STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
ADVICE NEEDED ASAP
Stella please help me post this. I beg you in God name.I need all the advise i can get as my head is about to explode. Please pardon my typing error, i am not thinking straight right now.
Let me give a little background on how it all started.
My father has always been irresponsible, never cared for me my brother, or my mum. My mum was the sole bread winner of the family. My father works but only spends his money on other women outside.
To sum it all, he impregnated one lady and she has 2kids for him. The woman showed my mum Pepper, she was so diabolic. Only God saved my mum from her series of evil attacks and plot.
Now God has blessed me and i built a house for my mum and younger brother. He still stays in the house. My mum travelled to do omugwu for me for a year(i stay abroad) only to return and find the son of that evil woman in our house. My father brought him in. And is saying he must stay with or without my mum's approval.
A house i built ooo, not like he even brings money for food.
Please Bvs advice me on what to do.My mum and I are saying he should return the boy to his mum.
Too much to type but i am tired. I will answer any question in the comment section.
Thank you
*Your Father has no right to impose anyone to stay in a house he did not build and Judging from what you described,that means if the boy is staying there his mother has a right to enter there or 'send him message'to your mum!
He should be returned FAST!
Is that so?
ReplyDeleteFirst of all I hope that house and the land is built in your name and your name only
DeleteSecond it's your father that should have been thrown out first, when he's thrown out all liabilities will go with him
Third the woman was not diabolic,your father was just useless if she was that powerful your mum and yourself would have been six feet
This anony issa savage 😂😂😂😂 my stomach ehh. Pls throw that man out, all his liabilities will follow him out.
DeleteSell the house and move your mom else where
DeleteThis is an unfortunate situation but not hopeless one. Your write up is vivid and the message is clear. First, you need to know and understand that the first problem to tackle is your mum.
DeleteIts either your mum has a strong soft spot for your dad or your mum has strong traditional values and she is weighing what people will think if she is without a husband. If the reason is the later one, then you have to make her understand that your father had already broken the yoke by impregnating another woman (not once but twice, which is a confirmation that she is an established "other woman") so if your mum throws your Dad out, family and friends won't say "why now" rather they will ask why did it that her this long to eventually take the right decision.
But I suspect it's the 1st reason. She is still in love. So forget that she supports and agrees with you face to face concerning your dad, she is behind certain reasons why some decisions you took or want to take did not happen.
I will itemize the steps you can take to enable sanity return to your mother's home:
1. Convince your mum she can live without your dad.
2. Get a lawyer to be the one to serve your dad eviction notice stating a grace period.
3. Get the lawyer to get a court injunction to support the eviction notice so your dad knows he risks going to jail if he violated the grace period (this will make him take you and your mum serious).
4. Have a court bailiff to visit him before the grace period elapse to inform him that they have prepared a comfortable cornerpiece for him in jail, and they are just waiting for the day to come pick him up.
With all the above, he will evacuate fast.
So after he had evacuated the premises. Let your mum change the locks and travel for 3 months, to calm down and have a rebirth. Some sort of psychological reorientation, or mental rejuvenation. She will have to come to terms that she will have to manage alone and make herself happy.
Why am l not saying you should involve family? It is clear from your post that family interventions have been exhausted. And no one today can call him to order. If there is, you won't write this chronicle.
Simply put, your dad needs to be shocked.
Anonymous 16.32 Chai advice on point.
DeleteThanks for this advice
DeleteSorry dear. I beg to differ. If you're convinced the other woman is diabolic then there is no need to go this route as your dad will inform her and she may take action. Whatever decision should be taken without any grace period. Your mum is the main issue so simply sell the house. You should not even inform her of your decision. You can process her papers for a vacation so you can act without her interference. Get her a small apartment when she returns to the country so she doesn't even have space for extra people. Don't allow your dad enjoy his decision to father bastards except you're Muslims then it's your religion that permits such.
DeleteHmmmm
DeletePoster, no matter how irresponsible my father is, I cannot throw my father out of a house I built.
But I will throw the boy out. Get a restriction order from court barring him from entering your property. Whenever he steps foot in that house again, arrest him and charge him for breaking into your property.
You have to travel down to Nigeria and do this yourself. Also ensure that the property is registered solely in your mother and brothers' name. That way your father can't play a fast one on them.
If your dad now decides that he cannot live without his son, let him move in with them solely by his own decision and free will.
Please DO NOT throw your father out of your house! It is wrong no matter what.
All the best
If the house is on YOUR land,sell it off and build something in another location for your mom. If it is on your father's land,you'll be unable to achieve this. Your step brother will only bring chaos into that home,your mom and bro should be careful before he delivers poison to them.
DeletePls,BVs from Esan or can read Esan should help with translation to English.
Delete"oheghe heudim eisebho
Ugo ha sugiede Oki kie
Ikeke ebe era zukpe
Onle okorihen okiregbego
Okhanbhelo okhanbhelo emena zobo ele
Obebiokho na agbouire maman damen
Oisemenbhegbe ason biodamen.
Thanks
End time father.
ReplyDeleteU better send that angel of destruction away... before it's too late .
DeleteLady you described a "spiritual warfare" begin to fight spiritually; fast and pray daily with night watch -midnight prayers and see the battle tide change.
ReplyDeleteNot all things are solved with "money" and spiritual warfare are not always congruent or pragmatic. Your dad is under a diabolic spell.
Get MOPOL to guard the house for your mum after throwing out your step brother, if your father complain too much, have him thrown out too
ReplyDeleteI love you already, throw the man out if he isn't going to be reasonable
DeleteLook at her father feeling like a king nd wanting to eat his cake and have it
DeleteMy thoughts exactly. I would not allow such as it means pardoning the unpardonable which is why men keep misbehaving. Any man that tries such with me ceases to have right over anything mine
DeleteThat's how your father's mistress will kill you,your brother and your mom so they can inherit the house...
ReplyDeleteYour father's diabolical mistress won't meet people like me make we her juju and mine...
Tell your mom to keep bible one corner and look for a cele pastor that would knack pigeon on your father and the boy's head shikena!!...
You will never cease to amaze me. Hahahà
DeleteWhy have you sold yourself to Satan to execute his plans in the lives of young girls? You are just a big rotten yam
DeleteHahahaha
DeleteYour advice dey always carry weight
Queen and boss I think I only come to this blog to read ur comments 😂😂😂
DeleteI read this comment and I can't stop laughing, as in, I don give up finally on your case, this one no get remedy again
Delete*Larry was here*
Chief Mrs has spoken, poster sort out that boy if you think he is has bad intentions.
DeleteBut wait oh, it's like you guys are in some sort of agreement with your dad for him to have the nerve to bring his love child into your house.
you do not disappoint. lol
DeleteBe very careful, the mother of that boy has bewitch that boy, he send him to your house to monitor the movement! , spiritually through that boy the woman will know all that is going on in that house. Even if u guys do hush hush, that boy issa monitoring spirit that needs to be sent back to her mum!
ReplyDeleteI tell you. Thanks dear
DeleteThrow him and your irresponsible father out. What nonsense.😑
ReplyDeleteNa so o! Hian!
DeletePoster let your dad return the boy or he should pack out your house. What rubbish is that one? Did he bring any money to build the house? Tell him to go and build his own house where he has right to put anybody at all.
ReplyDeleteHelp me ask the papa, if I may ask where was he living before you built this house, where is his mistress and her son living, and if he must stay in a house, why not his mistress house. Your mum needs to move on cus pity pity will soon lead to the death of you and your brother (God forbid) . My dear let the boy go back to his mother, if your dad disagrees let him follow them, as a matter of fact let your mum stop cooking for them, let her cook for herself and your bro, when hunger waya them they will go back home
DeleteYour father is bold o and your mum must be a very peaceful woman to allow him walk over her like that. It's simple, it's your house and you call the shots. If you are still around or have someone that can do it then drive the boy and take him back to his mother. If your father argues, tell him he is free to join the boy and the child's mother. Although, the boy is innocent of the sins of his mother but his mother sowed a seed of discourse and should reap it's benefits.
ReplyDeleteHe didn't just impregnate this woman, he had a whole ass family with her and before you'd know it the woman would move in too.
Seed of disçord
DeleteChidiogo, thank you autocorrect be acting foolish. *discord
DeletePlease get someone to pose as a lawyer to say the house has been sold and the new occupant is ready to demolish it and build a house of worship there.
DeleteThrow everybody out, rent out the place and build another house for your mum or buy her a cute 2 bedroom apartment or self contain wey space no dey for extra baggage !
The thing was really vexing me as I was reading niiii.
I no way support the man's move. Very irresponsible of him. However, there is one thing no one is talking about, the innocent boy in the centre of the drama is also the poster's brother. I don't know if the poster and bvs thought of that. And what has been the boy's conduct since he moved into the house? So many things to ask and think about here.
DeleteWhat Stella said... Return to the boy as soon as possible.
ReplyDeleteThe boy and his mother believes your dad built that house, so in that case, involve police and let him sign an undertaking never to step in that house again. If your father insist that he must stay with them, then tell your dad that he should leave the house, maybe that will remind him he's not the one that built that house
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Your father should move out with his beloved son. C me c gobe o, if I hear for house wey him no build c orders from above o. My own is he must move the boy out or move out too. Small small he will bring his dirty wife in too. Mchewwwwww!
ReplyDeleteWhy not just come back and evict the man and the boy. He wants to cunningly bring in his mistress.
ReplyDeleteDeal mercilessly with his stupid ass. What nonsense!
Look My Dear, send that boy and your Father out of the house or else the next Chronicle you might send in will be about your Mum, i reject it for you though.
ReplyDeleteSorry, your father is as irresponsible as they come, imagine the impunity.
As far as i am concerned, he was just a sperm donor, why da heck is he living in the house you built in the first place, send him out quickly before he poisons your mother. Nonsense!!!!
Poster, ensure you update us with the outcome of this case.
imagine the impetus!
ReplyDeleteImagine the temerity!
Can't u lock up the house?
Na wa.
Abode is what Yoruba calls it
ReplyDeleteStand ur ground d boy should be sent away
I agree with Stella! The boy should be returned to his mother...and if your father - an irresponsible man - insists his son stays in the house, he (your father) should also park out!. Be prayerful o cos the other woman can go diabolical again.
ReplyDeleteHmmm. Maybe they are trying to bring in his mother. They are just testing water to see the first reaction in other to know their next step. Be careful so that they won't turn you against your mother thereby making you to forget your mum and the whole money you earn will be going to them since you said the woman is diabolical. The only mistake you did was building the house in your fathers land. You should have bought a land outside and build so that both your father and the woman or son won't have right to enter the house. Be careful dear. May God give you wisdom to handle this.
ReplyDeleteKindly call a family meeting, meet with elders that can talk to your dad. Just know how you will solve it without been cursed by your Father.but, the boy should leave your house.
ReplyDeleteFamily ke? Worst!! They will speak in favour of the boy and say it's their son and say they should forgive. Total BS, those extended family talk.
DeleteI have call my uncles and none is in support of his action
DeleteEvict him already. Tell your dad he can leave with the boy if he pleases. Why did your mom put up with him all this years?
ReplyDeleteAs in i don't understand. Is this one husband? And they still moved him into the new house. Okotorigba
DeleteYour father and the boy should be asked to leave the house asap. See person wey them dey manage (no vex poster, I dey vex), he come dey form boss untop wetin I no know.
ReplyDeleteYour father obviously lives in the house as well and as every right to bring in who he deems fit. I am certain you did not explicitly tell your parents that the house was for your mother and brother. You built a house and gave your parents the keys to live in. There was obviously an error in communication from the word go. As it is now just call your father straight up and tell him that you want no one else in the house aside your mother and brother or he moves out. If he can't handle the heat he should get out of the oven.
ReplyDeleteCall family meeting and send that boy back to where he is coming. If your father refuses to follow such instruction. He should join his son too. I know this is an earthly advice but the heavenly advice will be you should let go and continue praying. God has already made you greater than them.
ReplyDeletePoster are u askin this kind of question?is like u don't like d wealth God gave u..devil just entered your house oo.Dat ur papa sha!Better return him,if possible come down n fling him out.how much b ticket 2 cme naija sef...Wisdom and akanuche is profitable to direct oo.
ReplyDeletePOSTER what else do you want to hear?
ReplyDeleteBe wise and stop being a door mat like your mum(i am sorry, but...)!
In as much as he is your dad and your mum's husband, sometimes you just should learn that people never really know how we love to be treated, so they treat us badly and that's our fault coz we only complain but fail to teach them how we want and deserve to be treated/respected.
Stop swallowing garbage, it is time you took a stand and you MUST NOT feel sorry for setting the record straight now. Else na mumu race you and your mother go run for the rest of una lives.
Love ya!
Sha pray in all that you do.
Don't give the devil a footstool else you know what would follow, don't ya? The evil woman's seed MUST not take root in the house God has used you to build in order to give your mum rest.
Better uproot that evil seed now as e dey hot.
Thank you
DeleteWith due respect, Amanda favour, I sent you an email with a prove of my quit notice. Your reply to me on anonymous night post is heartbreaking. It still hurt, and yes I posted twice both with my id&anonymous.. I did anonymous first and I felt there is no need to hide so I repost with my id.(please vs, if you can't heal an injury please do not add salt#writhing in pains#😭😭😭😭😭😭😭it is all good! With love, I say God bless you Amanda favour and love me jeje thank you for your kind words(decided to wait for what landlord will do by monday) I love you all.. 😘😘😘😘
ReplyDeletePoster what happen to where your Dad was leaving before, please he should take the boy and leave the house faSt Biko, bfore the second wife will start claming what is not hers.
ReplyDeleteAh! Useless man sha. If it's me I will put that house up for sale ASAP. Na you money naau??! When I do, I will buy a house or build another house in my name. And move she and my brother to the new house. Yes, you might run at a loss but you won't talk too much - you know talking too much sometimes would make family people come and start begging you and saying you are wicked and unforgiving if you don't cool down. This only depends on your mum being truly done with him, cos with what you described up there he shouldn't even be in that house in the first place. Then let your dad sort himself out and maybe give him a monthly allowance (unto bible says so).
ReplyDeleteNote that If your mum is a softie, she will still go and bring him and put in the new house. So i think it's up to her to partner with you and walk away or stay there and let your dad continue in his excesses. Pretty sad!
Poster put the house up for sale after you successfully get papers for your mum and brother to join u abroad. Put your father on a monthly income he deserves that as your father. What he chooses to do with it is not your business. Just do your part of sending him the money every month as long as he lives. Keep praying also. Someone has jazzed him along the way 👀
DeleteThe land document is in my name and my brother as the next of kin
DeleteYou echoed my thoughts but depends on the location.
DeleteAbeg tell me what qualifies him for a monthly income? For donating sperm? Abeg go sleep.
DeleteAnon 19:08- @poster awesome! 👏🏽👏🏽 Now it's your mum who needs to aid that decision. I hope she makes up her mind soon enough. Sorry okay? It's well
DeleteMy dear be very careful o. Such had happened before and it was the girl's father that even killed the son in law... This is not the time to use western sense but native sense. The other woman is not sleeping o and the step brother is no friend @ all but rather an enemy a big one @ that. Both u, your bro as well as your mum are @ risk i swear. Sell that house and buy somewhere very far away then rent a place for your mum. That way nobody go dey do yeye visit. Above all be wise
DeleteSome fathers self need resetting to default smile abi Na wetin dem dey call am self.
ReplyDeleteAbeg look for a good man of God oo. This fight is spiritual warfare and the mother and son is ready for anything.
Get a policeman or soldiers to drive them out and also tell your mom to make a formal complaint with your backing.
Nonsense papa nonsense step son
Hahahahahahahaha
DeleteAnother thing just came to my mind. Please can you rent out the house? Then use the proceeds to rent a small house for your mum and brother to stay- say two bedroom. Then you can use the balance to assist your mum with bills in Naija from you Nigerian account. That way you won't lose at all. The aim here is to make your father uncomfortable wondering where to lay his head. With this, let's see where his estranged son will come and stay. He will have to sort his own accommodation and then he can live with his son if he wishes.
ReplyDeleteHopefully your mum won't start crying and begging you to have pity on her husband.
In whose name did you buy the land though? Hopefully it's in yours.
Honestly, you're making sense here. It all depends on her mum if she's indeed done with the man or not.
DeletePoster, Please talk to your mum to be sure she's done with him and you need to talk courage and boldness into her cos this her gentility may cost her something so dearly (God forbid). She had better forget her husband and have her peace before someone will reap where he didn't sow. Na wa! Like it's tales by moonlight
@Cynthia yes oh! Because if she tries to help her mum out and her mum is the 'my pastor said' type all her efforts will be null and void.
DeleteMy mum gave me gist of a similarly useless man. This one was extreme cos he walked out of the marriage and left the woman (a nurse) to struggle with her kids. Okay, struggle she did with the help of her brothers. After her sons built her a fancy house one day they were celebrating something or home for Christmas (I cant remember), a taxi guy knocked on the gate and said the old man in the car said this is his house. The gateman refused but taxi man just dropped the sickly man at the gate and drove off saying they paid him to drop the man here and drop he must. Na so Gateman run go call mummy. Lo and behold it was her runaway husband looking all sickly. She quickly put him in the bq and sent for food and drugs and even called a doctor down the road to come and check him out. Her children were so angry family came and begged them etc. Do you know that man was still living in that house at the time I heard this 'forgiveness' story? A man his children can't recognize, left them for over 35 years. Chai! Christianity is hard sha
That is why Nigerian men do anything and everything they like....they feel as long as they come and beg they will be 'forgiven. Why do the wrong thing knowingly for a long time.e yet still have the effrontry to come and talk about being forgiven....tufiakwa!
DeleteThe house is a 5bedroom. And i told my mum about selling the house she refuse. Since the other evil woman has a room in my fathers house at the village. My mum doesn't visit home again. The last time she did she came back with strock. If not for God, it would have been a sad end.
DeleteDear poster, please sell the house. Five bedroom is too big cos ur dad and all he cares about will move in. As long as the land is in your name please sell it and get a smaller place for your mum. When asked why you are selling, you must never let your mum or anyone know it is because of the other woman's son if not she will not agree. Tell them you need cash urgently for something. I pray that God will give you all peace.
DeleteHmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is serious
I will advise u send the boy away
You and your mum have treated this issue with kid gloves hence it degenerated to this extent. When you moved your mum to the house, you should never have permitted your father in. I know the sentiments. He's your father blah De blah! But truth is you're all better off without him. You better act fast to get that boy out of the house telling your dad if he steps in again both him and your dad would be thrown out! You think your father cares about your mum and you guys? He doesn't and he has shown it. Dont Keep petting him and his excesses, it could cost your life or your mum's. While doing this, make sure you're all very prayerful!
ReplyDeleteI was extremely angry when I read the post. My first instinct was to tell you to throw the boy out, and your father too if it comes to that. However, the lawyer in me makes it necessary that I ask some questions. Your letter to Stella left out some very pertinent information that can affect my answer. Here are a few questions:
ReplyDelete1. Who owns the land on which you built the house? Is the land the ancestral land in the village that belongs to your dad? If the land is your dad's land in the village, anything built on it belongs to your dad. Although the property should go to your brother upon your father's demise, some men have been known to complicate these inheritance issues. In any case, while alive your dad will have the right to live in it and to even bring in any wife or wives he wants.
2. Even if the land is not the ancestral land, does the land belong to your father? Did you buy the land yourself?
3. Even if you bought the land yourself, was the land bought in your father's name? Who has title to the land? Does your mother have title to the land?
4. When you built, did you use a contractor that you paid directly OR did you send money to your dad and ask him to build? Might your dad have been led to believe that the house was a gift to him and his wife (however construed).
5. Even if you sent the money to your mom to build the house, is it possible she relied so much on your dad and handed the money to him to do the building?
5. Are there legal documents pertaining to the house/land that prove title and/ownership one way or another? Is the property in whose name at this present time?
Until you answer these questions, it is impossible to give you an answer that will help you take actions that can stand up in a court of law. If the land/house are in your dad's name, it may well be that grave mistakes have been made that it may be difficult if not impossible to correct the mistakes. Depending on your answer, you may need to secure the services of a lawyer A.S.A.P. to correct any mistakes that might have been made.
God's grace be with you. Pray fervently. Be wise. If necessary (and I think it is necessary), get a smart lawyer ASAP.
As in! If the land is in her mother's name and she's still legally married to her father, then he can't be thrown out so easily. I'm soooo hoping she got it in her name. Please God! 🙏🏽
DeleteThanks for this, esp paragraph 1. Cos it sounded to me as though the house was built on family land, if so poster, u cant do a thing.
DeleteDo not listen to those advising u to find a separate place for mum and bro, its ur mum's responsibility to decide to separate from ur father, not urs. Don't instigate her divorce for her
The land documents are in my name. My brother is the next of kin. I was sending money to my mum for the project. She did not use him for anything.
DeletePoster please answer the questions above.
DeleteThe poor boy might be innocent though.. but then again who knows.
Poster get mopol to take that boy out of your house, if your father like he should go with him and never return back to your house.
ReplyDeleteYes, your @DAD should return the boy mbok.. Because before you know, his mother go use style say she wan come greet her son... Na from there wahala go begin start.. .dem for go Cele go collect medicine plant for the foundation of that house
ReplyDeleteI can't shout mbok
Send that boy far away
@Anonymous Orubebe
Get that boy out of that house with immediate effect. That boy is there on a spiritual errand. He is there to monitor you guys and give feedback to his Mum. He is there to acquire property because your Dad may have told them that the house belongs to him - your Dad. He may even bury a charm there for you. I pity you o! My Mum will NEVER allow such bullshit! Throw that boy out of that house back to his Mum immediately, if you love your life and future! what irresponsible Dad you have! What effrontery! Threaten your Dad. Act now. Act fast! GET THAT BOY OUT OF THAT HOUSE OO!
ReplyDeleteBlessing fall on you
DeleteWa Gbayi
@Anonymous Orubebe
Hope that house is in ur name and wasn't built on ur fathers land. If the and to any of that is yes then sorry Nothing can help u. If no to both then throw ur dad and step bro out. I'm sure ur dad thinks u built the house for him.
ReplyDeleteI bought the land with my money and on my name
DeleteI hate foolish men. Your dad is not suppose to smell that house not to talk of the church rät he brought in.
ReplyDeleteU made the mistake of allowing that good for nothing man u called ur father of coming to the house, Pls send both the father & son out of the house asap else they will kill ur mother one day
ReplyDeleteChase him out using police , he is not alright at all. Why is your mum still with your Dad?? You guys better dis own him.
ReplyDeleteThe boy should be sent back to wherever he came from with immediate effect, I repeat, immediate effect........ Your father has no right, no right whatsoever to object to it, if he so much love the boy, let them all get the fuck out of the house and stop unsettling your mother nd bro.........oshisko...
ReplyDeletePoster.......you mentioned that you built the house for your mother and brother, so how is your Dad living there again. Don't gerrit
ReplyDeleteAs it is now maintain your stand that he should return the boy to his mother to avoid trouble or if he wants to stay with the boy then he can move in with them......
As far as am concern he doesn't have any authority over who stays or leave that house. So put him in his place, that's the repercussion for him being irresponsible when he has the chance to take care of his family
Stella, Thank you so much for posting. I have been calling my uncles and they will be having family meeting this weekend. Everyone is against his action. Thanks everyone for your contribution. We have made up our mind that the boy must go. And i will be involving a lawyer if he insist. God bless you all. May we never encounter such useless and irresponsible father
ReplyDeleteNice one. Poster, don't allow that boy in that house sha. You've made the first mistake of allowing your dad live there.
DeleteBest of luck
Okay, just seeing. Good luck with everything. In all this remember your mother MUST live long to reap the fruits of her labour. Let them not stress her for you people.
DeleteSave yourself unnecessary fights and arguement!!!
ReplyDeleteFirst invite your mom over to the abroad again,while she is there,rent that house out. Find an apartment for your brother to live so when your mom comes back from abroad she can join him there.
Do NOT cause a fight or arguement ,just act like a mumu.
The most peaceful and the safest way to resolve this is to get a lawyer to tell them that the house has been sold like an anon posted up there. You can say you needed the money for something urgent where you are. Get your mum and bro a place to stay(rent)and rent out the house you built. Then your father can go to wherever with his son. All that matters is the safety of you and your mum and brother. Your mum can be collecting the rent of the place and later move back there in the future. A
ReplyDeleteMadam poster, there are two way to look at this- the Christ's way and man's way. If you want to do it God's way, let the boy be. God has blessed you, He is waiting to see what you will do with it. You haven't forgiven your father or his second family,this is the test. If the mother is diabolic, is the son too? If they haven't killed you or your mum before now, is it now they will do it? So God can't protect you? This is hard, there might even be evil intentions from the second family but be a blessing to the boy. And if you are afraid of them harming your mum, you can take her abroad but don't fight this. If God bless with the present house, is He able to bless you with better? I am not saying it is easy but do this and greater doors open to you.
ReplyDeleteYou can do it man's way as advised by BVs. Na you get your choice. I pray for a good outcome either way.
Madam poster, there are two way to look at this- the Christ's way and man's way. If you want to do it God's way, let the boy be. God has blessed you, He is waiting to see what you will do with it. You haven't forgiven your father or his second family,this is the test. If the mother is diabolic, is the son too? If they haven't killed you or your mum before now, is it now they will do it? So God can't protect you? This is hard, there might even be evil intentions from the second family but be a blessing to the boy. And if you are afraid of them harming your mum, you can take her abroad but don't fight this. If God bless with the present house, is He able to bless you with better? I am not saying it is easy but do this and greater doors open to you.
ReplyDeleteYou can do it man's way as advised by BVs. Na you get your choice. I pray for a good outcome either way.
Your dad shares same similarity with my dad. But the difference is my dad will no be stupid enough to come to the house without some heavenly permission talk more of bringing some basted that has a father with him. He sure knows what will befall him. Your dad is oppressing you na haba. Charge!!! Who goes his self.
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