OMG....Noooooooo!!!
Good day Stella,
The enemy tried to cut short my life on the 22nd of Feb this year but mercy said 'NO'! God showed me mercy, he showed me love!.
I got pregnant with my 3rd fruit around July last year, my 1st scan revealed I was carrying triplet but one fetus had no heartbeat and would eventually vanish.
Hubby and I were worried, we cried and prayed for a miracle but by the time I went for my next scan the 3rd baby had vanished and my 2nd baby had some defects.(collection of fluid in the head and abdominal cavity).
We called on God to take control and heal our little baby, but everything seemed to go from bad to worse yet we held onto God.
I was told the 2nd baby will never make it.
To cut the long story short, after months of walking around with badly swollen feet (they looked like rain boots) caused by excess amniotic fluid I went into pre-term labor at 31 weeks +.
Labor was short and I was able to push my 1st baby out after a big splash of the excess fluid , the placenta scattered everywhere on the floor.
The pediatrician tried to help my baby breath, I watched her struggle to breath ......meanwhile 2nd baby could not come out because it was stuck to my uterine wall (scan always revealed it).
We had to proceed to the theatre to have my 2nd baby delivered via CS. After being cut open it was a big struggle to pull the baby out of my womb.
After some minutes of pulling and tugging, my 2nd baby came out looking grossly deformed and dead!
1st baby didn't make it either, she just couldn't breath..... . I lost my babies, but God's love kept me .
I believe God let it happen for a reason...well hubby wrapped them up and buried them. He didn't take any pictures of them, the doctors also wanted to take pictures but he refused.
The 2nd baby was too deformed, it was kind of enveloped in a cyst...can't even explain what he/ she (no visible Sex organ) looked like because I didn't see the baby. It was a terrible experience but I won't stop thanking God for preserving my life.
*You mean you carried a dead baby all through?stuck in your stomach?omg omg.....I read this around 1am and i have not slept....God will replace your tears with Laughter,your mourning will become dancing again.....Oh dear!
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteThe Lord is your strength. I'm so sorry.
You will carry your babies in Jesus name
God's plan for u is of good and not of evil.
DeleteHe will bless ur womb wit quintuplets IJN AMEN
Thank God for seeing you through.
ReplyDeleteI reserve my comment about that hospital
Disheartening! Thank God for the strength and grace. So sorry!
DeleteThank God you are alive...... Just take a break to heal, May God take care and guide the ones you have already.
ReplyDeletehmmmmmmm Thank God for you. Dont worry, you will have double joy soonest Amen.
ReplyDeleteGod be praised that you are alive.
stella it means you no dey sleep ni. Na wa ooo. You dey try ooo
Eeh yah poster sorry
ReplyDeleteThank God you are alive to tell your story
I hope this is not B.V Nina Chocomile?
Oh lord please don't let it be her oh
God forbid
DeleteJeez! Thank God you are alive!
ReplyDeleteTankGod that u alive to tell ur story...
ReplyDeleteAll the best dear
He will do another perfect child for u..
Oh Lord..Embarass her with quintuplets, Amen..It is well..Sorry for your loss..
ReplyDeleteGod that brought smiles to Hannah,sarabande all will wipe your tears ma'am
ReplyDeleteI'm in tears here
The God that saw you through since February will cause laughter in your house hold
Thank God for your life..the fruits that will bless your life will be total miracle.God is alive.
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life..the fruits that will bless your life will be total miracle.God is alive.
ReplyDeleteOMG! I feel like crying.
ReplyDeleteThis is breathtaking, may God be with you
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
I thank God on your behalf poster! I like that you still have a positive spirit and you're still holding unto God.
ReplyDeleteMay God heal you and your husband from every pain.
God indeed loves you.
My sis see how positive this woman is 3loss!!! 31 weeks. God!!!! Pls thank God for ur life. I miscarried a 2months babe e b me like there was no GOD! I lost it completely. But look at u ! At almost 7/8months u r this positive. May he replace that which d enemy has stolen in In JESUS Name! I love u ma
DeleteAmen stella. The 2nd baby always had a heartbeat each time I went for ultrasound scan, probably died during labor or so...not sure
ReplyDeleteOooh my love,Ndo oooh.they wouldn't av allowed u to push in d first place.cs was d best option 4 ur case wen it's multiple..plz be prayerful.Ndo oh once again.
DeleteSo sorry. That hospital no try at all. How will they allow you push when they know you are carrying more than one?
Deletewow... Be strong. I thank God for your life. I cannot imagine the trauma of losing your kids but I know God will replace them with wonderful, beautiful and healthy babies... Amen!!
ReplyDeletemay God comfort you for your loss poster.
ReplyDeletepls rest from childbirth. you have two kids already, are they not enough? maybe you are looking for a particular sex like male or female but pls don't go and die because you want more children. no one can take care of the ones you already have like their mum will do. this is from a mum and wife, I'm advising you like I will do to my sister. the economy is in recession, two kids are okay even if you are very rich. you will be able to send them to very good schools here and abroad. train them well no matter their sex.
An average Nigerian wants at least 3 kids. This your advise na for your pocket. Can't you see comments wishing her quintuplets and double next time? Be there waiting your advise.
DeleteLeave them let them keep popping babies later they will come here and beg
DeleteShut up. Who asked for your silly advice? If thru want 10 babies how is that your business? What gives you the right to tell her how to go about using her womb and vagina? Stupid comment
DeletePoster, sorry for your losses. There is a reason for everything. If at all you want more kids, the Lord will do it for you and you will birth safe and sound.
The hospital made mistake. With the scan result you shouldn't have been allowed to push. But then God knows best. Take heart darling
You are the one that should shut ur stinking hole you call a mouth. Is the advice a bad one? Did she insult the poster? Backward children of anger and bitterness. That is why you lots will never grow
DeleteHere I am thinking I have the worst case on planet earth. My dear GOD will give you healthy babies soonest. Amen
ReplyDeletemay God comfort you for your loss poster.
ReplyDeletepls rest from childbirth. you have two kids already, are they not enough? maybe you are looking for a particular sex like male or female but pls don't go and die because you want more children. no one can take care of the ones you already have like their mum will do. this is from a mum and wife, I'm advising you like I will do to my sister. the economy is in recession, two kids are okay even if you are very rich. you will be able to send them to very good schools here and abroad. train them well no matter their sex.
Stella is this the shock?
ReplyDeleteshe lost her babies, sorry poster.
Poster your O&G team needs to be sued asap. They're supposed to have counselled you for CS from the beginning. That child sticking to your uterine wall is one of the indications for cs. They're very careless and stupid. Wishing you quick recovery in Gods grace and more mercy.
ReplyDeleteGo back n read well,she had premature labour at 31 weeks.i
DeleteHummmmm may God help us all! Mami good you're thankful, nothing is impossible with God
ReplyDeleteAffliction will not rise a second time. God will heal your heart and your body. You'll carry your babies again and they'll live long,fulfilling lives. Give your body time to heal and eat right,at the set time you'll give us your omugwo chronicles and your happy ending LRD.
ReplyDeleteOh dear!Jehovah pls heal this wound with limitless blessing,you promise you will never fail to bless us,you promise we will recover our loss and in your mightiness u shall multiply our vineyard so shall it be in her home and for many who need your divine touch.
ReplyDeleteIt is well Ma'am. Please be strong. God will bring joy and laughter into your life and family again. e-hugs and kisses to you.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry abt ur loss. I pray God restores all the devil has stolen and I pray that we that are pregnant will deliver safe and sound with a healthy baby and mother.. Amen
ReplyDeleteSo touching ,you tried ma,God almighty will replace all that you have lost.
ReplyDeleteEwwww poster my prayers are with you. God will replace your loss believe the word of God. Sending you E-hug OK.
ReplyDeleteGod will console you. It is well with you.
ReplyDeleteSo sory madam God kept fr ur other children
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Amen to Stella's prayer. That you are alive and strong is a huge testimony.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your story with us.
The Blessings of the Lord adds no sorrows..God will perfect all that concerns you and your JOY will be full.Amen
ReplyDeleteso sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteGod is your strength and comfort. He will give you double for your trouble. Amen
Wow this brought tears to my eyes ! I can not even begin to imagine what you have gone through . May God's healing hands come upon you and from this moment onwards , may your womb be blessed ! Your children shall be blessed and no sorrows shall come near your dwelling anymore , In Jesus Name , Amen . I am so sorry for your loss . God be with you
ReplyDeleteThis is soo touching.
ReplyDeletePoster may God heal and comfort your heart. For your shame you shall have double. Sorry about your loss, when there's life there's hope.
Jesus, poster you are a strong woman. For your tears you have receive double, for your shame you shall receive double, is well.
ReplyDeleteGoose pimples. The God who restoreth by fire will surely restore you with healthy triplets. Conceive again and see God perform like he always does
ReplyDeleteOh so sorry madam, the lord is your strength!
ReplyDeleteChaii, u lost all 3 babies, thankGod for ur life dear, better days ahead! Very sorry for ur loss. Meanwhile u write really well and can express things. Sorry again dear
ReplyDeletePoster so sorry about the lost of your babies, he HIS the only one that can do what no man can do. Don't worry Abba Father will bless you more
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss, God Almighty will give reasons to rejoice again. It is well with you and your family in Jesus mighty name... Amen
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life. The devil has failed
ReplyDeleteIt's well wit you ma.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear. So far you're alive, more will come.
ReplyDeleteoh my God.......this is so pathetic, sorry dear you are healed in jesus name
ReplyDeleteI am here once again to thank the God of Heaven, whose ways are not man's ways, His wisdom far outweighs the wisdom of man. I was one of the lady who shared the testimony of conception last year. I gave birth to my handsome son as a preterm but lost him a few days later. In everything I give God thanks because He knows best. I forced myself to overcome my challenge and bitterness. I am real work in progress.
ReplyDeleteThe Lord is your strength! *big hug*
DeleteNa wa... so you lost all three? See me grinning when i got to the 'scan showing triplets' part. So sorry. Can only imagine how you and hubby feel.
ReplyDeleteWho sent me to open this post now? 😭
It is well in Jesus name Amen
ReplyDeleteHeeyaaaah, so disheartening.......After all the stress they still all die.......God will replenish you dear
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss.Concerning you, affliction shall rise again the second time in Jesus name. Take heart dearie.
ReplyDeleteAwwwww so sorry poster. May God bless you with double portion of what you lost.
ReplyDelete😢😢😢 this is my 1st time of opening this post. Chai........
May God heal your pain. He who giveth never stop given.
ReplyDeletechim_oma a.k.a. Miss Kapusu
So sorry for the loss, Almighty God will bless you for been strong and holding unto him. He will give you beauty for ashes IJN.
ReplyDeleteMay God heal you,sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteSorry sis. The Lord is with you.
ReplyDeleteStella my TTC neighbour lost her baby yesterday, I still cannot get over it. I'm shocked and lost
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