that was yabbed for predicting a far date is the one married now and they are still in 2014 (unmarried).
She expected a laugh off from this, NOT like she was shading them or insulting them...
She didn't shade them.
DeleteSome words are better said than typed or written to get the true meaning
My take
Shade or no shade, I see buififul faces.
DeleteI can never celebrate my friends downfall!
ReplyDeleteI don't understand what the poster meant by her friends still being where they were in 2014. Maybe, she was trying to pass a different message but, passed it in a wrong tune.
A statement that will offend a black man in Nigeria might not offend a white guubin d uk, my white friends call me silly nd miserable lol
DeleteThese ones are not whitey ooo
DeleteWhite guy in
DeleteA statement like this will offend any human being my dear!
DeleteNa so them full everywhere
ReplyDeleteAs in eeh
DeleteWell, man proposes but it's only God that have the final say
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
A joke yeah
ReplyDeleteA bad joke hell yeah!
It is well.
ReplyDeleteIt's between friends, make we no drink panadol for them. Who knows what dey said to her when she made that statement in 2014
DeleteThese kinds of friends are better than those who will cry with you and go behind you to celebrate.
ReplyDeleteWomen think of marriage,
Men think of sex
The problem starts when the woman gives sex as a route to marriage
The man collects the sex and moves on
Backfire!
Savage!
ReplyDeleteAnd she even went ahead to tag them??😳
U know sometimes God reveals someone's dark thoughts openly so that people around,who ordinarily wouldn't have suspected wil know.
Gbam!!!
DeleteLOL she just tied down herself. the rest are free sha lmao. the way ppl carry marriage sometimes ehn. all the best madam.
ReplyDeleteJam talker! I think she was trying to be funny,but the thing miss road.
ReplyDeleteI have one by the side but I choose not to do away with our friendship, I only share sad stories with her or stay mute. I learnt never to do away with wicked friends totally unless it is life threatening.
ReplyDeleteHmmnn
DeleteWhat is funny about being the only one married in a group of friends?this is a bad joke o madam!!
ReplyDeleteSounds like a joke between close friends, but then, social media will read in-between d lines.
ReplyDeleteAnd again, some friends won't find it funny.
You have sense. ..thank u
DeleteI thought it to be an inside joke too.
DeleteAlright congrats
ReplyDeleteAs if the rest of her friends will not get married.forming God..if they finally get married,she ll cme out of her shell famzing with them.dem plenty na.Nzuzu
ReplyDeleteHaving bad thoughts concealed is better than vomiting such bad thoughts on words or action.
ReplyDeleteWords are like eggs, once spoken, it can never be taken back. The damage it causes remains forever regardless of the apology later on.
But if you have bad thoughts towards someone, you can later purge your mind off such and spun it to be thoughts of good and not of evil...without hurting anyone.
Thus i disagree with that line "but at least she said it...some of you dont say a word but have these same thoughts in your minds...."
Exactly!!!
DeleteJust like me saying dis.... " she got married 5yrs before me, I have 3kids now but she still has none"...Hmmmmm...Very bad lady!
Nah,i think she was messing around
ReplyDeleteShe probably forgot that life isn't a race. And that she's married now doesn't make her better than he peers. May life not teach her bitter lessons sha.
ReplyDeleteWell she said her mind. They all wished her well. So no problems with that. I wonder why people will want to take it south.
ReplyDeleteYou always come out stupid.
DeleteAnon 14:55 Couldn't have said it any better.
DeleteHer friends are probably not married but i think she didnt mean any harm
ReplyDeleteWait what kinda unneccesary talk is this? She could have ended it with 'there's power in positive affirmations'
ReplyDeleteWhich Kain mumu talk is 'there are still where they were in 2014' that sounds like gloating to me
Even if she's messing around.... I rebuke friendships like this!
ReplyDeleteI want to believe this is an inside joke to be understood only by her friends, cos this is cold.
ReplyDeleteshe could just be teasing them
ReplyDeleteHeavy words that can't be taken back. Whether it's said or concealed, both are not what i want in any friend.
ReplyDeleteBetter to be alone than be with such people.
Hmmm na wa. This statement is unnecessary.
ReplyDeleteI can't deal with this kind of friend. The God have expose is evil thought to her friends. Wait and see God's plan in their life. Evil friend. Instead you to wish them well, u dey rejoice say God bless you and leave them. Like say na you be their God.
ReplyDeleteIs a case of Written Words Vs Spoken Words... No harm intended. Her faith worked out
ReplyDeleteNo latecomer in marriage. Nobody is dragging first position with her. I hope are friends are cool with her after this message.
ReplyDeleteI know someone that got married @ the age of 27, had her first daughter about a year ago, she died b4 her 3 year wedding anniversary n 30th birthday. Some of her friends are still not married, but they are alive,let's all watch how we mock others,God has the final say & our manuscript. He has the pencil & eraser as well.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid evil friends like this. Na God catch her though, at least now they know her thoughts about them.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile we're in July, they can still marry this year and I hope she gets pregnant immediately too so that one that will marry by Nov will not have a child before her, silly twat.
I have a friend just like this, she got married early last year and have not stop gloating abt it, she seize every opportunity to tell me that I am not prayerful enough, which according to her is the reason I am still single. it is well.
ReplyDeleteMy dear mine is not a friend but my blood.. Younger.. Like saying all the shit I can't even say in a day
Deleteanonymous14:52 ure so on point!God bless your heart.all my friends are married even stopped having kids i am still praying till now. i get mocked everyday. no b say I wowo oh. but one simply has no control over these things. May God help us!
ReplyDeleteFor her to post this then it means nothing to her clique. Obviously, they all laughed out loud about it and maybe replied her with yabis too.
ReplyDeleteawwwww i dont know what i will do if my bestie tells me that.
ReplyDeletebut one thing i know is, it will surely be something she would wish was a bad dream.
This is just a casual statement.. we all take things seriously.
ReplyDeleteThat statement is really nasty ! And spiteful , I'll take it personal if I was her friend and keep my distance away from her .
ReplyDeleteMarriage it's not an achievement mbok!! Mtchwww, you might get married now and lose your husband 2 years later nd your so called friends might get married later, so tell me who still has her husband with her? It's not how far u ve gone in life but how well...
ReplyDeleteOoon ran Ólörun leti fun wón ni,meaning she is reminding baba GOD on their matter,it's bad but GOD is a wonderful father.that's how one girl in my area abused me one day that all my mates are married but I was still in my father's house,i cried that day ehennn,to GOD be the glory the following week I was just taking a stroll cos I was bored I lived in a very quiet area,a car parked beside me,the guy chat me up and took me for a drink,I ended up spending 3 days in a roll with him(bad girl...lol)he went back to his Base,10 months after I became his wife and joined him here in America.9yrs now with 4kids happily married.i heard that girl that abused me separated from her husband after 2yrs cos he got the maid pregnant.
ReplyDeleteAmongst all my friends I am the only one still single.I can't describe the type of shame I feel every time we meet.If only God will settle me this year I will worship Him forever.
ReplyDeleteWhy be ashamed? Being single ain't no disease girl!
DeleteIt's no big deal dear. Double your hustle, set financial goals and be prayerful too. God will do it in His own time.
DeleteTell Him that the time is ripe and that He should give you your own husband. Believe and He would do it.
LOL. It ain't that deep. How much is the pill called chill?
ReplyDeleteSuch an evil child. See this thing called mouth ehn is the only reason why people keep on suffering.
ReplyDeleteLet me share an experience:
Back in the days when I was single. I had a very "close" friend that met a guy on face book and within 3 months she was pregnant! She was at my place and confided in me that she was pregnant. I was shocked. Never heard of the guy and was more surprised. She eventually opened up that she met him on face book through a mutual friend. Long and short of it I asked her what her plans where she said that she will tell her sister to tell her parents. I was dissapointed and i told her. After she came back that she wanted to marry. I asked her why! She said cause she's pregnant. She was in her final year in UNI, no job , no side hustle and you are talking marriage. I asked her what the guy does she said importation and exportation. What business no idea. She got uncomfortable. Me thinking I was trying to help her told her not to marry yet oh. She should keep the child and marry later.My friend was using one eye to look at me.
Well a date was fixed. I went for the wedding and I was so disgusted. First the guy looked like ***** and to make matters worse her mum was looking at me somehow. After a while some of our friends told me that she said I am jealous. Jealous of what !!!. I sha kept calm and managed to pretend that i was not upset.
3 years down the line I was married. That same time my friend already had 2 kids and divorced. I investigated. Turned out the dude was a fraudster. Brings in women to their matrimonial home. Sent her out of the house back to her fathers house with kids. Beats her even in pregnancy and was just a sperm donor. No penny to his name just to say the least. I was really upset. She hid from me. I sha reached out to her for the love I once had for her and childhood memories. My slayer friend before became a very ugly girl. It broke my heart cause I really liked her. We sha started to put her back on track. She learnt event planning. Started out small. She's growing now. She just got her USA visa and will be relocating soon. I am happy that she's beginning to come back to life. The guy is all over the place now. Broke and useless.
Lesson: first to start does not mean you will be the first to end the race. Tame your tongue people and take advice. Marriage is not the end of life. Have your own assets too and marry right.
That is for those who are in "a race" with some others.
DeleteFor everyone that is being mocked for being single or that wants to get married, receive your desires in Jesus Name. He makes everything beautiful in its time. Don't give up, God is on the throne.
ReplyDeleteI am married and my close friends are not which makes me sad every day;but marriage is not a prize nor aname achievement, it's just a phase in one's life and people tend to give unnecessary attention to it especially in our culture.
I consider this a statement from over excitement......but it may hit the wrong cords in the friends.........
ReplyDeleteI have a friend that will gloat at any mishap that happens to you.I cut off from her and I am glad I did. I wish her well in her wickedness
ReplyDeleteMine is my sister.. I need to stop living in same roof
DeleteThe question is does this bitter soul really have friends? She may just be an attention seeker. No normal person will post such about their friends close or not.
ReplyDeleteNo man knows tomorrow. Be careful what you say to others.
ReplyDeleteHer friends came to her rescue when they dragged her on Twitter. Obviously an inside joke we know nothing about. First time I saw it I was disgusted till I read her friend 's comments.
ReplyDelete